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Whaa!? Men Going Their Own Way actually consider going their own way

Clipperton Island: It has a tree
Clipperton Island: It has a tree

Earlier today, one apparently desperate MGTOW went to the Men Going Their Own Way subreddit to ask the regulars for advice on fleeing the country so he can skip out on paying alimony and child support.

Helpful commenters suggested various alternatives, from faking his own death to literally joining the French Foreign legion (turns out he’s too old for that). The OP is also considering the possibility of living “like Rambo, in the woods.”

But my favorite answer came from a dude living on a boat:

Mike637 3 points 9 hours ago Buy a small sailboat and go. There are tons of deserted island and countries that are not going to care about your visa status unless you are committing crimes. Sailing is easy. If you have a decent vehicle, I bet you could show up on the Gulf coast and trade it for a capable sailboat. I live on a sailboat right now and as soon as I am finished fixing it up, I am out of here. I am hoping to be done by the end of October.

I would strongly urge all MGTOWs to consider this alternative. Any kind of boat or boat-like device will do — sailboat, rowboat, giant inflatable duck, pool noodle, you name it.

Aim for one of these islands and you’ll be sitting pretty in no time!

NOTE: Just so you know, the caption for the pic above is kind of a joke. Clipperton Island, a tiny smudge of an atoll 670 miles southwest of Mexico, has more than one tree. It also had birds.

clipbirds

And an abandoned tanker!

clippertonfreighter

MGTOWs! Clipperton island calls for you!

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Tessa
Tessa
5 years ago

Ohlmann

@Tessa, about Borderland and female normal ennemy : my take on it is that with the various mask and equipment one cannot distinguish male and females. It’s likely an overly optimistic idea for Borderland ; my position on that started with games like Starcrafts were a female marine would be exactly the same as a male marine, but in borderland they aren’t all that suited up.

In Borderlands 1 and 2, most of the human enemy models wear light clothing. Three of them shirtless or in a tight shirt. All have distinctly male voice actors that are clearly meant to be portraying male enemies. This is true of the marines in full body armor. In the Pre-Sequel, it’s the same regarding the voice acting, even with the enemy type in full puffy space suits. A variety of voice actors doing the attack\death quotes of the enemies could have helped a lot.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

Is it time for the ban hammer now?

(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
5 years ago

I educate my body by exposing it to new foods, and I steer my body in a healthy direction. And I also listen to it.

I do the same…just like any other body, my body tends to like it when I mix things up and have a good balance of nutrients.

One of the best ways to approach any food is to toss the guilt…food guilt can actually negatively impact your digestion. Besides, life is just too short for that crap!

I make it a point to never let myself feel guilty about what I eat, no matter what it is–whether it’s broccoli, a pair of Swiss Rolls or anything in between.

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(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
5 years ago

@ kupo: I think so…and so does Kathy Bates

Handsome "Punkle Stan" Jack

Same here pretty much. I think the circumcision hurts a lot worse, but whatever I know rape can be a lot worse also, when it happened to me it wasn’t that violent compared to other stories.

Okay, I’m just gonna go out and say it, circumcision isn’t rape. If you were raped, and your circumcision doesn’t count, than I’m genuinely sorry and you didn’t deserve it, but don’t compare circumcision to rape.

It’s not that circumcision isn’t bad, okay? It’s pretty shitty and deplorable, alright? But it isn’t rape. It’s assault, not sexual assault, alright? It’s just as gross but circumcision and rape are apple and oranges, both fruit, but not the same.

So don’t you fucking try to buddy-buddy with someone who has gone through rape by comparing rape to circumcision.

Again, if you were raped–and it didn’t involve you getting circumcised–I am sorry, okay? It’s a terribly, shitty thing for you to go through and I really hope that one day you can get past it. And, honestly, I do hope the same thing happens with you being circumcised, I do. It’s awful your bodily autonomy was violated but circumcision isn’t rape.

Please stop it. Circumcision is bad enough already without having to describe it as rape, which it isn’t.

And, also, don’t fucking say “you think it hurts a lot worst”, my fucking god, you don’t know their experiences. You don’t know what happened at all. Fucking don’t, just fucking don’t, it’s not a goddamn pain olympics to see who suffered more.
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Fucking hell. You have my sympathies because you’ve had shitty things done to you but fucking come on, dude.

Mick Dash
Mick Dash
5 years ago

This thread is a great example of the feminist rape culture: feminists bending over backwards to argue that taking a knife to another person’s genitals is not a sexual assault. A cultural setting in which denying and minimizing sexual violence is normalized, isn’t that the definition of rape culture?

Handsome Jack: I never said circumcision is rape I said taking a knife to a person’s genitals who is forcibly restrained and is not consenting is an act of sexual violence. All this apologism for the sexual violence against males is an example of the gynocratic feminist rape culture mentality. Rape culture being a cultural setting in which the minimization and denialism of sexual violence is normalized.

OoglyBoggles
OoglyBoggles
5 years ago

@Mick Dashing Through The Snow, On A One Man Open Sleigh, On the fields He Goes, Shitposting All The Way

A knife to the nads
Without sexual intent
Does not equal rape.

You frame both as same,
Knowing that many posters
Know both things first hand.

You are disgusting,
Radioactive pond scum
Is worth more than you.

(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
5 years ago

@Mick: Do you also consider FGM to be rape/sexual assault?

Bina
5 years ago

Dick Mash/Frog in a Blender…still here? Still harping on THAT?

ZZzzzzzzz.

Mick Dash
Mick Dash
5 years ago

Yeah, generally. Sometimes it’s done with the “consent” but in a coercive patriarchal religious society is it “real” consent anyway really? Are you going to tell me slicing off a girl’s clitoris is not an act of sexual violence? Would you say a forcible penetration is not a rape without sexual intent? If it’s done purely to humiliate or intimidate with no sexual intent would you argue that rape is then not an act of sexual violence, but just non-sexual violence-violence?

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

Echoing Kupo’s call for the ban hammer.

It’s not right for MD to compare the pain of circumcision to the pain of rape when another commenter has just shared his story of being raped.

Handsome "Punkle Stan" Jack

@Mick Dash

Yeah, I don’t give two shits now, latez, I’ve got better thing to do than fuck around with an asswipe like you, you fucking disingenuous piece of shit.

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Wubba lubba dub dub, I’m done.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

@Mick
Have you even looked up the definition of sexual assault and/or rape? Words mean things.

If two people get in a fight and one kicks the other in the crotch is that sexual assault, in your opinion?

OoglyBoggles
OoglyBoggles
5 years ago

@Kat
Thirding the sentiment. Before it was asanine when he changed opinions like clothes, but was amusing to play around. Now I’m just plain disgusted by how much of a loathsome piece of shit he is by equating circumcision to rape, even going so far as to state that when another poster talked about his experience.

No fuck you, you don’t get to demean someone coming out about being raped by talking about your fucking circumsicion hurting more.

Mick Dash
Mick Dash
5 years ago

Kat

What I compared was when I was raped I said it is less painful to me than being cut. But the rape that happened to me was relatively mild so I can’t compare it to other experiences of rape. The woman who attacked me was accused of a much more violent rape later where she allegedly used a weapon. When it happened to me it was not that severe.

weirwoodtreehugger: communist bonobo

Dick Mash knows he keeps getting his ass kicked trying to debate here, so his only safe out is to get himself banned.

He accomplishes this by acting in a way that is potentially triggering for a male rape survivor who’s been in the thread.

That’s some good men’s rightsing there, Dick Meh

http://i.imgur.com/pqnXV9o.gif

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

@Mick Dash
I am completely uninterested in your rationalizations.

What you did was insensitive in the extreme and possibly retraumatizing.

@Everybody else
I’ve emailed David.

OoglyBoggles
OoglyBoggles
5 years ago

Just a reminder:
He kept talking about MGTOW getting bigger all the time.

Then when he kept losing every new talking point from MRA to Solipsism and any other droll topic, he does this.

He sees a person talking of a traumatic sexual assault. What does the person who is supposed to be all about the men?

Compares it to him getting a circumsicion and demeans it by saying that his circumsicion hurt more than his alleged “sexual assault.”

@Mick Dash
You use your own experience as a response of someone clearly still troubled by that event, and then trivialized it. You had full knowledge of this, and still you did it. You had no damn right to belittle him.

JS
JS
5 years ago

Edit: Ninja’d by ban. Removed due to not standing a chance of convincing Mick of anything.

OoglyBoggles
OoglyBoggles
5 years ago

@David
Thank you, that makes two. Mig just had classic meltdowns before lashing out like a caged animal, Mick went the extra mile to be a bag of rotten dicks and showed no sympathy for the men his group keeps claiming to be for. Great that leaves MarkyMark. I don’t know how to feel about that.

You know what, I’m going to head straight to bed, it was fun at first in joking around, but now, I’m just tired.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

Thanks, David.

weirwoodtreehugger: communist bonobo

I’m pretty sure that our recently banned trolls have been here before and will be back again with a new name. But the time out before they create new socks is clearly needed.

Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
5 years ago

Now he’s gone…
Sorry if this is insensitive to anyone (not to Mordor. Don’t give a shit about him), but what the fuck was he even talking about?

So he was raped, and he was circumcized. 2 separate events. The former was kinda meh, but the latter was so traumatizing that he has to compare it to the former. Which he already stated he didn’t mind as much… Does this make 0 sense to anyone else? I know that survivors (anyone really and them especially) shouldn’t be expected to have completely ‘rational'(tm) feelings about their victimization…

And then he forms all these oddly eccentric, antifeminist notions about #afbb and other such bullshit. He takes a Gender Studies class, seemingly with the express purpose of being a nuisance. He trolls a feminist blog where complains about, among other things, “women making money off divorce raping guys”. He berates us for not agreeing that circumcision is exactly like sexual assault. Then, only after Schnookums tells his story, does he show up and say ‘me too’

Note: I’m not doubting Mountain Dew’s story. He says it happened, and my policy is always to believe until and unless given reason enough to stop believing. I’m just collecting and presenting the weirdness. If for nothing else than to get my mind around it

These fuckers are draining me

Schnookums Von Fancypants
Schnookums Von Fancypants
5 years ago

Thanks you all. I’ll admit that the comfort of anonymity did help me in bringing it up. I also had a good idea where the direction of comments were going to go so I was mentally prepared. (Yay learned coping mechanisms!) It just…mentally exhausts me that my (and others) experience is being co-opted as a weapon to beat up feminists. It’s not even that anyone here has said male circumcision is acceptable. But it wasn’t enough to oppose it, you had to ADMIT that it was totes equal to rape, if not worse. I’m of course loathe to contradict someone’s personal experiences, but sorry…I’m not going to ever believe someone when they say that male circumcision is equal to or worse than sexual assault.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

@Axe
Plus his “me too” was phrased in a way to make it sound like he was talking about circumcision and when we told him that’s not the same he kept insisting it was long before he brought up any actual sexual assault. And calling it mild was just weird, too. I mean, I get that it’s not always really traumatic–mine wasn’t really–but mild?

OoglyBoggles
OoglyBoggles
5 years ago

@Axe
I’m just saying he kept swapping viewpoints in increasing levels of offensiveness when the last thing didn’t work in his favor.

Even if I was to believe every word of his, that would still leave a very hurt person who is better off getting some help than hurting others.

@Schnookums Von Fancypants
Words cannot describe how sorry I am that one of the first replies you got in this comment thread was from a despicable waste of breath.

Handsome "Punkle Stan" Jack

@Schnookums Von Fancypants

I’m so sorry that shit stain even had the gall to address you. You deserve better than that, man.

Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
Axecalibur: Middle Name Danger
5 years ago

@Schnookums + kupo
I’m tired and numb and weak from the trolls and really, truly humbled by you. Just to witness y’all talk about these things, knowing the worst people possible are itching to pounce on it… All I have is words, and they’re kinda failing me right now. Sorry. Imma sleep

Scildfreja Unnýðnes
Scildfreja Unnýðnes
5 years ago

My gosh, these people. Thank you for banning him, David. That – I scarcely have words for that sort of deeply rooted insensitivity. Using someone else’s pain as a shield like that is – well. A giant dumpster fire of despicable.

Hearts to all of you, and good night

Sinkable John : Pansy Ass Pinko, Regicidal Beast-of-Burden
Sinkable John : Pansy Ass Pinko, Regicidal Beast-of-Burden
5 years ago

Oh hey, I missed the “party”. I found Dick Marsh mildly entertaining… until that. Good to know they’re both banned now. I might get around to reading Mig’s parting words later.

@Schnookums

Hi ! I am so, so sorry (worst introduction words ever) about what just happened here. I’m glad that you delurked though ! Did you get the welcome package already ? If not, it’s right here. Thank you for sharing, even if that meant exposing yourself to being used as a shield.

Re : Dick Mash. I’ll join those who doubt his claim. He was specifically asked what the fuck he even knew about the subject and carefully avoided it. And he was full of shit the whole way through. As far as I know it’s safe to assume he’s just one of those evil false accusers MGTOW keep complaining about. Because irony.

I’d give him a late response but I just got up and don’t feel like puking in my coffee just yet.

@David

Thank you.
That also goes for the other one.

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

@David Futrelle
Thanks for the ban hammer.

mildlymagnificent
mildlymagnificent
5 years ago

Well, I’m glad to see the back of him. And, you know, I really was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. It was, I thought, entirely possible that he could be doing some kind of half-baked, unfocused course about gender issues and that he was just a bit off-beam in his understanding of what studying was all about.

I have a horrible feeling I’ll do it again – maybe that’s a consequence of tutoring kids who hate maths or spelling and make life difficult for everyone around them until they realise it’s not so bad. I’ll try to coax people into doing what’s best for them despite them being their own worst enemy.

But this shithead can step on lego pieces forever.

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

Here’s what Schnookums Von Fancypants said:

“I am a male survivor of rape. … And the abuser was a woman as well. It has taken me decades to deal with, and I’m STILL dealing with it. Being touched can send me into a panic attack if I’m not mentally prepared for it.”

And here’s what Mick Dash said:

Same here pretty much. I think the circumcision hurts a lot worse, but whatever I know rape can be a lot worse also, when it happened to me it wasn’t that violent compared to other stories.

Given that up until this point he had been saying that circumcision was sexual assault, I had no idea that what he was saying was that he had been raped too. And I didn’t read his explanation until after I’d emailed David.

I’m glad Mick Dash got the ban hammer. This isn’t a safe space because the subject matter makes that impossible.

But it’s nice that a rape survivor can have a little breathing space after a revelation of that sort.

Schnookums Von Fancypants
Schnookums Von Fancypants
5 years ago

Aww, you peoples are the best. I appreciate the concern, although I was mentally prepared for several scenarios (including mockery) from our troll. Also…SCENTED MOTHERFUCKING CANDLES? You all really know how to welcome a guy. I’ll definitely kill you last give you all positions in my one world gynocratic government. How do I intend to form a gynocratic one world government as a man? The answer is COGNITIVE DISSONANCE.

Seriously though, you all are the best and I’m glad to be commenting here.

Nikki the Bluth Wannabe
Nikki the Bluth Wannabe
5 years ago

They could use on of those giant inflatable swans from Bachelor in Paradise. Let’s all just hope they take The Chad with them if they do.
http://tse1.mm.bing.net/th?&id=OIP.M5c8d7b4a34595126bec80231fac9900ao0&w=300&h=300&c=0&pid=1.9&rs=0&p=0&r=0

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

Speaking of scented motherfucking candles, I bought a color changing LED candle that was supposed to be scented so I thought it had an oil diffuser, but NO, it had these little barely scented silicone discs that you can’t smell at all unless they’re inside your nostril (which is super uncomfortable, btw).

Nikki the Bluth Wannabe
Nikki the Bluth Wannabe
5 years ago

In my last comment, “on” is supposed to be “one”-didn’t notice it until after the edit window closed.

EJ (The Other One)
5 years ago

Welcome to the site, Herr Von Fancypants. May your cup always be full of your favourite beverage, and may you aways feel safe discussing those of your experiences which patriarchy urges men to repress and deny.

(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
(((VioletBeauregarde))): Social Justice Necromancer
5 years ago

Thanks for banhammering Mick Dash

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

I’ve thought more about the ban hammering of Mick Dash. I left out a transitional paragraph the first time, one that explained my rationale for contacting David Futrelle. That’s because I was operating more from my gut than anything else. Below (in bold) is my thinking:

Given that up until this point he had been saying that circumcision was sexual assault, I had no idea that that he was saying was that he had been raped too. And I didn’t read his explanation until after I’d emailed David.


But given that the preponderance of evidence points to Mick Dash being a liar who used another commenter’s painful revelation in order to further his own MickDashian agenda, that’s okay.

I’m glad Mick Dash got the ban hammer. This isn’t a safe space because the subject matter makes that impossible.

But it’s nice that a rape survivor can have a little breathing space after a revelation of that sort.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

I agree 100%, Kat. Everything about that struck me the wrong way.

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

I also want to add that after I emailed David Futrelle to ask for the ban hammer, I realized that I was also standing up for myself.

I’ve also had the experience of revealing something painful and receiving an uncaring response.

It felt pretty good stand up for myself!

Kat
Kat
5 years ago

@kupo
Yes! Other commenters, including you, helped me to figure out my own thought process.

Thanks!

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porn
4 years ago

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kupo
kupo
4 years ago

@David
It’s like those Japanese pencil cases with weird, almost poetic English phrases on them.

Like this:
http://www.engrish.com//wp-content/uploads/2008/08/rainbow-drop.jpg

Edit: if you’re able to edit the bot’s post to remove the link in the name that might be good.

Ooglyboggles
Ooglyboggles
4 years ago

@kupo
Rainbow Drop; An award winning film set in modern Japan dealing with the complications of a married couples’ life as they struggle to raise their child alongside their strained relationship. Sorry those lines sound like something you’d see in a Filmes de Cannes festival to me.