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Dems win big! The Incels subreddit is banned! Celebrate in this open thread

Forget your troubles, c’mon get happy!

By David Futrelle

It’s a rarity in this year of terrible, but tonight has been a night of actual good news! Dems are winning elections, and Reddit has banned the toxic cesspool known as the Incels subreddit! Celebrate while you can in this open thread!

No trolls. Fuck trolls.

Thanks, Trump!

And this is the icing on the cake:

Oh, and there’s this:

Let’s all celebrate by laughing at Jeff Sessions!

Meanwhile, on Reddit:

HEALTH NOTE: Though cheered by tonight’s news, I’m still dealing with a shitstorm of health issues. I will return to regular posting as soon as I can, but I’m not sure when that will be. Thanks again for your patience and your support!

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Gussie Jives
Gussie Jives
7 years ago

@wwth

I know some people are intimidated by change and I understand that. What pisses me off is the hypocrisy. If you’re going to have a “bootstraps” mentality when other people – particularly those who don’t think or look like you – fall on hard times, you have to apply that for yourself. Don’t brag about how hard working and tough you are, unlike the millenials/people of color/liberals who just want everything handed to them and deserve to be poor because they don’t work or they majored in the wrong thing or whatever, and then refuse to retrain because you want the way things used to be back. That’s what gets me. They’re happy to yell “get a job!” at others but don’t hold themselves to the same standard. If you want unfettered capitalism to shit on everyone you don’t like, even if it hurts you too, fine (well not fine, but you know what I mean). But you have no right to complain when the hurting you too comes to pass.

Amen, sister! This is what it looks like when you (“you” being those who backed supply side economics) gambled on a casino economy and lost, but instead of admitting that you made a mistake and working to fix it by electing those who want to change it, they blame that mistake on a convenient scapegoat. I can understand the need for your job to be valued, and if you’re told that the thing you’ve dedicated your life to isn’t needed anymore, you feel discarded, but this need to find another to look down on is as human as it is pathetic.

If there’s one thing I learned back when the Tea Party protests featured “Keep your government hands off my Medicare” signs is that these people really do think they are the rightful recipients of the social safety net and everyone else has not “earned it” to their satisfaction. This is what 30 years of Rush Limbaugh crapping into people’s skulls looks like close-up. Ordinarily, a hard-working coal miner should be able to appreciate what a fast-food cashier has to go through to make ends meet, but something burned that empathy right out of them, and it’s a right-wing media complex that constructs a mythology about “the other” that lends comfort to them when wages have remained stagnant for decades.

Citizens United has to go. The Fairness Doctrine needs to be re-implemented. Then we gotta deprogram those we can.

kupo
kupo
7 years ago

Also, as someone who has low level anxiety and depression that reads as laziness to people, even people who know me well, your post come off as really judgmental and made me feel like shit. So thanks for that.

Yes, this. When even doctors think I’m just lazy instead of believing my chronic illness symptoms how can I trust the government to determine whether I’m *really* in pain or fatigued or whether I’m making it up?

Hambeast, disorderly she-tornado and breaker of windows
Hambeast, disorderly she-tornado and breaker of windows
7 years ago

Husbeast is feeling better. We were at the doctor yesterday and when he looked at the CT scan he thought that when Husbeast strained a muscle in his lower right abdomen, it may have pinched his ascending colon (there was some inflammation there.) He’s on a low-fiber diet for a few days to give the colon a rest and working from home the rest of the week.

We are feeling very grateful for the privilege of good health care and paid sick leave from HB’s very good job right now, let me tell you!

All of the comments about UBI have been very interesting. I wish we (as a species) could get serious about abolishing poverty, but I think that tribalism and greed will get in the way until we can get past them.

Jesalin – I hope you can make peace with your choice, and/or maybe get it changed in the future. You’re a strong, beautiful human being and you deserve to be happy.

Sinkable John : Pansy Ass Pinko, Regicidal Beast-of-Burden
Sinkable John : Pansy Ass Pinko, Regicidal Beast-of-Burden
7 years ago

@PoM

I’m just gonna say, I’m one of those “some people” who need to “be punished” or “a kick in the ass”. I’m not the only one either, juding from the replies you got.

So I guess we’ve either deluded ourselves into thinking we’re not useless dregs that need to be excised from the body of a healthy society, or we’re “the exceptions” who have all but legit reasons to not work while the majority of other non-workers are said useless dregs.

Both are wrong.

Also you are wrong.

Policy of Madness
Policy of Madness
7 years ago

@wwth

It wasn’t my intention to make you feel like shit, and I’m sorry for that. However,

I’m sorry you had an ex who manipulated you in that way, but you’re doing that thing that right wingers love to do so much. Using the fact that some people will abuse the system to justify getting rid of or never implementing necessary aid.

This is not at all what I am saying. I’m saying that necessary aid does not have to look like a cash transfer. It can look different. If you’re not getting that, then I’m not sure what I can say differently to make it clear.

Every system of aid is abuseable. I’m not against UBI because it can be abused, I’m against it because it would have major effects on the economy that aren’t necessarily predictable, and because it would serve as a direct transfer of wealth from the government to landlords. I’m not interested in enriching landlords. Every cash and cash-equivalent benefit has this effect, which is why I am super sour on them. Even EBT is just a transfer of wealth from the government to grocery providers, many of which are providing low-quality food in food deserts and some of which commit straight-up EBT fraud.

I don’t like cash transfers because the cash goes into the pockets of people who aren’t needy: landlords and service providers. The provision of benefits to the needy is an afterthought. Since it is possible to provide benefits to the needy without the middleman, it makes sense to me to do that. Middlemen do not need to be enriched. Period.

ETA: I guess what I’m saying is that cash transfer benefits try to operate within a capitalist system, which we all know to be kind of shit. I’m not sure why everyone here is convinced that the market will step up to the plate if UBI were implemented. I am incredibly cynical about the market doing anything useful. I’ve seen how the market as a system abuses cash transfers, and making the cash transfers bigger doesn’t seem like the way to solve that.

Hambeast, disorderly she-tornado and breaker of windows
Hambeast, disorderly she-tornado and breaker of windows
7 years ago

Also heard last night that we have a trans woman on the city council in Palm Springs now!

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

POM,

Then why bring up lazy people who need to be forced to work at all? It’s not your opinion of the logistics of UBI that’s getting the pushback here. I think we can all respectfully disagree about the exact methods of bringing about a more equitable society and ending poverty.

The issue is that the narrative of people who aren’t doing paid employment as lazy and useless is inherently oppressive. Particularly towards people with mental illness or disability although not exclusively that. You know better than to repeat ableist narratives and you know better than to give a “sorry you were offended” notpology for it.

opposablethumbs
opposablethumbs
7 years ago

Nothing is Permanent But Woe

For what it’s worth, the many clients who use the homeless shelter I volunteer for have a wide range of needs which impact whether they can work and what kind of work they can do; but none of them would be people I classed as ‘lazy’ – their day by day struggles are an order of magnitude harder than mine.

Not directly related but this and other comments on the thread just kind of put me in mind of one thing I like about Corbyn. (This is something he said in July 2016 when he was under sustained 24/7 political attack from within the Labour Party as well as from the tories et al, and his position as party leader/any chance of his helping to shift the party towards the left looked extremely vulnerable):

“There’s a lot of debate about what’s happening in the Labour party at the present time. And I am inundated with questions, questions, questions all the time. And I have patience that is infinite to answer questions, questions, questions.

“But one [question] I got today really did puzzle me. They said: are you coping with the pressure that’s on you? I said: ‘There’s no pressure on me. None whatsoever.’ The real pressure, the real pressure – real pressure – is when you don’t have enough money to feed your kids, when you don’t have a roof over your head, when you are wondering if you are going to be cared for.”

I thought it said quite a lot that he framed it this way, that he immediately put the question about oh-it-must-be-SO-stressfull-to-be-so-embattled-as-an-Important-Person-party-leader-you-must-be-about-to-give-up-aren’t-you into this specific context.

Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
7 years ago

Late, per yoozh
Re: UBI vs public services
1)there needn’t be a ‘vs’
2)how much would the whole government housing and fooding and etc thing cost exactly? I know a basic income ain’t cheap, gonna need some estimates on ‘the alternative’
3)inflation just really does not work that way. At all. That’s a rather simplistic presentation of a rather more complex issue. Simplistic to the point of total inaccuracy
4)3 square meals, a cot, and medical care, anything else you work for… that sounds a bit… prisony, don’t it? Espcially seeing as, depending on which commissar (or whatever we call it) you live under, food, bed, and medicine become less than a certainty. David Clarke ain’t the exception, to round back to the prison comparison. And then there’s just the bureaucrats who’re corrupt or who’ll cut corners at every opportunity. And people above mentioned food considerations, so I won’t repeat
5)speaking of prisons and such, this is gonna be hella racist. I mean, it already is. There’s a significant strain of ‘the poors are too lazy/uneducated/brown to be trusted with money. Let’s provide for them what’s best for them’. No thanks. ‘Inner city’ projects (cos that’s what these are, projects) are gonna be just as shit as they’ve always been, cos racism. And bulding contracts and oversight and whatnot are gonna be just as bullshit as always, cos racism
6)look, nobody’s saying ‘no public housing ever’. But it’s not a fix all. Neither is a basic income. A more diverse system of solutions will be needed
Addendum)I, personally, disagree with the idea that a Spartan life is actually a life. We can do better than that. I also, personally, disagree that people should be punished by the government for not working. We can also do better than that. Also also, nthing WWTH’s tone argument (for lack of better term). Cos what the fuck, PoM? Come now…

Alan Robertshaw
7 years ago

@ opposablethumbs

You seen that House of Lords documentary which, inter alia, follows Oona King? She was trying for a minor amendment to the welfare bill. I liked her point that the additional money it would cost the treasury was sofa change in the grand scheme of things, but to individual families it would mean the world.

Scildfreja Unnyðnes
Scildfreja Unnyðnes
7 years ago

I have thinky thoughts on universal basic income, but i have to do some chores so can’t really post right now. Will do so this afternoon probs! I just wanted to 1up Axe there, ’cause the idea of government services providing everything is horrifying on so many levels to me. For many of the reasons stated.

Just give everyone a little cheque, and have sensible legislation to ensure that companies don’t just jack up prices in response. I mean, universal basic income is about as likely as getting sensible business controls anyways, might as well assume both in this projection.

that’s all simplification, though. I have to go shovel a bunch’a snow and then do some drivey time. Back later.

Nanny Oggs Bosom
Nanny Oggs Bosom
7 years ago

@Alan,

Very definitely a Mork vibe, but I’m not sure it’s deliberate or an accidental vibe.

SpukiKitty
SpukiKitty
7 years ago

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Gussie Jives
Gussie Jives
7 years ago

Some people frankly need to be punished for not working. I know, and I’m sure everyone else knows, folks who are perfectly capable, who have skills, who just don’t feel like working but instead feel like sitting at home doing nothing but playing video games and being supported by Mom or by a partner.

I was that guy in 2009, after I got laid off from my first real job after only one year after the financial crisis crunched the industry. I fell into a funk, feeling like a failure, despite having busted my ass to graduate from a pretty prestigious engineer school and all I did was play video games for like two months between panic attacks. This was during the dregs of winter, which hit me particularly hard emotionally. I did get the kick in the ass I needed and volunteered for Kids Help Phone while I sorted myself out and eventually went to a certificate program at a local college, which helped me get the job I have now.

Just based on my experience, I think a big part of it is just low self-esteem. I mean, let’s face it, this world that we live in doesn’t exactly lend itself to reflections of affirmation. We’re bombarded with feedback that we’re only as good as the wealth that can be extracted from us. That doesn’t sit well with me, who wants to do something lasting on my own terms, which is why I draw and write. But I’m willing to bet all of us want to feel we’re making a difference, and if we feel like we can’t, we retreat from the world we let down.

Shadowplay
Shadowplay
7 years ago

@Axe – I’ll give comment.

1)there needn’t be a ‘vs’

??

If everyone gets a universal basic income, what need is there for 90% of the services? You got your money, you pay for what you need.

2)how much would the whole government housing and fooding and etc thing cost exactly?

God knows. How much would UBI cost? How much would each save is a fairer question – I do recall (for example) that it’s actually significantly cheaper to house the homeless than pay for the results of homelessness. But does that scale?

3)

I defer to you. Really do have no idea in economics (nor much interest in learning).

4)3 square meals, a cot, and medical care, anything else you work for… that sounds a bit… prisony, don’t it?

Yep. Undignified to my ear too, but that’s personal experience. Though part of your point 5 covers some of my thinking on that.

Moggie
Moggie
7 years ago
Fishy Goat
Fishy Goat
7 years ago

@Moggie Not particularly. :/

Robert Walker-Smith
Robert Walker-Smith
7 years ago

What the idea of UBI and related proposals brings to my mind:

There’s a motivational speaker cliche ‘what would you do if you knew that you could not fail?’. It always annoyed the kapok out of me – in my opinion, a better question is ‘what would you attempt if you knew that failure would not lead to misery, destitution and material deprivation?’ Enabling people to live safely and comfortably while they attempt to start their own small businesses seems like a good way to encourage lots of small businesses. Most would fail, but then they could try again. It seems like a good use of resources.

And there are people who, for a variety of valid reasons, can have no productive economic function. As a society, we have a dangerous inclination to view them as useless eaters.

Alan Robertshaw
7 years ago

Re: UBI

There used to be a thing here called Enterprise Allowance. Basically if you signed up for it you got £40pw (which was a bit more than the dole at the time) for 12 months, and that was regardless of any earnings you managed on top.

The flipside was that at the end of the 12 months you were on your own. It was really hard to sign on if things hadn’t worked out.

I used that after school to do the roadie thing. I don’t know how successful it was at creating new businesses. A few bands started that way.

Sheila Crosby
Sheila Crosby
7 years ago

@Nanny Oggs Bosom Would you like a free SF anthology to review?

Nequam
Nequam
7 years ago

There’s a motivational speaker cliche ‘what would you do if you knew that you could not fail?’.

I could tell you, but do we really want the Secret Service sniffing around here?

Shadowplay
Shadowplay
7 years ago

@Alan – I’d forgotten about that. Know a couple people who it helped. Also a couple people it didn’t help at all. 😛

Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
7 years ago

@Shadowplay
At work, can’t get into the weeds
1)most government services would not be made redundant by a basic income. Unemployment benefits and social security, sure. Public transit and universal healthcare, not at all. Also, racism, sexism, other isms. Also also, while I don’t trust the military/police/power grid in gov hands, I super don’t trust the private sector with it
2)UBI’s costs depends on how
‘universal’ and ‘basic’ are defined. If the former means ‘all adult citizens and legal resident aliens’ and the latter means ‘enough to meet the poverty line’, then about $3t. Like I said, not cheap
3)since when are questions about public policy fair? 😛 Still one worth asking and, frankly, an unavoidable one
4)it’s true that it costs less to home the homeless. No, I don’t know how that scales. Probably fairly well?

numerobis
numerobis
7 years ago

One issue, related to UBI, that is prevalent in Nunavut: there’s cheap public housing here if you’re poor. If you have a job, you lose that housing pretty quickly.

Rent is insane — our 2-BR apartment is $2500/month, and that’s an OK price for here. And the market is super tight; the apartment manager was complaining about how a few months ago she got all the way *up* to a 4% vacancy rate. So even if you’re rich and problem-free it can be tricky to get housing at all.

So people quit their jobs when they’re at risk of losing eligibility for public housing at the subsidized rent.

(And stop me if you’re surprised but this is mostly a problem for the Inuit, not so much for Southerners.)

Shadowplay
Shadowplay
7 years ago

Goddammit!

Louis C.K.’s Movie Premiere Canceled in Advance of N.Y. Times Story

Is there NO ONE that can keep it in their fucking pants?!

(Sorry, missed edit window on prev post)

Edit:

Thank you, @Axe. Something to think on 🙂

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