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“I don’t believe there is any real love within them,” and other insights on women from a Men’s Rights Redditor

Women: Smug, soulless, incapable of making tea
Women: Smug, soulless, incapable of making tea

Bad news, ladies! Some dude who hates you thinks that you’re incapable of love!

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, a dude calling himself Cerehectus lays out his totally irrefutable argument against the women of the world. He’s a wee bit verbose, so I’ll put the best (i.e. worst) bits in bold.

A relationship in a woman’s mind is almost always an assessment of pros and cons. I don’t believe there is any real love within them. Rather, there is simply validation and security. If she gets bored, she can always trade up or cut loose and be supported. There’s no investment/risk in a woman’s prerogative. Therefor, she doesn’t have to mind her actions or develop a core being/principles.

Oh, you fickle, fickle women and your lack of a core being!

I’m not quite sure what a core being is, exactly, but I’m assuming that not having one is super duper bad.

But in the year 2015 in the United States of America, a relationship is no longer between a male and a female, but between a male and a female with her gynocentric legal and social system. The very system that takes away the power of men to be men; defining how they must behave and the consequences that befall them determined not by choices of their own, but of the female with whom they are in a relationship. The only way for men to protect themselves it to not be involved at all.

If you are going to go your own way, dude, I have several suggestions as to where you might go, and one of them starts with “Snake Island.” Well, it doesn’t really start with that, per se; Snake Island is the entire name.

Why wouldn’t a male want to go play video games, watch sports, and remove himself from a society that is openly hostile towards him? A society that believes he is not a creature unto himself, but a mule for the system itself and the women it favors?

I think it’s safe to say that most guys playing video games aren’t doing it because they think women have no souls. For example, I play Grand Theft Auto V because I like driving cars off of cliffs and not dying.

What are the redeeming qualities of women today?

They are not dependable. They’re not loyal. Very few have any domestic skills (my last girlfriend didn’t even know how to dice an onion, fold a pair of blue jeans, make a tea or how to use a can opener).

Huh. I’m pretty sure that every woman I’ve been involved with has been able to “make a tea” and use a can opener. Were you accidentally dating a blow-up doll?

They’re all on anti-depressants.

Hey, me too! Anti-depressants helped to rescue me from a life of crippling depression.

They’re aloof, narcissistic, and society is built from the ground up to worship them. They are not going to change and become quality people no matter how many liberal arts degrees they have until they learn about cause and effect and that their actions have consequences.

If the consequence of their actions is that guys like you stop pestering them for dates, I’m pretty sure there are very few women out there who would see this as a bad thing.

A female at this point is nothing more than a burden that can take everything if it chooses. In their effort to gain everything they’re going to lose everything.

And one day they will pay!!!! I will perfect my own race of people! A race of atomic supermen which will conquer the wor …

Sorry, I got carried away. It’s just odd that so many MRA and MGTOW speeches on the evils of women end up reminding me of Bela Lugosi’s famous rant in Bride of the Monster.

Given how often I am assured (by MRAs) that MRAs aren’t really the least bit misogynistic, you might expect that Cerehectus’s rant would have been downvoted all to hell. Nope! Last I checked it had nearly three dozen upvotes.

H/T — I think I found this via  r/TheBluePill or r/againstmensrights, but I lost the link.

 

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Earl
Earl
9 years ago

The very system that takes away the power of men to be men

Lemme fix that for you:

The very system that takes away the power of men to be assholes

violetvolume
violetvolume
9 years ago

I quite honestly feel that these people have only met and interacted with one or two women outside of their immediate family. It’s just ridiculous.

Judas Peckerwood
Judas Peckerwood
9 years ago

He certainly expends a lot of words and energy going on about people he claims to have no interest in. And that claim about his former girlfriend’s inability to make tea or use a can opener sure does sound legit.

katz
katz
9 years ago

my last girlfriend wouldn’t even make me food, fold my blue jeans, make me tea or open cans for me

FTFY

Tracy
9 years ago

didn’t even know how to dice an onion, fold a pair of blue jeans, make a tea or how to use a can opener

This sounds like the beginning to an infomercial for a really weird gadget.

Wordsp1nner
Wordsp1nner
9 years ago

The tea thing reminded me that I need to order more Runa. I can’t get it locally and am about to run out, which would seriously screw up my attempt to cut back on caffeinated soda.

So MRAs are good for one thing.

Tracy
9 years ago

Like… a SlapChopFoldBrewOpen.

Viscaria
Viscaria
9 years ago

I am incapable of loving someone who thinks I am soulless and have no principles. Bit of a chicken and egg thing, really.

autosoma
9 years ago

I loved the investment/risk bit, classic casenif gearing the words but not knowing the meaning. Risk on investment means an understanding that you may have reduced return on your capital outlay and that you are prepared to take the loss on that. I think hebwss really trying to say a hedged short with stop/loss, which means if the value decreases, you dispose when the value hits a certain point and you stop losing further. Go long while its falling and short on the rise, that’s what my grandad advised me.

No wonder the US markets are fucked if these schmucks don’t know anything about how it works.

Anyway I’ve always preferred my relationships to be tranched mezzanine sub-par volatile unguaranteed securities with calculated intangible value (yes it is a thing and you can buy/sell on Wall St/City)

lkeke35
lkeke35
9 years ago

I suspect that he tried to boss his last girlfriend around and she wasn’t havin’ none of that “do all my housework bs”.

Someone needs to inform him that a.) his girlfriend ain’t his Momma,
and b.) get his’ lazy ass of the couch and learn how to fold his own jeans, and make food.

I suspect that she was just pretending she didn’t know how to do anything, as a form of rebellion against him being an asshole.

autosoma
9 years ago

actually cerehetus mate (why do they always choose cod Latin sounding user names) the chopping onions bit and making you a cup of tea bit, wasn’t that she couldn’t she just didn’t want to waste time making you a meal that you’d moan about.

weirwoodtreehugger
9 years ago

Maybe he lives with a female cat and just assumed females of all species expected to be waited on hand and foot without doing any domestic chores in return?
http://www.ualr.edu/giellis/assets/images/queencatoria.jpg

raysa
raysa
9 years ago

I was born a white woman, and, not a bad looking one, at that.

So, this is my question. WHY HAS NO ONE EVER WORSHIPPED ME OR GIVEN ME FREE STUFF JUST FOR HAVING LADY PARTS?????
Where is this great system that let’s me use and abuse men???

Years ago, I was married for about 6 months to the devil (if any of you wondered where he was in 97). He was abusive. Things happened in that marriage that I have never spoken about. And, I couldn’t kick him out. The (gynocentric, man hatey law) said that anywhere I lived, he could come in and I couldn’t stop him unless I was legally divorced.

This culminated into him bringing his live in girlfriend into my house and stealing my stuff/money while I wasn’t home.

To be fair, I could do the same thing. But, he would have killed me for doing it. See the subtle difference there?

I wish I lived in a world where I was treated super special, just for being a human. But I live in this one, and anyone that thinks that everything is woman friendly either never leaves their house or is too ignorant to be breathing on their own.

SpleenyBaggage
SpleenyBaggage
9 years ago

@raysa

So sorry to hear you had to go through that. Sorry, and really angry on your behalf.

SamiT
SamiT
9 years ago

Cerehectus is probably right to not “believe there is any real love within them” – as far as Cerehectus goes, at least. Who would expend “real love” on someone who talks and thinks like that, after all?

throwaway
throwaway
9 years ago

There’s no investment/risk in a woman’s prerogative.

Right, like, domestic abuse is just a peach of a treat. Coupled with stalking, obsession, abuse, murder… No risk at all for choosing to be with the wrong person.

raysa
raysa
9 years ago

SpleenyBaggage and David:

Thanks for your sympathies. It was so long ago, and I learned to pick better and carefully the second time around.

It’s not even remotely emotionally upsetting to me, anymore, except for when I read something about how everything is swayed in favor of women. My personal experience proves otherwise. And these men spouting this bullshit have to know it, too.

Virtually Out of Touch
Virtually Out of Touch
9 years ago

What is love? Does anyone know for sure?

Eschen
Eschen
9 years ago

@throwaway

“Right, like, domestic abuse is just a peach of a treat. Coupled with stalking, obsession, abuse, murder… No risk at all for choosing to be with the wrong person.”

These people don’t even believe in the existence of domestic abuse unless the victim is male. They’re completely unmoored from reality.

gelar
gelar
9 years ago

I suspect that she was just pretending she didn’t know how to do anything, as a form of rebellion against him being an asshole.

Reminds me of some telemarketer who thought women CEOs did nothing all day, because anytime he called for them, their secretaries said they were “out of the office.”

calmdown
calmdown
9 years ago

I will make a rice af pipple! Ahahahaha!

RosaDeLava
RosaDeLava
9 years ago

In their effort to gain everything they’re going to lose everything.

Is that a subtle way of saying “You’ll end up old! With cats!”? Because I’d like to tell this guy that, at least to one woman in this world, a husband and kids seem like a nice surprise you might get in your journey, but getting old and having cats is a goal.

Mewens
Mewens
9 years ago

Normally, those informercial “I can’t basic things good!” mishaps make me laff, but that guy hanging up the phone and knocking over his cheesy poofs?

Like, when that (or something like it, at least) happens to me, there’s palatable rage. The world shouldn’t be that capricious, you know? I’m trying to say that third gif kinda got to me.

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