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Richard Dawkins, Lindy West, and the Cartoon Video of Great Hatefulness

Is Richard Dawkins using his bully pulpit to bully feminists?
Is Richard Dawkins using his bully pulpit to bully feminists?

Almost three years ago, a feminist activist committed what many not-so-impartial observers apparently see as an unpardonable sin: she was less than polite to a small squad of Men’s Rights activists at a demonstration in Toronto. At least one of these gentlemen caught her outburst on video, and uploaded it to YouTube.

You know the rest: the video went viral, and the activist, a red-headed woman known as Chanty Binx (or “Big Red,” to the douchebag army), found herself suddenly transformed into “The Posterchild of Everything Wrong with Feminism,” as one of her haters put it. Her face has become ubiquitous in antifeminist memes, and she’s endured nearly three years of harassment.

Earlier this month, antifeminist YouTuber Sargon of Akkad — who makes his living pandering to some of the internet’s worst lady haters — posted an animated video by another antifeminist YouTuber in which an angry Islamist and an angry feminist sing a song explaining that they pretty much believe all the same things. (For some reason, this nonsensical theory is something that a lot of antifeminists have convinced themselves is true.)

The angry Islamist in the video is a familiar racist stereotype, complete with “funny” accent. [Correction: He’s evidently supposed to be a parody of this guy, known as Dawah Man, a legitimately terrible person you wouldn’t think atheists would have to strawman in order to criticize..]

The angry feminist, meanwhile, isn’t a generic figure; she’s an especially crude caricature of Binx, spouting nonsense that neither Binx nor any other feminist actually believes: the video ends with her encouraging the Islamist to rape her, because it’s not really rape if a Muslim does it, dontchaknow.

It’s a vicious, hateful little cartoon made worse by the fact that these words are being put in the mouth of a real woman who’s been the target of a vast harassment campaign for years.

Yesterday, Richard Dawkins, apparently seeing this horrendous video as a clever takedown of some brand of feminism that he must think actually exists, shared it with his 1.3 million Twitter followers:

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Dawkins, a well-respected scientist-turned-embarrassing-atheist-ideologue, has become notorious for his endless Twitter gaffes. But this is plainly worse than, say, his famously pathetic lament about airport security “dundridges” taking his jar of honey; his Tweet contributed to the demonization of a real woman who’s already the target of harassment and threats.

The awesome Lindy West pointed this out to him in a series of Tweets and linked to one of my posts cataloging some of the abuse Binx got after the video of her went viral.

In a series of eloquent and angry Tweets, she made clear to Dawkins how and why he was misusing his huge platform and contributing to an atmosphere of hate online. Dawkins, alternately indignant and defensive, ultimately took down the offending Tweet, but not before making other Tweets that were nearly as bad. Dawkins can’t even do the right thing without being a dick about it.

Let’s watch Lindy at work:

 

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest like literally what is wrong with you @RichardDawkins RETWEETS 47 LIKES 337 Lamentation Smythethank god it's overMargaret PlessAllison ElaineRachyAlice Pinegabs ❁GORILLA SUITNINA 5:19 PM - 26 Jan 2016 Reply Retweet Liked More Tweet text Reply to @thelindywest @RichardDawkins Who's in these photos? Lindy West ‏@thelindywest Jan 26 the complete ideological horror show aside, that is a caricature of an actual real woman and you are feeding her harassment @RichardDawkins

Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 7h7 hours ago @thelindywest I didn't know that. Who is the real woman? 1 retweet 5 likes Reply Retweet 1 Like 5 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago Here: https://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2013/04/15/canadian-feminist-activist-receives-death-threats-and-other-abuse-after-being-targeted-by-mens-rights-activists/ … @RichardDawkins View summary 16 retweets 55 likes Reply Retweet 16 Liked 55 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago It would serve you well to research the people & movements whose support you accept & whose propaganda you disseminate. @RichardDawkins

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago One might even argue that it's a basic responsibility concomitant with wielding such a large and powerful platform. @RichardDawkins 21 retweets 114 likes Reply Retweet 21 Liked 114 More View other replies Show more Zoë “Shitpost” Quinn ‏@UnburntWitch 7h7 hours ago @thelindywest @RichardDawkins oh good he's promoting a guy who built a career off of stalking and harassing me and my family 19 retweets 86 likes Reply Retweet 19 Like 86 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago Richard, this is not a thought experiment for us. It's not an ideological pissing match. @UnburntWitch @RichardDawkins

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago It is a constant, violent, unprovoked, psychologically damaging barrier to full engagement with the world. @UnburntWitch @RichardDawkins 21 retweets 83 likes Reply Retweet 21 Liked 83 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago You make yourself complicit in that system by validating and amplifying the voices of our harassers. @UnburntWitch @RichardDawkins 22 retweets 100 likes Reply Retweet 22 Liked 100 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago Please stop, or at least do so with full knowledge of the scope, history, and implications of your actions. @UnburntWitch @RichardDawkins

After what was apparently an unsatisfactory response from Dawkins — I couldn’t find his Tweet, if there was one — West repeated and expanded upon her basic points. [EDIT: The unsastisfactory respose, West tells me, was that Dawkins posted a link to one of the videos of Chanty Binx at the Toronto demonstration.]

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest If this is your response, please go on record, explicitly, that you believe women you dislike deserve rape & death threats. @RichardDawkins

Well, that got his attention:

Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 7h7 hours ago @thelindywest What the hell are you talking about. When have I ever said any such thing? 7 retweets 34 likes Reply Retweet 7 Like 34 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago Did you read the link that I sent? Posting this video implies an endorsement of her abuse (and will definitely amplify it). @RichardDawkins 9 retweets 71 likes Reply Retweet 9 Liked 71 More View other replies Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 7h7 hours ago @thelindywest No. What link? Somebody told me who she was. I was about to delete my original tweet. Then I looked up the Toronto vid . . .

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago I sent you a series of tweets. Feel free to read them in my TL. Here is the link again: https://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2013/04/15/canadian-feminist-activist-receives-death-threats-and-other-abuse-after-being-targeted-by-mens-rights-activists/ … @RichardDawkins View summary 16 retweets 67 likes Reply Retweet 16 Liked 67 More View other replies Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago Then you looked up the Toronto vid and...felt like that woman deserved what she got? That's exactlly what I'm talking about. @RichardDawkins 7 retweets 77 likes Reply Retweet 7 Liked 77 More View other replies Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 7h7 hours ago @thelindywest I think she deserves nothing more than ridicule. I would never shriek "Fuckface" at her. But I would laugh at her. Ridicule.

So there you have it: when informed that a tweet of his will almost certainly worsen the vicious harassment faced by a young woman whose only “crime” was being rude to a couple of MRAs in public, Richard Dawkins, a one-time winner of  the American Humanist Association’s Humanist of the Year Award, replies by saying that “she deserves nothing more than ridicule.”

West replied:

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest Please don't insult me by pretending you don't comprehend the gravity and scope of this conversation and your complicity. @RichardDawkins

Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago Great. Good job. If you leave those links up you are fomenting further abuse, and that's a choice you should own. @RichardDawkins

Dawkins then decided to suggest that perhaps Binx was, you know, crazy:

Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 7h7 hours ago @FulcrumAmber @thelindywest Perhaps mentally ill, to be charitable. Anyway it's disgraceful that she's apparently received violent threats. 1 retweet 8 likes Reply Retweet 1 Like 8 More Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago First of all, mentally ill people are fully capable of holding and expressing valid, well-considered, justified opinions. @RichardDawkins 48 retweets 214 likes Reply Retweet 48 Like 214 More Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago 2nd of all, you know nothing of this woman's mental state but her anger. Armchair diagnoses are presumptuous and insulting. @RichardDawkins 37 retweets 159 likes Reply Retweet 37 Like 159 More Lindy West ‏@thelindywest 7h7 hours ago And thirdly, it's exactly this spectrum of misogyny--dismissiveness to outright abuse--that feminists are angry about. @RichardDawkins

Dawkins ultimately agreed to take down his Tweet linking to the execrable video. But he offered no apology. And he went on to suggest that just maybe Binx had … threatened herself.

Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 7h7 hours ago Having learned that the woman in the joke song is a real person who has been disgracefully threatened with violence, I'm deleting my tweets. 65 retweets 436 likes Reply Retweet 65 Like 436 More Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 5h5 hours ago Maybe I'm naive. Can't believe anyone's as nasty as her. Nor that anyone would threaten her. Nor that anyone'd lie about being threatened.

User Actions Follow Richard DawkinsVerified account ‏@RichardDawkins Richard Dawkins Retweeted Boltzmann Is this really true? How depressing. But it would explain a lot. Richard Dawkins added, Boltzmann @NameIsBoltzmann @RichardDawkins People lie about being threatened all the time these days. Some have gotten caught threatening themselves.

We’ve seen this, er, argument before.

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Does Dawkins have any conception of just how much abuse women like Chanty Binx get? If she were sending herself all the threatening and harassing messages she gets, she wouldn’t have time to eat or sleep.

And I wonder if Dawkins thinks she drew the caricature of herself that was used in the video he retweeted.

Thoughtful as ever, Dawkins made sure to remind his 1.3 million followers that Binx still deserved all the mockery they could deliver. Just not the death threats please!

Richard Dawkins ‏@RichardDawkins 8h8 hours ago @YourSluttyGF Yes, she deserves abundant mockery, the more the merrier. But she doesn't deserve violent threats. Nobody does.Richard DawkinsVerified account ‏@RichardDawkins @cleanpulse @YourSluttyGF I don't feel the smallest bit guilty. She deserves mockery. But if there's a risk of inspiring violence, NO NO NO!And he begged his readers to think about the real victims here — those people, like him, who might have to curtail their mockery somewhat because their terrible, terrible fans might be inspired to hurt someone.

Richard DawkinsVerified account ‏@RichardDawkins PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't EVER threaten anyone with violence. We should be free to use comedy/ridicule without fear it may inspire violence

RIP, Richard Dawkins’ comedy career.

Is Dawkins actually unaware that by punching down at a woman who’s already been the target of a three year harassment campaign he almost certainly is contributing to the threats he claims to deplore? It’s hard for me to believe that he could be so naive. But the alternative explanation — that he knows full well that he’s encouraging the harassers — is even more disquieting.

One good thing has come out of this ugly episode today: The Northeast Conference on Science & Skepticism has un-invited Dawkins from its event this year. A post on the group’s website today explains:

The Northeast Conference on Science & Skepticism has withdrawn its invitation to Richard Dawkins to participate at NECSS 2016. We have taken this action in response to Dr. Dawkins’ approving re-tweet of a highly offensive video.

We believe strongly in freedom of speech and freedom to express unpopular, and even offensive, views. However, unnecessarily divisive, counterproductive, and even hateful speech runs contrary to our mission and the environment we wish to foster at NECSS. The sentiments expressed in the video do not represent the values of NECSS or its sponsoring organizations.

We will issue a full refund to any NECSS attendee who wishes to cancel their registration due to this announcement.

The NECSS Team

Good for them. The atheist movement needs to stand up to the haters and harassers in its midst, including those like Dawkins, who may not directly harass or threaten but who use their huge platforms to amplify and embolden this hatred and harassment.

It would be nice if Dawkins were to actually learn something — a little humanity, a little humility? — from this incident, but when it comes to the subject of feminism Dawkins seems incapable of taking in new information, much less learning anything from it.

EDITED TO ADD: And now, as if to prov what I just said in that previous paragraph, Dawkins is now second-guessing his decision to take down his tweet linking to the video, because GamerGaters are telling him that Chanty and I made up the evidence of the abuse she got.

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NOTE: Lindy West has a book coming out soon. Pre-order it below!

CORRECTION: I added  a bit noting that the Islamist in the cartoon video is supposed to be a parody of a real person.

EDIT: I added a line about Dawkins tweeting a link to a video of Chanty Binx at the Toronto demonstration.

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Chaltab
Chaltab
8 years ago

Lindy West has a much higher opinion of Dawkins’ reasoning skills than I do, but regardless, it’s pretty clear at this point that Dawkins is only a feminist insofar as it lets him feel superior to others. When feminists criticize him and his followers, they ‘deserve all the ridicule’.

I don’t think that’s really a good equivalency though. It’s not like atheism was invented to be smug and sexist.

No, but it definitely seems to be the motivation for a lot of deconversions among that crowd! And it explains why so many of them seem to think that feminists and Puritans are basically the same thing.

They claim to love free speech but can’t tolerate a critic pointing out sexism… >.> I don’t even know what they want…

I don’t think they even know how to articulate what they really want, but I think it boils down to this: game publishers continue to cater to me and my tastes, don’t acknowledge the changing demographics or listen to criticisms from their perspectives, etc, because as we all know, they’re fake gamers and I’m real.

ephemerides
ephemerides
8 years ago

Richard Dawkins calling somebody a vile human being: oh, the irony!

(Sorry if that’s been noted already, I may not make it through all five pages of comments tonight.)

(p.s. hi, sorta new, in that this is like my second comment ever but I have spent waaaaay too long reading the archives)

weirwoodtreehugger
8 years ago

For those who eschew the atheist label, I think what they mean more precisely is “I do not identify as a movement atheist”.

That’s probably true. I think a lot of the reason there are times when atheists feel attacked here is because people say “atheism” when they are talking about “movement atheism.”

It would be nice if people would actually tack the “movement” on if that’s what they’re talking about. It would probably greatly reduce the number of times we have to discuss the issue.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his, she/her pronouns)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his, she/her pronouns)
8 years ago

“UNTIL YOU ARE AN ATHEIST YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO TALL ABOUT ‘OPPRESSION’. SO STFU.”

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Please for the love of fucking Satan, let those fucking memes be just “post-racial/post-sexist irony” or some shit.

Paradoxical Intention
8 years ago

I know this has been dropped, but I still want to reply to something that was directed at me. Feel free to drop it, IN51P1D.

IN51P1D | January 28, 2016 at 6:04 pm

As opposed to those of us who are religious, who aren’t compatible with feminism because…?

By saying that atheism is compatible with feminism, I did not mean to apply that non-atheism was not compatible with feminism.

I appreciate the clarification, thank you.

Like what? All I’ve seen are people pointing out that atheism has a huge problem with sexism, and many of the faces of it are misogynists and/or openly anti-feminists.

It’s not a “generalization” if it’s the truth.

That’s a bit of a mixed message.

How so? People are pointing out that atheism has a problem with misogyny and that many of the people gaining fame (or infamy) in the atheist community are they themselves misogynists.

That’s not the same thing as saying “all atheists are misogynists and hate feminism”, it’s just saying that the most well-known people are.

Last I checked, there wasn’t any real indication of his religion or lack there of, beyond the fact that he’s at least ethnically Jewish.

I don’t want to get into a debate about that, but I think it’s fair to say that some proportion of our elected officials have to hide the fact that they don’t believe in god to keep their jobs. Sanders seems like a pretty secular guy. I’m not the first person to consider the possibility, if that means anything.

That doesn’t mean that he’s one, actually secular, or two, automatically atheist.

There are plenty of religious folk who are plenty secular, and any speculation on your part or other people’s part is just that, speculation.

Please stop #NotAllAtheists-ing all over the thread.

How am I supposed to react to that? I’m coming to you in the most honest way I know how: I see this happening. It hurts my feelings. “Shut up about that” is not a helpful response to me.

Your whole rant came off as “I’m so tired of people talking about how atheists are sexist! Atheism’s not sexist! I’m not sexist! Stop generalizing!”, so yeah, telling us to shut up about it isn’t helping either.

My response to that wasn’t meant to be “helpful” to you. It was a request for you to stop shouting down people who are talking about sexism.

I’m personally tired of having to field comments from men about how me talking about sexism is somehow making them a victim.

I’m tired of hearing cishet or other LGBT+ people telling me that me talking about homophobia/transphobia/ pan/bi/ace erasure is somehow making them uncomfortable because they’re “not like that”.

Rather than addressing what is the problem, they’d rather shout me, and others like me, down than deal with it, and your whole rant came across like this. “I’m not sexist! Why are you generalizing atheists?!”

So, forgive me for being a bit pointed about that. I don’t think it was your intention to come across like this, but, as I like to say, intention isn’t magical.

I can understand where you’re coming from. I’m white, and it sometimes hurts to hear people use the phrase “I hate white people”. I didn’t do anything, so why do they hate me? Then I realize they’re talking about the system I benefit from just for being white.

However, this isn’t the same thing. You’re taking a lot of other people’s comments as personal attacks or attacks on atheism in general, when all the commenters are doing is substituting a word (atheists/atheism) instead of saying “I hate specific atheists that are upholding sexist systematic injustices because they hate women or don’t think women are worth the same as they are”.

There’s a word for this, but I can’t recall what it is.

I also want to address one more thing:

IN51P1D | January 28, 2016 at 6:48 pm
If you don’t see how suggesting a correlation between atheism and sexism might be upsetting to an atheist, then yeah, we don’t have a lot to talk about.

I don’t see why we shouldn’t be able suggest a correlation between atheism and sexism, because that could start a dialogue on how to solve the problem, instead of just shutting up so we can spare your feelings.

It’s upsetting. I get it. No one wants to be “the bad guy”. We all want to think we’re doing right. You don’t want to think you’re sexist.

However, sexism isn’t going to be stopped until you take that first hard step and realize that, yeah, you could have a problem with sexism.

To bring up the example I previously used: I don’t want to be called racist, but I realized that I couldn’t help stop racism until I accepted that yeah, sometimes I can be racist without realizing it. Once I accept that, then I can take steps to be a better person and not be racist.

But, that doesn’t change the fact that the atheist community at large has a problem with sexism.

And that doesn’t change the fact that you are seemingly asking us to kindly shut up about it so you don’t feel bad.

Paradoxical Intention
8 years ago

ephemerides | January 28, 2016 at 8:35 pm
Richard Dawkins calling somebody a vile human being: oh, the irony!

(Sorry if that’s been noted already, I may not make it through all five pages of comments tonight.)

(p.s. hi, sorta new, in that this is like my second comment ever but I have spent waaaaay too long reading the archives)

Hello, and welcome! Have a Welcome Package!

LinkxZeldaFan
LinkxZeldaFan
8 years ago

Richard Dawkins kicked out from atheist convention for retweeting Sargon of Akkad. Never thought I’d see the day but I’m glad it happened.

@Chaltab “I don’t think they even know how to articulate what they really want, but I think it boils down to this: game publishers continue to cater to me and my tastes, don’t acknowledge the changing demographics or listen to criticisms from their perspectives, etc, because as we all know, they’re fake gamers and I’m real.”

Yeah, the real motives of Gamergate is that they want to continue jacking off to virtual women and not let any real girls play the games. They don’t want videogames to be catered to the mainstream.

Scildfreja
Scildfreja
8 years ago
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his, she/her pronouns)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his, she/her pronouns)
8 years ago

All humanists are atheists, but not all atheists are humanists.

From what I know about humanism, I probably would call myself that, but I don’t enough enough to commit to the label. (Although at this point, I’d probably call myself a humanist before atheist, even though it seems that no one knows what a humanist actual is with the whole, “why be feminist when you can be humanist?” shtick.)

mildlymagnificent
mildlymagnificent
8 years ago

Welcome Ephemerides.

Welcome back, Kirby! Good ta see ya.

Bina
Bina
8 years ago

Welcome, Ephemerides! Pull up a hard chair and light a scented candle, and misander with us.

Apropos Sargon…the internet asshole might want to take a closer look at his namesake. Looky what I found about his daughter:

Enheduanna is a woman in ancient history, whose role shows the diverse demands of women of all time. Her role as poet, priestess, and princess, fulfills the contribution of a woman to the social, cultural and written literary record, and the second shows her leadership in the temple and with the community, as well as in “divine marriage” with the gods, whereas the last, princess, defines her as representative of her father and the mediator of conflict resolution within a culture split by tradition and language differences. What remains is the disc in the museum, with her performing a libration ceremony, fulfilling the rituals of her society. The disc also provides us a portrait of a Near Eastern woman, in 2300 B.C. Enheduanna represented a strong and creative personality, an educated woman, and one who fulfilled diverse roles in a complex society, not unlike women’s aspirations today.

Yeah, I’d say THAT kind of puts a crimp in the mighty thunderings of you-know-who…

LinkxZeldaFan
LinkxZeldaFan
8 years ago

This is what happens when %98 of the top atheists are straight privileged white males. This is why diversity is needed so we can hear the other voices.
I don’t think this would’ve happened if the top skeptics were a 50/50 ratio of male and female, different races, and orientations etc. I think there’s a reason why it’s primarily only feminism that’s being attacked. It really sucks..

Marinerachel
Marinerachel
8 years ago

Holy shit, those “UNTIL YOU’RE AN ATHEIST” bits are delightful.

To be fair, there are LOTS of parts of North America I’m which you’ll be viewed with suspicion and general disapproval for being an atheist. I’m just not willing to take that and extrapolate it to, “I know exactly what it’s like to be a person of colour, forced to sit at the back of the bus! Or to be physically disabled, unable to navigate the streets of my own city safely because civic design doesn’t take my disability into account!” Atheists arent being murdered for being atheists in North America. No, they’re generally not viewed positively and that isn’t OK but it’s hardly the disastrous oppression some of these douchebros want to make it out to be. It’s bigotry and its marginalisation but let’s keep it in its right context. It doesn’t inconvenience us to an extent comparable to ethnicity or ability.

Still, its a pain in the ass and its got to stop.

katz
8 years ago

I think there’s a reason why it’s primarily only feminism that’s being attacked.

Well, feminism and Muslims.

Auntie Alias
Auntie Alias
8 years ago

Hi ephemerides!

Kirby, it’s always nice to see you.

IN51P1D
IN51P1D
8 years ago

I don’t see why we shouldn’t be able suggest a correlation between atheism and sexism, because that could start a dialogue on how to solve the problem, instead of just shutting up so we can spare your feelings.

First off, I think I’m having a hard time communicating my thoughts in this forum, so I’m going to put this out there: no matter what you think I’m saying, I promise you that I don’t mean to be insulting, and I don’t ever want to stifle conversation or drown anyone out, and I mean well. Please try to interpret me through that lens. I’m coming from a place of love, always.

To answer you: I don’t think that implying a correlation between atheism and sexism is any more appropriate than implying a correlation between Judaism and tight-fistedness, or Islam and violence. We have come to understand, I think, that those are offensive things to say, that they are not true, and that they don’t help bring people together. A prominent atheist (and also some YouTube-famous ones) said some disgusting things, and that’s upsetting to us all. What I’m hoping to convey is that, as an atheist, some of the things I’ve read here make me feel alienated and unwelcome. I want you to know that because I don’t think that’s what you were going for.

There’s another sentiment I want to address that I keep seeing: the idea that I shouldn’t be complaining about how this community treats atheists because other minority groups have it much worse in other communities. I think that’s…I’ll be delicate and say “misguided”.

I agree with the notion that, as members of a group, we have a responsibility to make sure that group is what we want it to be. (Richard Dawkins is not in my group. I don’t know the guy, and he’s not somebody I’d interact with. We’re both atheists…maybe we’re both Leos too, but that doesn’t mean much either.) As a group that chose each other, and especially as a group with a worthwhile political philosophy, who wants to spread that philosophy, I would like to see you all be more welcoming of outsiders. Don’t get defensive and bully people, and don’t allow people in your group to bully. I’m sorry, I’m going on and on, i gotta stop.

@Scildfreja thanks for the kind words, I really didn’t want to call you out specifically, and I wish I’d stuck to my guns on that.

LinkxZeldaFan
LinkxZeldaFan
8 years ago

@katz
I remember Dawkins tweeting that Islam needed a “feminist revolution” though… I don’t know why he tweeted that when right now he retweeted a video making fun of both of them. Weird.

Josh
Josh
8 years ago

@LinkxZeldaFan

Probably because he hates Muslims as much he hates women.

Snowberry
Snowberry
8 years ago

I think it’s mostly a matter of the most-privileged members of a minority group co-opting the needs and voices of the group as a whole. Racial minority groups have been known to throw the women in their group under the bus. First-wave feminists often threw any woman who wasn’t white, straight, and middle class under the bus. Second-wave feminists often threw black women, transwomen, and sex workers under the bus. LGBTQIA+ advocacy groups have been known to throw anyone who isn’t a middle-class L or G under the bus. So, given that, would it really be surprising if organized atheist groups would mostly be represented by their least marginalized members? And that some of those “representatives” would be entitled assholes who don’t consider any other axis of oppression to be meaningful or relevant?

katz
8 years ago

As a group that chose each other, and especially as a group with a worthwhile political philosophy, who wants to spread that philosophy, I would like to see you all be more welcoming of outsiders.

We need to find a way to monetize “people who don’t hang out here telling us how we should act.”

Chaltab
Chaltab
8 years ago

@LinkxZeldaFan

I remember Dawkins tweeting that Islam needed a “feminist revolution” though… I don’t know why he tweeted that when right now he retweeted a video making fun of both of them. Weird.

As I said earlier, Dawkins strikes me as someone for whom being a ‘feminist’ is only relevant if he’s using it to look down on someone else. He can point to the deplorable actions of fundamentalist Christians and Muslims against women and condemn them as problems caused by religion. But when you point out that misogyny is rampant among his own followers? He gets defensive and lashes out at feminists.

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
8 years ago

This thread might be pushing some sort of sealion density world record.

http://www.sealioncaves.com/images/slide-sea-lions.jpg

Yes, yes, the Almighty Dawkins is being crucified like the religious figure you worship him as. Sorry, dudebros, but feminists have a right to free speech as well. There is no sign that says “You must be this misogynistic to ride the First Amendment.” Deal with it.

(KIRBY! *glues Kirby to WHTM*)

Chiomara
Chiomara
8 years ago

@LinkxZelda

I remember Dawkins tweeting that Islam needed a “feminist revolution” though… I don’t know why he tweeted that when right now he retweeted a video making fun of both of them. Weird.

Oh, but this line of thinking is very common in this sphere, dear. If you look at Sargon, TAA and Tfart, this is what they think:” I am all for equality and even a feminist! But white western society is too evolved to need it, we are more than equal and what western feminists want is a gynocracy. No, REAL feminism should go only through the first wave, and only far, far away from me in those inferior brown societies. If western feminists really cared about equality they’d do their activism there. They don’t care about the rights of women as a whole, I do”

You only change the setting to middle east or india and suddenly they are SO concerned about rape culture and woman rights. Suddenly they identify as (REAL!!!!!) feminists or egalitarian. It’s even funny to watch.

My boyfriend is just like that. I know this speech way too much *sigh*

Paradoxical Intention
8 years ago

IN51P1D | January 28, 2016 at 9:29 pm

I don’t see why we shouldn’t be able suggest a correlation between atheism and sexism, because that could start a dialogue on how to solve the problem, instead of just shutting up so we can spare your feelings.

First off, I think I’m having a hard time communicating my thoughts in this forum, so I’m going to put this out there: no matter what you think I’m saying, I promise you that I don’t mean to be insulting, and I don’t ever want to stifle conversation or drown anyone out, and I mean well. Please try to interpret me through that lens. I’m coming from a place of love, always.

Believe me, I’m trying. I did say that I do believe that you’re not here to purposefully be an ass, but again, intention isn’t magical, and you keep repeating yourself, and I am getting quite frustrated.

To answer you: I don’t think that implying a correlation between atheism and sexism is any more appropriate than implying a correlation between Judaism and tight-fistedness, or Islam and violence.

Except the stereotypes about Judaism and Islam have been used to hurt and even murder Jewish people and Islamic people, and those stereotypes were made up by other people based on either the actions of a few or made up out of whole-sale bullshit.

No one is saying that Atheists deserve to die because some of those people are huge misogynists, and no one here is saying that all atheists are like that because Dawkins, Sargon, and Thunderf00t are.

Pointing out that Atheism has sexist people in it, and talking about what we can do to stop that has nothing in common with nasty stereotypes that other people made up about Jewish people and Islamic people that have been used to justify violence against them, and I think that it’s very crass and insensitive of you to try to insinuate that there is.

On top of that, anyone can be sexist, regardless of race or belief system. You can also choose to be an atheist, Jewish people and Islamic people cannot choose to be born Jewish or Islamic. They can choose to follow that religion, but they cannot choose their race.

We have come to understand, I think, that those are offensive things to say, that they are not true, and that they don’t help bring people together. A prominent atheist (and also some YouTube-famous ones) said some disgusting things, and that’s upsetting to us all. What I’m hoping to convey is that, as an atheist, some of the things I’ve read here make me feel alienated and unwelcome. I want you to know that because I don’t think that’s what you were going for.

Except the way you worded it came off as “you need to be inclusive to me, so shut up about talking about sexism because you’re hurting my feelings!”, which I pointed out is a silencing tactic.

This discussion isn’t about you or your personal feelings. It’s about an atheist man who happens to be sexist and how his attitudes affect the atheist community because he’s well-known there and has lots of fans. It’s not a personal attack on you, nor your beliefs.

So, asking us to not talk about it to spare you personally and then accuse us of “bullying” and being “unwelcoming” to you because we are continuing to talk about it is really fucking gross of you.

I know that can be hard to hear that the group you’re in is known for sexism on behalf of people you don’t agree with, but ignoring it and shouting down other people who point it out instead of standing up against it does nothing but silence the people that sexism hurts the most, and also drives people away from atheism because that just shows that there’s not enough people who are willing to call it out.

There’s another sentiment I want to address that I keep seeing: the idea that I shouldn’t be complaining about how this community treats atheists because other minority groups have it much worse in other communities. I think that’s…I’ll be delicate and say “misguided”.

Pointing out that atheism has a problem with sexism is not the same as being racist/sexist/ect, and I’m going to bite my tongue on anything else I have to say about that.

Don’t martyr yourself like this. It’s not a good look for you.

As a group that chose each other, and especially as a group with a worthwhile political philosophy, who wants to spread that philosophy, I would like to see you all be more welcoming of outsiders. Don’t get defensive and bully people, and don’t allow people in your group to bully.

No one here is “bullying” you. No one here is being a “bully” by pointing out that there is a problem with sexism in atheism, or pointing out that you’re not helping the problem by trying to talk down to us and tell us to be “more welcoming” to you by not talking about sexism to spare your feelings.

Again, we get “defensive” because we’ve heard this argument a thousand upon a thousand times. “I’m not like that! Why are you saying I’m like that?! Stop talking about this thing and how it affects you!”

I’m so sick of hearing this bullshit of “you should be complacent and smile and be nice to people or else they won’t listen to you!”, when it’s so painfully obvious that other people aren’t going to listen to me anyways! Hell, you’ve been repeating yourself over and over and over and not listening to a damn thing I’m saying.

So why not get mad if the outcome is going to be exactly the same every goddamned time?

At least if I get mad, then I’ll get the bonus of catharsis.

Chiomara
Chiomara
8 years ago

@WWTH
Is your hipster friend the blonde tattooed guy, hair parted at the side, with black square glasses and crossing his arms in a place that looks like a cafeteria?

If he is, do tell him a complete random person in the Internet has had a massive crush on his looks for years.

Or better, don’t, cause that’s creepy af. Still, it’s true.

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