Over on the Men Going Their Own Way subreddit, the fellas are discussing a pressing problem of contemporary society: “Why must men always be better than the women they are trying to date?”
Men have to be better that the women they date? I’m sure this must come as unexpected news to many if not most of the women I’ve dated. But let’s set that aside for a moment.
Today’s MGTOW of the Day, a dude calling himself DangZagnut, thinks the whole “men have to be better” thing, which he thinks is a real thing, has to do with the fact that ladies don’t actually like sex.
Let’s let him explain:
Given that virtually everything in this comment is complete nonsense, I’d say that DangZagnut has not answered the question he set out to answer. But his comment does raise another important question: Why are MGTOWs the absolute worst?
I like sex. Mmmm sex. I have sex whenever I can persuade my man beast. He says his butt muscles get tired out but I am sure I can coax him with some sucky-fucky. Failing that there is always the 7″ dildo I made in ceramics class. These MGTOWs are missing out.
I second the no procreation rule but I do find the idea of eggs and sperm mingling erotic for some reason.
Sex is for fun. And I’ll say it again MGTOWs are missing out and I don’t care because they are poopy-head, spoil-sport, stick-in-the-muds.
Hey Chessman you don’t even have to get married or pay child support to have sex or wack off.
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This latest development seems to come out of left field. Also, it looks incredibly important to me. (And “incompetent” isn’t the word I would choose. Maybe criminal? Just spitballin’ here.) And finally, I note that the alleged principal players in this fake document — Hillary Clinton, Loretta Lynch, and Debbie Wasserman Schultz — are all women. Coincidence? Maybe, maybe not.
Graham: It’s ‘stunning’ Comey never told Congress about fake email
http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/28/politics/lindsey-graham-james-comey/
@Kat I read the article and honestly….it sounds like a lie. “Highly incompetent”???!? That’s it? It’s almost as if they’re trying to clean off Comey and put all the blame on Clinton and her aides.
Hello.
Even if you do not believe today womens (because you would not speak that bullshit if you were), well, Catherine II the Great begs (ou would have beg) to differ… And it is only one of the more common public fact. But yeah, keeping a blind eye on what does not fit your idea is easier.
Have a nice day.
None of the great sex I have had was procreative. I got sperm donors for my babies!
We don’t know, don’t care, and please don’t tell us.
I don’t know if this is the right place to say this, but I’m going to. I’m trans, always have been and always will be but I have not transitioned. I live as a woman, but I know inside that I’m not one. I am asexual because I feel that I can’t have sex as a woman and I hate being looked at as a potential sex partner by men. I have tried to have relationships but they always fall apart at the sex stage as I can’t be penetrated. It would feel unnatural to me and the very idea of pregnancy makes me think more of the squid scene in Prometheus than a ‘happy event’. I thought I could psych myself up to sex, try to feel sexy, and dress up glamorous, I tried this for years and frankly, it didn’t work. As a teenager I had no problem passing as male, and the mental health service knew I had GD but I was never refered to a real gender councillor. Instead, I was briefed on how much better it is for women nowadays, and how pretty I was and it would be a shame to lose all that. I was taught to belive in some kind of womanly wiles which would get me through, and I still think that maybe I’ll benefit from ‘positive discrimination’, even tho, I’ve been through university and worked in the real world and I’m yet to see any real account of that happenning. I’m an electronic musician and producer and its a boy’s club unfortunately, and my work has been undervalued because it’s by a woman. It’s worse than the video games industry. Still, I am forty ish now, past breeding and past my prime and I feel I have nothing to lose and everything to gain from transitioning. I’m not going to gain any favours from feminine wiles or being the glamour gal, more fool me. All my role models have been male and I see myself as male, but the world sees me as female. I just hoped that ignoring my gender would make it go away, but these things are so entrenched, they don’t. I hope this is a safe space to talk about this kind of thing, please be kind 🙂
@Virgin Mary
From what I hear you saying, you are tired of living your life the way other people think you should be living, and instead are ready to embrace your truth. I love how you said that at this point you have nothing to lose and everything to gain from transitioning – that can be such a powerful moment, a turning point. I wish you the best of luck and many, many good vibes and wishes.
Speaking of MGTOW, here’s a little pop quiz. Can you guess the source of these quotes?
@Alan
Not sure the origin location, but it sounds like an incel wrote it?
Alan, if I had to guess, I’d say a bunch of incels.
ETA: Ninja’d by PoM.
Ninja’d by PoM.
@ POM (& Peevee)
Yup, one of today’s entries on r/incel. Their ‘big endians’ vs ‘little endians’ misogyny war continues.
Stopped clock?
What everyone else said about sex drives.
They also miss out the risk/benefit factor.
Men usually reach orgasm whether or not their partner makes an effort for them. Women not so much, which makes casual sex less appealing.
More to the point, women are at much greater risk for slut shaming and violence, especially from a man with misogyny leaking from every pore.
Nope, nope, nope.
Incels would have a lot more credibility if they were such obviously horrible human beings who seem to embrace being such.
Two sides, united by their total lack of self-reflection, introspection or basic human empathy.
@Virgin Mary
Thanks for sharing. I’ve had some, ah, disappointing encounters with counselors but man, that just makes me sad and mad (That prettiness bit is worse the more I think about it). I hope you have or will find a much better mental health assistance. Frankly, people in the trans community will probably be as or more helpful – well, at least as an addition to a professional. Good luck with transitioning, and good for you! To be honest I’m not very educated yet on a lot of trans-related subjects, but I’m sure you’ll feel so much better and transitioning will help with the GD. It’s tiring performing for other people, even if you’re used to it.
Just know that there are people who understand and will be supportive.
Fifty times a day…maybe just about feasible…wheeze, pant…(keels over with epic heart attack.)
Absofuckinglutely. This reminds me of a bit in House when House goes on about a woman who has casual sex. He is slightly obnoxious about it (but quite a lot less than usual) but really understands that her having casual sex with women is better/ safer in so many ways that it makes it vastly more appealing for her than sex with men.
Personally I would not seek casual sex, but if I did I would make the same decision, I am not often attracted to men, but even if I were attracted to one casual sex would be out of the question.
@Alan
Typical. They probably don’t even think middle-endian / mixed-endian is a thing.
(Also, what does the processor byte read order have to do with incel? I’m missing something here.)
Who do these guys think is buying all the vibrators?
Seriously, every time they come out with some variation on, “women just don’t like sex,” I want to point to the gigantic wall o’ dildos at your local sex store (which, if you live in a decent-sized city, are many.) Or the even more gigantic selection online. These things are expensive too, why would you shell out $100+ just to be like, “Meh… just as I suspected, the clitoris is a myth!”
I mean, the Hibachi wasn’t originally even sold as a vibrator! Women took one look at it and they were like, “Well, I know where that’s going.”
But yeah. We hate sex. Total sex haters we are.
@Virgin Mary
Best of luck to you on the transition, we’re here for you if you need it.
Just being needlessly pedantic, but a Hibachi is a cooking device. Hitachi is the vibrating device.
*grin*
Ah the old “Men want sex 24/7” chestnut. I wonder if their tiny MGTOW heads would explode if they ever considered having sex with each other. By Perfect Emotionless Male Logic, that would mean both (or more) partners would be constantly wanting sex, thus all their problems would be solved. Plus gay sexytimes is AWESOME!
The flaw of course is that it’s really never about sex with these MGTOWners, is it? It’s about entitlement, control and toxic masculinity.
@JS Whoops. Well, now I’ve missed the edit window, everyone will think I want to cook my vagina.