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Just some dudes who think a lady-only Wonder Woman showing makes them Rosa Parks

Have the guys complaining about women-only Wonder Woman movie showings ever read Wonder Women comics?

When the Alamo Drafthouse Cinemas announced they would be holding a few women-only showings of the upcoming Wonder Woman movie, the angry dudes of the internet all cried “foul” at once.

And when one bold man — a conservative journalist by the name of Stephen Miller — bought a ticket for one of these women-only showings, and announced on Twitter he fully intended to attend, darnit, these men knew they had found their Rosa Parks. Only white. And a dude. And not even slightly oppressed by any reasonable definition of the term.

Still, the angry dudes took to Twitter to share their thoughts. Well, their thought. They all seemed to have the exact same one, and they haven’t gotten tired of repeating it yet.

https://twitter.com/HJWallEcon/status/868884787674714114

https://twitter.com/The_Raving_Dave/status/868875305179648004

https://twitter.com/iTheHammer/status/868737884718804993

https://twitter.com/DNCScreeching/status/868691882364215296

https://twitter.com/Sunniedlt/status/868680535274647552

https://twitter.com/LedgerTBalance/status/868629911891845120

https://twitter.com/iTheHammer/status/868650755426615297

https://twitter.com/BrothLGregarius/status/868377666474319872

https://twitter.com/HJWallEcon/status/868477154094395392

https://twitter.com/socjusredguard/status/868487969576951808

https://twitter.com/mangokitten266/status/868509314666831872

https://twitter.com/ANINDAUK/status/868595396288839681

Er, sorry about that last one. I don’t think that dude is talking about the Wonder Woman movie at all.

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LindsayIrene, Rioting Werebonobo

where is the actual “misogyny” it is trying to “expose”

Like, uh, dude,actually fucking read this blog. It’s in almost every goddamn post.

You want me to read them aloud to you maybe?

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Every time I think that MRAs couldn’t abuse punctuation more, they come up with new ways.

What the fuck is …?… supposed to mean?

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I guess I should be pleasantly surprised that the ellipses have the appropriate number of dots, but they aren’t used correctly either.

Brony, Social Justice Cenobite

@Chessman
Criticism and mockery of terrible beliefs (bigoted), ways of thinking (bigoted), actions (bigoted), and communications (bigoted) are not cyber-bullying. The power differential at the the individual and group level matters.

I’m sure it feels similar, but that’s how human beings change one another’s behavior as a matter of course. Bullying itself is about creating and maintaining certain behavior. Terrible people who don’t want to be critisized and shamed crying “bullying” makes sense, but is still bullshit.

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
7 years ago

Question for Chessman. Is your username supposed to invoke the old saying about pigeons shitting on the board and calling it a victory, or is that just a happy coincidence?

Policy of Madness
Policy of Madness
7 years ago

Chessman is incredibly boring. All of Chessman’s posts can be summarized as WAAAAAAAAAAH CATER TO ME WAAAAAAAAH DO EMOTIONAL LABOR FOR ME WAAAAAAAAAAAAH.

Dull.

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
7 years ago

@ chessman

you think this is trivial as a gender equality issue

I think being asked to attend a different screening of a film is very trivial compared to systematic disenfranchisement and oppression of black people; yes.

If we ever get to a situation where men can be asked to give up their cinema seats by women, and if the men refuse they get an Alsatian set on them I’ll reconsider.

As for bulling, I think it looks more like this…

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Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
7 years ago

@Chessman: +1 for replying to the person with the masculine sounding ‘nym. (Or name, in this case.)

Did you realise you did that? Because you did. Others are talking to you, but you choose only one specific person to reply to.

By the way, have you read that sea lion comic? Or anything about tone policing?

This “issue” is not an issue at all. Men aren’t being barred from ever seeing this, there are no laws in place making sure that men can’t watch the film in other theatres or eventually on DVD or Netflix.

That is the difference between this and the structured racism that Rosa Parks was protesting.

What issue do you even HAVE here? Please state it.

You haven’t because this entire thing is silly.

Darius Quebec
Darius Quebec
7 years ago

“What the fuck is …?… supposed to mean?”

Well, when an ellipsis and a question mark love each other very much…

Aulma Frendzar Dèdd
Aulma Frendzar Dèdd
7 years ago

@shank @chessman there are yacht/golf/cigar/motorcycle clubs in the US (and also other countries) that don’t allow women to be members. If you’re really going to cry about segregation, just know that men started it first and they don’t care one bit about it. You should also know that “men only cinema nights” happened in the past years in some american cities.

dlouwe
dlouwe
7 years ago

I get it, you think this is trivial as a gender equality issue, isn’t that the whole point of this article…trivializing this issue…

Can’t trivialize something that is trivial. We’re not trying to reduce its importance because we already think it’s not important. You’re free to disagree and lay out an argument for how it’s non-trivial, but it’s not suddenly a hit-piece or propaganda because you think it’s important and we don’t.

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Well, when an ellipsis and a question mark love each other very much…

Question marks are hypergamous bitches! Just look at them sandwiched between two three dot ellipses while they don’t even give the MRA two dot ellipses the time of day!

Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
7 years ago

@WWTH: *snort* XD

BritterSweet
BritterSweet
7 years ago

Just off the top of my head, the things I’ve heard anti-feminists say that women are supposed to stay away from entirely because they’re male safe spaces include

Atheism
Video games
All STEM fields
The military
Science fiction

I’d also add:
-Sports’ channels (they think female sports bring the overall quality down)
-Male workplace (they don’t like female competition)
-Police/Secret Services/Fbi (same as military)
-Politics

Management
Logic
Autism

By autism, you mean diagnosis of it, right? Like how girls with autism tend to go undiagnosed because the symptoms they show often don’t match the boys’ usual symptoms and the boys are used as a template?

In that case, I would like to add diagnosis of heart attacks to that list too.

——

Here’s MovieBob telling off the whiners:

Chessman
Chessman
7 years ago

big DC and WW fan… as a fan it’s like a slap in the face… I can see the angle of trying to appeal to more women to get into being fans of dc universe…by selling it as a girl power thing…but most ww fans are guys…anyway some guys got offended, you folks think it’s trivial…i just dont get the supposed “misgyny” angle on it…where does the actual misogyny come into it…

Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
7 years ago

@Chessman

most ww fans are guys

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ETA:

i just dont get the supposed “misgyny” angle on it…where does the actual misogyny come into it

THAT RIGHT THERE!!! YOU CAN’T NOT SEE IT!!!

Ooglyboggles
7 years ago

@Chessman
Man it’s such an insult to want to get more people into Superhero movies

PeeVee the (Timber-Rattling Booger Slut, But Noice) Sarcastic
PeeVee the (Timber-Rattling Booger Slut, But Noice) Sarcastic
7 years ago

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Chessman…you need to…stop…channeling…William…Shatner.

http://forward-now.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/pigeon-on-chess-board.jpg

And…stop doing…this.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-RbJOxQbOHLY/T5CJK1-h6xI/AAAAAAAAEaU/cCuFc1WDxkc/s1600/Rosa+Parks.jpg

And stop…pretending…that your fucking MGTOW…movement…is anyway comparable to this woman and the civil rights struggle, you disingenuous ass.

Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
Rhuu - apparently an illiterati
7 years ago

Chessman, you do realise that this is a special showing put on by the theatre, not by the company, right? So the people who made this film aren’t actually the ones who are having the two special screenings?

i just dont get the supposed “misgyny” angle on it…where does the actual misogyny come into it…

…but most ww fans are guys…

No, no misogyny here, folks.

Though to be fair, perhaps the fact that this is misogyny + racism is what is making it hard for you? Because this is both.

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
7 years ago

@ chessman

I can see the angle of trying to appeal to more women to get into being fans of dc universe…by selling it as a girl power thing…but most ww fans are guys

Well if we accept your premise for the moment as to the demographics of the Wondy* fanbase then replace your ‘but‘ with a ‘because‘ and you’ll understand how marketing works. And if you’re a real fan then don’t you want more people to support the franchise?

(*Got that off Varalys and sort of adopted it)

Aulma Frendzar Dèdd
Aulma Frendzar Dèdd
7 years ago

@Chessman

big DC and WW fan… as a fan it’s like a slap in the face… I can see the angle of trying to appeal to more women to get into being fans of dc universe…by selling it as a girl power thing…but most ww fans are guys…

They’re selling it as a girls’ night thing. There hasn’t been a female superhero movie in decades, and there probably won’t be many in the future either. I don’t see a problem with the exclusivity of a few screenings.

Lea
Lea
7 years ago

Really? Its like a physical assault to not be invited to one location you probably don’t even live near and weren’t going to go to anyway.

There are over 20 other showings at other locations in that area that men are invited to attend, but it is like being physically assaulted that you can’t attend one?

That. That right there is trivializing. You are trivializing the abuse and oppression of actual minorities by claiming them quite falsely as your own.

You and your continued lie that it is men who are oppressed as a class, not women, you and your insistence that it is men who are in danger from women when men murder, rape and abuse women at epidemic levels is why women need a space to enjoy a film where men are not.

You know it isn’t women shooting up crowds in movies by and for women.

You know you’re dishonest. You know your comparisons are racist and misogynist. You know no one here is bullying you. You aren’t confused. You are pretending to be and that is your own way to be abusive to women.

It’s called gaslighting and you aren’t even good at it.

PeeVee the (Timber-Rattling Booger Slut, But Noice) Sarcastic
PeeVee the (Timber-Rattling Booger Slut, But Noice) Sarcastic
7 years ago

Chessman, I don’t suppose you claiming that the DC Universe and WW as men’s territory can possibly be part of the fucking problem, do you?

Piss the fuck OFF already.

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
7 years ago

“OK, Doctor King, we’ll condescend to pass the civil rights legislation but, in return you’ll need to go to an alternate screening of a movie”

“I’ll have to get back to you on that.”

Checkmate
Checkmate
7 years ago

Considering that my sister got screamed at for buying a copy of Injustice 2, I highly doubt that men like this are suddenly willing to allow women into their own “safe space” of superhero media. And we’re supposed to be the snowflakes?

Note: Not Chessman!! My name comes from my ponysona~

weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee

Just because the companies that profit off of nerds and nerd culture cater to male fans more, allowing them to be more visible in the culture, does not mean that the female fans aren’t there. Female fans are there and always have been.

It’s a vicious cycle. Male fans bully or sexually harass female fans so that they’re less comfortable going to cons or engaging in internet fandoms in very public ways. Marketers assume the fanbases must be mostly male and cater to male fans almost exclusively and pop culture portrays fans of geeky things as being mostly male. Male fans take this as confirmation that comics, horror movies, sci fi, video games, whatever belong to them and use it to justify either bullying and silencing female fans, calling female fans fake geek girls or just ignoring them altogether.

It’s gross.