Bad news, ladies! Some dude who hates you thinks that you’re incapable of love!
In the Men’s Rights subreddit, a dude calling himself Cerehectus lays out his totally irrefutable argument against the women of the world. He’s a wee bit verbose, so I’ll put the best (i.e. worst) bits in bold.
A relationship in a woman’s mind is almost always an assessment of pros and cons. I don’t believe there is any real love within them. Rather, there is simply validation and security. If she gets bored, she can always trade up or cut loose and be supported. There’s no investment/risk in a woman’s prerogative. Therefor, she doesn’t have to mind her actions or develop a core being/principles.
Oh, you fickle, fickle women and your lack of a core being!
I’m not quite sure what a core being is, exactly, but I’m assuming that not having one is super duper bad.
But in the year 2015 in the United States of America, a relationship is no longer between a male and a female, but between a male and a female with her gynocentric legal and social system. The very system that takes away the power of men to be men; defining how they must behave and the consequences that befall them determined not by choices of their own, but of the female with whom they are in a relationship. The only way for men to protect themselves it to not be involved at all.
If you are going to go your own way, dude, I have several suggestions as to where you might go, and one of them starts with “Snake Island.” Well, it doesn’t really start with that, per se; Snake Island is the entire name.
Why wouldn’t a male want to go play video games, watch sports, and remove himself from a society that is openly hostile towards him? A society that believes he is not a creature unto himself, but a mule for the system itself and the women it favors?
I think it’s safe to say that most guys playing video games aren’t doing it because they think women have no souls. For example, I play Grand Theft Auto V because I like driving cars off of cliffs and not dying.
What are the redeeming qualities of women today?
They are not dependable. They’re not loyal. Very few have any domestic skills (my last girlfriend didn’t even know how to dice an onion, fold a pair of blue jeans, make a tea or how to use a can opener).
Huh. I’m pretty sure that every woman I’ve been involved with has been able to “make a tea” and use a can opener. Were you accidentally dating a blow-up doll?
They’re all on anti-depressants.
Hey, me too! Anti-depressants helped to rescue me from a life of crippling depression.
They’re aloof, narcissistic, and society is built from the ground up to worship them. They are not going to change and become quality people no matter how many liberal arts degrees they have until they learn about cause and effect and that their actions have consequences.
If the consequence of their actions is that guys like you stop pestering them for dates, I’m pretty sure there are very few women out there who would see this as a bad thing.
A female at this point is nothing more than a burden that can take everything if it chooses. In their effort to gain everything they’re going to lose everything.
And one day they will pay!!!! I will perfect my own race of people! A race of atomic supermen which will conquer the wor …
Sorry, I got carried away. It’s just odd that so many MRA and MGTOW speeches on the evils of women end up reminding me of Bela Lugosi’s famous rant in Bride of the Monster.
Given how often I am assured (by MRAs) that MRAs aren’t really the least bit misogynistic, you might expect that Cerehectus’s rant would have been downvoted all to hell. Nope! Last I checked it had nearly three dozen upvotes.
H/T — I think I found this via r/TheBluePill or r/againstmensrights, but I lost the link.
Why do I get the strangest feeling that he’s not talking about women here, but about himself…and just switching the nouns and pronouns and projecting it onto the other half of the human race? Oh, maybe because I’ve seen too many cases of shitty people just ASSuming everyone else is as shitty as they…
And why do I also get the feeling that he’s looking for “validation and security” from women, and he’s pissy because he’s not getting any? Hmmmm…
Snurk. Last time I looked, the US legal system was still plenty sexist. And not at all biased in favor of women, let alone “gynocentric”.
I can only conclude that he’s mad because he can’t trap a woman in a loveless marriage, secure in the knowledge that she will never get a divorce from him because legally, she can’t. Because liberalized divorce laws ARE what he’s really talking about here. And liberalized divorce laws mean that either spouse can initiate divorce action, on no more stringent grounds than incompatibility. One no longer has to prove that X was unfaithful, or that Y was an abuser, or that the marriage was never consummated, or whatever. One can simply say that one has “irreconcilable differences” with one’s spouse, and that will do. And many a woman has since availed herself of precisely those terms to get away from a shitty husband who thinks like this:
Wow, a putz who just wants to sit around putzing on his ass all day, instead of making himself productive and useful, or just acting reasonably personable. Such a creature unto himself! (And by creature, I mean slug.)
And ladies! Just look at what you’re not getting here:
I smell projection again. Why can’t he dice his own onions, fold his own jeans, make his own tea, and operate his own damn can opener, if those domestic skills are so damn important to him? Why does SHE have to do everything for this whiny-ass giant manbaby? Is housework really so haaaaaard for these poor delicate manflowers?
Well, with guys like this around, I can hardly say I blame them for being depressed. Reading his drivel is making me want to pop all kinds of pills right now!
Ahhhhh, smell that projection. And is that a faint whiff of veiled threat I smell, too? Why yes, it is!
Whatsamatter, little boy? Mommy make you mad by not picking up your crusty sweatsocks and washing them for you again? Gonna Go Your Own Way? Come on, get to the point already.
And if you’re gonna go, just leave. Don’t rant. Just GO. You won’t be missed.
Nice use of ‘it’ to reference human fucking beings, shitstain.
Bina, your comment may be the best. Comment. EVAR!!!!
Seriously.
…I can’t work electric can openers. I just fail, end up with an indent, and get a proper can opener. Not really relevant, but people who have issues with can openers unite!
And I did have to teach my first roommate how to make soup, cuz his mother had a strict no men in the kitchen policy, but I’m really doubting there’s some vast number of people who can neither do basic kitchen tasks, nor fold jeans. Unless we include imaginary people, in which case there are also stables of unicorns.
Folks like him are the last people I’d expect to know what love even is.
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!
@Weirwood – best cat photo ever!
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Yes I can totally feel the love coming from you and the ones who up voted your little mantrum rant /s
Hey, yeah, it’s good that heterosexual couples are no longer the only ones whose relationships are considered valid in the U.S.!
Oh. Never mind. (And does every “female” have her own individual “gynocentric legal and social system”? What’s up with that?)
Ugh, why blockquote mammoth? why?
Ok I figured it out.
Hey, I can sort of do all of those things! I feel a lot better about my domestic skills, which aren’t usually a point of pride since I can cook almost nothing and I terrorize clothes when I try to iron.
Is there some fancy way to fold jeans because I can’t see how it can be an insurmountable challenge for any able bodied person.
“A society that believes he is not a creature unto himself, but a mule for the system itself and the women it favors?”
So he’s blaming women for the disconnecting effects of our modern “cog in the machine” economic system* too?
(*Other things have also contributed, like technology, high individualism, etc.)
I have an ex-husband and an ex-cat. I’m way sadder about losing the cat, even though he lived to be a really really old dude of a cat (they told me he was too old to adopt from the shelter, at approx. three years old, and we were together for ten years after that) but then he died and I *still* regularly have the sads about it. My ex-husband moved out and it was *such a relief*! Despite my paying 2/3 of the bills and making all the meals, and all of the plans, and all of the dealing with the socializing, including *his* freaking mother who, hello, he should have had to deal with, he felt like he was doing all of the *work* in the relationship and was pissed off that I didn’t want to have sex every night after working eight hours and then coming home and making him dinner. Hi, dude? I’ve just done eleven hours of things I don’t want to do, and getting your boner off isn’t my next priority. You could try including me in the sex, but since mostly you want me to lie there and be a human female (dude loved him some porn) and I’m exhausted anyway, I don’t get excited for sex when I know there’s zero chance of my orgasm, and since no one’s interested in getting me excited, if I can’t convince you to try some lube, it’ll be painful too! Whoo freaking whoo! I’m just jumping at the chance to be married again…ever.
What’s the alternative here, out of curiosity? Stay with someone who bores you forever? So that everyone is equally unhappy? Is that actual loyalty, or is that just tolerance?
By comparison, do MRAs claim that all dudes stay, utterly loyal, no matter how bored they are?
Baby, don’t hurt me. Don’t hurt me no more. I don’t know why you’re not there. I give you my love, but you don’t care. So what is right? And what is wrong? Gimme a sign.
Guys who don’t like video games, watching sports, and who don’t believe that women are all inherently shitty people because we won’t bend over backwards to put up with some fucking asshole in our lives who thinks we should do all his housework and suck his dick all day with no expectation of assistance or exchange of sexual gratification?
Also, nice job conveniently forgetting that there are women who play video games and watch sports, and even sometimes to forget we live in a society full of assholes just like you! *waves* Hello!
Did she live in Canada, and we’ve just never met her?
Well, when they do it, that’s just their right granted to them by evopsych man-lojik. Men hunted the mammoths, and always wanted to date the HB10s, so if their current mate isn’t an HB10 anymore, or can’t keep them consistantly entertained with blowjobs and laughing at all their shitty jokes and bowing at their feet and catering to their every whim, then the male would just get an upgrade, because we feeeemales are all disposable and just interchangeable vaginas, after all!
But when we feeemales dump a man, it’s because we’re not capable of love, and we’re just out to go and find a beta to scam for all of eternity. [/sarcasm]
Is there a misogynist bingo? Because I’d want “men can’t be men” or “Punished for being men” or the like on every one of my cards. It’ll always come up! *sigh*
And yeah, the I’d bet money the folding jeans and making a tea bit was stuff she wouldn’t do for him…
Steampunked:
Didn’t you see the infographic a couple posts ago? Women already have the audacity to have standards and expectations regarding what men to date! Men can’t have that, they just go after the first woman they see. So obviously, once they’ve got one, they’re stuck with her forever. Or… until she trades up.
It’s biology! And evo-psych. And maybe physics. I don’t know, my lady brain can’t science right.
David, I was fascinated by the videos of you at home. Despite the fact that you have two cats, you do NOT lead a charmed life. Ask your kitties to sleep harder for you. But also consider how much worse off you would be without them. (Shudder.)
And if we’re going to brag about being klutzes, I was sent a PDF file today and couldn’t figure out how to open it. It just sat there, a blank. I clicked on everything. Then I decided to use Search to find the word “the” anywhere in the PDF. Ta-da! The text magically appeared. It turned out that the first page was blank. Maybe I should have tried scrolling down to the second page?
It’s not Adam + Eve, it’s Adam + Eve + judge + lawyer + lawyer + selfie stick + quarterly vagina bonuses. As God intended.
Baby, don’t hurt me. Don’t hurt me no more. I don’t know why you’re not there. I give you my love, but you don’t care. So what is right? And what is wrong? Gimme a sign.
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Be supported by who? It’s like all MGTOWs are getting their version of reality from bitter, 60-year-old men who got divorced in the ’80s and had to pay alimony in addition to child support because their marriages were arranged such that their wives didn’t work outside the home or worked early on to put their husbands through school to secure the financial future of their family, sacrificing their own education, career ambition, and earning potential.
I’m assuming his list of things his ex didn’t know how to do are things she did just fine, but not the way his mommy used to do it for him, so he threw tantrums over the onions being diced the wrong size and the jeans being folded Gap style instead of hanger-ready style while never dreaming of lifting a finger himself. Amazing that she’s now an ex and he’s on the Internet complaining that women don’t have enough “loyalty.”