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Men’s Rights Twitter Activist Dean Esmay fights “rape hysteria,” “snotty c**ts,” “c**ty t**ts”

Dean Esmay tries to decide whether to call someone a "hatemongering bigot" or a "bigoted hatemonger."
Dean Esmay tries to decide whether to call someone a “hatemongering bigot” or a “bigoted hatemonger.”

So it’s been a while since I checked in on the heroic Twitter activism of the legendary Men’s Rights Twitter Activist Dean Esmay, formerly the Number Two at A Voice for Men, currently either the “Online Activism Director” or the “online outreach director” for theĀ National Coalition For Men — the first according to him, the second according to the NCFM.

In any case, Mr. Esmay is actively outreaching on Twitter like it’s going out of style.

Let’s look at some recent examples of this outreachy activism, shall we?

Not that long after accepting his prestigious position — or positions — at NCFM, he offered these thoughts on the delicateĀ subject of Ā murdering judges.

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/657513425212428288

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/657515697942216704

Huh. What other topics, you may wonder, has Mr. Esmay been addressing recently? Well, how about the issue of women in science?

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/679301307002445825

As it turns out, Mr. Esmay has quite a few opinions about feminism and feminists.

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/657555407120891904

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/672751870432182272

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/647477856315031552

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/647476339142983681

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/672752550484013056

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/635284954893656064

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/675058933065732098

But he doesn’t only take on feminists. He has some most interesting thoughts on “feminsits” as well.

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/659268774911156224

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/652137454376370176

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/649229091103608833

Esmay boldly stands up against both “snotty cunts” and “cuntyĀ twats.”

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/663334105715617792

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/628955612102172676

And he seems to really hate one poor fellowĀ named “David Futrelle.”

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Huh. Turns out he’s actually got a lot more Tweets on the subject of this “Futrelle,” but it might be more appropriate to send them to a lawyer than for me to post them here.

So what issue has Esmay really worked up at the moment? The rapes inĀ Cologne.

I’m sorry, I meant to say the “rape hysteria” in Cologne.

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/685029810523996160

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/685168438835286016

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/686175333628948480

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/686170999621042176

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/687287387148296193

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/686182368521117696

Oh, but looking at his timeline today I see that Esmay has changed his mind. Sort of. What convinced him that there’s more than “hysteria” behind the reports? The sterling reporting of … Breitbart.

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/686638427672936448

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/687311625192214528

Now, we still don’t know exactly what happened in Cologne, and in the other cities in which similar attacks have been reported. And it’s certainly true that racists are actively spreading misinformation and disinformation about the assaults in an attempt to demonize Muslims in general and Muslim refugees in particular.

But it’s one thing to say, hey, don’t believe all of the obvious propaganda put forth by white nationalists and other racist assholes, and another to dismiss what Esmay called the “supposed mass rape attacks” as “classic rape hysteria and no more.”

Again, while there are still a lot of questions that remain unanswered about the attacks, it’s clear that there were multiple sexual assaults in Cologne on New Year’s. Standing up against racist lies is a good thing, Dean, but hysterically crying “rape hysteria” kind of makes you a rape apologist.

But, hey, for what it’s worth, Esmay calls a lot of things “hysteria.”

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/674956543859757056

It’s weird to find myself agreeing with Esmay about anything. No, I don’t agree that concerns about sexual harassment at work are “hysteria.” But I do think that, yes, it might be better if Mr. Esmay were to work someplace where no women would have to encounter him. Or men, for that matter.

I also found myself agreeing with halfĀ of what Esmay seems to be sayingĀ here. (The second half.)

https://twitter.com/deanesmay/status/684747720066764801

I think he means that no matter how often AVFM denies that they’ve said violent things, people don’t believe them. (Presumably because they are lying about this.)

But maybe he realizes that AVFM’s endless huffing and puffing about the evils of feminism has accomplished absolutely nothing good for men.

That would be … interesting, huh?

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Paradoxical Intention
8 years ago

There’s nothing that makes me feel more reassured that I am a worthwhile, good person than Dean Esmay saying I’m a disgusting human being.

http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/e6/df/24/e6df24ab94fb8a282eea97f4d5986890.jpg

Which is good, because I haven’t been feeling that good this week. Thanks Dean for making me feel so relieved I’ve made the right choices in my life!

SpleenyBadger
SpleenyBadger
8 years ago

His fans are no better than Klan members.

But Dean, I’m also no WORSE than a Klan member. That’s got to count for something, right? You gotta give me that.

Hugs, SpleenyC*ntyTw*tBadger

Cat Mara
Cat Mara
8 years ago

What a tedious little man. One could replace him with a 10-line Python script (generous). Hell, a pencil, some paper and a dice would do in a pinch. It might make a fun after-dinner game.

If his antics didn’t result in the ongoing harassment of women, one almost might feel pity for a human being who has allowed his world to shrink to this single grimy window through which he shakes his puny fist at the universe. Almost.

Paul Beaulieu
8 years ago

“His fans are no better than Klan members.”

And whose organization was flagged in a report by the Southern Poverty Law Center?

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
8 years ago

Is a “C**ty t**t” anything like a round circle?

magnesium
magnesium
8 years ago

I counted two “hate monger”s and one “bigot”. I hope everyone remembered to drink at each.

Don’t worry, Dean isn’t qualified to work in an office with women or men or to do anything of value for anyone anywhere, so I wouldn’t worry about it.

weirwoodtreehugger
8 years ago

Ah, the MRA father’s rights ouroboros.

Threaten to commit suicide or homicide in order to manipulate others into giving you your way —-> Family courts rightfully note this blatantly abusive behavior —-> Therefore, MRA loses his custody case —> In response, MRA threatens suicide or homicide in order to manipulate others

On and on it goes.

http://rlv.zcache.com/ouroboros_classic_round_sticker-r7647cd54a40f4a379986b589a3388959_v9waf_8byvr_324.jpg

I do have to thank Dean for making me think of an ouroboros though. There are some really cool pictures of them out there. I felt he only deserved the plain one.

weirwoodtreehugger
8 years ago

Snotty cunt? That’s not snot in my cunt, Dean. That’s zombifying goo. Thank you very much.

Kat
Kat
8 years ago

C**ty? You bet. I’ve got a vagina and I’m not afraid to use it.

Also in my possession:

Well-reasoned opinions.

Good manners (mostly).

A sense of perspective (unless I’m enraged).

A sense of humor.

An ability to see the other person’s point of view.

A new recipe for red beans and rice, inspired by dhag85’s recipe for Jamaican pigeon peas and rice. Thanks, dhag85, wherever you are after your plane landed. (The far north?)

I’m just going to go ahead and rub it in — Dean Esmay has none of the above. Yeah, I’ve got good manners but only “mostly.”

Kat
Kat
8 years ago

@Paul Beaulieu

ā€œHis fans are no better than Klan members.ā€

And whose organization was flagged in a report by the Southern Poverty Law Center?

Ha, ha, ha! (Wipes away tears of laughter.)

You make an excellent point.

Paradoxical Intention
8 years ago

Cat Mara | January 13, 2016 at 6:54 pm
What a tedious little man. One could replace him with a 10-line Python script (generous). Hell, a pencil, some paper and a dice would do in a pinch. It might make a fun after-dinner game.

I thought you meant a Monty Python script at first, and I was like “Well, he’s already a parody of himself…”

Lady Mondegreen
Lady Mondegreen
8 years ago

He thinks David is a cyberbully and hatemonger? Gosh, sounds like someone is equating taunting with violence.

Petrovna
Petrovna
8 years ago

An interesting development of events. I hear that feminists are in love with refugees and now I also see that in order to hate feminists, Dean will adore refugees (I am not saying refugees did anything in Germany, but many people believe they did), even though people of his kind tend to dislike them. Hierarchy of hate right there, with feminists as winners…

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
8 years ago

One could replace him with a 10-line Python script

Ext. Day.

First Python: Hiss
Second Python: Hiss
First Python: Hiss?
Second Python: Hiss!
First Python: Hiss Hiss (Beat) Hiss
Second Python: Hissssssssss
Third Python (VO): Hiss Hiss Hiss
First and Second Pythons: Hiss
Third Python enters
Third Python: *Rattle*
First and Second Pythons: HIIIIIIISSSSSS!!!!

(Sorry, but it’s been a long day at work, and I didn’t even get pancakes)

weirwoodtreehugger
8 years ago

Did women’s pack attacks make anyone else think of Arya and her direwolf Nymeria?comment image
http://images3.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20110625092019/gameofthrones/images/d/d3/Nymeria_bites_Joffrey.png

Joffrey is after all what would happen if someone actually gave an MRA absolute power.

Terrabeau
Terrabeau
8 years ago

Dean’s going to want to get himself checked; that kind of sudden turnabout is bound to give him bigotry whiplash.

Honestly, what “facts” did Breitbart throw out that made him choose racism over one of his beloved feminist conspiracy theories?

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
8 years ago

@ terrebeau

The original allegations were just from women, but now a man has said it happened.

kupo
kupo
8 years ago

@WWTH
Now I’m thinking of that ouroborus episode of Red Dwarf. <3

History Nerd
History Nerd
8 years ago

So Breitbart is reliable even though they probably didn’t do their own investigation of the Cologne attacks and likely got their info from a mainstream news or wire service?

I guess they must’ve sent Milo over and paid thousands of dollars to confirm the story. šŸ˜›

Bonelady
Bonelady
8 years ago

Is he 12? (And I’m probably insulting the maturity of 12 year olds everywhere.)

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
8 years ago

@ History Nerd

Ah, but how could they be sure that they’d sent the real Milo?

Paige Hamilton
8 years ago

I was thinking the same thing. Hysteria, hysteria, hysteri – oh, wait Breitbart, yep, assault.

WTF?

Cerulean (Miss A)
Cerulean (Miss A)
8 years ago

Good Gods, this man is just a seething little pile of bile and poison, ain’t he?

Also, WTF is with his fixation on putting ‘feminist’ and ‘whores’ together? He uses it so many times over all those tweets it becomes a bit bizarre.

Bina
8 years ago

OOooooo! Let’s play Deano vs. Deano:

They call us terrorists. No. We sounded the alarm. They’ll reap the whirlwind sown by their mocking & indifference.

vs.:

The #endviolenceagainstwomen people aren’t just fascist thugs and liars–they equate taunting with violence.

So, to recap: Taunting is violence when women do it to asswipes like Deano. But if asswipes like Deano do violence to women, it’s just “taunting”.

Makes sense.

kupo
kupo
8 years ago

@Cerulean (Miss A)

Woman who won’t have sex with them = wh*re

At least, that’s the closest “definition” I’ve been able to gather from their usage.

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