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Misandry isn’t a real thing any more than racism against white people.

Arguably, the general cultural standards of masculinity are themselves misandric, given how they force men to behave in ways that are counter-productive, or alternatively, castigate them for manning wrong.

Of course, blaming that on feminism is, hmm… let’s call it “creative”. That sounds nicer than “complete bollocks”.

@Viscaria.

“……. you will still need to explain how divorce is at all comparable to rape, …..”

Geez. You are missing the point entirely. You’re conflating divorce with sexual rape. This is not the intended meaning. According to many studies women initiate 80% of divorces for trivial reasons such as they’re bored or want to find themselves again or find a better upgrade (kids and their husband be dammed) and then take half of the man’s resources. In most cases the man did nothing except take care of the women. This is a form of financial and emotional rape. Get it?

Women’s solipsism is thick in this place.

Congrats Sarity and Lainy (and their significant others)!

I’m not yet 30, but I did just reach out a hand and knock on the wall a few times.

Now that I’ve “hit the wall”, think the trolls will stay away?

It is better to be alone than in bad company.

@Lawrence

Geez. You are missing the point entirely. You’re conflating divorce with sexual rape. … This is a form of financial and emotional rape. Get it?

So if you use a word in a metaphorical sense, it’s never your fault if people take you at your word?

Maybe I should start a business and tell my employees I’ll be paying them with money. Those solipsists would probably think I’d pay them with financial money, even though I clearly meant I’d pay them with emotional money, as in the good vibes I’ll be projecting all around since I’m happy with their labour.

@ Lawrence

then take half of the man’s resources

That certainly not the case in England in Wales. For legal geeks; this is the key case on that.

https://publications.parliament.uk/pa/ld199900/ldjudgmt/jd001026/white-1.htm

In essence; the courts do the same sort of forensic accounting exercise as in dissolution of a company. They assess who brought what to the partnership and allocate the proceeds based the respective injection of capital and sweat equity.

a presumption of equal division would go beyond the permissible bounds of interpretation of section 25

It is largely for this reason that I do not accept Mr Turner’s invitation to enunciate a principle that in every case the ‘starting point’ in relation to a division of the assets of the husband and wife should be equality. He sought to draw a distinction between a presumption and a starting point. But a starting point principle of general application would carry a risk that in practice it would be treated as a legal presumption, with formal consequences regarding the burden of proof.

I love how the guy in the OP seem to think women don’t have jobs and thus absolutely cannot live on as celibate despite the fact, probably every single women he has ever met has or had a job. I also love how this guy metaphore crumbles on him the moment one assumes other men are like him. Should we assume his stupid premise and that, as a man, he should “hire an employee-wife” and other men do the same, it’s logical to assume that women, much like real life employees, will flock toward the man offering the best conditions which would be of course operating as an equal partner or even as managerial leader with the man as the “employee”. His offer being poor, in such a system, would result in him getting the “leftovers” of other more generous and competitive men, “damaged goods”, “shitty employees that were fired multiple times”, if anything at all.

Again, the guy in the OP and the later comment of Happy Dude are, to me, yet another eloquant proof that the manosphere world is filled with projection. Everything they say about women actually describe them more then it describes women’s behavior and beliefs. Young “Pick-up Artists” are trying to ride “the cock caroussel” by trying to have sex with has many of the “Alpha girls” they can find (AKA popular girls, “prom-queen” type girls, girls who look like models, girls who like to party, have a lot friends, are very confident and are frequently from well-off families). Once they get older or those who fail to many time, they leave this arena, stop being “Pick-up Artists” and become more traditionnal MRA (or Incels for those who were unsuccessful in the previous stage); guys who will bemoan the fact that they can’t find themselves a nice conservative/regular/nice girl (AKA what they would have called derisively a few years earlier a beta-girl, a psychic vampire or a consolation prize) to be their wife and take care of them. If they find one, they enter the domain of the Patriach, paranoid about the idea of being cheated on all the while they vastly ignore the emotional needs of their partner and start fantasmic about the now much younger girls they used to pick-up when they were young and start to want to restrict women sexuality as much as possible all the while making excuses for himself to have the ability to “look and taste the other course on the menu”. Finally, if they get divorce, they will complain about loosing money all the while, in the vast majority of instence, women are those who suffer the most from divorce and by a significant degree. At each stage, everything that disgust and infuriates these men about women are characteristics they display more often then women themselves. Misogynists are self-hating loosers who, instead of finding actual ways to heal and improve, project their hatred unto others. I don’t have as much experience with racists, but I would bet it’s the same thing for them.

@Lawrence

Dude, using ‘rape’ in reference to a financial concept while at the same time disparaging women does NOT reflect well on the user. That’s disgusting, and we know you know it.

Also, you do realize that in most cases, neither partner is simply ‘taking care’ of the other? Most people have to work under the current capitalist system, whether they’re male, female, or nonbinary (to you: ‘one of those newfangled Tumblr genders’ probably, also hi! i’m genderqueer). So most couples have both aspects working. You implying otherwise, for now or for most of history, is immensely dishonest.

Geez. You are missing the point entirely. You’re conflating divorce with sexual rape.

No, sweetie. You did that. We’re just responding to it.

This is not the intended meaning. According to many studies women initiate 80% of divorces for trivial reasons such as they’re bored or want to find themselves again or find a better upgrade (kids and their husband be dammed) and then take half of the man’s resources. In most cases the man did nothing except take care of the women. This is a form of financial and emotional rape. Get it?

And you did it again.

Now, as far as I know, it’s accurate the a significant majority of the time, the woman does the filing for divorce. That does not, however mean that the decision to divorce wasn’t mutual. It means that the woman did the paperwork. The “trivial reasons” you listed seem to be pulled from your ass though. Do you have a source for this?

Also, is it “divorce rape” if someone files for divorce from a spouse who is the same gender. Just curious.

To all of the Redpill folks here I’d just like to say I’m married already and my husband thinks you are a bunch of sad wankers.
Hah, in your face, suck it. Do you ever get tired of being wrong?

So far I like marriage life so far lol.

It gets better. MUCH better.

What’s the problem?

Because these people can’t handle being an adult when their spouse comes to them and says I don’t love you anymore and I’m not happy so I want to end this relationship. They can’t handle that pain like an adult, so they want their wife to be mommy and pretend that everything is alright and keep being their wife despite how miserable she might be. The fact that anyone calls someone reason for leaving a divorce “trivial” to begin with shows their not adult enough to even be in a committed relationship and should never get married until their realize that people are allowed to leave you. It hurts and that’s the chance you must take for falling in love but that’s life.

@Lainy: If they’re the type to consider relationship problems trivial, then they’re also the type to end up in a messy divorce… and consider their partner frivolous for doing so.