We’re still running a meme surplus in the We Hunted the Mammoth offices, so I’m going to drop a few more on you today. Enjoy the FLAWLESS STEM LOGIC and KEEN GRASP OF REALITY displayed in the following memes, gathered from A Voice for Men’s Facebook page. I’ve lightly censored a couple of them.
My point was, that any study of merit, one that replied on direct question answering of the participants, anonymously, rather than unreliabe reporting, showed 40-60% of dv was female perpetrated.
Even though you are too cowardly to provide a source, I’m guessing you’re referring to research that uses the conflict tactics scale. That would be the one that rates pushing someone away in self defense and punching someone in the head so hard it knocks them unconscious the same. It’s very convenient if you want to “prove” women commit DV at the same rates. However, if you look at the rate of severe abuse, or homicide of partners, men are by far the bigger culprits.
That doesn’t mean male IPV victims shouldn’t be taken seriously. They should be. You won’t hear many feminists arguing that they shouldn’t get compassion or help. But you don’t need to diminish men’s violence against women to get that accomplished.
That’s the biggest mens rights issue I can think of, actors with depression. lol.
No you nitwit, he’s an man suffering from mental illness who is using his fame to speak about the issue. Which will possibly help destigmatize men admitting that they have depression (or other illnesses) and getting help. But you laugh about it because why? Because he’s gay? Because he’s a handsome actor?
Jamie
8 years ago
I have a double major. Most of my research is personal though. Yes, I am an intellectual. I’ve spent months and years studying things I am curious about, and I know how to critique and examine a study.
So there’s not ‘seem to think’ about, I understand, and frequently read science. I was 95% in a logic test, which was the highest ever result, so I am pretty focused on reason. Although I understand most human beleif and action comes from emotion and experiences – humans are largely irrational creatures.
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
8 years ago
Aris, if I do my good wimminzly duty and make you a sammich, will you go away? I promise it won’t be full of Legos and cacti.
(I’m a terrible liar.)
Jamie
8 years ago
No, I am talking about any DV research that works by questionaire of general populations rather than police reports. Anything that is statistically reliable here, shows numbers higher than feminists claims, numbers that are basically gender symmetrical.
Fabe
8 years ago
I thought you were done arguing with us bigots?
Jamie
8 years ago
I have personally been abused. I have freinds who have been abused (my mate was stabbed in the head).
No, the system definately fails us. The support systems don’t take it seriously, the police often end up arresting the victim, people laugh about it, there’s no male shelter in the country where i live. Compared to the support women get, there are fast differences in how male victims of DV are treated.
If you’d experienced something like this, you’d understand that there are sexisms in place, in our society. Without experiencing, you’ll just have to take mine, and thousands of other mens, word on it (and the stats that show these things, and those exist too, that victims are often arrested, that female perps are very rarely arrested, and very rarely convicted)
Bad_dog
8 years ago
Jamie dude
Post one… Just a single source for any of the “points” you’ve made. Literally any. Pick one. And post an article, a paper, literally anything. You just spouted words and are getting yourself worked up in a tizzy because I don’t know… No one has even been able to disagree with you because you’ve been posting so much that no one else can.
Calm down and have a glass of milk or something.
Jamie
8 years ago
Someone started sounding semi-rational.
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
8 years ago
(As a side note, I think it’s hilarious that we’ve called all four of his socks Aris and he hasn’t even tried to deny it yet.)
Of course Jamie/James/Aris won’t back their shit up with sources, they want to feel intellectually superior without having to do any of the legwork.
Forget this guy. He’s not going to do squat except monologue like an old-timey Batman villain in a very sad attempt to make us feel bad for his fee-fees.
Speaking of Batman, re-watching Batman Beyond is way more interesting than any nonsense this drip’s spouting off. And the simultaneously outdated, yet futuristic teen lingo is super funny to me for some reason.
Jamie
8 years ago
Well you love your sources, as if you are not going to pick them apart to either criticize them, dismiss them, post counter studies or generally maintain your point of view no matter the evidence, but whatever I have five minutes to google (all the stuff I have mentioned is from credible studies btw, I just don’t annotate and store all my ‘references’ because my life isn’t purposed to arguing with stubborn people! As if people have the time for that!)
Anyway, here’s what five minutes of very random googling came up with. I wonder what half an hour of your own time could produce? Imagine if you were that open minded to evidence and ideas! (Sigh).
I mean there is LOADS more like this. Just tonnes. Those aren’t cream of the crop links, they are just a random smattering from google. There is a truckload more if anyone wants to look into this stuff.
Jamie
8 years ago
You guys, by and large, really are dicks. I mean, your dismissal of a persons perspective takes the form of really childish parody, like teenager internet 4chan sort of level, like insultingly poor, even when i directly point out how fixed and narrow, and unmoving your fundamentalist perspective is, you persist in the exact same sort of behaviours, living up to that exact way of behaving.
IDK, I just, I find it amazing you can’t see yourselves.
Policy of Madness
8 years ago
Jesus christ, this thread.
I’m going to guess, based on what I skimmed – including what Katz just quoted in which Jamie literally loled at the idea of a man wanting to improve the lives of other men with life-threatening illness – that Jamie at no point provided any kind of opinion as to what is the most pressing issue facing men, and what kind of action plan he had to address that problem.
Anyone care to correct me?
Jamie
8 years ago
That so dumb being sea lioned by a bunch of people who show zero sign of being amiable to outside opinions, or new information, ever. Like you just know the links are pointless, and will be resisted and attacked, like a seventh day adventist, like any fundamentalist position, but there is this constant call for science and evidence, as if you reasoned your way into this unreasonable closed minded position. As if anyone, ever is buying that story.
Jamie | March 29, 2016 at 8:12 pm
You guys, by and large, really are dicks.
Our men’s rights champion, everyone.
Jamie
8 years ago
Oh yeah, because you guys are just totally civil. You have every right to take exception to my treatment of you, because yours has just been impeccable.
Jesus christ, have you no self-awareness at all?
Fabe
8 years ago
Self awarenness? you claim to be a mens right activist yet you just called us ‘dicks’ think about that for a moment. that would be like if we called you a ‘pussy’
brooked
8 years ago
I am honestly not stupid enough, to sit here and debate science
I seemed to have missed the science portion of Jamie’s multi-post screed, but I bet he scienced the shit out of feminism.
Goddamn, do any of these guys not leg hump “science” when they shovel their bullshit? Poor science, we hardly knew ye.
Apparently you are all scholars now?
Hmm, I would not have got that impression.
Well you seem to think you’re some sort of intellectual
Do I make your blood boil, and you think we have a cruel and injust society that is ignorant?
If so, perhaps we do have something in common after all. That’s how you make me feel. Like everything is just crap.
Even though you are too cowardly to provide a source, I’m guessing you’re referring to research that uses the conflict tactics scale. That would be the one that rates pushing someone away in self defense and punching someone in the head so hard it knocks them unconscious the same. It’s very convenient if you want to “prove” women commit DV at the same rates. However, if you look at the rate of severe abuse, or homicide of partners, men are by far the bigger culprits.
That doesn’t mean male IPV victims shouldn’t be taken seriously. They should be. You won’t hear many feminists arguing that they shouldn’t get compassion or help. But you don’t need to diminish men’s violence against women to get that accomplished.
No you nitwit, he’s an man suffering from mental illness who is using his fame to speak about the issue. Which will possibly help destigmatize men admitting that they have depression (or other illnesses) and getting help. But you laugh about it because why? Because he’s gay? Because he’s a handsome actor?
I have a double major. Most of my research is personal though. Yes, I am an intellectual. I’ve spent months and years studying things I am curious about, and I know how to critique and examine a study.
So there’s not ‘seem to think’ about, I understand, and frequently read science. I was 95% in a logic test, which was the highest ever result, so I am pretty focused on reason. Although I understand most human beleif and action comes from emotion and experiences – humans are largely irrational creatures.
Aris, if I do my good wimminzly duty and make you a sammich, will you go away? I promise it won’t be full of Legos and cacti.
(I’m a terrible liar.)
No, I am talking about any DV research that works by questionaire of general populations rather than police reports. Anything that is statistically reliable here, shows numbers higher than feminists claims, numbers that are basically gender symmetrical.
I thought you were done arguing with us bigots?
I have personally been abused. I have freinds who have been abused (my mate was stabbed in the head).
No, the system definately fails us. The support systems don’t take it seriously, the police often end up arresting the victim, people laugh about it, there’s no male shelter in the country where i live. Compared to the support women get, there are fast differences in how male victims of DV are treated.
If you’d experienced something like this, you’d understand that there are sexisms in place, in our society. Without experiencing, you’ll just have to take mine, and thousands of other mens, word on it (and the stats that show these things, and those exist too, that victims are often arrested, that female perps are very rarely arrested, and very rarely convicted)
Jamie dude
Post one… Just a single source for any of the “points” you’ve made. Literally any. Pick one. And post an article, a paper, literally anything. You just spouted words and are getting yourself worked up in a tizzy because I don’t know… No one has even been able to disagree with you because you’ve been posting so much that no one else can.
Calm down and have a glass of milk or something.
Someone started sounding semi-rational.
(As a side note, I think it’s hilarious that we’ve called all four of his socks Aris and he hasn’t even tried to deny it yet.)
Jamie, jeez, chill dude.
We’re not having a contest to see who can act the most like the guy in this cartoon.
http://www.marriedtothesea.com/index.php?date=032112
In the time I took to craft a short post, he flounced and failed to stick to the flounce.
Nice.
I propose a troll challenge for Jamie. He can only post here if he backs up his claims with sources.
Or this guy
http://www.marriedtothesea.com/index.php?date=032212
Ladies and gentlemen, our men’s rights champion.
Of course Jamie/James/Aris won’t back their shit up with sources, they want to feel intellectually superior without having to do any of the legwork.
Forget this guy. He’s not going to do squat except monologue like an old-timey Batman villain in a very sad attempt to make us feel bad for his fee-fees.
Speaking of Batman, re-watching Batman Beyond is way more interesting than any nonsense this drip’s spouting off. And the simultaneously outdated, yet futuristic teen lingo is super funny to me for some reason.
Well you love your sources, as if you are not going to pick them apart to either criticize them, dismiss them, post counter studies or generally maintain your point of view no matter the evidence, but whatever I have five minutes to google (all the stuff I have mentioned is from credible studies btw, I just don’t annotate and store all my ‘references’ because my life isn’t purposed to arguing with stubborn people! As if people have the time for that!)
Anyway, here’s what five minutes of very random googling came up with. I wonder what half an hour of your own time could produce? Imagine if you were that open minded to evidence and ideas! (Sigh).
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3175099/
Men don’t have a good experience with DV services.
Male victims of IPV (according to a female focused violence group) roughly symmetrical:
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0749379702005147
This is about how the man is often arrested, when he, as the victim calls for help:
http://www.sascv.org/ijcjs/pdfs/carolettaijcjs2010vol5iss1.pdf
More on DV:
http://web.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm
This is in and around boys in schools:
http://collegestats.org/2012/08/9-signs-we-have-a-boy-crisis/
Uneven sentencing, judges favour women:
http://www.jstor.org/stable/10.1086/425597?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents
I mean there is LOADS more like this. Just tonnes. Those aren’t cream of the crop links, they are just a random smattering from google. There is a truckload more if anyone wants to look into this stuff.
You guys, by and large, really are dicks. I mean, your dismissal of a persons perspective takes the form of really childish parody, like teenager internet 4chan sort of level, like insultingly poor, even when i directly point out how fixed and narrow, and unmoving your fundamentalist perspective is, you persist in the exact same sort of behaviours, living up to that exact way of behaving.
IDK, I just, I find it amazing you can’t see yourselves.
Jesus christ, this thread.
I’m going to guess, based on what I skimmed – including what Katz just quoted in which Jamie literally loled at the idea of a man wanting to improve the lives of other men with life-threatening illness – that Jamie at no point provided any kind of opinion as to what is the most pressing issue facing men, and what kind of action plan he had to address that problem.
Anyone care to correct me?
That so dumb being sea lioned by a bunch of people who show zero sign of being amiable to outside opinions, or new information, ever. Like you just know the links are pointless, and will be resisted and attacked, like a seventh day adventist, like any fundamentalist position, but there is this constant call for science and evidence, as if you reasoned your way into this unreasonable closed minded position. As if anyone, ever is buying that story.
Our men’s rights champion, everyone.
Oh yeah, because you guys are just totally civil. You have every right to take exception to my treatment of you, because yours has just been impeccable.
Jesus christ, have you no self-awareness at all?
Self awarenness? you claim to be a mens right activist yet you just called us ‘dicks’ think about that for a moment. that would be like if we called you a ‘pussy’
I seemed to have missed the science portion of Jamie’s multi-post screed, but I bet he scienced the shit out of feminism.
Goddamn, do any of these guys not leg hump “science” when they shovel their bullshit? Poor science, we hardly knew ye.