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An Air Mattress, a Motorcycle, and a Flat-Screen TV: Living the dream, MGTOW-style

The good life?
The good life?

The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam celebrates the simple pleasures of

A Book of Verses underneath the Bough,
A Jug of Wine, a Loaf of Bread-and Thou

Reddit’s MGTOW contingent has a somewhat different notion of what constitutes the good life. It involves a motorcycle in one’s bedroom. 

Last week, one Man Going His Own Way proudly posted the photo above to the MGTOW subreddit, where it received more than 80 upvotes and pretty much universal acclaim.

“People always ask when I would leave this ‘narcissistic immature lifestyle’ behind and just man up and get married already,” he wrote. “Why would I want to wake up to anything other than this in my bedroom???”

Replacing the wine, bread, and poetry of Omar Khayyam’s little scene we have:

  • An air mattress
  • A motorcycle
  • A bigass flat-screen TV
  • A Playstation 4
  • Two video games

Replacing the tree, a Minecraft poster tacked to the wall.

Replacing “thou?” Whatever … that is on the bed, I guess.

You go, boy.

 

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mockingbird
mockingbird
9 years ago

@David – That’s a valid point.
You were viewing the post in context & were graced with the presence of its replies.

And that’s the thing about MGTOWs: They’d actually be a-OK in my book (as would WGTOWs, etc), but they don’t go their own way, not really.

They go sulk in the corner and fester and stink up the joint (the joint being “civil society”).

MGTOWs: If relationships aren’t for you, BY ALL MEANS go your own way – whether truly alone like Wolverine in the north or in a guy-filled collective, spaces and effort shared to minimize expenses and toil – just for fuck’s sake stop being bitter.
Go out and LIVE.
You’re hurting yourself and annoying everyone else with what you’re doing now.

Wren O'Maoldomhnaigh
Wren O'Maoldomhnaigh
9 years ago

Also, I swear I will come up with something more valuable than vehicle-nerd “Well, actually” posts, at some point, and I realize these are not important points that I’m making. But here we are, and I’m still typing…

mockingbird
mockingbird
9 years ago

@panda: Whew, there it is.
Buzzed right by it or thought maybe I had somehow managed to block someone at some point.

(Can you block people on WordPress? I don’t even know.)

Penny Psmith
Penny Psmith
9 years ago

Okay, this is aemi-off-topic and possibly contentious, but holy hell do I hate Harleys.

It’s that stupid noise they make. pak-pak-pak-pak-pak like a broken washing machine turned up to 11. So friggin’ loud. And what for? It can’t be unavoidable, I’m sure. There are quite powerful engines that run quietly – in fact, that’s one feature that some powerful engines boast about. Kinda feels like it’s just a status thing, a way for everyone within a few block radius to know that you’re riding a Harley Davidson. And as a person who has never been on a motorcycle, just suffered hearing them pak-pak-paking their way right outside the window of my boyfriend’s apartment, I find it incredibly annoying.

Penny Psmith
Penny Psmith
9 years ago

*semi-off-topic

mockingbird
mockingbird
9 years ago

Penny – I have some bad Harley jokes, but I don’t want to offend anyone.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
9 years ago
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
9 years ago

I like Harley but I wanna hear dem Harley jokes.

mockingbird
mockingbird
9 years ago

OK, one: What’s the difference between a Harley and a vacuum cleaner?

The position of the dirtbag.

http://i.imgur.com/oEhVvjZ.gif

I did specify that it was a bad joke.

Penny Psmith
Penny Psmith
9 years ago

Hah! Bad jokes are awesome.

I don’t want to offend people, too. I know there’s a whole Harley culture, and all. It’s just… the noise, the goddamn noise.

Paradoxical Intention
9 years ago

Yeah, I’m in the camp of “This guy isn’t poor he’s just showing off what he has in a very sorry attempt to try and get praise from his fellow migtoes all while trying to use his material gains to shame women into maybe paying him attention all while coming off as desperate and still somehow conceited and sniffing his own farts.”

And only two PS3 games? Pffft. I have more games for my PS2 and XBox. XD (What kind of games would he even play, besides Minecraft?)

Paradoxical Intention
9 years ago

WAIT I JUST REALIZED.

Those aren’t PS3 games on the shelf there! Most PS3 cases are clear!

THOSE ARE BLU RAY CASES. He’s got two BLU RAY MOVIES, not games!

mockingbird
mockingbird
9 years ago

@PI – I think they’re PS4 cases.

*goes back to polishing up stagnant resume and translating skills into corporate-speak for LinkedIn profile*

Had To Be Said
Had To Be Said
9 years ago

Miss Andry’s detective work has made the OP over there indefensible. That’s some rotten thinking. But the guy does also post about hitting “rock bottom” with depression and how “depression ate my ass alive.”

That’s no excuse for his public woman-hating, but bashing the guy for his lifestyle is a low blow no matter what he thinks. Everything in David’s post calls him out for enjoying the way he lives and clearly suggests that we should ridicule him for it. “You go, boy!” We’re apparently supposed to consider the guy a loser based on his stuff.

I don’t understand why a spartan lifestyle with two video games is somehow better than a spartan lifestyle with thrift store cat art on the walls. I prefer the latter myself (lots of thrift store art on my walls), but I don’t think it gives me the right to judge others for their lifestyle choices.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
9 years ago

@mockingbird

http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/old-lol.gif

@Paradoxical

He could have downloaded games.

Paradoxical Intention
9 years ago

mockingbird | July 13, 2015 at 3:34 pm
@PI – I think they’re PS4 cases.

Eh, they could be, upon further digging. Still, it’s an odd color.

Pandapool — The Species that Endangers YOU | July 13, 2015 at 3:37 pm
He could have downloaded games.

This is also true. Still, I fail to see why it’s such a big deal for him. (And I don’t think Minecraft’s on PS3 as far as I’m aware because Microsoft now owns it, so he must either play it on his computer, or he has an XBox off-camera.)

katz
katz
9 years ago

It’s that stupid noise they make. pak-pak-pak-pak-pak like a broken washing machine turned up to 11. So friggin’ loud. And what for? It can’t be unavoidable, I’m sure. There are quite powerful engines that run quietly – in fact, that’s one feature that some powerful engines boast about. Kinda feels like it’s just a status thing, a way for everyone within a few block radius to know that you’re riding a Harley Davidson.

Do you know that sound is actually copyrighted? They design their bikes to make that noise because it’s literally their trademark.

The other trademarked bike sound is, of course:

mockingbird
mockingbird
9 years ago

PI – Minecraft’s on PS3 and PS4. I can say that with certainty because my eldest two are playing it while I suck at staying on task / update my resume.

(I’m not picking, just…ugh, resume. And LinkedIn. LinkedIn’s the devil. It encapsulates quite a bit of what I hate about corporate work.)

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
9 years ago

Minecraft is def on PS. It came out before Microsoft buyout,

Flint
Flint
9 years ago

“Not once in my life has some stupid cunt been vurnerable. Women are all actresses. Some are better at hiding behind their nature than others. Sally may seem sweet and ideal of a NAWALT. Sally just isn’t showing you the predetermined winning hand she’s been dealt. In fact, she’ll deny knowledge of the hand in entirety.”

There’s also Jerry Sandusky, The Menendez brothers, Charles Manson, Scott Peterson, and every sociopath with a penis. Men are just as capable of being manipulative sons of bitches and yet women are somehow worse because reasons.

Honestly, the guy who made that comment sound every bit as irrational as the feminists they claim to despise. Switch the genders around and it could be something from an Andrea Dworkin lecture.

Penny Psmith
Penny Psmith
9 years ago

I didn’t know it was copyrighted! Wow, that’s interesting.

Odd anecdote – with the local messes over the last couple of summers here (Israel) which saw Hammas rockets reaching Tel Aviv, and therefore more warning sirens in those areas as well, there’s actually been an issue where people get triggered by motorcycle sounds (the regular kind, not the pak-pak-pak kind), because they sound so much like a siren. I have one friend who had that issue, and have heard of others.

pkayden
pkayden
9 years ago

To be fair, that photo looks kind of cozy. I’d really like to know which women are being hurt by men living thrifty, single lives. MGTOW is such a comical concept that every time I read about it, I smile.

Falconer
9 years ago

I thought it was a PS4?

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
9 years ago

@Flint

Just a small note, please don’t call them “Sociopaths” or “Sons of bitches” here. Those are ableist and sexist slurs. “Assholes” works perfectly well.

Paradoxical Intention
9 years ago

@Falconer: Upon further inspection: It does appear to be so. The photo was taken from far away though, so it was hard to tell.

SPEAKING OF VIDEO GAMES:

http://giant.gfycat.com/FondAccurateHartebeest.gif

Have a gif that sums up Arkham Knight pretty well.