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Merry Christmas, if you’re into that sort of thing!

Hope you all are having a lovely day today, whatever this day means to you (or doesn’t). Consider this an open thread, to discuss whatever, from presents to politics to cats to whatever holiday stress you might be feeling.

And here’s some stuff I found on the Twitter.

— David, who is hanging in there

https://twitter.com/awwcuteness/status/945193410662682624

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Jenora Feuer
Jenora Feuer
6 years ago

As I mentioned, it is a bit preachy in spots, and it definitely hews to Moore’s ideas of magic as a form of culture, where you make things happen by telling stories. (He’s called ‘The Magus of Northampton’ for a reason.) The title character essentially became a myth.

Definitely something I found that stuck with me years later, as you think about the implications.

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Laserqueen,

Yeah, I guess I see the overall arc of the show differently. Although I’ll have to give spoilers to explain some of that. So you might want to skip this if you don’t want them.

I do want to start out with a couple of caveats. The first is that it’s progressive for its time. It’s not necessarily all that progressive for today. Except for the fact the actors, the wardrobe and the sets all look legit midwest small town working class. Not the Hollywood version of that where people who look like underwear models live in spacious shabby chic homes and wear semi-expensive clothes. The second is that I may be over-analyzing way too much. I do that sometimes!

I think what the show is really about, whether or not it’s intentional is how hard it is to break out of the roles preassigned by our demographics. No matter how much you try and bootstrap, the odds are against you. That’s actually in a way much more radical than a story about someone marginalized – in this case by gender and class – becoming super successful. In other words, I think the show is about how the American dream is a lie.

Roseanne tells off her greedy and abusive boss and leads a walkout at the Wellman plastics factory at the end of season 1. Seems triumphant, but season 2 finds her having to scramble to find an even crappier job. I don’t think this was done to show that she must be punished for stepping out of her place. It was done to show that workers are put in a no win situation by capitalism. Either take the abuse or stand up for yourself and risk financial ruin.

Jackie I wouldn’t say is a failure at being a successful career woman. More like a late bloomer. She is the one who came up with idea for the Lunchbox restaurant and talked Roseanne into joining her. Although unfortunately I think the ego of Roseanne (the real person) caused it morph more into the baby of Roseanne (the character) pretty quickly. To me, Jackie seems like a character who is suited to being more of a free spirit but gets gaslighted about it by a conservative mother, a sister who is a little bit jealous and bitter because she got stuck with marriage and kids so young and a small town environment. So she’s seen as neurotic and whacky but is only forced into that role because she’s surrounded by people who want her to make more traditional choices. She does eventually divorce Fred and becomes a business owner and home owner and single mom. A modest home and business, sure, but that’s okay.

Then there’s Darlene and Becky. They’re very different from one another. But they’re both smart girls who aspire to get out of Lanford and be successful. They both end up not accomplishing that so much. Darlene because she gets pregnant at a young age and ends up married to David and Becky because she runs off to marry Mark when Dan’s bike shop closes and he has to take a job in Minneapolis. Again this could be seen as in favor of young women getting married and having kids instead of wanting careers, but I don’t think this is what is meant. Roseanne expresses a lot of dismay and guilt over these circumstances. She wanted to give them more, but she failed and now they’re going to end up just like her.

These stories are so much more realistic to me than the stories about plucky small town girls making it in the big city or whatever. They seem more progressive, but at their heart they’re selling the conservative notion that if you just work hard, you’ll achieve the American dream. In reality, it isn’t impossible to move up in class but it is extremely difficult. It takes a combination of luck and really hard work that is just not in the cards for most people. In my opinion, the arc of the series demands that the audience recognize this and empathize with the characters even if they’re not the perfect ideal of the noble poor person that conservatives like.

Dan absolutely represents the typical working class white man who is terrified of deviations from traditional masculinity. He’s still a sympathetic character because John Goodman is likable, he’s a good dad and he doesn’t actually hate anyone who’s not a white male. He’s even got a hippyish past. He reminds me of my own dad actually. Except my dad is skinny. But the show’s jokes do often make fun of his need to embrace masculine gender roles so much. For example, he starts complaining about how these days white men are blamed for all the world’s problems. His friend Chuck, who is black responds by saying “maybe that’s because you did everything.” The joke is on Dan. Not on the SJW PC police that hate poor innocent white man.

The show is by no means perfect. There’s slut shaming of Jackie. Ableist jokes about Dan’s mentally ill mother. Gay jokes that aren’t probably ill meaning but are based in stereotypes about gay people. I’m definitely not trying to say it’s beyond criticism. Just explaining in a very tl;dr fashion why I do find radical in its own way.

Jenora Feuer
Jenora Feuer
6 years ago

@Victorious Parasol:
No, I haven’t. Been hearing good things about it, but don’t really watch much TV these days.

@Moggie:
A lot of people are sad that Halo Jones stopped after three books. Including both Moore and Gibson, by many accounts. But Moore and IPC/Fleetway had a rather acrimonious falling out over creators’ rights (which, to be honest, is the source of most of Moore’s fallings out with the many publishers he’s worked with) and it’s unlikely to happen now. If things had happened differently thirty years ago, perhaps…

Victorious Parasol
Victorious Parasol
6 years ago

@Jenora Feuer

It has its rough or weak spots (doesn’t every series?), but it has heart, and I’m willing to overlook a lot if a show has heart and the cast looks like they love working together.

Diptych
Diptych
6 years ago

Oo, Watchmen! I do have some thoughts on Watchmen.

Thought one: the film was fairly dreadful. It streamlined the plot a little, but for every improvement, it left out three important elements of nuance that gave the story life.

For instance, Nite Owl II – his whole character is that he’s an ornithologist and a bit of a romantic, who compensates for his unimposing and unconfident everyday self by living out the mythology of the owl. For instance, his sonic weapon to disable his opponents and avoid direct confrontation is based on his experiences of observing owls terrify their prey with a screech before striking. What does the movie do? Make him a punchman who punches.

There’s quite a few elements of Rorschach’s story that the movie badly fudges – for example, his first murder, where the actor playing his victim manages to turn “begging for mercy” into such an act of smugness that the audience is clearly supposed to want him to be brutalised. Also, his lifelong obsession with the bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, which ties in to his hatred of his mother and idealisation of his father, and comes to a head in the complete collapse of his identity at the book’s climax.

Also, by substituting Ronald Reagan for Robert Redford, the film clearly missed the intended alternate culture of the story’s 1980s. And making Ozymandias overtly queer and simpering and sneering… that was just outright tasteless. Who the hell thought that was a good idea?

Shadowplay
Shadowplay
6 years ago

And making Ozymandias overtly queer and simpering and sneering

He was? Came off to me as very fastidious and precise – what you’d expect from a supergenius – more than queer. Been a while since I’ve watched it though.

Diptych
Diptych
6 years ago

There’s a folder on his PC just labelled “BOYS”.

Shadowplay
Shadowplay
6 years ago

Ah. Missed that. 😛

Jenora Feuer
Jenora Feuer
6 years ago

I was once at the taping of an interview with Terry Gilliam back when he was promoting Tideland; he mad a comment that he had been offered the chance to do Watchmen, spent time trying to work on it, then gave it up mostly because he decided he couldn’t actually do it justice in a film and “didn’t want to go down in history as the man who ruined Watchmen“.

Might have been interesting, since both Gilliam and Moore tend to be very good at layered works and both heavily into the ‘artistic expression’ end of things. I suspect they would have either loved or hated working together with a passion.

epitome of incomprehensibility

Re Roseanne: I watched it with my mom when I was a kid, so much went over my head; I do remember one story arc where her son was reluctant to pretend-kiss a girl in a play (he was around 12). Turns out because the girl was black, so it was Lesson Time… which I thought was handled well, though I was surprised that such a thing would be an issue at the time (1998?).

Shows how much I knew. Sigh.

epitome of incomprehensibility

Also, I’m Worried About a Thing, and want to vent. Sorry in advance for what’ll be a long-winded derail. It has to do with sexual harassment by professors and about my social ties.

At the university I graduated from, specifically the department I was in, there’s been a sexual misconduct scandal – profs abusing their authority to hit on students, spread rumours about them if the students didn’t sleep with them, etc. Once a particular blog post got publicity, lots of former students started speaking out.

I was oblivious to it when I went to that school (between 5-10 years ago), since my social skills were almost nonexistent. I did hear rumours that someone I’ll call Prof. A would hit on female students and was told “try not to be in the office alone with him”. At the time I thought “oh, no worry, I’m not really the type that attracts older men” (true, but… ick, past self – way to be selfish).

I’m anxious about this because of all the shit that other students went through, but also because it’s making me drastically rethink my opinions of two other teachers – I’ll call them Prof. B and Prof. X.

Prof. B is a man I took 3 classes with. I liked him and respected his teaching, and he never violated my boundaries. I spotted him at a couple of events after I graduated, and I “follow” him on social media. Turns out he’s one of the people named as a (potential, at least) abuser.

Prof. X is a woman I took a class with in a different institution. She’s excellent in her field, but I have a poor view of her as a teacher. That, again, is biased by personal experience. My problem wasn’t just her teaching style, but some hurtful things that she said. For example, she once asked me out of the blue “Do you have a learning disability?” when we were talking alone about schoolwork. (I do have ADHD, which makes me bad at deadlines, but it was undiagnosed at the time). My brother also had her as a teacher, and had a similar bad experience. Thinking back on it, she could have been trying to be helpful, just phrasing things in a bad way, but it came across as invasive and insensitive.

Now, Prof. X is retweeting and sharing stories of students who are speaking out about their sexual harassment, and while this is awesome, I keep thinking she’s a hypocrite at some level. Also, I feel like if I cut off all contact with Prof. B, that would be unfair; but if I continue to be in touch with him (where “in touch” means “occasionally replying to his Tweets”) that it would be somehow unfair to the students who’ve been harassed.

I’m writing an email to a student who I was in his class with. Maybe she can help sort this out. I’m saying that I support her, telling her what I heard about Prof. A, and asking if she knows anything about Prof. B.

Perhaps I should also send Prof. B a private message on Twitter and ask him to speak out against this stuff, without saying I think that he’s involved? No, I think that would be a bad strategy. But what to do, if anything??

If anyone has any advice, I’d appreciate it. I’m bad at social things, but I want to support those who’ve been harassed and not be an apologist for any sexual misconduct.

TL;DR I realize *intellectually* that people can be good in one area and bad in another, but seeing it unfold like this is worrying me. 🙁

Nequam
Nequam
6 years ago

And making Ozymandias overtly queer and simpering and sneering… that was just outright tasteless. Who the hell thought that was a good idea?

Oh, I’m sure it was Zack Snyder’s idea. After all, it worked so well when he used it in 300: 300’s director admits using homosexuality to scare 20 year old men

epitome of incomprehensibility

Note: I have to get off the Internet, but I’ll be here tomorrow, hopefully.

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Epitome,

Is there a professional reason you need to be in contact with Professor B? If not, I’d probably just not say anything to him until more information comes out.

As far as Zack Snyder goes, I’m surprised he hasn’t been one of those outed in the great perv purge of 2017. At least not that I remember. The way Sucker Punch had so much male gaze in a story about young women trying to escape sex slaver was troubling to say the least. It could have been a cool story in the hands of a feminist director but in Snyder’s hands? Giant creepy fail.

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Testing to see if my avatar picture change takes. If it does, it’s my kitty Dracarys. Isn’t she cute?

Tovius
Tovius
6 years ago

@ WWTH
She is very cute.

Mish of the Catlady Ascendancy
Mish of the Catlady Ascendancy
6 years ago

@wwth: chief manatee

Dracarys is gorgeous! Lookit her colours. Does the white go further than her chest?
I love calico/tortoiseshell cats – they’re so diverse and pretty. Wait, is that white genocide? 😀

Re the comic/graphic novel discussion above, it’d be great if Varalys dropped in. She’s like a human encyclopedia on this, and her blog is fantastic reading.

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

She’s white on her tummy, legs and chest and tortie on her back and tail. With an orange patch on one of her hind legs for maximum cuteness.

abars01
abars01
6 years ago

@weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

I hated Sucker Punch. Barely legal women in sailor fukus jumping around chopping up computer-generated samurais, orcs, and Nazi zombies with katanas, and yet its director has the nerve to try and claim that it’s somehow a feminist parable? Please. If the above doesn’t constitute masturbatory fodder for weeabos, otakus, gamers, MRAs, Nice Guys, incels, neckbeards, permavirgins and basement-dwellers, then Red Dawn doesn’t constitute masturbatory fodder for gun-toting, flag-waving, Hummer-driving yahoos. He might as well have tried to claim that the hentai series La Blue Girl was a feminist parable, for crying out loud.

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Snyder was just so blissfully unaware that by pandering to the male gaze so much he was making himself and the audience complicit in the character’s victimization and objectification. If he had recognized that and done something to call the audience out on it, it could have been an interesting concept. Funnily, the star of Sucker Punch, Emily Browning was in another movie called Sleeping Beauty that actually did accomplish this. It had far more nudity but felt far less exploitative IMO.
Not surprisingly it was written and directed by a woman. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1588398/?ref_=nv_sr_1 Probably not to everybody’s taste but unlike Sucker Punch, it was an interesting film.

GrumpyOldSocialJusticeMangina
GrumpyOldSocialJusticeMangina
6 years ago

Valya: you are entirely correct … but … you probably don’t realize how intensely anti-Communist propaganda was pushed in the US until the USSR collapsed. (I’m a Democratic Socialist, not a Communist, but very few Americans of the pre-1990 period would have believed that there was any difference. And right-wingers in comments sections still call liberals Commies. There was one on the Washington Post today.) I myself feel that there is essentially little difference between the old czars and the communist leaders and Putin and his oligarchs — authoritarians are all pretty much the same.

But, from the point of view of many Americans who support the Republican Party, it makes all the difference in the world whether Putin is or is not a Communist. The right-wing (Republicans, generally) in America has always supported tyrants and dictators, as long as they were not Communists. Putin fits right in with those traditional beliefs. The common belief in the American right is that Europe is a terrible place because of Socialism and Muslim immigration. Sweden in particular is considered hell on earth, where if a woman is lucky she won’t be raped by a Muslim man EVERY day. Putin, on the other hand, is seen as a great defender of the white Christian (heterosexual) world. I know; it’s fucked up.

Valentin - Emigrantski Ragamuffin
Valentin - Emigrantski Ragamuffin
6 years ago

GOM

I decided this year I will fully learn history of Ukraine and Russia. that is plenty things I don’t know about my own country. I was born in 1992 so I don’t really have any personal memory – I remember more about what happen in Yugoslavia and Bosnia in this time than my own country.

you probably don’t realize how intensely anti-Communist propaganda was pushed in the US until the USSR collapsed.

so reason I written this first paragraph is about this what you said. I think this is such thing that unless you lived this time, you will never fully understand. I will never fully understand this culture in America which comes after McCarthy. just like I will never understand what it is like for my brothers growing up on 1980s in USSR – even if they try to explain me which they don’t.

I can feel on Twitter there is still this fear about Russia and hate about communism. fear about Russia seems like it not important if you are left wing or right wing or centralised – people all like to be afraid. but hate of communism seems to be only for right wing. in my opinion too many left wing people make idols of USSR leaders without understand Soviet life but this is little bit separate discussion.

I myself feel that there is essentially little difference between the old czars and the communist leaders and Putin and his oligarchs — authoritarians are all pretty much the same.

generally yes, I also agree but I feel again it is more about this empire – but empire without name. when Russian royal family ruled it is still the empire and it is open in this too. Latvia, Ukraine, Belarus – all these countries ‘occupied’ by this empire.

USSR is like empire but without declaration. they will say all these states – historically occupied and indepented for very small time only after 1918 are all ‘equal’ but that Russian people are most equal above all and Russian language is most important above all.

so what putin wish to do now, it is nothing about ideology, about political left or right or communist or anything else. it is about history. it is about what Russia always feel it must possess. because, really Russia is without identity. it is all fabrication of identities stolen from counties occupied. and I say this as ‘ethnic’ Russian.

Putin fits right in with those traditional beliefs.

truly then they misunderstand. putin hates gay and LGBT people. but then so also did communist. homosexuality is illegal in USSR and even when it is legal before it is only ‘tolerated’ not celebrated like these right wing people will say. it is illegal in USSR more long time than it is legal. putin only continues what traditions he learn from live and work in KGB and Soviet times.

The common belief in the American right is that Europe is a terrible place because of Socialism and Muslim immigration. Sweden in particular is considered hell on earth, where if a woman is lucky she won’t be raped by a Muslim man EVERY day. Putin, on the other hand, is seen as a great defender of the white Christian (heterosexual) world. I know; it’s fucked up.

again this is misunderstanding of these people. they don’t know about Russians they don’t know about putin. there are Muslims in Russia and Putin (maybe only on surface) tolerates Russian Muslims. it is opposition that every left wing person loves- Navalny – who calls kavkaz Muslims cockroaches who must to be exterminated. putin wishes happy eid to Muslims on Twitter. of course power to navalny is deny – as everyone expect. and 2018 elections will see putin relected – as everyone expect

in USSR times there is excuse for people of other counties not to know or understand what is happening and what is true. even citizens of USSR counties live only one day to next day, only for survive. but now there is Twitter there is plenty of articles and places for these people to listen to real Russians and understand really how things in Russia. but they don’t.

because really they don’t want to understand. they don’t care really who is putin and how is life in Russia – they only care to decide themselves. they only see what they want they already believe. and I say this for both left and right in America. from what I observed this year since election of trump and ‘russiagate’.

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
6 years ago

Ugh, Katie (Date rape? Never happens. Or at least not very often) Roiphe is at it again.

With the Threat of Being Doxxed by Harper’s, Creator of ‘Shitty Media Men’ Spreadsheet Outs Herself

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In a brave piece on New York Magazine’s The Cut, writer Moira Donegan has come forward as the creator of the “Shitty Media Men” list, a Google spreadsheet on which women could anonymously report sexually violent or inappropriate encounters with the men of media. This follows much uproar at the news that Harper’s would soon be publishing a cover story by Katie Roiphe, and that it was rumored to out Donegan as the list’s creator.

https://jezebel.com/with-the-threat-of-being-doxxed-by-harpers-creator-of-1821976371

Shadowplay
Shadowplay
6 years ago

@Valentin

because really they don’t want to understand. they don’t care really who is putin and how is life in Russia – they only care to decide themselves. they only see what they want they already believe. and I say this for both left and right in America. from what I observed this year since election of trump and ‘russiagate’.

Yep. Agree totally, and I’m going from a far longer baseline of observation than you are (being twice your age 😛 ).

Though I’m not sure it’s a case of not wanting to understand – Americans in general tend to simply not comprehend that other places
a/ exist outside of storybooks, and
b/ aren’t the USA.

I blame theme parks. 😛

They’re insular both socially and culturally. Sometimes overtly, sometimes not, but it is always there.

(The mere concept that someone may not wish to be American and is perfectly happy in their own nationality is even more confusing to the poor dears. You can have hours of fun with that subject, a brace of US servicemen and a few pints.)

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