By David Futrelle
Some straight guys like women who wear makeup. Others prefer the natural look. Still others think women are spineless, mindless consumerist c*nts trying to hide their ugly insides by painting their outsides.
Yes, I’ve been reading the Men Going Their Own Way subreddit again, where I ran across this totally normal and healthy and not-at-all-scary response to the fact that lots of women wear makeup.
Here’s the text in case that’s a bit hard to read:
Avyctes 50 points
It sounds more incel than MGTOW. Incels are the ones who sound bitter and hateful, MGTOWS are the ones who come up with stupid snidey comments about relationships/divorce in general
And I suppose make up can be nice, improve the self esteem and confidence of women. Doesnt always have to be about sex signalling and attracting men.
The feminine imperative, y’all.
I kinda wanna see how this dude rationalizes his masculine imperative to… write endless spiels about women on Reddit ?
@The Real Cie
“The wall” refers to the age at which women become so unattractive that literally no one wants to have anything to do with them. Depending on which misogynist you ask (figure of speech there, don’t actually ask ’em), you’re gonna get a different answer, but usually it’s between 20 and 30.
And no, of course there’s no wall for men. Men age like wine. (MGTOW are vinegar.)
I wear lipstick & that’s about it these days.
My lipstick is made with hemp oil, which is natural and keeps my lips from chapping.
Hemp is useful for many things (food, clothing, building materials, getting high, etc.), not just lipstick, and is so resilient and strong it usually requires no pesticides to grow.
Avyctes, by contrast, is a big effin’ crybaby.
I’m pretty convinced that hemp will save the planet. MGTOWs, on the other hand . . .
Loooong time lurker, first time commenter. I never had the nerve to actually participate, because English isn’t my native language and I’m always afraid of sounding like a pre-schooler trying to talk about serious issues.
Nevertheless, I just wanted to jump in for a moment and tell you how much I admire everything going on here. I became aware of MRA topics around gamergate time and the sheer hatred, the violent fantasies, absolutely shocked me. It still does. It makes me afraid to a degree that’s unhealthy (I tried to watching „The Handmaid’s Tale“ last year and after four episodes spend the rest of the evening bawling my eyes out, because I knew for a fact that there were people out there who would gladly make all of this happen).
The brighter side for me is this comment section. It’s like applying a soothing lotion, after you read the madness above. It puts things in perspective again and I leave this website thinking, that those idiots must be a minority. And they’ll hopefully remain a minority. So, thank you for that.
And just to add a few word on topic… you can not win. No matter what you do, you can not win. If you wear makeup you’re a deceiving sl*t and if you don’t you’re the ugly bi**h that let’s herself go. I guess, the few women who tend to wake up looking like they stumbled out of a fresh-faced cosmetics ad, would be acceptable for MRAs.
I absolutely love make up. I get all google eyed when I see something that glitters and things neatly arranged in all kinds of shades. And since I found a long lasting lipstick, that makes it through two meals and some kisses from Mr. Toebean, I am completely obsessed with all kinds of dramatic lipstick colors.
@ wwth, re: trump and the law
here’s the Twilight Zone version of the dumpster-fire…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkJcFGvNgcY
@ Bina
ahhhh… I feel a song comin’ on….
Come for the unhinged screeds, stay for the linguistics.
I used to wear makeup, and I enjoyed it. /shrug
[Emphasis mine]
For some reason, out of all the terrible crap dude is spouting in his screed, this really jumps out at me.
It’s grammar that’s so over-the-top incompetent, it makes me want to believe this is a poe. I mean, not even someone as stupid as Dumbfuck can actually be that stupid, right?
…and then I remember that I’m reading a WHTM post.
As a guy, I would absolutely wear makeup if I had any idea what I was doing and weren’t too lazy to actually do it.
Good news from the far north:
https://www.cnn.com/2018/04/08/politics/anchorage-alaska-results-proposition-1/index.html
🙂 🙂 🙂
I’m sure this Avyctes guy–and the 50+(!) people that upvoted him–is only spending his hard earned Corporate America-bequeathed money on Wittgenstein and Backgammon instead of internet porn and video games. Actually, he’s probably too cheap to actually pay money for those. Pay for your porn, guys, gals and enbies!
And he’s clearly contributing much to society going on Reddit screeds like this. Yessiree, that’s what well-adjusted and productive people do.
Just as a side note, is there any better scam going now than “this will trigger the libs”? “This trucker hat will trigger the libs!” “This Patreon will trigger the libs!” “These adult diapers will trigger the libs!” And the people falling for it really think they’re the independent, ideology-free thinkers who have a grasp on how the world really is. If I was an unscrupulous cad, I can’t think of a better gig.
ETA: Great article, MrsObedMarsh!
I’m sure dear Avyctes has never spent his money investing in mere vanity. Like buying overpriced headphones, footwear, or hats because they have a certain logo on them. Or some fancy toy like a motorcycle or speedboat to impress his buddies with.
@Weird Eddie:
A song? You mean like this one?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U13xOvDa19U
(Good luck unhearing that, BTW.)
You mean, like Jestin Coler?
https://www.npr.org/sections/alltechconsidered/2016/11/23/503146770/npr-finds-the-head-of-a-covert-fake-news-operation-in-the-suburbs
“Coler’s company, Disinfomedia, owns many faux news sites — he won’t say how many. But he says his is one of the biggest fake-news businesses out there, which makes him a sort of godfather of the industry.
…
And as the stories spread, Coler makes money from the ads on his websites. He wouldn’t give exact figures, but he says stories about other fake-news proprietors making between $10,000 and $30,000 a month apply to him. Coler fits into a pattern of other faux news sites that make good money, especially by targeting Trump supporters.”
Coler went on to tell them that he tried to market fake news to liberals too, but it only worked on conservatives.
Erm, calling someone “too cheap” for not paying for stuff that’s artificially scarce-and-price-inflated over its marginal production cost is classist. (As long as there’s no actual shoplifting involved…)
Dude, no. MGTOW are plenty bitter and hateful. Since before incels were even a thing.
This is why we keep saying your words are not as feminist as you think they are. You’re framing misogyny as the result of sexual frustration. This implication is that misogyny is women’s fault. If we fucked men, they wouldn’t hate us. It’s a hypothesis that is inherently coercive. It’s a protection racket.
It’s fucking sickening to see the press – including the supposedly liberal MSNBC – talk about moderate and reasonable Paul Ryan is. He’s not. He’s a right wing Ayn Rand fan boy who is vehemently anti-choice and despite the Ayn Rand fanboyism is pro-theocracy. Apparently far right positions stated in calm reasonable tones is what passes for moderate in this country now. Fuck everything.
Look, there’s pics of me when I was 14, approximately a full hour after getting roped into a make-up session, and back then I still identified as a dude.
(turns out, if I’d been a member of Kiss, then nobody would ever make fun of their make-up, that’s how good I looked)
@Bina
Well I’m pretty sure I will spend the rest of my life trying to unhear it, but it still made my day.
This. Not to mention the obvious; plenty of sexually active men are hugely misogynistic (and some women of course – internalisation etc. ..)
(PS Not exactly an original thought, I know, but I guess I reckon people who want to wear makeup should wear makeup, and those who don’t want to shouldn’t have to.)
Damn, missed the edit window, but here’s something I been meaning to ask for a while now :
@Feministguy
That you, Mick ?
@Surplus to Requirements
Do you think that people who create digital content don’t deserve to be paid for their work?
I’ve always hated wearing makeup, so I only do it for special occasions that I have to get extra dressed up for (weddings, funerals, job interviews, etc.).
And I seem to remember getting some bullying comments in middle school and high school (when I hadn’t even hit the wall yet!) that NOT wearing makeup made me a mannish lesbian dyke or something to that effect, so this thing about MGTOWs hating makeup (which has come up multiple times on this site) really puzzles me.
Also haven’t there been posts here before about how women who don’t shave are oppressing men with the sight of their disgusting body hair? Why is shaving good but makeup bad? They’re both ways women alter their natural appearance to make themselves look more attractive!
(And why don’t men wear makeup? If it makes women look more attractive, wouldn’t it be just as effective for men? I’d probably be less anti-makeup if men were expected to wear it too, but only women are, so that doesn’t seem fair to me.)
I just have a strong feeling that if all women stopped wearing makeup, MGTOWs would whine and cry about how ugly we all are now.
This reviewer is totally wrong. I don’t think he actually watched the movie he claims to be reviewing.
Having watched “The Wall”, I feel certain that he has misunderstood it completely, and should take notes the next time he watches it. Better yet, stop reviewing things he hasn’t seen.
o.O
100% this. The thing is, even when incels have sex, they still claim to be incels and hate us.
I’ve only just come back to WHTM and noticed the last few posts have some weird red flags from feministguy. How long has he been around?
@feministguy I’d really recommend lurking for a bit and go read the old posts about incels and MGTOWs and maybe check out some other feminist sites for a better understanding.
@WWTH, let me do you up some cheerful news on the Prawl Ryon:
https://twitter.com/AP/status/984051000360218625
http://www.reactiongifs.us/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/stop_dont_come_back_willy_wonka.gif
@NicolaLuna, welcome back <3 I like your new avi! I mean, that's not a surprise, but still. Feministguy is not a feminist guy, and has been here… two weeks? Three? He basically refuses to acknowledge any criticism, just like a troll, and you're well right to do up a bit of a side-eye at him 'cause he let his incel flag flay a few threads back. Still refuses to acknowledge the fact.
That depends on their financial situation, tbh. There are plenty of people who can afford those things but torrent them anyway because they’re too cheap. Not to mention, some porn is made independently by sex workers, so obtaining it without paying is taking from their livelihood.
Basically, it’s a lot more complicated then just sweeping it away as classist.