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Here’s my segment from The Majority Report yesterday

I talked to The Majority Report’s Matt Binder about Men’s Rightsers, PUAs, MGTOWs, and the rest, as well as about some of the attempts of white supremacists to recruit in the manosphere (and vice versa). Enjoy!

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Tessa
Tessa
9 years ago

Obsidan:

is it fundamentally wrong for a man to want to learn how to have sex with the women he actually finds sexually attractive? If your answer is “no” to that question, then what is the beef about? If your answer to this question is “yes”, what do you propose is the alternative – and why hasn’t such an alternative been available until now?

Well, it’s not that simple, there’s the initial problem than the premise of starting off with the idea that women are a monolithpuzzle to figure out and solve to sleep with, or a dispenser to put in the right behavior and it provides sex. That is dehumanizing and ignores the fact that women are individual people with their own wishes and desires. The second problem is the methods this way of thinking usually produces. These are typically lying, trickery, or intimidation in order to “get sex” from the women. Why bother treating them like a person when you can lie to, coerce, and intimidate them? As long as the end goal of sex is achieved.

Briefly, yes it is fundamentally wrong because it puts sex above the actual people involved, dehumanizing them, and thus encouraging dehumanizing methods to achieve the end goal.

Kat
Kat
9 years ago

@Argenti

Do you mean the Cathedral of Learning? (Right across from the Temple of Books?) I actually took a summer class at Pitt before I graduated high school, and it was in that magnificent building. Remember the Nationality Rooms? (Or were all the rooms Nationality Rooms?) And I’m now remembering that I took a grade school field trip to that building.

My summer class was a political science class taught by a guy named Steve Rosen, a hip-looking guy with curly hair, a mustache, and the kind of tight pants that seemed as though they should be worn by a rock star, not a professor. I was doing some research recently on espionage, and was stunned to come across his name. He became a top official at the American Israel Public Affairs Committee(!) and was later indicted for espionage(!!). Those charges were later dropped. I remain flabbergasted.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_J._Rosen

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
9 years ago

Has the dipshit been re-banned yet? Even Dar was more interesting than this git.

Argenti Aertheri
9 years ago

Things more interesting that Obsidian — an axolotl flicking her gills at me, the stunning lack of visible fish in the 55g (having a party in the far corner perhaps?), a tortoise that is now slightly cranky about having been bathed, how much my hand smarts from his claws, whether I want to try trimming them or just file them, that it’s two hours until Who, that my coffee needs more creamer, and at least a half dozen things related to tomorrow being aerials day.

Point here? None of us are obligated to answer your questions dude.

Tessa
Tessa
9 years ago

Hrmm… I shoulda gone back and read everything they said before responding.

Tracy
Tracy
9 years ago

@Tessa many of us here have been bored to tears by him before 🙂

@Argenti – how do you bathe a tortoise? I must know!

hippodameia8527
hippodameia8527
9 years ago

Are there tortoise pics?

Obsidian
Obsidian
9 years ago

Mumia Obsidian Ali Silences “The Laughing Witch”

#ObsidianRadio

Argenti Aertheri
9 years ago

Kat — the CL, yeah, most of the first two floors are Nationality Rooms, above that is mostly classrooms and offices, the top two floors (that the elevators go to) are nifty enough though, the honors college peeps decked them out. The basement’s basement connects to the steam tunnels, damned easy to get lost down there! Man do I miss the ‘burgh, you ever try Sree’s? Best $5 meal ever!

Obsidian
Obsidian
9 years ago

@Argenti:
“Point here? None of us are obligated to answer your questions dude.”

Of course not, but then we all know this, right? Let’s try and be grownups here, hmm? “Snark” and “Mocking” behavior is for children. Let’s have a real conversation on the issues, not the personalities, not the name calling, not any of the arid, abstract stuff that so many White folks on both sides of the Manosphere divide seem to devolve into, and discuss the actual issues that undergird the very existence of the Manosphere to begin with? I am using my own living personal testimony as a jumping off point here – a Black, inner city, working class, union card-carrying trades unionist.

What do you say?

hippodameia8527
hippodameia8527
9 years ago

Or chewing straw . . .

Stamp your widdle trolly feet a bit harder.

Kat
Kat
9 years ago

I Googled Sree’s and it was after my time. Too bad, because I love Indian food. I haven’t spent much time in the ‘burgh in years. It’s very different now than it was when I lived there. As you know, those steel mills up and moved away to Japan, leaving lots of people out of work. Unemployment rose to 22 percent. But unlike Detroit or Buffalo, the city has made a comeback, and it now focuses on computers. And the skies are much, much cleaner.

I would love to eat a $5 Indian meal!

Argenti Aertheri
9 years ago

I hope this Instagram embed thing doesn’t fail miserably.

A photo posted by Argenti Aertheri (@argentiaertheri) on Jan 25, 2015 at 10:07pm PST

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hippodameia8527
hippodameia8527
9 years ago

The link works fine – and thank you for the lovely photo!

Argenti Aertheri
9 years ago

Oh did that ever fail! Well, he gets bathed in a cheap plastic litter tray, mostly he’ll stick his legs and head in, and then I give his shell a quick splash, hand rub, splash, q-tip any icky spots and let him chill until he decides he’s done.

Argenti Aertheri
9 years ago

There are a couple more of him, and some of the other menagerie residents, on my Instagram if you’re curious.

weirwoodtreehugger
9 years ago

Oh my. He is the sealioningest sealion to ever sealion isn’t he?

Tessa
Tessa
9 years ago

Tracy:

@Tessa many of us here have been bored to tears by him before 🙂

I started from the bottom and saw that post first. It wasn’t till after I responded that I noticed that rather than posting one loooong post (with no paragraph breaks) saying the same things we usually see, he has the “novel” approach of breaking it up into several consecutive posts that amount to the same thing. I shoulda paid more attention.

brooked
brooked
9 years ago

My first question is this: is feminism an unallayed good? does it not have any downsides? is there no tradeoffs?

Guess what, David is a journalist who covers the manosphere, he’s not a feminist activist or theorist and doesn’t have to try to answer ridiculously broad questions about the very nature of all the things associated with feminism throughout history.

If your answer to this question is “yes”, what do you propose is the alternative – and why hasn’t such an alternative been available until now?

Again, David is a journalist and not a life couch for guys who want to get laid.

Futrelle is correct to say that the Manosphere is a reactionary movement of sorts. But we could say the exact same thing of feminism itself, or the civil rights movement, and so on.

We could say that, if we don’t even remotely knows what the word reactionary means.

Regarding the men’s rights movement: Futrelle says that they haven’t done anything, but he forgets the fact that feminism has been around for more than a century and according to many in their number women still aren’t equal. So, who really hasn’t accomplished anything here?

This particular argument is a dumpster fire. It’s genuinely painful.

http://amplifyyourvoice.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/snape-is-disappointed-1.gif

brooked
brooked
9 years ago

I meant to write that David isn’t a “life coach”, rather than “life couch” because the latter doesn’t make a lot sense.

Oh, well.

Kat
Kat
9 years ago

@brooked

Thanks, you did a good job answering those questions. And “life couch” is an interesting image. I think I need one.

brooked
brooked
9 years ago

@kat

There were so many, many questions in those blocks of text.

I get a kick out of how Obisidian frames this onslaught as a direct response to what David said in the interview and yet almost all of his questions have little or nothing to do with the specific words that actually came out of David’s mouth. He arguably only responds to what David said once, when he took issue with David saying Men’s Rights “Activists” do almost no real life activism, other than the one conference and whatever the hell CAFE does.

The rest is just TL;DR bad faith marathon of wordy failed gotcha questions.

If I may, let me set the stage.

Starting around 14:00 in the interview David makes a clear distinction between commercial PUA instructors who run pick-up seminars, like Mystery, and the few PUA guys he writes about, like Roosh and Heartiste. David explains that it’s “almost misleading to talk about [Roosh] as a pickup artist because he’s more generally reactionary and misogynist, most of the stuff he posts these days are ideological attacks on feminism and attacks on women and he’s been increasingly moving into the whole white supremacist realm as well.”

So to recap, David doesn’t write about commercial PUA gurus and their self-help seminar scams. Instead he writes about former PUA gurus who moved away from dating advice and have now ideologically merged with the alternative far right. By covering guys like Roosh and Heartiste for years, David’s able to see how they have slowly interjected their shitty red pill lingo and pseudo-theories into the more general shitty far right wing talking points. Matt and David discuss this further, specifically the loathsome “cuckservative” nonsense, elsewhere in the interview.

But Obsidian ignores all of that in his parade of questions and instead creates an imaginary David who is on some sort of passionate crusade against “game” and all PUAs.

Regarding pickup artists: again, the question has to be: is it a crime for a man to want to learn how to attract the women he wants, for purposes of wanting sex? If your answer is “no”, then what really, is your problem with game? If your argument is that game is inherently flawed, my question then becomes: what’s the alternative, and why hasn’t it been available until now? I think the pickup artists have forced a number of very powerful questions onto the table for the rest of us to examine.

Let’s start out with a favorite topic of his – pickup artists. I am not interested in discussing particular personalities. Rather, I have a question for all of you: is it fundamentally wrong for a man to want to learn how to have sex with the women he actually finds sexually attractive?

David, as far as I can tell, has never said that it’s “fundamentally wrong” or “a crime” for men to seek out or even pay for shitty dating advice. “If your argument is that game is inherently flawed”? David doesn’t make that argument in the interview or in any blog post I’ve read, so you aren’t “questioning his statements”, you’re making shit up.

David has criticized Roosh, Heartiste and other PUA public figures for their reactionary and misogynistic rants. He’s also criticized Julien Blanc for encouraging men to add physical assault to their pick-up tool box. Ask him about his actual words, rather then pretending he’s some sort of anti-PUA prohibitionist trying to rob lonely men of potential opportunities to have consensual sex with sexy ladies because feminism is mean like that.

This is got more in-depth then it probably needed to, but the pomposity that went along with these terrible questions grated on me.

But he then ruins what little relative credibility he has left when he refuses to engage, directly, those he talks smack about from the safety of stans like Matt Binder.

Unfortunately for the manosphere, David isn’t the one with a credibility problem.

Kat
Kat
9 years ago

Thanks, brooked. I haven’t had a chance to listen to the interview yet; I’m a little better informed now.

More questions to come:

Oxygen: an unalloyed good?

Freedom: an unalloyed good?

Love: an unalloyed good?

Or are these so-called goods actually crimes? Let’s discuss.

katz
katz
9 years ago

If your answer to this question is “yes”, what do you propose is the alternative – and why hasn’t such an alternative been available until now?

Are you a double hand amputee?

Argenti Aertheri
9 years ago

Hell Katz, flesh lights exist, and plenty of things are humpable — from the infamous pie to the more practical pillow.

I really do love the ones who think that it’s our job to invent something besides “game” before we can criticize game. That way lies absurdity.