Why sex workers aren’t the “solution” for incels

Once in a while, someone will step forward with what they see as a “solution” for incels: hire sex workers to take care of their celibacy, the root cause of their hatred and bitterness.

There are numerous problems with this formulation, not the least of which is the fact that celibacy is not the root cause of incels’ bitterness and hatred, nor will sex fix the wide assortment of problems they face.

How do I know this? For one thing, because there is a not insignificant subset of so-called incels who ALREADY have sex, with sex workers, and they’re just as bad (and as badly off) as their actually celibate comrades.

Another reason the sex workers for incels plan won’t work is that it is simply wrong and unfair to expect sex workers to put up with incels and all their bitterness and cruelty. Sex workers are already burdened by incels; the sex worker “solution” for incels would only make this worse.

As a case in point, take the recent Incels.is confession of an ‘escortcel” — a non-celibate “incel” who turns to escorts for sex. “Genetic Error,” who has posted more than 1500 comments on the Incels.is forums, reported that he had had the “worst escort session ever,” having bad sex and then spending the last 15 minutes of the hour he paid for “roasting her and picking apart her flaws.” And “roasting” is putting it mildly; he was downright abusive.

He begins by acknowledging that the escort he hired, a Romanian woman, was “sexy as fuck,” though older than he had expected. After she “timewasted like 5 mins stupid bitch” in the bathroom, Genetic found that he “couldnt get hard cos her attitude was shit” but “eventually got hard and just did a few different positions.”

You may want to skip the rest of the post as it only gets worse from here.

She complained that he was hurting her, but this only made him madder. “[I] just kept telling her to stfu and every time she talks it makes me go soft,” he recalls, “then i finally cummed in her with like 15 mins left from an hour.”

“[H]onestly this was the shittest experience of my life,” he complains,

i will never use [this escort] again and now i know what to look out for at the start for the attutite and how compliant they are

With 15 minutes of the hour left, the two start talking, in a desultory sort of way, and Genetic tells us that he

got bored so i decided i will just try to pick apart every part about her in these 15 mins.

so i started talking about shes not 26, shes like 40, and she looks a bit old

This, the woman he repeatedly calls “sexy af.”

and she looked kinda insecure and kept making jokes about being old but i didnt laugh i just agreed she looks old

then started talking about so she’s going to be an escort for the rest of her life? in like a condescending way

and she kept saying next next next but i kept pushing it cos i knew she had no answer and was embarrassed

What the fuck are you doing with the rest of your life, dude? Your current life is shit, and given your current attitude and behavior it’s not likely to get any better.

then started going onto her looks again

saying she maybe should get a boob job because they’re a bit small

and she said nah i dont liek surgeries and i was trying to convince her they’re a bit too small and she needs them because big boobs is so good

then i said what about ur lips and she admitted she got injections in her lips so i asked her to put the flash for me to inspect htem and i said they look wonky

then asked about her eye colour and she tried changing the conversation like 4-5 times

then asked her to put flash on her eye colour and it was dark green and i gave a eh look

and she pointed it at mien and they were blue and she knew she got mogged

You’re the only one who cares that your eyes are blue, dude.

then she kept trying to get her top and trousers but i just snatched it off her and put it on the other side of the room and made her sit there naked

then she started talking about her driver is “mafia” and i just said its bullshit and just ignored i

then the hour was up and she was walking off and i said

you know botox? she said yeah … i said yeah u need it. and then she just walked off … .

Of course, he still thinks he was the victim here, declaring that “i kinda got done over with a shit experience.” But, he concludes,

me picking apart every aspect of her made me feel a bit better but still kinda shit but at least i got to basically use her sexy asf body and make her insecure

And that is why sex workers are not the solution to incels’ problems.

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