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4Channers transform David Hogg into gun-loving “Daisy” to own the libs, and everyone is confused, including them

Meet “Daisy Hogg,” 4Chan’s new girl

By David Futrelle

4Chan has a brand-new imaginary girlfriend, and she might look a little bit familiar to you. “Daisy Hogg” seems designed to win the hearts (and the pants-feelings) of the 4Chan demographic — she’s a young, slender hottie who loves guns, Trump, and owning the libs.

It doesn’t hurt, as far as 4Chan is concerned, that their new girl looks like she’s barely out of high school, if that, and that she enjoys posing in next-to-nothing, sometimes with assorted scary-looking guns as accessories.

Daisy loves her guns

The reason Daisy looks so familiar? Because this imaginary girlfriend is nothing more than a gender-swapped version of Parkland survivor and gun control advocate David Hogg, a figure almost universally loathed on the right.

Daisy was born last week after one inventive 4Chan anon thought to run some pictures of David Hogg through FaceApp’s female filter, transforming him instantly into a more-than-passable young woman — and a rather attractive one at that.

Other 4Chan anons went to work at once, photoshopping Daisy’s new face onto the bodies of bikini models, porn stars, and, in one case, Nancy Pelosi. Many anons can’t quite decide whether to mock David as Daisy, or whack off to her. For others. the decision hasn’t been hard, because something else has been.

Fucking hot what the fuck lmao

Those wicked enough should offer cum tributes to her as well

You faggots just fucked up my no fap streak!!!

The fact that she's both pretty yet recognizably hogg is what makes it so nut-worthy

Whoa... Is Daisy chan the waifu we deserve?

Some of the anons who aren’t cranking it to Daisy are devoting their energy instead into photoshopping her into 4Chan’s horny, semi-ironic version of a patron saint — and chastising those who are “tainting” her purity with their lusts. 

>>183159548 Take a deep breath and focus on the love Daisy has for her gives, don't taint something so beautiful.

Yes, her love for the second amendment and all guns is a beautiful message of love.

DAISY LOVES HER GUNS SO MUCH! IF ONLY I COULD LOVE SOMEONE AS MUCH AS SHE LOVES HER GUNS I WOULD DIE A HAPPY MAN!

Not every anon is quite so agog. This being 4Chan, some have been quick to deride the fascination with David-as-Daisy as “gay” and, ahem, “n***er tier.” Meanwhile, more-paranoid anons are suggesting that the new meme is somehow an elaborate false-flag “psyop” designed to … well, I’m not quite sure what these guys think the memes are supposed to be doing to their poor brains.

This is like number #1 grade A psyop right here. Only I hate women so it has no effect.

Babylonian tranny psyop.

So what does it all mean? A few anons have taken a shot at explaining the significance of this new meme. “David Hogg just announced that he intended to run for Congress,” writes one enthusiastic anon.

and now you’ve created a character more attractive, more meaningful, and more inspiring than he will ever be.. 

Do you even realize how brilliant you are sometimes? His face is going to end up listed by the ADL as a hate symbol and he will spend the rest of his life seeing his likeness used to promote second amendment rights and right-wing ideologies. 

You sentenced him to a fate worse than obscurity.. You’ve eclipsed him with a shining star..

And that star is called Daisy-chan

I’m not quite so sure this meme is going to prove quite so potent outside the confines of 4Chan as it has within them. Even 4Channers struggle a bit trying to explain just what exactly this new meme actually means. I mean:

It is. Daisy Chan is the pro-guns version of the lesser David from a flawed dimension. We transcended now. Adapot to the new reality. DAISY CHAN LOVES HER GUNS!

That’s about as close as any 4Chan Daisy-explainer I’ve seen has gotten to a coherent explanation, and it doesn’t make a lick of sense.

I think the meme is a lot more interesting psychologically than it is politically. It seems clear enough that one of the impulses behind this forced feminization of David Hogg is a desire to degrade a young man who many channers clearly see as intimidating. By “reducing” him to a woman, they don’t have to take his ideas as seriously; they can sexualize him, transforming him into a pliable “waifu” who adores them and parrots their opinions, serving much the same function that the fictional Vivian James did for GamerGate. Even their non-sexual fantasies about her are all about ownership, if not of her body than of her mind.

But the “forced feminization” element makes Daisy more complicated than Vivian ever was. For some, the fact that “Daisy” began as David is part of her appeal. 4Channers have long fetishized trans women — or at least sexy young “traps” — as pseudo-women without all the man-hating baggage of “real” women, happy to offer up their sexuality to nerdy dudes who don’t actually like “real” women all that much. Never mind that this is as much a fantasy as Daisy herself is.

What makes it all stranger is that the conventionally very attractive “Daisy” is clearly out of their league, and the channers know it. They’ve transformed a hated ideological foe into a woman who, if she existed in real life, wouldn’t give them the time of day. Doesn’t this suggest that perhaps David Hogg is a bit out of their league as well? Some anons have tried to suggest that Daisy’s attractiveness isn’t a function of David’s chiseled features and high cheekbones but rather a reflection of his inherent sissy-tude.

He already looks so feminine, that's why he makes a hot trap... I mean look at those puppydog eyes and that weak jaw

basically david is low t and some autist is thirsty for his hole.

I think this is what’s known as “protesting too much.”

Outside of 4Chan, some are suggesting that the fetishization of Daisy is little more than a massive political self-own on the part of thirsty anons, as one widely shared tweet explained it:

True, up to a point. But there is so much other stuff going on that we can’t really reduce it to a self-own. I’m not sure what to call it, exactly. But one thing is clear: it is 2018 as fuck.

NOTE: There have been a number of threads on Daisy over on 4Chan. The quotes and pics in this post all came from the thread archived here. I learned of the existence of Daisy from Hayden’s tweet above.

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Cyborgette
Cyborgette
2 years ago

@solecism

Thank you, and ugh, all of the solidarity. Glad you’re still with us, and *fuck* child abusers.

Hmm. I don’t think I ever felt like one of the boys, but def still get that weird disjunction when straight guys mistake me for one of their own. It’s about 5 minutes from loud voices and casual joshing to open misogyny, and they always manage to get my guard down a bit before the gut-punch. Blech.

@Buttercup Q. Skullpants

I missed that comment earlier about hatred and lust, but yeah, I feel like that is more common than people admit. Thinking of how men on the right view Hillary Clinton, and also how men on the left talked about Sarah Palin back in 2012. And especially of the term “hate fuck”, which oh dear weeping gods why does that even have to exist.

Aleph
Aleph
2 years ago

@Steampunked

Symbolic castration, basically.

Weird (and tired of trumplings) Eddie
Weird (and tired of trumplings) Eddie
2 years ago

but the fact that jokes regarding all cishet white men as subhuman are never funny on 4chan while dehumanising virtually any other demographic is fair game, speaks volumes.

My former partner’s brother, who has many years hence gone over to the “dark side”, was crying to me about a cartoon depicting a white gun toter…. I asked him if it was instructive knowing how the rest of the world has felt for centuries…. There was a moment (when I could figuratively hear the gears grinding…), then he offered; “but those were just jokes!!”

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Apparently Laci Green is continuing her descent into alt-right collaboratordom.

She’s spent the morning spouting TERF talking points at Chuck Tingle
https://twitter.com/gogreen18/status/1035183641842790400

Bakunin
Bakunin
2 years ago

Ugh, now I regret ever giving her views. The fuck are people so invested in binaries?

sly fawkes (formerly the real cie)

Head meet desk.
I can muster nothing more.

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
2 years ago

OT: It’s news but it’s not a surprise

Gérard Depardieu Accused of Raping a Young Actress Earlier This Month

The prolific French actor Gérard Depardieu has been accused of rape and sexual assault by a young actress and author who says the incident took place earlier this month.

Through his lawyer, Depardieu denied the allegations. “I had a long meeting with Gérard Depardieu and I am absolutely convinced his innocence will be established,” the attorney told the French media.

According to the BBC, the actress says the alleged assault took place at his Parisian residence, and that prosecutors were made aware of the incident after she spoke to the police. Her name has not been revealed at this time. The BBC says she knew Depardieu before the alleged assault.

Depardieu is 69 years old and his accuser is reportedly 22.

Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
2 years ago

@kupo:

It’s been a while since I read it, though, but i know for sure it talks about some of the awful things 4channers have done, and I just hope there’s not anything problematic from the author in there. Read at your own risk, I guess.
https://www.canopycanopycanopy.com/contents/our_weirdness_is_free

Site has broken CSS and, I suspect, deeper issues. I get a blank-ish page in 64-bit Firefox if I don’t turn CSS off. If I do, I get what seems to be the navigation links, header, footer, and other cruft that would surround the article, plus a headline and a bit of a blurb, but no actual article text. Google Cache shows the same nearly-blank page as visiting the site with CSS enabled, and Google Cache “text-only version” shows the same truncated page as when disabling CSS. In short, none of the usual workarounds for such bugs result in the display of the actual text of the article.

Is the article syndicated elsewhere? I’d like to read it but there would need to be a copy at a web site compatible with Firefox for me to do so, because I refuse for security reasons to surf using IE/Edge, and for privacy reasons to surf using Chrome, unless it really can’t be helped. My efforts to locate such a copy using Google were unsuccessful, but as you have knowledge of unique phrases inside the article, not only the title and author, you would be able to craft better queries that should only match complete copies and not just links back to the Firefox-incompatible instance.

Meanwhile, I’d like to take this opportunity to moan a bit about how web design seems to be a lost art these days. Putting a header, some text, and a footer onto a web page in a way that reliably works across all browsers (and even in Lynx!) is truly elementary, and embedding images that will be almost as broadly compatible (no Lynx though) likewise — and yet I run into sites every single day that do not render correctly, often fixable (uglily) by killing CSS or finding a copy hosted someplace else. The common denominator seems to be designers trying to get too fancy with CSS features, interactive JS based stuff, or other cleverness, and ending up breaking compatibility with some browsers, or with things not working if JS is disabled, or other problems as a result. Sometimes the results are nigh unusable except at a specific exact browser resolution, and any other size results in text overlapping images or other text, or other critical rendering errors.

The more they overthink the plumbing, the easier it is to stop up the drain. For nearly all of these sites, a few div and img tags would have got the job done on every browser and platform combination in existence or yet to be devised, and some very basic CSS would have given everything the site’s branding via color scheme and such without screwing anything up, but noooo, we have to have images that fade in fancily as they are scrolled into view, or dropped capitals at the start of each section, or etc. — basic, static text and images are soooo 1996! Which means “legacy”, a pejorative engineering term meaning “works”.

Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
2 years ago

Oh, and before I forget, there’s an element of class privilege to this too, because sites with excessively fancy CSS, JS, and the like have correspondingly excessive rendering resource consumption, so sites that could have avoided doing so and still done their jobs (and even branded themselves) adequately wind up bringing older machines to a near standstill or even crashing the browsers on them. Such sites effectively penalize, or even block, users who cannot afford the latest Ryzen/Core i7 machines and/or this year’s crop of phones and tablets. That will mean less well-off people, and disproportionately, single women, people of color, and etc., which makes such site designs IMO constitute microaggressions against most or all marginalized people.

You shouldn’t need the hardware requirements of the latest 3D games just to read a few paragraphs of text and see a still image or two!

Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
2 years ago

Sorry to add yet another addendum, but it occurs to me that the microaggression is even more severe against one particular marginalized group: the visually impaired. I imagine most of the same fanciness tricks that can gum up rendering in some browsers or cause other problems will play merry hob with screen-reader software and other assistive technologies that are designed to look for a straightforward sequence of div tags containing plain text.

IMO, web designers should make sure their sites are usable in Lynx, or (if sufficiently image-centric that that could never fly) in Mosaic. If it isn’t, it probably isn’t usable by a blind person with assistive software … and it probably isn’t usable by googlebot, either, and there goes your search engine traffic. (Exceptions for highly interactive sites, like Flash games, and video hosts like Youtube, though even there there are ways to assist the disabled, such as closed captioning, they’re just separate ways. But the focus here is on pages that exist to present text articles, such as here and Medium and the New York Times.)

Nequam
Nequam
2 years ago

@Surplus: Strange, it works fine in my Firefox (61.0.2 (64-bit)). It’s a really annoying layout, though.

kupo
kupo
2 years ago

@Surplus
Yeah, that site’s terrible. Here’s a pdf version. And as a web dev whose area of interest is accessibility, I agree that more web developers need to make sites accessible to screen readers. Haven’t looked at the html on this one to check, but the article is from 2012 and sadly hardly anyone wrote anything accessible at that point.

https://gabriellacoleman.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/Coleman-Weirdness-Free-May-Magazine.pdf

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

@Weird Eddie
“White gun toter”? Why would this guy be offended of a depiction of a white character with a gun? Or is that some slang I’m missing here…

Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
2 years ago

A PDF? Why on Earth? Is there no simple HTML version accessible (that works)? I prefer to avoid file formats that may pose security risks (which makes .doc a complete no-go and makes me at least look askance at PDF).

*shakes head at web so-called “developers” and their strange decisions*

Full Metal Ox
2 years ago

@Valkyrine:

@Weird Eddie
“White gun toter”? Why would this guy be offended of a depiction of a white character with a gun? Or is that some slang I’m missing here…

I know my name’s not Weird Eddie, but I suspect that the white gun-toter is presented as a threatening stereotypical trope–you know, like the Scary Black Man or the Latinx Gangbanger. That’s one reason that Get Out was so jarring to white viewers: when you’re accustomed to being steeped unquestioningly in narrative centered upon your viewpoint, that’s what it’s like to realize that, in someone else’s story, you’re the Monster at the End of the Book (and a good deal less benign than Grover.)

kupo
kupo
2 years ago

A PDF? Why on Earth?

Because you requested a readable version and the site I linked before wasn’t working for you. I’m trying to be helpful. You said you wanted to read it, and this is a way to do so. I’m not going to spin up a new website for you that’s compatible with Lynx to host someone else’s article. That would require a lot of my labor to provide you with a resource that I’ve already provided you, twice, that isn’t mine and isn’t my responsibility to put into your preferred format.

Weird (and tired of trumplings) Eddie
Weird (and tired of trumplings) Eddie
2 years ago

@Valkyrine, Full Metal Ox;

Actually it was a stereotype of a “southern redneck”, drawn to mock the genre as uneducated and ignorant.

And my characterization “white gun toter” was an unacceptably bigoted stereotype as well….

Apologies, I’ll try not to do that in the future.

Valentin - Emigrantski Ragamuffin
Valentin - Emigrantski Ragamuffin
2 years ago

Kupo, I want to say I downloaded the PDF. There is no problems with it. it’s a safe file and easy to read.

Ohlmann
Ohlmann
2 years ago

@Kat : closer to “AT LONG LAST” than anything else. The man was known as a morally challenged drunkard with as much impulse control as Trump.

Hope justice will be served.

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
2 years ago

@Ohlmann

Exactly. Following up on my earlier comment, here’s a story from seventeen years ago:

L’Affaire Gerard Depardieu
By Richard Zoglin. Sunday, June 24, 2001

Kevin Costner may have been the man of the hour at last week’s Academy Awards (his Dances with Wolves walked off with seven Oscars), but it was one of the evening’s losers who provided the award season’s biggest flap. Gerard Depardieu, who was nominated for Best Actor for Cyrano de Bergerac, was a no- show at the ceremony. Even so, he was at the center of a fire storm over comments about his wild days as a youth.

The ruckus stemmed from a TIME story about the French film star published in late January. Depardieu, 42, was asked about remarks he had made in an interview published in 1978 in the magazine Film Comment in which he described his rough childhood and said, “I had plenty of rapes, too many to count.” Asked by a TIME reporter if he had participated in rapes, Depardieu said yes. “But it was absolutely normal in those circumstances,” he added. “That was part of my childhood.”

That admission, not surprisingly, drew an outcry from women’s rights activists, newspaper columnists and others. Depardieu later denied making the statements and threatened a libel suit against TIME and any news organization that reprinted them. “It is perhaps accurate to say that I had sexual experiences at an early age,” the actor said in a statement. “But rape — never. I respect women too much.” The TIME interview, which was conducted in French, is on tape. The Depardieu camp contends that his words were mistranslated and that he admitted only to having witnessed rapes. TIME has refused the actor’s demand that the passage be retracted.

More interesting than the linguistic dispute was the divergent response to his remarks in the U.S. and France. Many American women were shocked by the actor’s blase attitude toward unsavory events from his past. Washington Post columnist Judy Mann urged a boycott of Depardieu’s films in an article headlined HOW DO WE HANDLE THE RAPIST-TURNED-HEARTTHROB?

In France, where sex is treated more casually and public figures are protected more carefully by the press, the brouhaha was seen as another example of American prudishness. Some political leaders even charged that it was part of a conspiracy to hurt Depardieu’s chances for an Oscar. Minister of Culture Jack Lang, a frequent critic of American “cultural imperialism,” lambasted the “low blow against one of our great actors.” Raged Jacques Attali, a former aide to President Francois Mitterrand: “This is a vile defamation with a high financial payout.”

In fact, Depardieu was always a long shot for the Oscar; no one has ever won a Best Actor award for a non-English-speaking role. And though Cyrano itself lost the Best Foreign Film award to a dark horse, such upsets are common. Still, a cultural chasm remains. Rosemary Dempsey of the National Organization for Women claims that the French reaction “trivializes the whole issue of violence against women.” French author Marguerite Duras, asked about Depardieu’s remarks, said dismissively, “When I was 8 1/2, I stole an apple from the garden.” Depardieu, meanwhile, was on the island of Mauritius shooting a new film and contemplating whether the affair will blow over or permanently tarnish his image with American audiences.

http://content.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,156769,00.html

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

@Surplus
That was a rather rude way to react to someone providing something you requested. It’s like asking a waiter for dessert and then flipping out when they bring you applepie, because you never told them you are allergic to apples (or not necessarily even allergic, you just don’t like them) 🙁

Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
Surplus to Requirements, Observer of the Vast Blight-Wing Enstupidation
2 years ago

The norm on the web is for text articles to be presented as HTML, not as downloadable documents in other formats. So it’s closer to expressing surprise that instead of serving dessert on a plate the waiter brought a coupon for $2 off at Dairy Queen and gave directions to the nearest one.

Meanwhile I have downloaded the PDF and read it. It is odd that they used to support Occupy, but later basically went Nazi. Makes me wonder if after the Arab Spring and Occupy certain powerful interests did infiltrate it who were intelligent enough not to simply try to out people or undermine the “leadership” but instead to redirect the swarm by pushing particular memes. With the aid, no doubt, of Russian bots, with which they could easily have carried out a “51% attack” on chan culture to push it in any specific direction.

Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
2 years ago

Surplus, in this thread you have gone on for three posts over how terrible the website that kupo posted was. (I agree with you, that layout is horrible, but it is an older site and was from when people were trying out different types of web design. Remember those flash sites? ugh.)

Then, kupo found another version of it, in a format that wasn’t that terrible site, and posted that.

You then complained about the second file format, because you have problems with it as well. Having problems with the file format is fine, that’s your right to have preferences, but you never said “I would very much like ONLY a html version of this file, nothing else will do.”

What has happened here is that someone provided something, then provided a different option of something, and you didn’t seem to recognise the effort it took to try to help you read something you had said you wanted to read.

I hope this summary helps you to be able to recognise when this sort of interaction is happening, and when you are demanding unreasonable things.

Jesalin: Clit-o-centric Lesbian Goddess
Jesalin: Clit-o-centric Lesbian Goddess
2 years ago

^What Rhuu said!

Valentin - Emigrantski Ragamuffin
Valentin - Emigrantski Ragamuffin
2 years ago

Agree with rhuu.

Surplus, please treat people with more respect.

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

Sorry, I’d never heard of this “norm on the web”, it seemed completely normal for me to provide a downloadable document if you are having trouble with the primary source. ^^’

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Surplus,

Didn’t we just go through a similar discussion a couple of weeks ago? You wanted to stop talking about it. I recommend that you not just bow out of the discussion because without resolving this issue, it will just come up again.

If you continue to spit on everyone who tries to be nice or helpful to you, people are going to stop being nice to you and no one will want to help you.

kupo
kupo
2 years ago

Case in point: I posted that pdf version hoping that agreeing with you on the quality of that particular site and agreeing with you on one of your general complaints about websites would get a neutral or positive response. As being nice, providing extra work, and not contradicting you in any way has still resulted in a negative response, I’ll likely adjust for this by not responding at all next time.

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

@kupo
Agh, I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to suggest that you should’ve known to provide a certain type of document or a link by apologizing to Surplus! I don’t think you did anything wrong, I’m sorry. D:

And sorry to all the others as well for causing any strife in here. I just thought I should try to be brave and call out behaviour I thought was wrong. 😥

Cat Mara
Cat Mara
2 years ago

@Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile

French author Marguerite Duras, asked about Depardieu’s remarks, said dismissively, “When I was 8 1/2, I stole an apple from the garden.”

Ugh, I remember a French actress making a similar remark when #MeToo broke. There seems to be an inordinate number of women in the French arts establishment willing to play “chill girl” when faced with evidence of the monstrous behaviour of powerful men.

kupo
kupo
2 years ago

@Valkyrine
Oh no no no. I was directing that at Surplus. Your response was fine and appreciated! Sorry for being unclear who I was referring to.

Jesalin: Clit-o-centric Lesbian Goddess
Jesalin: Clit-o-centric Lesbian Goddess
2 years ago

*Valkyrine

*hugs*

You’re perfectly fine! 🙂

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

@kupo
No need to apologize, I did get who your comment was directed at, it just made me realize that even if it was some standard on the net (which I actually kinda do doubt, my conflict aversive instict just kicked in at the last minute and I changed the phrasing of expressing that) it still wouldn’t excuse their rude attitude towards you, and it could be read that I was giving it a pass. But it’s not okay, you were being helpful and Surplus was making it out to be a personal affront on them, I shouldn’t coddle that kind of behaviour. 🙁

kupo
kupo
2 years ago

@Valkyrine
No worries! I don’t think you were minimizing the rudeness aspect at all by addressing that.

I’m a web developer this is the first I’ve heard of such a standard! Especially considering the pdf was hosted by the article’s author and is from the print version of the publication. Whenever I’ve done work with providing online versions of print media, the standard has been pdf format. Hope that helps! 😄

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

@kupo and Jesalin
Thank you, I feel better knowing I didn’t offend you guys! 😊

Full Metal Ox
2 years ago

A thought experiment: suppose Daisy Hogg were to come to three-dimensional flesh-and-blood life (as a genderswapped clone, since transitioning David without his consent would be rude.)

She’s cute–qualifying for Stacyhood according to the Incel Sorting Hat–and would instantly draw suitors the way a Mountain Dew spill draws yellowjackets.

She looks to be young enough that her impulse control is still a work in progress.

She’s heavily armed and proud of it–and quite probably believes in Standing Her Ground.

Now consider the gratitude that Frankenstein monsters have traditionally felt–and shown–their creators…particularly in light of the responsibility that said creators have traditionally shown their monsters.

What would her reaction really be toward hooting, leering, groping, entitled incels?

Jesalin: Clit-o-centric Lesbian Goddess
Jesalin: Clit-o-centric Lesbian Goddess
2 years ago

What would her reaction really be toward hooting, leering, groping, entitled incels?

The morgue would be working over-time.

Catalpa
Catalpa
2 years ago

@Surplus

Traditionally, when people go out of their way to provide you with something in good faith, the expected response is to thank them for their efforts, even if it isn’t something that fits all your desired criteria.

For example, you could have gone “Oh, thanks for hunting that down! Unfortunately, I’m a bit leery of the PDF format. It’s too bad that the article isn’t available in HTML instead. Oh, well, I’ll [see if I can hunt a better format down/live without reading the article/download the PDF once I determine it’s safe, etc].”

The waiter analogy is not an ideal one because it is the waiter’s JOB to provide you with dessert. (Sorry, Valkyrine, nothing against you.) Kupo is in no way obligated to provide you with an article, let alone one in a format that suits your particular fancy.

It’s more like… If you were outside in a park talking about how it’s so hot and how a popsicle would be amazing, and a friendly passerby offers you half of their double-stick popsicle. And you decline, because you don’t want to share unwrapped food with some stranger, which is entirely reasonable. And then the passerby goes “makes sense! I also have this ice cream sandwich, it’s still wrapped, you can have it if you want?” And you respond with “Ugh, I hate ice cream sandwiches so much. I wanted a POPSICLE, not that crap. I don’t even know why anyone buys ice cream sandwiches.” It’s pretty fucking rude to say to someone who’s offering you something they have no obligation to give.

Valkyrine
Valkyrine
2 years ago

@Catalpa
No problem, I guess I didn’t quite think through all the angles of that comparison. ^^’