By David Futrelle
Guys who define themselves as “involuntarily celibate” spend rather a lot of their time trying to figure out how to make women as miserable as they are.
And so you find incels regularly advising their celibate colleagues to pointedly ignore all the attractive women in their vicinity. “If u even ACKNOWLEDGE femoids in public ur a bluepilled cuck,” one commenter on Incels.me recently declared. “Dont give them even the slightest validation, ignore them like nature intended us to.”
Most of his fellow incels agreed. “Yup,” wrote one. “Hurts their ego if nobody looks at them.”
“Giving females attention only benefits them, and not you, so I don’t see why you should,” another agreed.
But one commenter had what he thought was a better idea: Don’t ignore these women. Ask them out! They won’t say yes, obviously. but they might start to worry that they’re as ugly as you are!Â
CHECKMATE, FEMOIDS!
Incel is weaponized self-hatred.
I was hoping misogynistguy would at least wait until page 2 before stinking up the place. Oh well, I suppose this was inevitable.
I would like to second the call for the banhammer.
Like if I was trying to be part of a community and 90% of the commentariat disliked me and told me to leave, then I would fucking leave. Only a TROLL would stay.
The way he pretends we dont like him and push him away is creepy boundary pushing shit.
Yeah, declaring that a violation of your stated boundary is not a boundary violation and then showing up in a different thread playing innocent is textbook manipulative asshattery.
When guys ask me out I just tell them I’m married to the scary looking guy with the beard and dark glasses (he actually has a very feminine face under the bush and suffers from light sensitivity but they don’t know that).
@Kupo & Jesalin
<3 Love to both of you. But that's kind of my point. Incels think they're ugly though they're not, I think I'm ugly though I'm not. But it's only incels who take their self-loathing, use it to destroy their interpersonal connections, and then blame others for it.
Not my place to add to the banhammer call.
However, I will say his actions have lead me to lose any minimal tolerance. Consider him trollish in behaviour and pretty much unteachable – not that anyone is obligated to try in the first place.
Going back to ignoring him now.
When someone asks me out it totally makes my day. It doesn’t matter what they look like or whether I’m interested in them or not.
It makes me feel all like “Violet, she’s so hot right now.”
I always ask out people I’m interested in (if they aren’t in a relationship, or not interested in talking, or a stranger on a train or something) mostly because I want to share that feeling! Yo you can make everyone feel good about themselves!
Yes, incels, ask women out! They won’t go out with you, but they will go home feeling happy that someone fancied them while you crawl back to your internet hate-space defeated!
Look at these ugly people never finding love, etc! Biotroof!
http://www.ghafla.com/ugliest-man-in-africa-welcomes-baby-no-8-photosvideo/
Skip to 2:39
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PWD12X0FfvU
But what if she says yes? Would he consider this a good or a bad thing?
Love comes in more than the romantic form, incels can find love, never said they cant
I would be fine with a banhammer, mostly because he’s boring now. He hasn’t set off a genuine takedown from WWTH, Scildfreja, Alan, or Dvärghundspossen in days, so what’s the point of keeping him around?
(To all the others who also do magnificent takedowns, I love you too.)
Adding my vote for the banhammer. I’m really tired of the way he tries to make every thread about himself, and I’m getting more than a whiff of seagull.
@feministguy
You can’t find love when you’re so full of hate. They hate women, there’s no way around it, their massive unfulfilled sense of entitlement has turned into bile in their brains. The “incel” community is one built upon reveling in bitterness and wallowing in misery, so until they leave their little garbage society and gain a sense of humility and responsibility for their failures, they will never find love or be happy.
Agree with Dr Thang
Violet
What you are saying with regards to incels should ask women out sounds good on paper/text. But constant rejection will have a negative impact on their self esteem, so I dont reccommend they ask women out. They need to realise women make up half the population, there is an increasing number of women working in different sectors of jobs, so to have a successful career, they need to be able to respect women and be able to work with them
But incels shouldnt feel that they need to have any romantic success to live a happy fullfilling life. Intimacy/dating isnt the be all and end all of life
Feministguy
The only reason women don’t want anything to do with you is you’re waving more red flags than those Russian guys who captured the Reichstag.
(Not as good as Nicolaluna’s I know)
@Alan
I have women colleagues and women family members and we got along with fine. Most the people close to me are comfortable with me going without intimacy and going my own way (not fucking MGTOW – I mean living my life differently to others without being a bitter little shit about it)
@feministguy
We’re still waiting for evidence of the “not being a bitter little shit” part.
Yeah, some of my best friends are black too.
But I seriously recommend any female friends you may have invest in a copy of Gavin DeBecker.
Cool. So hateful men shouldn’t have to treat women respectfully because, you know, we’re PEOPLE and innately deserving of basic respect, but because if they don’t, then it might be harder for them to have successful careers. Good to know your priorities.
And the funny thing is, men like this legit don’t think the women in their orbit know what they’re like. I can guarantee his female colleagues are creeped out by him and are just bare minimum nice and friendly to be professional and avoid conflict.
Don’t be silly, Catalpa
Respect is earn.
How does one recover from or get out of an incel-like mindset?
weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee
Not really. Why would they be creeped out? We have each others backs and know each others boundaries.
Rabid Rabbit
Theres no evidence that I am bitter. I wish all women the best of luck and I dont believe I am entitled to anything. My words have been twisted on here.