Red Pill dudes agree: Volunteering can totally be alpha, just as long as you don’t help poor people. Or kittens.

Sometimes I forget just how stupid the conversations are in the manosphere.

Speaking of bullshit, how have you not talked about Matt Walsh yet?

http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/04/22/christian-women-feminism-is-not-your-friend/

http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/01/03/let-us-send-our-daughters-to-die-in-battle-for-the-sake-of-gender-neutrality/

Those are just a few examples of the shit this guy is spouting.

Gah, that begging kitten gif is so cute, I can hardly contain myself…squeeee!

Alright, now that I have that off my chest: so let me get this straight. Alpha-maling is all about not caring what others think, except that it is about caring what other people think, and red pill is all about self-improvement but really it’s about others’ perceptions of you? I’m so confused…my lady brain is about to asplode. Or is it that my B.S. meter is maxed out…?

Sadly, or maybe happily (?) the “crazy ex” meme has enough social traction that it’s used by lots of men who are not generally monstrous. Yes, it’s essentially never an unbiased judgment on the real story, but I wouldn’t assume that it’s cover for abuse. My personal assumption when a man mentions a “crazy ex” is more like “we were personally incompatible in ways that aren’t really anyone’s, but I’m going to rewrite history in absence to valorize my own part.”

I though Alpha or Beta was was you WERE. Something intrinsic in your character.
Or is it based on making people THINK you’re Alpha?
I can’t imagine any action LESS Alpha Male type than debating the rubric of if you’re manly enough to help at an animal shelter or not.

David, hope all’s well.

Yep, that Matt Walsh guy is lost. He has just enough vocabulary to make someone think he knows what he’s talking about but not enough brains to actually say anything that makes sense.

This guy actually does lift kittens. Total beta move:

The simple articulation of feelings is not a panacea for anyone. For task and performance oriented men it is a sometimes useful effort which has been inflated in importance past the point of any sensibility. Add to that the fact that larger mental health community has consciously divorced itself from any concern about how men are affected by things like divorce, parental alienation, abusive partners, false accusations and the like.

Shorter: Men are victims of toxic masculinity and misandry! Solution: More toxic masculinity! And misandry from MEN!

79% of all suicides are men. Yet all this has been rewritten with misandric ink. It has been revised by scholars who tell us men are bad, by psychologists whose main field of work seems to be recommending divorce, complete with male scapegoat, as a cure all for women for whatever petty dissatisfactions they feel about their mates. And it has been inculcated into the consciousness of our family law system, driving men to despair and despondency on levels never before seen in history.

CITATIONS NEEDED.

Also, as has often enough been pointed out elsewhere on this site, 3/4 of all suicide attempts that “succeed” are male, because men tend to use more violent and destructive methods (likely as a result of not being conditioned to preserve their good looks at all costs, as women are). But for every male to succeed at suicide, there are numerous women who try and fail. Maybe because they use a less lethal method to preserve the appearance of their corpses; maybe because they wish to avoid any further pain; or maybe, just maybe, as a last-ditch cry for help (which I’m sure Paulie would interpret as just more damselling, drama-queening, and attention-seeking on the part of those attention-whorey feeeeeeemales.)

But in any case, female despondency is real, and huge, and probably outpaces that of males by a wide margin. More women are hospitalized for severe mental illness than men. Does THAT rate a mention here by His Nibs? Nope. Instead, it’s all kvetching about how experts are advising women to divorce. As if women didn’t come to the conclusion on their own, and on the basis that their husband was a gaslighting, abusive, neglectful jackass.

We need Dads to teach their sons, not “how to treat a woman,” but how to hold their own with them. We don’t need to teach them to “take care of their woman,” but to only accept one who demonstrates the character and integrity to be trusted, from the start.

Oh, big of you to put the onus on women, Paulie. Like we haven’t had it on us since fucking FOREVER. When are you going to emphasize a need for greater character and integrity in your own gender, BTW? Or is that only important in feeeeeemales?

And we need to teach them how rare that is in modern life. More than anything else, we need to teach them how to let women go, and watch them as they grow up to make sure they can do it. And we need Dads to role model that, in their own families with their own wives. In other words, we need to do a lot of things that we are not doing.

Excuse me, Paulie, didn’t you say something earlier about how much men suffer when women are “counselled” to divorce them? Just what the flying fuckity-fuck is this, anyway?

And if we’re to go by Paulie’s “modelling”, the ideal man is a misogynistic, drunken, drug-abusing, deadbeat who sponges off his girlfriend so he can sit on his ass blogging crap all day, and accuses his ex-wife of infidelity when one of his army buddies RAPED her. Wow. Quite the model of manhood, that!

One must always worry about the super alpha red piller Gladys Kravitzes.
http://www.tvsinopse.kinghost.net/b/bewitched3_arquivos/ScreenShot008.jpg

Bina, that was magnificent. Thank you.

Bina,
Spot on. Women are also conditioned not to leave a mess for other’s to clean up.They are less likely to have hand guns laying around the place too. Macho bullshit kills.

@Bina

Speaking of AVfM and suicide, have you seen this video? A contributor to AVfM calls in to Sam Seder’s show and wants to discuss how feminists apparently lie about women trying to kill themselves.