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“Feminism teaches women that to be a good person they have to be a c*nt to men,” Men’s Rights Redditor MRAsplains

Feminism in action?

By David Futrelle

Sometimes people new to Men’s Rights activism — and who haven’t yet realized that they’ve joined a hate group rather than a real civil rights movement — ask why feminists don’t work together with MRAs to make the world a big happy place for everyone.

Perhaps because MRAs go around saying shit like this all the time?

azazelcrowley 13 points 1 day ago 
Feminism teaches women that in order to be a good person they have to be a cunt to men. This makes women who aren't a cunt to men feel bad. But the thing is, most people don't enjoy being cunts to others either, so they still feel bad even when they're being a cunt.

I found this in a discussion in the Men’s Rights subreddit over that pressing problem of our age: Women having too much self-esteem.

NOTE: In case there are any stray MRAs reading this post and feeling sorry for that poor fellow in the picture I used above, don’t worry! The lady in question had a very good reason for throwing him down a well. And then dropping rocks on him.

The picture is a cropped version of Elisabetta Sirani’s 1659 painting Timoclea Killing Her Rapist. As Ariela Gittlen points out on Artsy.net, the painting is based on a story in Plutarch in which a captain in Alexander the Great’s army rapes Timoclea during the invasion of Thebes. “Following the assault,” Gittlen notes,

the captain asks where her money is hidden. Timoclea leads him to her garden well; as he peers into it, she pushes him in, dropping heavy rocks down the well until he dies.

I’m not generally a fan of capital punishment, but in this particular instance I have to say I don’t really have much of a problem with Timoclea’s approach.

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Ellesar
Ellesar
5 years ago

Tbh it’s a bit vague. Being a cunt as a woman to a man could be anything that involves not completely acquiesing to his every whim, if the man in question hates women.

Kevin
Kevin
5 years ago

@ Moggie

A few custard pies in the mix could amuse…

Moggie
Moggie
5 years ago

OT: well, I just got back from voting in the EU election. I’m feeling a bit emotional, since it’s probably the last such election I’ll get to vote in. Fuck the leavers, fuck the politicians whose poor governing of the country led so many voters to think that this was a desirable outcome, and, most of all, fuck the self-serving, lying bastards like Farage and Johnson, who are happy to burn it all down if that furthers their own careers. May they drown in milkshake.

Lumipuna (nee Arctic Ape)
Lumipuna (nee Arctic Ape)
5 years ago

In case there are any stray MRAs reading this post and feeling sorry for that poor fellow in the picture I used above, don’t worry!

No need for non-rapists to get holed in a well actually.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

@Dali

It’s the correct English term for the organ in question

Interesting! Which part of tge anatomy is it referring to, specifically? I’ve heard vagina, vulva, and both and am unsure which you’re referencing.

Dalillama
Dalillama
5 years ago

@Kupo
Generally the vulva, but the old Anglo-Saxons weren’t what you’d call experts on reproductive anatomy.

bekabot
bekabot
5 years ago

Carrie V, great job. I have to say (as a person who’s dabbled in etymology) that ‘cunt’ sure sounds like it stems off the ‘ken-‘ branch of the root word ‘gno-‘, except maybe in the past tense, so that the idea that ‘cunt’ means ‘one who has acquired knowledge’ makes a lot of sense. Any further thoughts?

My favorite use of ‘ken-‘, though, is the way thieves lifted it and added it to their cant, where it meant ‘hideout for disreputable people’. Stupendous. (And now that I think about it, ‘cant’ sounds like another ‘ken-‘ word.)

Ann K
Ann K
5 years ago

Ooh, I think “azazelcrowley” will have to define what he means by “being a cunt”. Does he mean “she disagreed with me”? “She locked me out and threw all my clothes out of the window”? She didn’t make me any pie for supper”? “She told her friends that I couldn’t get it up last night”? “She burned the toast at breakfast time”? “She didn’t get her clothes off fast enough when I wanted sex”?

C’mon now, get specific. You know perfectly well that any and all of these complaints have been said by various men at some time or another. Which things do you mean? And then we can tell you whether or not she was fully justified in “being a cunt” to you.

Snowberry
Snowberry
5 years ago

So long as people are arguing over the origin of the word, the version I heard was: the furthest we can trace it back to is the reconstructed proto-indo-european “gwen”, meaning “woman”.

Lumipuna (nee Arctic Ape)
Lumipuna (nee Arctic Ape)
5 years ago

Generally the vulva, but the old Anglo-Saxons weren’t what you’d call experts on reproductive anatomy.

Lumping the vulva and vagina under one word, it seems? Kind of like “arse” lumps together the buttocks/anal cleft/anus?

(Or the modern popular use of the word “vagina”, as we remember from that one recent incident of extreme mansplaining)

Genjones
Genjones
5 years ago

Men have a tendency to confuse women responding to men being out of line by enforcing their boundaries without sugarcoating apology or coddling their fragile masculinity with being big meany-bo-beanies for no reason. Common mistake.

Cat Mara
5 years ago

It’s not unusual for the words for body parts to be ambiguous in some languages; for example, the Irish words for “hand” (“lámh“) and “foot” (“cos“) can also refer to the whole arm or leg respectively rather than just the bits at the ends. If you want to refer specifically to the limb rather than the extremity, you have to use the word “géag” which means a limb or a branch.

(I believe there is a similar ambiguity in Koiné Greek which is one of the reasons why there are disputes about exactly where the nails were placed at Jesus’s crucifixion)

And, of course, most languages didn’t even have a native word for the clitoris until some Renaissance anatomist invented it… ?

Lainy
Lainy
5 years ago

I very lightly remember Chaucer from Senior English class. Really the only thing I remember about it is we read a store about a young woman that was raped by a knight and the queen told the knight he would be sentence to death unless he found out what women crave in a years time. Mainly I just remember it because it described it as him destoring her maiden head, and this guy Cody in my class was like “oh shit he cut her head off” and I had to explain to them what actually happened. It was a very small class cause I was in the one for kids with learning disabilities.

Cat Mara
5 years ago

Chaucer also wrote a treatise on the astrolabe for “lyte Lowys my sone” (“little Lewis my son”, possibly his godson) which is believed to be one of the first (if not the first) piece of scientific/ technical writing in the English language. Which possibly means he also invented the FAQ ?.

(Compare with Līlāvatī, the treatise on mathematics written by the Indian mathematician Bhāskara believed to have been written for his daughter. “Oh Līlāvatī, intelligent girl, if you understand addition and subtraction, tell me the sum of the amounts 2, 5, 32, 193, 18, 10, and 100, as well as [the remainder of] those when subtracted from 10000.”)

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
5 years ago

@Genjones

I love what Gloria Steinem, quoting Marlo Thomas, says about aggressive women (cunts?):

The best thing I’ve ever thought of to say when somebody calls you a bitch is “Thank you.” I mean, it totally disarms them. They don’t know what to do. Marlo Thomas always used to say that for a man to be called aggressive, he had to take over your business, but for a woman to be called aggressive, she had to only put you on hold. It’s just a terrible double standard. We have to call them on it. If you call them on it, it changes people’s heads.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/gloria-steinem-is-a-bad-bitch_n_

Katamount
Katamount
5 years ago

Hmmm, going by their logic, clearly the best person is:

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I’m still of the opinion that we need more Boudica cosplayers instead of Handmaid cosplayers at abortion protests.

Jerdle
Jerdle
5 years ago

@CarrieV @Dalillama @bekabot

Using Wiktionary, a fairly decent source for etymology.

It appears that “cunt” comes from Proto-Germanic *kunto, which either comes from PIE *gen or *gʷneh₂.

*gʷneh₂ is the root word for woman, found more obviously in “gynecology”. Descendants include “queen”, but oddly not “woman”.

*gen is the root for creating, found in words like “generate”. A descendant of this, interestingly, is “king”!

So that makes a cunt both a queen and a king, but not something to do with knowledge, that’s another root entirely (*ǵneh₃).