Reading through the luridly threatening email that forced Anita Sarkeesian to cancel her talk at Utah State University, originally scheduled for today, I found myself wondering, a bit dumbfounded: just where does this kind of hate come from?
It’s a question I’ve been asking myself again and again in recent days as I contemplate the ongoing fiasco that is GamerGate. How on earth have all these people gotten so angry, so worked up, so willing to dox and harass and threaten women (and some of their male allies) over video games?
How exactly does someone reach a point where it makes sense to them to threaten – and perhaps even to seriously plan – a “Montreal-style Massacre” because they don’t like a few videos pointing out sexism in video games?
Even after years spent tracking and trying to understand the misogynistic online culture that’s given birth to GamerGate, I don’t have an answer. And I’m not sure where to get one.
And so, as a kind of preliminary step towards finding an answer to this question, I thought I would ask a simpler and more empirical question: where does the language of hatred found in the threatening email sent to Utah State officials come from?
It’s easy enough to see where it comes from in a general sense: the author of the email repeats a lot of the standard language of the new misogynists online, castigating “misandrist harpies” and railing against the alleged evils of feminism. But it’s only when you begin looking at the specific and sometimes peculiar phrasings in the email that you really begin to see just how familiar the author is with the misogynist tropes of the manosphere, broadly defined.
I went through the email – the full text of which I found in this Pastebin – cutting and pasting some of its more memorable phrases into Google to see just where – if anywhere – these phrases showed up online. And I found that quite a few of them are phrases that are used almost nowhere else but in the misogynistic subcultures I write about on this blog – specifically, in the Men’s Rights and “Game” subcultures. This is someone, like Elliot Rodger before him, who has been reading if not actively participating in these subcultures.
My first discovery was that the author doesn’t only see Marc Lepine, the antifeminist mass murderer responsible for the Montreal Massacre in 1989, as a “a hero to men everywhere for standing up to the toxic influence of feminism.”
No, the author actually seems to think of himself — and I can only assume the author is male, given his obsessions and the gender breakdown of mass killers –as a latter-day Lepine. When he writes that “[f]eminists have ruined my life,” this is in fact a direct quote from Lepine himself: it’s what he reportedly said before opening fire and gunning down his victims, and a phrase he also included in his own manifesto/suicide note.
Some of the specific phrasings he uses seem to be almost exclusively used by MRAs . He writes, for example, of the “toxic influence of feminism,” a phrase that only turns up 47 results on Google.
If you set aside links to news articles about the threats directed at Sarkeesian, two of the top results are links to the artwork used in a promo video for A Voice for Men’s Honey Badger Brigade. The headline? “The toxic influence of feminism in comic.” The topic of the Honey Badger Radio Show being promoted? The “invasion” of geek culture by “social justice warriors” and feminists. The show is a recent one, from this past August.
Other uses of the phrase “toxic influence of feminism” can be found in two separate posts on an Irish MRA blog called “Not A Feminist,” which links to A Voice for Men, Angry Harry, Shrink4Men and other familiar MRA sites. The phrase also shows up in an essay by Henry Makow, an early MRA-turned-conspiracy theorist; his quote shows up on numerous sites online and accounts for a sizeable number of the results. The phrase appears as well in a debate over Men’s Rights on a site called TheDiscussionist and on several other MRA sites.
It also pops up in a couple of discussions of video games — once on a Grand Theft Auto V forum, and once, chillingly, in a post about Anita Sarkeesian on the Tumblr blog of an 18-year-old German right-winger, attacking her as an “attention whore who does no research, knows jack shit about the subject and [whose work leads] to even more of a toxic influence of feminism on gaming.”
In other words, virtually the only time this phrase seems to have been used in the history of humankind – or at least that portion of history accessible to Google – it’s been used by MRAs and video gamers. Mostly MRAs. This isn’t proof of anything, but I do find myself wondering if the writer of the threat letter might be a fan of the Honey Badgers.
Other phrases the email author uses aren’t quite as unique, but they too seem to be used almost exclusively by Men’s Rightsers – and in some cases their critics as well. “Misandrist harpies” is a surprisingly common phrase amongst angry MRAs and other manospherians; you can find it (naturally) on the openly misogynistic Antimisandrist.com, in the comments on A Voice for Men and Captain Capitalism and on the old school MGTOW site Mirror of the Soul. You can also find feminists ironically appropriating the insult as a label for themselves – including a commenter on the AgainstMensRights subreddit and a few of the regulars on this very blog.
It also makes an appearance in a long tirade about, yes, Anita Sarkeesian in a comment on the site Topless Robot.
The author of the threatening email also refers at one point to feminist “poison.” He may well have picked up this formulation from MRA-adjacent atheist videoblogger Thunderf00t, whose video Why ‘feminism’ poisons EVERYTHING has racked up more than half a million views on YouTube; Thunderf00t, who used to direct most of his ire towards creationists, now devotes most of his videos to attacks on feminist women, with Anita Sarkeesian being a central obsession.
MRAs and PUAs are similarly obsessed with the notion of feminism as a cultural poison. You can find dire warnings about “feminist poison” on in the posts and comments on sites ranging from A Voice for Men to Exposing Feminism to Antimisandry.com. The self-proclaimed “counter-feminist” Fidelbogen is especially fond of the formulation, making it the central theme in a long and turgid manifesto with the title “Feminism Poisons Women.” The tedious MRA troll known, a little misleadingly, as genderneutrallanguage manages to work “poison” into both the title and the subtitle of his blog The Poisoned Well: The Poisonous Language of Feminism.
PUAs, especially those who fetishize the alleged cultural innocence of Asian and Eastern European women, also pontificate regularly about the dangers of the “feminist poison.” I could multiply examples almost endlessly.
In one of the more lurid and disturbing passages in his threat-cum-manifesto, the email author declares that Sarkeesian “is going to die screaming like the craven little whore that she is if you let her come to USU.” Something about the phrasing seemed familiar to me, so I tried searching for “craven little whore.” It appeared only in a tiny handful of discussions, none of which seemed to have anything to do with feminism or Men’s Rights.
But the phrase “whore that she is” is everywhere, it seems. If you eliminate the porn links from the results and narrow things down a little more, you find that the phrase is quite popular amongst PUAs and Red Pillers, who are forever recommending that their compatriots treat whatever woman they’re with “like the whore that she is.” It shows up repeatedly in the comments at Chateau Heartiste and in this post on Captain No-Marriage.
Now, as I said before, none of this is proof of anything, but it is highly suggestive. The email author not only seems to share the general beliefs of Men’s Rightsers and misogynist Manospherians; he also, even in the course of his short email, falls back repeatedly on some very specific phrasings that seem to be native to the misogynistic subcultures of Men’s Rightsers and pickup artists.
I think it’s safe to say that this is a person deeply steeped in this subculture – and frankly, more interested in the antifeminist crusade of the Men’s Rightsers than in video gaming as such.
Indeed, the email author says virtually nothing about video games as such in his little manifesto; he seems to have picked Sarkeesian as his target because, to him, she represents all the evils of feminism in one convenient package. He more or less says this outright, declaring that “I’ve chosen to target … Anita Sarkeesian [because she] is everything wrong with the feminist woman.”
In this, he is following again in the footsteps of Marc Lepine, who targeted female students at the École Polytechnique, killing 14 of them, because they to him seemed to symbolize the feminists who , he wrote in his suicide note “have always ruined my life.”
In its original article reporting on the threats, the Standard Examiner quoted a school official as saying that the authorities had “determined the threat seems to be consistent with ones (Sarkeesian) has received at other places around the nation,” which, as depressing as that statement is, does at least seem to suggest or at least hold out the hope that this threat may have come from a serial threatener, not an actual Utah State student who was, as he threatened, armed and ready to go.
Whether he is a sadistic fantasist or another Lepine in the making, it seems clear that whoever wrote the note is steeped in the Men’s Rights world online. He may or may not identify as an MRA, but he seems to have absorbed much of the ideology, and the hatred, preached and practiced by MRAs on the internet every day.
BTW, #stopgamergate2014 is currently trending on twitter, for those of you with accounts who want to signal boost.
@ Daeran Zemaitis:
“Question/Thought: Is it actually possible to get MRA/PUA/etc identified as a formal hate group?”
It sorta is, D, but not quite as explicitly and formally as it deserves to be:
http://www.splcenter.org/blog/2012/05/15/intelligence-report-article-provokes-outrage-among-mens-rights-activists/
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2012/spring/misogyny-the-sites
I wish that as a society we stopped beating around the misogynist bush and came forward with an open and unequivocal designation (and condemnation) of MRA / etc. as hate movement, which they obviously are.
We are open and adamant about condemning racism and ethnic bigotries, but somehow we still tolerate misogyny as just any innocuous “different point of view” and other such benevolent nonsense. It shows how mainstream and accepted the fear and contempt of women still is, in spite of the strides we’ve made to change this status quo.
Excellent piece of analysis, well done you. If you don’t mind me asking how long did it take you? Given this is stuff the FBI or police should be doing, with their resources they’d be able to nip this in the bud, rather than being reactive after something terrible happens.
After spending too much of my spare time reading the New Misogynists, I’ve become familiar with their phrases. I also subscribe to The Telegraph and The Times in the UK, both of which have pay walls, and both of which tend not to moderate their comments. The same anti-feminist people comment over and over, using very specific red pill language and arguments. They do it doing UK working hours. Then they go and comment on xojane and Jezebel.
I’ve taken two observations away from this. One is that there aren’t as many hardcore online misogynists as you’d think. It’s the same group who are spending a huge amount of their time looking for articles to be outraged about and comment on.
The second observation is how obsessed and angry they are. There are many who are literally spending every waking hour online, banging out screeds against women.
@ ikanreed:
“Daeran, if there’s one person on the internet who’s qualified to make up things that look like MRA nonsense, it’s David, therefor it’s David specifically who perpetrated this false flag.”
Like, totally. But with some help from other mammotheers, as evidenced by the phrase “misandrist harpies” used by the commenters on this blog.
It’s all clear now.
P.S. For the benefit of irony-impaired MRA, this comment is facetious.
“Question/Thought: Is it actually possible to get MRA/PUA/etc identified as a formal hate group?”
The SPLC already lists them as one, though if anything’s going to convince the FBI to follow suit, it’ll be this.
@ktrantingredhead
Yes, that’s pretty much the entire problem.
@ bodycrimes:
Good points.
I too have an impression that this is a relatively small, but very active (and obviously extremely angry and maladjusted) group of people. The same names (and ideas) keep popping up on a wide range of manospheric blogs, showing that they are a self-contained (and probably not growing fast) mutual adoration society.
It makes me think that this should make it easier to identify the terrorist, as I strongly suspect he has a online presence in the ‘sphere.
As a side note, is anybody else tired of Cheezburger of all places devolving into Reddit 2.0? Fuck’s sake, I just want to look at cat memes and keep up on video game news, why does every second comment have to be “Death to Feminazis” or “Death to f[I’m not typing that disgusting word]ts”?
@krantingredhead
For some reason there’s a blind spot when it comes to acknowledging ‘violence against women’ as a factor in recent events (not to mention past. Sod it, it’s a historical problem). Even when Elliot Rodger’s anti-woman manifesto hit the headlines there was a huge fail in acknowledging the virulent misogyny running rampant in it’s pages outside of feminist circles, and woe betide anyone who suggested that his actions were motivated by hatred of women. I think a journalist got blasted for releasing an article daring to suggest this.
I last came across the societal issue of the misogyny blind-spot in Laura Bates ‘Everyday Sexism’ in which she flags up the issues you just outlined.
@krantingredhead
A note on trans people – in my experience, there is a HUGE difference in how trans men get treated (gruding acceptance, even by the MRAs), versus trans women get treated (fear, ignorance, outright vitriol and disgust, even from people who describe themselves as feminists)
Funny how sexism in other cultures is appalling and ours doesn’t have any and if those damn feminists don’t shut up they might get put in their place by force…
Anything for clicks over there. The owner doesn’t give fuck one as long as he’s p-p-paid.
@Daeran
Maybe we run in different circles, but I regularly see transmen be blasted as “women”, or being told that because they’re DFAB their experiences make them “not real men”. (And in feminist circles, they’re told to shut up and listen because they have male privilege and therefore can’t talk about women’s issues.)
So, can we leave transphobia out of this? It makes this whole situation a lot more complicated and isn’t terribly germane.
Reblogged this on Generation: Handmaid and commented:
I. Am. Disgusted.
Because feminists are pointing out sexism, we deserve to die? I’m not ashamed to say this, FUCK YOU.
@ktrantingredhead, I realize the same thing. Misogyny is more acceptable in our culture than racism and homophobia. No shade of bigotry should be more acceptable than the other. Period.
Misogyny and anti-feminism seems to be a thing for many atheist men, too. My YouTube account keeps recommending to me a vlogger called “the amazing atheist,” and literally the videos that the YouTube algorithm thinks I want to watch from him are the ones about how feminism ruins everything and how he hates women. I can’t figure out how to block that or turn it off so I don’t see it anymore. I asked an atheist guy who I already knew to be pro-feminist about this, and he said that many atheist men believe that women are less rational and thus a woman’s opinions don’t deserve consideration.
I don’t know about homophobia being less acceptable; where I am homophobia is par for the course. I remember Geraldine Ferraro talking about the difference between racism and misogyny after the 2008 election, though, and she said that while it’s not okay to be racist, it’s almost okay to be sexist. She said this in reference to some guy at one of Hillary Clinton’s rallies who held up a sign that said “Iron My Shirt” or some such, and said that no one would ever dare hold up a sign at Obama’s rallies that said “Shine My Shoes.” (I don’t know about her reasoning, though; it seems to me that there’s been a whole lotta racism directed at Obama, and he’s been getting it from the outset.)
David
You are a smart guy, but I hate to say it, you are being very very silly.
For over a decade, videogames have been a “safe space” for antisocial white males, who have consistently demanded that a product marketed to them (http://www.polygon.com/features/2013/12/2/5143856/no-girls-allowed) be recognized as art. Now, by no means am I blaming anybody for being antisocial; these males were ostracized largely because they did not conform to stereotypes of healthy masculinity. Nonetheless, currently a combination of market forces and academic interest are leading to the outcome that the “real gamers” demanded – games are being taken as seriously as any other medium, and criticized accordingly. The problem for gamergate is that they are not being criticized on terms favorable to antisocial white males; that is, when misogyny or racism is encountered it is labeled misogyny or racism. This takes something that is a perceived “safe space” and opens it up to “outsiders”.
Again, I am not defending these people in any way. I am simply explaining the fact that something that they (wrongly) thought was a safe space for their (damaged) worldview has now been “taken away” from them, and since none of them know how to make games or write reviews there is no hope of “going galt”.
That makes a TON of sense, donovandigital. So maybe gamers previously imagined that if/when mainstream culture started taking games and gamers seriously it would mean uncritical admiration of games in general or even of themselves as pioneers/early adopters and they’re mad it’s not panning out that way.
Basically the whole thing represents the bursting of a long-cherished fantasy that had insulated a lot of people from their own unhappiness for a long time.
I can see that provoking a lot of … hateful irrationality.
#notallgamers obvs
http://youtu.be/ywsUFNftdO4
Trying to discuss #gamergate with its supporters resembles some weird funhouse ride combining a merry-go-round and a house of mirrors.
GGer: “Zoe Quinn had sex with FIVE GUYS so they’d give better reviews to her terrible indy game!”
Me: “Actually, none of the alleged ‘five guys’ reviewed her game, so whether she had sex with any of them is immaterial. And it’s not generally stranger’s business who a woman sleeps with.”
GGer: “Why are you SJWs so hung up on Zoe Quinn? This isn’t about Zoe Quinn! We’ve moved past Zoe Quinn! This is about JOURNALISTIC INTEGRITY!”
Me: “So why doesn’t GamerGate have anything to say about The Escapist’s Alexander Marcis, who has provided relentlessly positive coverage for indie developers he likes and has backed — like James Desborough, of ‘Chronicles Of Gor’ fame — or male ‘indy reviewers’ like John ‘TotalBiscuit’ Bain, who has accepted money from the publishers of the games he reviews, without disclosing that financial relationship?”
GGer: “Stop trying to change the subject, libtard! What this is REALLY about is FFEEEMALES trying to invade male gamer spaces! Censorship! Fascism! ANITA SORKEEZAN IS A WHORE AND SHE WANTS TO TAKE AWAY MY VIDEO GAMES!”
Me: “Women are not new to gaming spaces; there have always been girls and women who game. Some of them have been gaming for longer than you’ve been alive. Nobody is trying to take away your video games. Feminist critics point out systemic misogyny in the hope that this will produce BETTER games — deeper, more interesting, and more fun for everybody, including you. Nobody is arguing that Grand Theft Auto should be illegal or that developers shouldn’t be allowed to make exactly the kind of games they like. And it’s spelled ‘Sarkeesian’, by the way, and her sex life frankly isn’t your business — it’s just indicative of serious misogyny on the part of you and other ‘gamergaters’.”
GGer: “Fuck you and your White Knighting! This isn’t just misogyny! Zoe Quinn had sex with FIVE GUYS so they’d give better reviews to her terrible indy game!”
Me: **sigh**
And around and around we go…
@ktrantingredhead, a friend with legal experience once gave me an answer to your question. He pointed me to a well-known law review article on something called “gender asylum” (the theory that women should be able to apply for political asylum in the US because they have experienced or are under threat of experiencing government-tolerated rape in their home countries). In the past the U.S. government allowed asylum for group member such as ethnic and sexual minorities, etc, but refused to extend the opportunity to the class of women. There has recently been a small relaxation of the exclusion of women involving a Guatemalan woman.
The quote is from Sunny Kim:
“One possible objection to the recognition of rape (and other acts of violence against women)
as persecution is the near-universal occurrence of rape.” http://www.wcl.american.edu/journal/genderlaw/02/kim.pdf at page 120
She calls it the “floodgates” fear or argument. There are too many victims and the systems will be overwhelmed. Women simply can’t be let in because their victimization is too vast.
@Daeran, you quoted from a federal hate crime statute and you’ll notice that the sex class of women is NOT included in hate crimes. Again I’d speculate that the floodgate fear is operative as well as prioritizing and putting women as a low priority.
@Aunt Edna, you pointed out that while the SPLC is to be commended for condemning men’s rights sites as misogynistic, MRA sites are not among the “official” SPLC hate sites. The SPLC (and specifically Morris Dees) has done a fantastic job of taking down the resurgent KKK and has kept a close focus on KKK and extreme right-wing groups. But so far as I know they also prioritize women’s terrorization as low priority, so much so that I don’t think there is a single hate group, among the hundreds the SPLC lists, which is a New Misogyny group.
All this, I do believe, is because if you start looking at women’s terrorization, there’s a perception that all the other groups will be drowned out. I don’t agree, by the way. I believe if equal protection of the laws means anything they are just going to have to open their doors.
When someone reaches this point they are no longer human . It’s like in princess monoke, the anime where hate turned people and animals into literal monsters . Hate is a poison created from fear that makes people see others as objects.