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Man kills woman said to have reported him for sexual harassment; Red Pillers “find it hard to blame him.”

Friends and family remember Andrea Farrington, who was murdered on
Friends and family remember Andrea Farrington

On Friday, security guard Alexander Kozak was reportedly fired from his job at the Coral Ridge Mall in Iowa. According to news accounts, Kozak, a self-identified “born free, gun toting, Constitution loving American,” returned home, retrieved a handgun, then returned to the mall, where he shot and killed a young woman named Andrea Farrington, with whom he was reportedly obsessed.

A local radio station reported that Kozak was fired

due to complaints of sexual harassment of store employees. It’s believed he targeted the woman, who reportedly worked at the Iowa Children’s Museum, because her complaint was the last in a series and led to his firing.

Over on the Roosh V forum, an online hangout for “Red Pillers” and fans of the repugnant pickup artist and rape legalization proponent, some of the regulars are “finding it hard to blame” Kozak for the murder.

Despite knowing even less about the case than what I’ve posted above, one commenter, going by the name Ziltoid, concluded that Kozak had probably been guilty of nothing more serious than offending the victim’s delicate sensitivities.

Like rape, does the term sexual harassment prettymuch no longer have any real meaning?
IE it’s safe to assume there’s no chance this guy actually touched her or said anything overtly lewd?

As somebody who’s been job hunting for some time now picturing being fired, in this job market, over some twit finding you “creepy”… Sad to say I’m finding it hard to blame him.

While a number of commenters found Ziltoid’s justification of outright murder a bit creepy in themselves — one urged him to “[p]lease don’t ever leave your house” — others agreed that Kozak was guilty of nothing more than being unattractive to women.

Given the lack of details regarding the allegations, it is safe to assume he did not touch or proposition these women. Simply put, he was guilty of having no game and/or being creepy. … 

As far as I’m concerned, his being guilty of not giving these bitches the tingles is what caused him to get fired, and in turn, murder this chick.

Samseau, one of the more active commenters on Roosh’s site, concocted an elaborate hypothetical scenario in which “Alex [Kozak]’s only crime was being average.” As Samseau sees it, Kozak was probably fired for something as trivial as telling a mall customer she looked “beautiful.”

He bases this on a news report saying that Kozak, who took his wife’s last name when he married last fall, was raised by a single mother.

[A]fter examining the above facts here is the most likely conclusion:

He wasn’t being rude to anyone on his job. He wasn’t trying to be a pick-up artist on the job and shitting where he eats. His ‘prior-complaints leading up to his firing’ are almost certainly trumped-up charges. His crime? Being a beta male raised without a father and a domineering mother.

After he was fired for no good reason, as Samseau imagines it,

this poor man, who receives such injustice is immediately filled with burning rage; all of the issues of his childhood neglect well-up inside of him, and he stops thinking rationally.

“What the fuck is this. How am I supposed to keep my wife now? How can we have children if I have no income? What am I supposed to do now? I DID NOTHING WRONG!! THAT FUCKING BITCH! THAT STUPID WHORE! I KNOW WHO DID THIS. SHE THINKS I’M A SEXUAL HARASSER?”

Alex believes his life is over. He knows he won’t find another job; it took him nearly a year to find this one. He won’t find another girl; he’s already balding and his current wife is so beautiful to him it is impossible to imagine life without her. He already knows he’ll never find a girl as good as her to be his wife; he’ll never get to be the father he never had.

He goes home, crying. He finds his gun and loads it. And he rushes back to the mall with blood in his eyes.

Samseau admitted that, aside from the bit about Kozak’s father being absent in his life, he made all this up.

I cannot prove if the above is true, but based on my understanding of beta-male psychology raised by single-mothers, and feminist psychology, the above is probably very accurate. 

He added, a little surprisingly, that

I do not think this man was justified to murder. He must be imprisoned.

After this moment of lucidity, Samseau went on to add a “but” that rendered it moot.

But the amount of self-control it would have taken him not to snap was more than an average man could handle; indeed it would have required a Saint-like amount of virtue to not blow up after having his life completely destroyed.

Paraphrasing a line from a creepy short story by Roosh in which a young female journalist is stalked and killed by a man she “got fired,” Samseau declares that “Alex’s only crime was being average.”

Who knew that “being average” involved committing premeditated murder?

So far, it’s looking like Samseau’s imagined scenario doesn’t bear much resemblance to what actually happened.  A cousin of Farrington told a reporter that the murdered woman had confided in her about Kozek’s alleged stalkerish behavior,

saying several times that he had engaged in disturbing behavior toward her for at least the past six weeks. …

Kozak would stare at her while she was working, leave notes on her car and “just be scary and weird.”

“She was scared that he knew so much about her,” Dayton said.

While no one else on the Roosh V forum comes quite as close to outright endorsing the murder as Ziltoid and Samseau, others make the familiar argument — which I discussed in more detail in my post yesterday about would-be cop killer James Boulware –that outbursts of this sort of male rage are a sign, not of the often toxic versions of masculinity that our society still promotes, but of too much feminism.

Red_Pillage returned with this, er, analysis:

Society is churning out weak men with no masculine guidance by the truckload. Add to that the social ramifications of unrestrained and optimized hypergamy, what you get is men with nowhere to turn. That masculine energy will express itself in destructive ways if it is not channeled properly.

There’s gonna be a lot more Elliot Rodger’s coming down the pike. Now in this case the guy apparently wasn’t an incel, but I would be willing to bet that his murderous rage came from (at least in part) sexual frustration coupled with losing his job.

In Rooshland, of course, sexual frustration is ultimately the fault of women for not giving men the sex they “need.”

Suits, meanwhile, wondered

how often are we going [to] be seeing this happen in a society that criminalizes normal male behaviour?

I suppose it’s not surprising that fans of Roosh — who seriously argued several months ago that legalizing rape (on private property) would end rape — would think that the only way to protect women from creepy harassers would be to stop enforcing the rules, and the laws, against harassment, so as not to piss the harassers off.

That’s a bit like arguing we should abolish laws against murders because murderers sometimes threaten or kill witnesses to their crimes.

Sexual harassment may be disturbingly common, and once upon a time it was indeed considered more or less “normal male behavior.” (Look at any old magazine from the 1950s or 1960s to see endless variations on the comedic trope of the middle-aged businessman chasing his buxom young secretary around his desk.) But that doesn’t make it right.

The fact that laws against harassment make some men very, very angry isn’t proof that these laws are bad. It’s proof that some men still think they have a right to use predatory strategies in their pursuit of “bangs.” And that’s why we have these laws to begin with.

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Krib
Krib
9 years ago

@sn0rkmaiden
I would rather not hear his “argument”, if I wanted to hear RedPill/MRA garbage I would be elsewhere on the internet.

AnAndrejaPejicBlog (@Lindsay_Irene)

If a woman turns a man down and he kills her, it’s his fault for not giving him a chance. If she dates him, then breaks up with him and he kills her, it’s her fault because she should have somehow known that he was abusive before she dated him. If she stays with him and he kills her, it’s her fault because she should have left him.

weirwoodtreehugger
9 years ago

David,
So, he was afraid of honestly debating us on his own and figured he’d better get some troll buddies to brigade us. Figures.

What does tried to post a link mean? Is there a way for you to stop somebody from linking to here?

Lea
Lea
9 years ago

Karen,
I’m sorry that happened. I hope you find a new and better job soon.

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
9 years ago

@WWTH

I noticed a few of trolly’s posts didn’t show up until hours after their timestamps; I’m assuming he was already on moderation and that’s what David meant. (This is probably also what trolly meant by “Censorship,” because he is stupid.)

Orion
Orion
9 years ago

Tried to post a comment here, linking to his blog.

Spindrift
Spindrift
9 years ago

Karen,
Hope you’re alright. Wishing you good luck if you’re searching for a new job.

Lea
Lea
9 years ago

Orion,
He has a blog? I can only imagine.

weirwoodtreehugger
9 years ago

I hovered over his name and it was a link to YouTube. I didn’t click it, so I don’t know what video/channel it is.

epitome of incomprehensibility

MRA folks still don’t get that “You need to be nice to us Nice Guys because we’re so nice and we deserve respect… or else we’ll murder you” is a tad self-contradictory, even when it’s AN ACTUAL MURDER they’re talking about.

maistrechat
9 years ago

I grew up in Iowa and used to shop at that mall. This hits a little too close to home.

Yuck.

EJ (The Other One)
EJ (The Other One)
9 years ago

Best of wishes, Karen. Hope it goes well.

tedthefed
tedthefed
9 years ago

“he’s already balding”

I can’t get over that, for some reason.

Lea
Lea
9 years ago

AnAndrejaPejicBlog (@Lindsay_Irene),
Exactly. Heads they kill. Tails we die.

idledillettante
9 years ago

Kozak’s Facebook is pretty weird too. His photo just screams “m’lady”:

Interests: Chloroform, “blunt force objects”.
Books: The Anarchist’s Cookbook (really)
Activities: Practicing with swords, video games, “shopping mall”.

His banner is a rippling American flag with “of bullets and bibles” superimposed in a curly script.

What a nice guy!!!!

idledillettante
9 years ago

http://imgur.com/y48RfYJ

Link to the image. The lady in the pic is his wife… I feel pretty badly for her. Not only was your tiny husband hitting on other women who didn’t want it, he freakin’ shot one of them and murdered her. That wouldn’t make me feel very special if my BF did that.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
9 years ago

@idledillettante

Please don’t bring people’s sizes into this.

And they look happy – well, he does at least. :/ I feel so sorry for her. At least she has a Shepard dress.

Paradoxical Intention
9 years ago

And, as usual, if a man does something wrong, it has to be a woman’s fault. Because MRA Brand DudeLojik™.

A man murders a woman because several people said he was acting creepy and stalking her, including the woman herself, he loses his job over it, he murders her, and somehow she “deserves” it? What the actual fucking fuck?

Here’s a thought, if you want to keep your fucking job, be a goddamned professional and don’t harass your fucking coworkers you fucking shitlord.

Too bad David banned Adversary. I kind of wanted to see how his “debate” idea would go. Because a woman’s right to not be murdered for some kind of perceived slight is totes okay to debate upon, amirite?

http://i1092.photobucket.com/albums/i406/audreyii_fic/animated%20gifs/god%20you%20are%20dumb/tumblr_m11z9alxrk1qcnzaso1_500.gif

As for this topic: I’m just gonna leave before I start setting things on fire through my sheer fucking rage alone.

http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/638/239/3bd.gif

spacelawn
9 years ago

“Add to that the social ramifications of unrestrained and optimized hypergamy”

What the hell does this even mean?!

Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
9 years ago

The more I read about this guy, the more I think it’s going to turn out that he literally is an MRA. Too many similarities between his beliefs/behaviour and theirs; cheating without even trying to hide it, “Interests: Chloroform,” this is beyond mainstream toxic masculinity and into full-on Rooshery. (He’s even dressed like he fell out of a Nice Guy™ meme and landed in Aurini’s wardrobe. =P)

idledillettante
9 years ago

@Pandapool – you’re right, that wasn’t cool. I should have made fun of the location in which the photograph was taken, not Kozak’s stature. I would be disappointed to put on my good heels only to get taken out on a Romantic Date to the dilapidated cabin.

Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
Pandapool -- The Species that Endangers YOU (aka Banana Jackie Cake, for those who still want to call me "Banana", "Jackie" or whatever)
9 years ago

@idledillettante

She’s also wearing really high heels. It looks like they’re actually around the same size.

Karen
Karen
9 years ago
Reply to  Lea

Thank you. I plan to take a little time for myself and decide where I want to go from here.

sunnysombrera
sunnysombrera
9 years ago

@spacelawn
It means “waaah women are only interested in marrying rich and/or handsome men! I know this because there can be absolutely no reason why ladies are turning me down except for superficial things that are out of my control, like money and looks. I’ve read other men say similar things online therefore this must be a serious social issue. Hypergamy! Women are shallow! WAAAHHH FEMALES WON’T SEX MEEEEE!!”

SavvyD
9 years ago

LEMMEGETTHISRIGHT… She complained about him engaging in creepy behavior, he got fired, and instead of taking it like a man and finding a new job and not acting like a creep, he killed her. Sounds to me like she was right. This isn’t a normal situation of a guy being “unattractive” to women. He wasn’t a “niceguy.” He was creepy! And he was married! Ewww! I’m disgusted. To say he had no luck with the ladies is clearly wrong. And it seems that other women had complained about him being creepy. How many complaints does it take to get it?