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Men’s Rights Activists Fight the Real Enemy: GQ Magazine, British Edition

MRA elder Paul Elam, totally reasonable guy
MRA elder Paul Elam, totally reasonable guy

In yet another stunning victory for their cause, Men’s Rights Activists have successfully infiltrated the comments of yet another article critical of them, leading possibly dozens of comment readers to mutter to themselves “Jesus Christ these guys again, honestly do they do anything else besides post this crap?”

This time, the target of the Men’s Rights raiders was an article on the website of GQ’s British Edition with the self-explanatory title “Men’s Rights Activists are cave dwelling idiots.”

Naturally, the comments from the MRA invaders tended to rather prove the author’s point, with regard to cave-dwelling idiocy.

There were accusations of gender treason:

Michel Famaey · Antwerp, Belgium Isn't GQ a men's magazine? No wonder your numbers are going down, traitors.

Bog-standard predictions of feminism’s impending demise:

James Chapman · Southern Business School Funny how these types of articles are surfacing more and more as the MRM is growing on A DAILY basis. Me thinks it is an attempt to ressurrect feminism as a movement, but unfortunately too many people are seeing through FEMINIST BIGOTRY. Regardless of what the dictionary definition of feminism is, its actions speak louder than words. It's a cult movement determined to acquire special privileges for women at the cost of their male counterparts. Feminism has overstepped its boundaries and it is slowly but surely dying.

Unique takes on women’s history:

Dennis Markham · Darien, Connecticut They were always female supremacists. At least the more successful ones. Every time feminism won a right for women, the consummate responsibilities didn't come for another 100 years. Women were able to keep their own income looooong before they were expected to be treated as financially responsible adults: to pay for their own upkeep, gambling debts, children, or even their own taxes. The "strong independent woman" was still entitled to the financial support of her husband like one of his children until about 1960. Look up Mark Wilkes.

Tampon jokes:

Zooper Duper Now I know why I never read gq magazine. Rupert can your next article be on how to and how often to change the male tampon?.

“Retard” used as an insult:

Balaji Narasimhan · Chief Executive Officer at Sahana and Daniya Narasimhan This article reads a lot like a spiteful four year old wrote it. I guess since your audience is feminist you have to write like a drooling retard to appeal to their simple brains.

Awkward turkey-related metaphors:

Jonathan Connett Disgusting that you try and position men as though they shouldn't have a voice. Equality is here, life will never be fair to everyone. You are like a Turkey voting for Christmas. Equality means all should be represented not blamed for everything as often happens today. You need to know when to stop sometimes and just get on with life.

And of course, Paul Elam:

Paul Elam · Founder and Publisher at A Voice for Men You idiots really think you are going to shut us up or even slow us down? Men have issues that are not being addressed. Publications like GQ would love to keep it that way. So you engage in a victim contest counting on the fact that your readers are so dumbed-down that they won't recognize the canard of that zero sum game. Magazine for men, my ass. Shame on the lot of you.

I should note that GQ seems to be moderating the comments fairly strictly; several I was intending to quote vanished before I grabbed a screenshot. I can only imagine what the rest of the moderated comments look like.

I should also note that Mr. Elam was so offended by the GQ article that he went and made a video about it.  

In it the angry Elam, occasionally sounding like one of the storytellers on Drunk History, denounces the article as “lickspittle journalism,” describes its author, Rupert Myers, as looking “kinda like Alfred E. Neuman with liver disease,” defends the infamous AVFM article in which he referred to Bill Cosby’s accusers as “a bunch of drug whoring star [expletive deleted]” and makes the preposterous charge that it is Myers who is the true misogynist for criticizing his Cosby article because this means that Myers thinks that, as Elam puts it,

talking honestly about the reality of drug whoring star [expletive deleted]s is hostile to all women.

You may have to run that through your head a few times until it makes any kind of sense, because it really doesn’t. 

Elam then declares Myers to be a “misogynist little [expletive deleted].

WINNING!

H/T — @idlediletante

 

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Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
8 years ago

@ SFHC & Newt

Yeah, over here ‘methinks’ tends to be used when someone wants to impart mild scepticism or amusement. It’s the verbal equivalent of a wry smile or a quizzically raised eyebrow. Presumably that reflects the “protest too much” legacy.

WeirwoodTreeHugger
WeirwoodTreeHugger
8 years ago

It never fails to amuse the shit out of me how manospherians think Anita Sarkeesian controls the feminist hivemind and we get all our thinking from her. Most of us didn’t even know who she was until a couple of years ago. I guess it’s projection. Again. They can’t think for themselves and get all their ideology from their websites so they assume we must all get our ideas from whoever the internet feminist boogeywoman of the moment is.

WeirwoodTreeHugger
WeirwoodTreeHugger
8 years ago

And to continue the freaky weather conversation from one of the other threads, it’s December fracking 23rd and it’s raining. In Minnesota! Not snowing. Raining. The fuck?

It’s nice to not have snow on the ground though.

Croi
Croi
8 years ago

Watched the Elam video. What a loathsome man. I find it interesting that he and others are going to town on attacking Myers’ writing style. Myers is a better writer than anyone on AVfM. Were they trying to distract from what he was actually saying?

Lisa C
Lisa C
8 years ago

And to continue the freaky weather conversation from one of the other threads, it’s December fracking 23rd and it’s raining. In Minnesota! Not snowing. Raining. The fuck?

It’s nice to not have snow on the ground though.

@WWTH-Same thing in my neck of the woods. So much for a picture book New England holiday 🙂

Delphi_ote
Delphi_ote
8 years ago

You’re like the Easter Bunny voting for Halloween candy on Labor Day!

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
8 years ago

Or the Apis Bull voting for Pharoe’s birthday?

Miss Andry
8 years ago

The only thing growing in the MRM is volume.

Emmy Rae
Emmy Rae
8 years ago

Just seconding EJ – Paul Elam’s appearance could never be as disgusting as his ideas. I’d hate to see us attack them in the way they attack us.

Emmy Rae
Emmy Rae
8 years ago

Also I am enjoying the “Random Posts” section on the side. The title America: Land of Soulless Hamster Wusses has really inspired me today.

Leda Atomica
Leda Atomica
8 years ago

Sorry to go completely off topic, but I just had to share my dog’s 8th consecutive Christmas bath. We celebrate here tomorrow and now he smells like almonds.

http://i172.photobucket.com/albums/w35/Gaian87/Dog_zpsm7sf3nuy.jpg?t=1450804384

Alan Robertshaw
Alan Robertshaw
8 years ago

@ Leda

Aww, that’s so cute.

Of course give him 10 minutes and no doubt he’ll be rolling in fox poo. That’s like doggy Chanel #5!

Leda Atomica
Leda Atomica
8 years ago

@ Alan

Thanks!

Eau de Toilette is strictly forbidden until Christmas day when he’s done meeting the family. I’ve told him poo-rolling results to shaving.

Haha, as if! Dog the overlord will decide when an where he will roll. -_-

Moocow
Moocow
8 years ago

@WWTH

I went home to visit my family in France, and it’s actually so warm that some strawberries are starting to ripen, in late December!

peaches
peaches
8 years ago

Aww, sweet dog. Mine just came in from the rain and I towel-dried her, which she actually enjoys.

I’m in Alabama, and it’s raining. Ugly rain is normal here this time of year. But, we also have warnings of possible tornadoes, which is NOT normal this time of year.

(One year my Midwest in-laws decided to go to Daulphin Island in AL. for bird-watching, and were careful to avoid hurricane season. But they forgot all about tornado season, and wound up having to take shelter in a church in Mississippi. They were traveling with two puppies too!)

msexceptiontotherule
msexceptiontotherule
8 years ago

If there’s something disgusting on the route on which I take my dog for walks, she zeros in and literally drags me towards whatever is luring her in with its repulsive smell and proceeds to pretend like she’s doing her normal circle, circle, reverse circle and pee ritual so she can roll around in whatever it is. Dead things, liquid-ish-stuff-with-chunks-from-containers-that-leaked-out-from-the-trash, poop from dogs and other animal species…curiously my dog did not give more than a cursory sniff to the used ladies shark week product that was randomly left in the bushes next to the trash dumpster (I’m seriously wondering if a neighbor or some lady wandering by just….”hey, here’s as good a place to leave this thing as any….” because the bin was right next to those bushes, even if it fell out of a trash bag couldn’t they manage to get it to the bin!?)

Dog hates bath. And teeth brushing. I keep explaining to her that if she didn’t roll in disgusting stinky stuff and didn’t eat gross things off the ground, she wouldn’t have to get a bath as much and I’d let her lick my face without first brushing her teefs. We’re at an impasse due to the language barrier, though it seems like she may have learned to read minds, at least when I’m thinking that it’s time to wash her stinky doggy self again, she needs to practice hiding in better places where her butt will fit with the rest of her. Wiggly dog butt and tail always gives her away. 😉

Leda Atomica
Leda Atomica
8 years ago

@Peaches

Another towel fan here! Brushing’s another gem.

@msexceptiontotherule

Dogs are sneaky! Mine pretends to poo or summat so he’ll have extra time to check out a spot if it needs rolling in or licking (male dogs eat EVERYTHING). I remember one nightmarish time he rolled in human poo. How do I know? Wild animals hardly ever use paper. Also, the smell. Oh Zeus the smell. Standing in the lift with him was the day my nose died.

Here in Southern Finland another Christmas with no snow. And so much rain. I’m not missing the ice though. I remember some -20 celcius or one year even -30 weather with slippery ice and after the third fall and a frost-bitten nose it stops being funny.

Virtually Out of Touch
Virtually Out of Touch
8 years ago

“Ha! Good on GQ UK. ”

Yep. They seem to be going hard in the paint with MRAs. Reggie Yates of the BBC series “Extreme” recently did a documentary featuring Roosh (he goes to his home where Roosh tries to back peddle on his ‘legalization of rape in her own home’ theory, and to his London ‘seminar’), MRAs, Manosphere, MGTOW, Milo, etc.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p039trtw

LankyYankee
LankyYankee
8 years ago

Just to add to the weather discussion, I’m on the Gold Coast, Australia, and it’s bloody raining here too! I think there’s a conspiracy…

But yes, middle of summer, supposed to be hot, sunny, and awesome, and instead it’s hot, cloudy, and wet. Less awesome. So much frizzy hair. I look like tropical Monica from Friends.

Cyberwulf
Cyberwulf
8 years ago

The sad thing is, there are issues that only or disproportionately affect men. And if Paul Elam was the least bit interested in those issues, he’d be promoting Movember and Decembeard. He’d be volunteering at a homeless shelter and organising his followers to do the same. He’d comb the Internet for online support groups for non-custodial fathers that aren’t infested with assholes talking about the b*tch who stole their money and kids, and then link to them on his site. But it’s easier to sit on his hole ranting about b*tches and manginas on the internet that his poor girlfriend pays for.

raysa
raysa
8 years ago

Nequam: yes, thanks! That’s it.

Leda atomica : adorable dog! Forgive me if I missed it, but did you mention his name? He looks like a Mr. Willoughby.

About dogs and poo: we had a foster dog a few years back that was half weiner dog and half beagle. He was adorable, when he barked, it sounded like an old man straining to poop. We called him Oscar meyer.

On the day of his adoption, I had bought him a new sweater and matching collar, with little fire hydrants on them. I was dealing with a second adoption, so I had my husband walk Oscar around to keep him busy.

He led my husband to a pile of cat poop, and proceeded to roll around in it. I guess my husband just stood there and watched. My husband brings him to me, I smelled him way before I saw him.

His new family showed up just as my husband was explaining how he had no idea what happened. The sweater and collar were ruined, but the family fell in love with him, stink and all. They still send me pictures every once in a while.

Paradoxical Intention
8 years ago

@raysa: True love means loving your dog even if they smell like poo. And they most likely will.

Styne
Styne
8 years ago

“But it’s easier to sit on his hole ranting about b*tches and manginas on the internet that his poor girlfriend pays for.”

Do you have any evidence of this? It’s nothing but a taunt designed to discredit Mr. Elam.

dhag85
dhag85
8 years ago

In just a few weeks I will be where this arrow is pointing to:

http://img8.rajce.idnes.cz/d0803/5/5117/5117157_349ebd6e6670d37c3739b722441cf63c/images/Kirkenes_map.jpg

Gotta remember to buy gloves. 🙂

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

I am suddenly very glad our dog is too dumb to dog. Sure, he barks at bricks, but at least the nastiest thing he eats is wet cat food (Cali leaves leftovers)

Oh, and it’s raining here too.