Men Going Their Own Way are as obsessed with female virginity as any fundamentalist preacher, and positively furious about all those women out there “giving” their virginity to men other than them.
In a recent MGTOW subreddit discussion of the terrible danger posed to men by non-virgin women one fellow called BetelgeuseDeux offered up these thoughts on the topic:
I laugh at guys who marry a girl who lost her virginity to another guy. It’s hard to think of a more cucked and pathetic thing to do, but it’s been so normalized now that literally every guy ends up doing this.
These guys think that any time a woman has sex she’s “cucking” everyone every other sexual partner she’s ever had or will have. And possibly everyone who’s ever wanted to fuck her. The only guy who isn’t getting cucked is, by this logic, the Chad who took her virginity in the first place.
Imagine paying full price, decades of financial and emotional support, to a woman who never gave you her virginity. She gave it to some other guy.
Women aren’t cars that lose value once they’re driven off the lot.
Her virginity, her innocence, is the most important and valuable thing she can give you as a man.
Only if you’re a creep who doesn’t think women are really human beings.
The first sexual experience for a woman is deeply, deeply significant and memorable, both emotionally and psychologically (the transition to womanhood), but also physically as it requires the breaking of the hymen.
First-time sex isn’t magical; it’s often awkward and even painful for many women, especially if the hyman is still intact at that point.
Most guys understand this at a visceral level, but laugh it off or dismiss it at as “patriarchal” or something. The facts and research also bear this out: non-virgin women and sluts are not reliable partners, and generally cannot pair bond.
[Citation fucking needed]
She will never forget the memory of Chad banging her brains out and giving her multiple orgasms.
And here’s the real source of all this anxiety: Women who’ve had sex with other people can compare their assorted lovers and perhaps find their current partners wanting. Only a guy who’s bad in bed (or who worries that he’s bad in bed) is so afraid of this possibility that he goes on the internet and writes little manifestos on the evils of non-virginal women.
I’m not going to call this guy a cuck — out of respect for actual cucks — but this really is rather pathetic.
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Wish I could take credit for it. But it was copied from some “dirtbag left” rant that David lampooned a while back (as in, years).
Oh
You actually have a problem with men havin standards
What about ladies that go about broke shamin men
And start detailing all the hoorors of marryin a broke man??
And equate men’s worth to how much they have
And only love men for what they can provide???
You see ya double standards???
Yes men Should only marry virgins
Just shut the fuck up
What’s a ‘hooror’?
@Leo
It sounds like you disapprove of such ladies,
and you expect us to disapprove as well.
Why, then, do you hold them up as an example that justifies your behavior? If what they do is so bad, then you shouldn’t seek to emulate it.
@Leo
You can have the standards you want. But if you expect us to agree with them, you’re going to be very disappointed.
What about them. Also, no one here is “broke shaming” men.
No, I see no double standard.
Because some women want to marry wealthy men, men should marry only virgins? You’re not making sense.
You’ve come to a feminist blog to tell us to shut up. You’re going to be so disappointed.
@Leo
The scansion breaks down a bit in the last couple lines, but still, a valiant attempt.
In answer – hating isn’t a standard. It’s a poison that only hurts the holder. Think about the people you know – some of them are bound to hate something you like or are indifferent to. Are any of them the better or happier for it?
I do expect men to have personal standards as, well, standard. I also expect them to quietly stick to their standards, without fussing or shouting about it – that shit’s performance for an audience. You may feel the need for validation from people – I don’t.
Yes, there are some women who broke-shame men. I’ve seen them and heard them too. I consider them better than incels, but still find them rather disgusting. I ignored them when I were broke, and ignore them still as they’re not the sort of people I hang out with. I don’t hang out with men who are over obsessed with money either. Who wants that mercenary shit in your life?
Now, “Men should marry virgins.” Nah. You don’t get to set other people’s standards. If you want to marry a virgin – go ahead. No skin off my nose, and no one’s business but yours and hers.
However … as that is one of your beliefs, right now you’re pretty much duty bound not to have sex with anyone you aren’t absolutely, 100% certain isn’t a virgin. Gives you a wee problem – you can’t ask guys since you know damned well we all lie about getting our leg over, and you’ll never actually believe the woman.
@Leo
You left the projector running again. I don’t have a problem with men having standards, my issue is when men decide to equate a woman’s worth based on how much sex she has had. You, on the other hand, have created a strange false equivalency given that a) you don’t want women to have standards and b) being a virgin and being rich aren’t the same thing at all.
Why?
You first. This blog exists because of dipshits like you.
Speaking of double standards, should women also marry only virgins?