By David Futrelle
Some straight guys like women who wear makeup. Others prefer the natural look. Still others think women are spineless, mindless consumerist c*nts trying to hide their ugly insides by painting their outsides.
Yes, I’ve been reading the Men Going Their Own Way subreddit again, where I ran across this totally normal and healthy and not-at-all-scary response to the fact that lots of women wear makeup.
Here’s the text in case that’s a bit hard to read:
Avyctes 50 points
@NicolaLuna
Yeah, if you want to see exactly how feminist “Feminist”guy really is, check out page 3 of the comments on the Does giving a woman an orgasm make you a cuck, men who never have sex wonder post. He got into a discussion with Scild about how he’s “too ugly to fuck” and proceeded to mansplain how women don’t know what they really feel about men.
The nadir of that particular flameout was the following, posted in response to Scild pointing out that a number of women posting in that thread had said that they had been attracted to – and in relationships with – physically unattractive men and asking him to “confront that” fact:
[Emphasis mine]
Feminist he ain’t.
…and as you can imagine, Scild proceeded to fillet his “argument” quite eloquently.
We all know who the real make up queen is
@Fruitloopsie
Life Goals: To faceplant as elegantly as her.
I would argue that a blanket claim that not paying for copies of information is “being cheap” is classist, as it embeds the assumption that everyone can afford to. (And, further, embeds the assumption that every failure to pay takes money from “poor starving artists”! In practice, in most cases, it takes money from giant media conglomerates that already have more money than God and use a lot of their surplus to buy such things as a) your government, b) smaller independent media outlets thus narrowing the range of perspectives that get much airtime, and of course c) out and out propaganda ala Sinclair’s recent controversial actions. Perhaps the rule should be “pay if the top person at the producing end makes less than you do, and it hasn’t made a profit yet, or else if you feel it deserves a donation”?)
A blanket suggestion that one should always pay also has the problem of conflating multiple issues, because the torrent version and the paid-for version are commonly not 100% interchangeable. The paid-for version is typically format-limited, often region-locked, and may not have subtitles or a translation in your own language, or etc.; whereas, the torrent versions may include (or be augmentable with, via e.g. .srt files or alternate audio tracks) more language versions than officially released, and is likely a generic digital file with no DRM that will work on any sufficiently powerful machine to which e.g. VLC has been ported (in the case of software, any sufficiently powerful machine to which the software itself has been ported).
For example, let’s say person A collects all of the MCU films (thus far) legally, and B torrents them. Person B ends up with a few dozen gigabytes of data in a folder on a hard drive. B can easily back this up onto an external drive, or a keyring of thumbdrives even, and the latter can be carried around in a coat pocket and played back on a phone or netbook while on the go. B might also have a whole passel of translations and dubbed audio versions available, including RiffTrax/MST3Kings as well as language localizations. B’s files will work if B takes the portable drives on a trip to Upper Kumzala, Nowherestan or Webebeng, Utopikanda and goes to view with on locally borrowed hardware, such as a smart TV. By keeping backups, and any time a disk fails making a fresh copy from the surviving copy, B’s copies of the films can be preserved indefinitely, and the films can be preserved indefinitely (as long as we don’t fall planet-wide into a new Dark Age, at least, and if we do we have much much bigger problems).
A’s collection, meanwhile, consists of 18 (and counting) boxes any three of which are the same size as a single 8TB 3.5″ external hard disk drive, each of which contains a scratch-vulnerable BluRay disk or two or three. There’s no (legal, reliable) way to make backup copies, so if one of those gets scratched, A has to pay for that one again or do without, and if the film has gone out of print some day in the far future, it’s simply gone for good. If A goes to Utopikanda the disks won’t play in a BluRay player there, and if A brings his own BluRay player, we can add a briefcase-sized, several-hundred-dollar chunk of electronics to the 18 boxes in his luggage for the trip. Which he must then trust to the Utopikandan power grid, such as it is, not to mention it won’t work there at all without an adapter, another three-pound brick-sized gizmo that costs another twenty bucks. If the disks or player or adapter get broken or stolen, A has no recourse (B is just out the thumbdrive keychain backup copy of his collection back home, and can get blank replacements for $30 and copy the movies back onto these in hours at no additional charge.) If one of the films lacks a localization A wants, A is SOL. And eventually, none of A’s copies will survive, so if copies in either a stone-tablet-durable or else an exactly endlessly recopyable (and not copy-protected) format don’t exist (like B’s copies!), the films themselves will eventually be lost forever (as some films from early Hollywood, and some early Dr. Who episodes and other stuff, already have been). And of course lots of devices with the theoretical ability to play the films (and which could play B’s copies) will simply refuse to play A’s copy-protected disks for various reasons.
It is possible to compromise a bit between B’s and A’s positions. Person C could build up a collection like B’s, but also, say, watch each film in the cinema when it first comes out, and Marvel and the other involved parties will then get some of C’s money via the ticket sales.
Of course, one other thing should be noted: a lot of the times, the prices on things like these are pure unadulterated greed. For example, typically, a version of Windows that’s fairly new retails for a few hundred and a version of AutoCAD that’s fairly new for a few thousand. AutoCAD is probably the less complex and labor-intensive of the two products to develop. And the marginal cost of reproducing a single additional copy of either is measured in pennies. In the long run I think we need to come up with a better system to pay for the development of information objects than “force everyone to treat them as scarce items like cars and TVs, while charging whatever someone thinks the market will bear”. Perhaps for basic stuff (operating systems, anything where a gold standard has emerged as with Photoshop and MSOffice) nationalization makes sense (as there’s a natural monopoly in the latter cases, and OS monopolies are so easily abused), while for low-overhead stuff a mix of open source and Kickstarter-style funding models ought to suffice. That leaves higher-overhead stuff without a natural monopoly, like bigger game projects and blockbuster movies — most of them entertainment. Perhaps a copyright-like system but with a much shorter term, say two years? As a rule those types of products have made back their investment by then if they ever will, so every dollar of copyright-derived economic rents on a copyright over two years old is pure profit anyway. No less a pinko Marx-loving commie bastard than Adam Smith(!) espoused taxing away all economic rents, so certainly lowering the copyright term to two years can’t be too leftist right?
Nationalizing the natural-monopoly cases does however open its own cans of worms. At least two. First, which nation? If they all get to have their own forked version they’ll end up incompatible, and you’ve got a new version of gratuitous region-locking. And everyone will likely standardize on someone’s version anyway to avoid that pitfall, probably the United States’s, so “every nation gets its own” in practice will probably mean “the US controls the world’s software”. Enter the other can of worms: NSA back doors, spyware, surveillance, censorship, etc. … Photoshop already contains censorship of a sort, as it is programmed to refuse to work with images that contain enough of the patterns printed on certain currencies. And it’s privately controlled by privately-owned Adobe Inc., who could not implement such a feature and if the Secret Service complained that Photoshop could theoretically be used by counterfeiters could respond by citing Amendment I to the Constitution and appending “, so you can go fuck yourselves”. If this sort of thing happens already just from a three-letter agency leaning on a too-big-to-fail private company that (as establisged in Citizens United) has the same free-speech rights as a citizen, it’s sure to be a lot worse if the government controls the source code for widely used and standardized-on software directly!
My answer to this is that they would have to be open sourced, and the government role would be to have a Department of Software Improvement (or similarly) whose job it was to use its budget to hire smart programmers to submit patches to fix bugs and implement popular-in-the-polls new feature proposals. With many private, volunteer and corporate eyes on the code and the submitted patches (especially, the government-written ones) to catch any attempt to sneak anything nefarious into the software (NSA back doors, censorship of information the government considers inconvenient for citizens to play around with, etc.) … and the multinational problem’s solution is likewise simple then, which is, there’s one git repository to rule them all, but every country can choose to contribute via its own version of a Department of Software Improvement to widely used software (and then, every country’s spooks will be watching like hawks for every other country’s DSIs to be trying to sneak in surveillance backdoors and kill-switches and such, ensuring that no-one can without being quickly caught and the nefarious code excised again, with a fun bonus international incident to deal with in the diplomatic arena as the only lasting reward for their efforts).
The above could even be pilot-tested, with an initial few countries instituting DSIs that contribute to Linux, Apache, Mozilla, and some other widely used things that are already open source, and often whose security against backdoors and surveillance is already a matter of national security for every country due to the sheer magnitude of the economic fallout of a sufficiently serious and damaging incident with these products. Using eminent domain to force Windows, MacOS, and an assortment of widely standardized-upon proprietary software into open-sourcedom could come later.
@Surplus Fair point, I can concede that.
FeministGuy has been getting funny looks since his very first post. The very name itself makes me suspicious. I feel like there is more too that one than he lets on.
Feminist guy please address our suspicions and tell us about yourself. I’d love to know why you chose that name and where you are coming from.
So far I’ve got that you are Iranian and are somehow involved with incel’s in some capacity.
@Toebean:
I’m not sure how I missed your comment earlier. But your English is actually better than most native speakers’ English. I can only spot two mistakes likely related to being a nonnative speaker: “I tried to watching” — in English that glue-word “to” disappears when changing verb sense from “tried to watch” — and “let’s herself go”, “lets x happen” is the singular present tense of the verb to let, while “let’s go to the movies” is a contraction for “let us go to the movies”. (There’s also an odd swap of opening and closing quotation marks, and a typo or two, but the only one of those that might also be a language issue is the quotation marks, and it’s as much a technical issue, some wacky interaction between your keyboard localization and WordPress’s smart-quotes conversion most likely. That is, the technology failed you there.)
Meanwhile, you’ve got complex sentence and paragraph structures, dependent clauses, nearly every verb conjugation and inflection, etc. correct in what looks like undergraduate-university grade-level writing (though I didn’t run it through a computerized grade-level analyzer to be sure).
Long story short: you don’t need to worry about your English being accepted here. It’s at and possibly even above the typical quality level.
One more thing, though: “… after you read the madness above”. You might want to take a quick gander at the ableism bit of the comment policy. It’s a common first-timer mistake though and even regulars slip up occasionally in that area.
Yeah that’s some good englishing there toebean. You could do a lot worse and still be better at it than most of the English.
Oh and englishing isn’t really a word. I just made it up.
@FeministGuy actually forget it. I read the Does giving a woman an orgasm make you a cuck, men who never have sex wonder thread and you share plenty there. I don’t want to re-hash old arguments already made, but I will say that I have been attracted to the strangest looking people in my time.
I agree with you that incels shouldn’t date, but not because of their appearance, rather their attitude.
I hope that you do manage to help incels become less bitter and find a hobby, that can’t be a bad thing.
@toebean
That lipstick you talk about…. Would you mind sharing the brand? I’m still looking for one that actually lasts. And yeah. I get the whole “it glitters! I need it! NOW!” as well…. XD
I done a bit of lurkin’ and I’m getting a feeling Feministguy is Mick Dash/Euroguy.
They give off that vibe, yano.
@Toebean
Just wanted to pop in and say you have the best username/avatar combo. >^..^<
welcome @RedWombat and @toebean!
http://iambrony.steeph.tp-radio.de/mlp/gif/shedidit_400.gif
Ooohhh, brb, off to see this. I have missed the magnificent takedowns Scild is so good at ❤❤
Thanks ^_^ my Avi matches my hair. The guy I’ve been dating has nicknamed me dash (as in rainbow dash) and I’ve nicknamed him sharky.
When MGTOWs talk about make up, it’s fascinating to me, because elements are so close to feminist theory, but they always manage to zigzag back to misogyny.
I have had a problematic relationship with make up over my post-pubescent life, and one day I’ll write a book about it. But the tl;dr of it is that women cannot win, every decision we make about make up will be wrong, so we may as well do what we like (whether that’s no make up, full make up, only high days & holidays, or full costume zombie make up) and hang the consequences. We’ll be judged anyway; be judged for having fun & being authentic, rather than an endless compromise.
Rant over. For now.
I’m reminded of the way that conspiracy theorists are secretly comforted by their conspiracies, because it is more comforting to think that even an evil force is in charge than the truth, that it’s all chaos and no one is in charge.
By the same token, it’s comforting to think that women are wearing makeup as an evil conspiracy to control men than to face the truth, that women are just going about their lives and don’t care very much what you think of them.
@misophistry
I promised not to talk about myself so I wont. But I am a straight male who is attempting to kill off his desire for intimacy/sex. Ive stopped watching porn 2 years ago, deleted dating sites, promised and vowed to myself I would never ask a girl out ever again. Gave up on dating. Now to beat the desire for a womans intimacy/affection- Im confident I can do it.
Thats all Ill say about me. Any more re-hash of the arguments I had a week ago or so does no one any good, not me and not this forum. I have a huge battle on my hands, a mental one!
While I can certainly concede the fact that Corporate America (and corporate everywhere, really, America isn’t the whole world, right?) are totally out to get us all, that’s not really pertinent to wether women (or people in general) should wear makeup.
It’s obviously best decided by non-makeup-wearing men who are very focused on explaining at great length and ad nauseam how much they don’t care about women, and why we should all spend inordinate amounts of our precious lives listening to their opinions on this.
As a straight white male, I’m certainly glad I dodged being subjected to other people’s lived experiences, and that I can rest comfortably in my willful ignorance, and even leave it to these luminaries to fight the good fight against feminism and its cultural-marxist-soy-boy-enablers, so I don’t actually have to reflect on my own part in my relations to other people.
Also, facepalm-to-head-desk-level: Over 9000!
Feministguy: “I promised not to talk about myself so I wont. [sic]”
Also Feministguy: Talks about himself.
As is his wont.
Me: *came down here to ask what “the Wall” is*
Me: *sees the Feministguy kerfuffle*
Me: what
Oh do I wish I knew what what thread it was where MRAL kvetched about his lazy eye. I should try and find it. I’ll probably fail. But I have to try.
Some classic MRAL
https://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2011/05/03/lara-logan-redux-more-victim-blaming-rape-denial-and-rape-apologetics-from-in-mala-fide/comment-page-1/#comment-15918
I mean.
Thanks so much for the lovely welcome!
Argh, I have read the comment policy section many times actually. In German I have a firm understanding of which terms fall into that category, but in English I have problems knowing which terms also apply to actual medical conditions. It’s a learning process. I’m really sorry.
The first mistake was actually just me unconsciously undecided what to write. I should have spotted that. “I tried to watch” and “I tried watching” got mixed up 😀 But thanks so much for your input. Feels good to know my English is decent.
@Zaunfink
The lipstick brand is L’Oreals Infallible Pro Last lip color. I tried so many (drugstore) brands and either they were patchy after a while or they didn’t last or they just felt horribly dry on my lips. But this one feels really nice throughout the day and has lovely colours. I’m sure there are some great high end brand lipsticks, too, but for double or triple the price.
Thank you 😀 I’m a cat person all the way.
@Weatherwax
“The only way to win is not to play.”
wwth:
When manospherians cry that all women need to do to have men falling over them is to “not be fat” it makes me more and more convinced they’ve never really spoken to a woman as a person.
Or they just don’t grasp that few other men are as one track minded and two dimensional as they are. Oh wait, they do, but they dismiss such men as “beta cucks.”