Forget backhanded compliments and clever “negs.” The best way for Red Pill would-be pickup artists to seduce the ladies with words is to call them “losers.”
At least that’s the claim of one much-upvoted Red Pill Redditor who says he learned this devastating new seduction technique from Mean Girls. Yes, that Mean Girls, from which he learned that “women resonate with this feeling of never being loved or accepted.”
In a post that’s garnered more than 450 upvotes so far, REDPILLRECKONING urges his Red Pill brothers to take advantage of “a woman’s desperate need to be accepted” in order to get her into bed.
Every woman has a big red button for a psychological nuke called acceptance in her mind. Learn to revel in her psychotic desperation for approval at large and hone your cool indifference to societal norms for maximum tingles.
And there’s no better way to do this, he tells us, than by the strategic use of the word “loser.”
While calling women “ugly” makes you seem both bitter and unoriginal, pulling out the L-word “gets to the heart off matters without coming across like a complete fedora.” Indeed, the word “loser” is “probably one of the most important tools you will ever have in the battle for tingles.”
If you have the requisite confidence, REDPILLRECKONING informs us, you can “call [a woman] a loser in a bemused way and watch the tingles flow.”
Naturally, the Red Pill regulars are impressed with this analysis.
Someone calling himself notmyusualreddit writes
The reason calling a woman a loser works so well is because they can’t hamster it back. They know they are. A woman without a kid and a husband after 25 IS a loser deep down and they know it and theres nothing they can do. The proof is there.
When my old ex and I were breaking up, she was 26, living at home, having just killed our relationship of 2-3 years by getting way too close to her ex. Sure she had a good job and an MBA, but in reality she was a loser. She was a woman about to turn 27, with no real prospects for a quality man beyond her orbiters. She had to start over and wade through the guys that just want to fuck her and hope she can keep one.
What a sad position to be in at 27 instead of 21.
Because 27-year-olds are such decrepit hags.
Waynebradysworld agrees that abusive behavior is really the best way to score “poon.”
Treat a woman like dirt and she will stick to you like mud.
I’ve never really had to do this explicitly, as I prefer to simply keep them on their toes to prevent domination.
I have witnessed many other guys (who got more poon than me) do it all the time though. Its amazing and disturbing how effective it really is.
One fellow innocently remarks that he has actually found success not by insulting women but by — get this! — listening to them
Confessing that he doesn’t quite get how the “loser” thing “works with a nice normal girl,” he suggests that
I guess I just meet very different women from the ones ya’ll meet. Last night I seemed to impress a new woman pretty highly just by taking an interest in all of the things she does.
Naturally, he is downvoted below zero for this heresy.
Taking an interest in what a woman does! What’s next, taking her seriously as a human being? Respecting her opinions?
What a loser this guy is!
“A woman without a kid and a husband after 25 IS a loser deep down and they know it and theres nothing they can do. The proof is there.”
Please give me proof of this ‘proof’, good sir.
Because after all, all women’s benchmark of success is being tied to someone that could be a jackhole just for the sake of a piece of paper and popping out a kid. Ayup.
Now while I’m a fortyish old hag incapable of having a child despite being a cis hetero woman (hysterectomy), and I wish I’d done better in the job department than I have, somehow I don’t feel *too* loserish. Probably because motherhood was ‘no… just no’ in my mind to begin with, and I somehow managed to get married to a lovely guy who feels as I do. At 42, even. More importantly, I never encountered this turdblossom and that’s a win all by itself.
Also, the redpillocks seem to have mistaken “seething rage” as “tingles” in regards to negs, which only goes to prove the level of intellectual gyrations *they* go through to feel justified in being butttrilbys.
This really, REALLY, makes me appreciate my spouse…I wonder just how common this silly, Red Pill thinking really is?
Additionally, as a middle-aged person, I would NEVER want to be young again.
This reminds me of the that thread about using the nazi whatever number of words on tinder… Because any emotional reaction means she’s turned on. These guys must have the same kind of mindset.
@ReallyFriendly
‘quality’ man in redpillese: Vertebrate and might occasionally wash his ass.
But chicks better not go for that other guy who washes his ass more, because he’s totally beta, you guize.
@ Tessa
Combining all the MRA advice we’ve had just recently I get something like:
“Heil Honey
Now I wouldn’t normally date a member of the untermensche but I’m willing to make an exception and allow you to be my brood mare to pop out fine Aryan babies. That’s not a bad gig for a loser like you so let’s hunker in my bunker.
Oh, and you’re paying for dinner. But let me hand over the cash.”
Form an orderly queue ladies.
@roscoeTCat
I totally agree with you. Every time I come to this blog and see the asshattery these peeps get up to, I realize how lucky I am to have a boyfriend who treats me like… you know… a fellow human being. I am thankful that he knows I am, apart from anatomy, essentially the same as him.
Isn’t there that famous saying, treat others like you want to be treated? Perhaps that’s why MRAs get so much bs flung their way.
Today complaining about women waiting too long to settle down tomorrow complaining that married women are lazy gold diggers. It’s like red pillers and anyone with their mindset are just misognists complaining that women don’t actually need men to be happy and to do amazing things.
@Alan: Hunker in my bunker…that made me smile. Those clowns wouldn’t be nearly as witty as that.
@f1ver10: I hear you. I’ve been married for 23 years to someone who treats me like a fellow human…I married young, at 24.
ZOMG I am sooooo turned on by this, guys. Little fireworks are just flying out of my vag in anticipation of being degraded by one of these assholes *SOEXCITEDZOMG!!!*
@Buttercup Q. Skullpants:
She was a woman about to turn 27, with no real prospects for a quality man
She was breaking up with (the posting redditor), but perhaps Red pillers really don’t understand “addition by subtraction”. Seems her prospects were getting better pretty much by default!
@Alan
Close, but “Hunker in my bunker” is way too clever for these dimwits to ever come up with. =P
25?? That’s barely enough time to complete a Bachelors’ degree and find a semi-decent job. What the hell would she want a kid for at that age?
@Alan – I think you’ve pretty much nailed it, but it’s not nearly long-winded enough and you didn’t once address her as m’lady or mention your house Directly On The Beach. Only 4/5 vagina tingles were had.
And if THAT’s not “hamstering”, I don’t know what is.
(Also, I love how they believe that a woman’s thought processes are generated by tiny busy rodents, but that their own ideas, including idiotic ones like “hamstering”, are suuuuuuper-rational and the product of fully-human genius. Also, this seems germane.)
@ Altofronto
I am just about to move into a house overlooking the beach; and judging by the state of the cliffs it may well soon be more directly on the beach than I’d prefer (cheap though)
@firechild
You don’t need to care what these guys think–their standards are absurd. Sending you good wishes.
I kind of like how they keep talking about vaginal tingles as a sign of arousal, because it’s emblematic of how very little they understand about female anatomy, let alone psychology.
Making people feel good about themselves has always worked pretty well for me in terms of dating.
@ Carayak The wording makes no sense, but it sure does send ‘tingles’ down my spine. REDPILLRECKONING makes it pretty clear that women are a means to an ends for himself (and his loyal listeners). I’m pretty sure he doesn’t really care about females in any way other than their ‘utility’.
Dang their opinions and individualism! What annoying obstacles to poor oppressed males trying to ‘utilize’ nature’s bounty!
Wow they totally missed the message of Mean Girls. Somehow I think they stopped watching about halfway through.
Welcome aboard, Qubrick!
And yeah. They’re totally clueless about these things. They probably lament the fact that women are “wasting” their “prime” by marrying two years past their Best Before date, on average. (Probably blame it for all of society’s real and imagined degeneracies, too.)
And that’s not even counting those like me, who managed to make it into their forties without marrying or having kids, and are quite happy that way. Apparently I’m invisible to them, and that’s quite all right with me!
What baffles me is these guys cannot and do not relate to women as human beings.
What I often find funny and sad about PUA types is that sometimes, if you squint, you can actually see the good dating advice that’s been sent through a few funhouse mirrors made of misogyny and misery.
For example, it’s not uncommon for inexperienced people to be very intimidated by the type of people they are interested in dating. So it might be good advice to say, “they are just a regular person like yourself, not an infallible, perfect being waiting to laugh when you fail.” And then after a trip through the funhouse mirrors that becomes “call women losers and they will want to sex you up”.
I’m fairly certain none of these wretched bloviating gutterslugs have actually ever ENJOYED a relationship…they’re too caught up in “Frame”, making the datee feel bad so they wont “lose status”, checking out men around them to see if they’re with “higher value” ‘feeeeemales’, and patting themselves on the back. It sounds EXHAUSTING…but apparently not so exhausting that they ever ACTUALLY “go their own way”…pity.
@Alpine
The rest of us would be so much happier if they had.
@ Bananananana – ever wonder where they get all the energy? I spose rage and fear are efficient fuel sources :-p