Another lively discussion, courtesy of the Incels subreddit!
In case you’re wondering what’s underneath the ink splatters — though I suspect you can probably guess — here’s a slightly less censored screenshot:
But don’t worry, folks! The author of this lovely post assures his critics in the subreddit that he is neither lonely nor sexually frustrated:
actually im none of these. since young age i was sex deprived so i learned how to live without needing a worthless females. i got used to it after a while.
Yep. He doesn’t care SO HARD that he’s spending his Friday night hanging out on the INvoluntary CELibates subreddit posting this shit — and complaining about girls on Tinder “ghosting” him.
GOSH WHY ON EARTH WOULD GIRLS NOT WANT TO MEET THIS GUY
@Pie
“‘Don’t you know, they have the cleanest mouth of any animal!’
‘I’m just goin’ by where he’s been, honey. I am not a chemist.'”
–George Carlin
Ellesar,
Every single time someone asks people not to use vaginas as an insult, someone brings up how it is “different” in the UK.
We’re aware.
Still, I’d really, really appreciate it if references to vaginas were not used in that way.
So you waded through a whole sub-Reddit full of men with autism and other crippling social disabilities to find one to criticize? You could find misogynists and misanthropes with depression and schizophrenia too. You lack compassion and are literally picking on social cripples.
@Moggie:
Fuck. I was doing a pretty good job at not busting out laughing at this thread, but then I got to this comment. GG, WP.
@Alan
Those two appear to actually be unrelated to the anatomy; ‘tit’ means something/someone small/insignificant, and boob in an insulting sense comes from Spansh bobo, a fool.
@Ellesar
And intent is not magic; the effect is still misogyinistic.
@Valentine
No, it’s the original Germanic word for the piece of anatomy in question. Doctors and similar educated types wrote in Latin and called it vagina (why they did so is not clear, as that’s apparently not the Classical Latin term). So that usage is the prestige usage which eventually became ‘standard’.
I understand that “vagina” means “sheath” in Latin, as in for a sword, which would make it originally a euphemism.
In Quebecois French, most swear words are more linked to goddy things rather than sexy things. And things are awkward when the Mormon Tabernacle Choir comes for a visit.
TMI
Re: consuming your own semen
To me, it seemed like an obvious thing to have a taste, just because eating your partner’s semen (in the context of fellatio) is such a big honkin’ deal in popular culture.
I tried this once, not really expecting to achieve autofellatio (I didn’t) but just for the heck of it. It was one of the funniest, most sensual things I’ve ever done. If I had an intimate partner, I’d totally do it again and have my partner sit me for safety, just in case I hurt my back or something 🙂
@Kivutar
So…I sheath my sword?
@Axe
Admittedly, yeah, it is kinda chill.
I was worried at first but it’s actually kinda nice to not be at the mercy of my genitals all the time and becoming aroused just because a hot guy or girl moved nearby me and showed me some skin.
@KL
@KL
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@ dalillama
I wonder if that’s derived from ‘tittle’; one of those little marks used in writing Hebrew? I’m presuming they’ve had connotations of insignificance because of that Bible quote about not leaving anything out including “jots and tittles”.
I was deprived of sex from birth to the age of 10. I wish I’d been deprived of sex a few years longer.
KL: really, now.
@KL
Why are you assuming that misogyny is cased by autism? No one here mocked autism. That’s a sickening assumption. Could you even point to a feature affecting free choice?
The people here are mocking critisizing misogyny and sexism. You are basically name-calling.
@ KL
In fairness you don’t have to wade very far in r/incels to find something mockable and/or nauseating.
And whilst one would of course have enormous sympathy for anyone who faced problems through autism or social anxiety, that’s not what incel is about. They’re just awful hate-filled individuals.
They may use claims of autism to attempt to justify their deeds or so they can claim criticism (and women refusing to have sex with them) is discrimination against people with a disability, but that just makes them even more horrible. There’s plenty of people with genuine autism or social anxiety and they manage to be perfectly pleasant and compassionate members of society.
@Alan Robertshaw:
Truer words were never typed.
I’m being oppressed because women aren’t having sex with me right now.
:CCCCCCCCCCCCC
And also because men aren’t having sex with me, because I wouldn’t wanna be a MISANDRIST.
/wut about le mens
@ KL
To expand, incel thinking goes like this:
The first premise though is outrageously false (and offensive), so the argument fails. So we don’t have to feel any sympathy.
And Incel hypocrisy here is demonstrated by the fact they use ‘autistic’ as a general insult. There’s hardly a thread on there that doesn’t assert that “Normies are all autistic” as are all “female human organisms”.
And the irony of your post is that no-one is more unsympathetic and abusive to incels than their fellow incels. Again there’s hardly a post that doesn’t decry every other incel as ‘fakecel’ or really a normie.
@Alan
With this pertinent fact visible to all, I’m surprised nobody connected the dots and said “MAYBE YOU ASSHOLES SHOULD TRY BEING NICE TO PEOPLE. WITH THAT ATTITUDE, NO WONDER YOU AREN’T GETTING YOUR DICKS WET!”
@ fran
It’s actually against the rules of r/Incel to suggest being nice. It’s axiomatic amongst incels that women are only attracted by abusive behaviour.
@Alan
Yeah, if that’s a rule in a place you frequent…you may want to reconsider your life choices, m8.
@Troubelle
Hey, you can’t just tell people not to make bad decisions!
Alan,
Do you mean as in give each other advice to be nice to attract women, or just to be nice in general? I mean, are they all caustic assholes to each other in the threads?