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Red Piller: Become an Alpha Sex God by Imitating a Cult Leader and Convicted Rapist

Aravindan Balakrishnan: Red Pill role model?
Aravindan Balakrishnan: Convicted serial rapist and abuser, Red Pill role model?

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Aravindan Balakrishnan was a Maoist cult leader who used psychological torture and sexual violence to keep a small group of women under his control for decades in a hellish “commune” in South London.

Earlier this month, he was convicted of multiple counts of rape and assorted other crimes — only a tiny fraction of the violence and abuse he presumably inflicted upon his female followers/captives since the late 1970s.

Over in the Red Pill subreddit, the regulars are looking at his sordid history of abuse for tips on how to become more like this “dark triad” master who had “a harem of 10 women … worshipping him as a god.”

It’s a central tenet of Red Pill thought that women swoon and “tingle’ when faced with men displaying so-called “dark triad” traits  — that is, narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Red Pillers who aren’t already “dark triad” men to begin with often try to emulate these not-so-nice guys.

Now they’re looking, at least semi-seriously, to the abusive monster known as Comrade Bala for dating tips.

As the Red Piller Redditor no_face sees it, Comrade Bala’s story makes clear that “dark triad” traits matter a lot more than looks — and even lifting — when it comes to the ladies.

Take a look at him. He is a short, bald, bespectacled 75 year old Indian guy. I’m not a physical fitness expert, but I’m wagering money that this dude does not lift. After you read this, you have lost the right to complain about your looks. He doesn’t even have a lot of money either.

How did he manage this? Oh, did he tap into that Indian mystical mumbo-jumbo? No! This guy gets laid by preaching … gasp …. communism! At redpill, we know that the validity of the actual stuff he preached does not matter in the slightest. Its all about his intense dark triad characteristics.

And these he apparently had in spades. No_face, evidently an aspiring Dark Traid-er himself, quotes extensively, and sort-of, kind-of approvingly, from a Daily Telegraph article  detailing Bala’s abuses. [You may wish to stop reading at this point; it only gets worse from here.]

Even the detailed and explicit description of Bala’s sexual abuse of his “followers” doesn’t seem to phase him. No_Face suggests that the rapes Bala has now been convicted of were probably just instances of “rough sex.”

And after quoting a passage in the Telegraph article noting that the victims of Bala’s sexual assaults “were ordered to swallow when he ejaculated as it was the ‘the elixir of life,'”no_face suggested that they probably wanted it.

I’m guessing the saying “woman gladly swallows for an alpha” has some bearing here. Think about this while you guys are emptying elixir into old socks.

So edgy, these Red Pillers.

No_face sums up the “Lessons Learned’ from Bala’s disgusting story:

Raw [Dark Triad] charisma can overcome almost any physical limitation.
Eventually your plates will crash, some even after 47 years.
You can literally be a god to women.
Your women can and will turn against you, even if you were their fucking god for most of their lifetime.

Apparently it’s news to Red Pillers that even the most demoralized and beaten-down abuse victims may come to see their abusers as something less than a godlike figures.

Some of the Red Pill regulars responded to the story with jokes.

“Hey fellas, I’m just saying – a little alcohol and dancing close to rhythmic music also works,” wrote one.

Of course, most of the jokes still managed to suggest a certain admiration for Comrade Bala’s “achievements.”

“Is it safe to say that Balla was a balla?” asked one. “Filthy dirty old man, I like him ☺” wrote another.

But others saw Bala’s story as just more evidence that men need to become ever more ruthless towards women. Eugenics2015 declared:

This is what i’ve been saying forever, men have the power to control womens minds if you do it right.

As troghin2 saw it,

That dude either is insane or a genius at human interaction.

For a few, the story was proof that Asian men, allegedly despised by all the hot babes of the world, can only succeed with women by becoming abusive assholes. As imsfncy2 wrote,

This article teaches that an indian guy must be dark triad to make up for his ethnic disadvantage unlike other white guys that can just rely on social status and beta game.

The game IS rigged for everyone, especially for asian guys, so only the dark triad guy of any race thrives.

At this point, the Red Pill subreddit is basically a school for abusers, with occasional jokes.

 

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Lagoon
Lagoon
8 years ago

He advised me to fill a barrel with gasoline, light it then dump my money into the barrel.

Funny, that’s exactly what I’d advise to anyone who thinks about buying the PUA books/lessons. It’s certainly a better way to use their money.

Latte Cat
Latte Cat
8 years ago

Absolutely disgusting attitude and response to the case, although it doesn’t surprise me at all. I saw this report on the news earlier this week (in the UK).
In a way, the MRA crowd are doing us all a favour. Showing the world what complete scum they are with no help from anybody else. The fact that people can view a situation like this as a chance to make “jokes,” use the criminal as an example and a role model, and even go as far as to praise him and say

Filthy dirty old man, I like him ☺

really says something about the people festering on these “men’s rights” and “red pill” websites.
Do they genuinely believe they are doing everyone a favour by existing? Or are they just bitter and lonely? Probably both, thinking about it.
Ugh.

sbel
sbel
8 years ago

comments are missing, no button to go back to earlier comments. adding a 51st comment to hopefully get them/it back so that I can read the previous 50.

edit: yup, that worked.

weirwoodtreehugger
8 years ago

Bala] warned [his victims] a supernatural force called Jackie would cause natural disasters if he was ever disobeyed.

Pandapool, is that you? Are you the force?

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TeeRee
TeeRee
8 years ago

I just, I can’t even, this is just so sick minded. How does someone even GET to a point where he can admire a twisted fuck like Bala? And how do they hide those views enough to successfully manage their daily lives? Surely some of them must maintain jobs and go out in public and interact with women in ways that will not get them arrested.

Bina
Bina
8 years ago

At redpill, we know that the validity of the actual stuff he preached does not matter in the slightest. Its all about his intense dark triad characteristics.

Aaaand that’s why the rest of the world thinks you’re fuckin’ idiots. Your inability to analyze for shit means you’re doomed to be Forever Alone.

Well, that and your tendency to idolize the worst in people.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
8 years ago

Bala] warned [his victims] a supernatural force called Jackie would cause natural disasters if he was ever disobeyed.

Pandapool, is that you? Are you the force?

http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/dsgstd-nrd.gif

Actually, there were some wires cross and that’s why Bala’s lawn sometimes ended up on fire and why he was constantly stepping into sinkholes.

Kat
Kat
8 years ago

The Red Pillers:

1. I have a penis and thus deserve power.
2. Unfortunately, I am a loser and have no power.
3. Lightbulb!
4. I will get women to fear me by talking shit. Now, that’s power!

Of course, this kind of power gets them nothing valuable: not positive life experience, not a job, not a relationship, not a home. Nothing. So they have to return again and again to conversations with fellow losers.

And sometimes one of them — a hitherto unrecognized deity among them! — rises up. Homicide and suicide ensue. He is eulogized and his fate (if the words of these losers can be believed) is aspired to.

Kat
Kat
8 years ago

@Pandapool
You’re a sly one. I’ll bet you’re responsible for his Never-Ending Bad Hair Day, too, aren’t you?

Well done!

c u n d gulag
c u n d gulag
8 years ago

ZOINKS!

I almost don’t want to believe these guys are for real.
But, at 57, I’ve seen too much, and know truth is often – if not always – stranger than fiction.

Ick!
Just… ick…

Robert
Robert
8 years ago

When I saw the “Jackie” reference, I thought of the Jacques Brel song.

Regarding the OP, this is even worse than I would have expected. They read about that evil man, and not only do they imagine him as a role model, but believe (or claim to believe) that non-horrible people would agree with them. Perhaps they do not interact with anyone like that?

Bina
Bina
8 years ago

I’m guessing the saying “woman gladly swallows for an alpha” has some bearing here. Think about this while you guys are emptying elixir into old socks.

Oh, I’m sure they do that already.

And I’m also sure they’re weeping and cursing as they do so.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
8 years ago

@Pandapool
You’re a sly one. I’ll bet you’re responsible for his Never-Ending Bad Hair Day, too, aren’t you?

Well done!

http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/rdj_thanks.gif

I try my best but phenomenal cosmic powers have their limits. It wasn’t enough to stop him from abusing people for so long but, you know, at least he looks like shit.

Bruno North
Bruno North
8 years ago

He looks like Immortan Joe

Kat
Kat
8 years ago

@Pandapool
I have a longish list of people I’d like you to annoy.

I wouldn’t ordinarily ask, but it is Christmas, the traditional season of giving.

I understand there’s a line ahead of me. No problem. I’ll just enjoy the sense of anticipation.

TeeRee
TeeRee
8 years ago

Or it could be Jackie Chan. I bet he could unleash all kinds of natural disasters if he wanted to…

newbie
newbie
8 years ago

Kat:

4. I will get women to fear me by talking shit. Now, that’s power!

Unfortunately, they don’t stop at talking shit.

These guys openly discuss how they abuse their wives, girlfriends, and random women who have the misfortune to get closer to them, and high-five each other for it. The abuse they perpetrate and brag about ranges from manipulation and “soft dread” to open violence, sexual and physical. Of course they don’t see anything wrong with it — to the contrary: it is a sign of their strong “frame” and other toxic nonsense.

TRP is a cult of abusive degenerates, so it is no surprise that they go gaga over uber-creeps like “Bala,” seeing them as “natural alphas” who put their sick ideas into practice without much effort.

newbie
newbie
8 years ago

I encourage y’all to read this article about “Bala’s” daughter, who was one of his victims:
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-34835374

By all accounts, she is a remarkable young woman (Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt comes to mind):

Fed up with being “a non-person”, in 2005 she plucked up the courage to flee the commune.

Ill-equipped to cope in the outside world, she went to a police station – where she was told to go back to the collective or risk being reported as a missing person.

It would be another eight years before she finally managed to escape for good – by that point seriously ill with diabetes – setting off the chain of events that would lead to her father’s arrest.

Now 32, she is no longer at the mercy of the man who for years she knew only as Comrade Bala, and the note she left him the day she left suggests a woman determined to make up for lost time:

“I may have no wealth, no property, but I do have my dignity and I will defend it with my life,” she wrote.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
8 years ago

@Kat

No worries, I got ’em, everyone on your list. You’ll see in the next 60-80 years. I mean, who do you think made that eagle that attacked Donald Trump sentient enough to understand basic politics?

http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/james-franco-wink.gif

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

Oh good, you can influence animals too! Can I request one (1) slightly less upset cat? Don’t need them best buddies, but getting our resident cat to not try to kill me 15+ min after seeing our newcomer through a baby gate, well, that’d be nice.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Jackie; currently using they/their, he/his pronouns)
8 years ago

@Argenti Aertheri

Yeah, no, sorry, cats are out of my jurisdiction. Out of everyone’s jurisdiction, I’m afraid. Not even Bast has a handle on them. They’re their own creatures.

Maybe try finding a blanket or something your new cat sleeps on and place it where your other cat(s) hang out so they get used to their smell. Maybe have them separated and give them some treats while they’re in sight of one another so they associate the other cat with something good? It may take a while but hopefully they’ll come around soon.

Shadow
Shadow
8 years ago

@newbie

Somewhat surprising that the perp would invoke a female “supernatural force” to threaten his victims.

That’s probably due to his Hindu background (as a Maoist he was probably an atheist but his name suggests a Hindu lineage)

Kat
Kat
8 years ago

@Pandapool
Thanks!

The next 80 years are gonna be great.

You’re the best!

Thanks David.
Thanks David.
8 years ago

Long time reader, first time commenter. Just sent a donation. It wasn’t much, but it’s the best I can do right now. Hate reading the things on your blog helped me identify abusive patterns in a previous relationship, and I am glad to say that I am now free and living my life on the outside. Just wanted to make a comment on this post specifically in case anyone who can relate to me three years ago is skimming through because they stumbled onto your blog somehow, and to remind you that even when the shitty folk of the internet get you down, you have saved at least one life. You’re doing good work. Thank you.