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You'll never guess what misogynistic gamebros did to these two women in gaming! (HINT: Drove them out.)

Sometimes the only way to win is not to play.
Sometimes the only way to win is not to play.

Congratulations, assholes! You did it! Your threats and harassment have driven game journalist/designer Jenn Frank and game designer/media critic Mattie Brice to leave the gaming world.

Frank, an award-winning writer and sometime game designer, came to the attention of the misogynist mob after writing a brief opinion piece for The Guardian decrying the widespread and vicious harassment of women in gaming. In addition to writing about the harassment she’s gotten — including someone trying to hack into her email account — she (as you might expect) also highlighted the misogynistic rage directed at feminist media critic Anita Sarkeesian and indie game designer Zoe Quinn.

The new rule seems to be that any woman who writes about online harassment will herself be harassed, and in this case it didn’t take long.

The gamebro army, completely ignorant about how journalism works, decided that she had a “conflict of interest” — because, and I’m totally serious here, she had previously exchanged some tweets with Quinn and donated some money to her on Patreon. One critic, who put together a much-passed-around graphic outlining the charges against her, angrily denounced Frank for “vigorously defending [Quinn] while pretending to be impartial.”

There are a couple of giant problems with these accusations. First off, Frank never pretended to be impartial. She was not reporting on anything for the Guardian. She was writing an OPINION PIECE about a topic that obviously affected her. Editors don’t assign OPINION PIECES to writers who are, or who pretend to be, impartial. They assign these pieces to people WITH OPINIONS. You’re not going to get much of an OPINION PIECE from someone with no opinions.

Second of all, according to Frank (and I believe her), she had asked The Guardian to attach a brief statement to the end of her piece noting her — admittedly tenuous — connections with Quinn and Sarkeesian. The Guardian editors chose not to run it because they thought these connections were too trivial to merit a mention. They forgot that she was a woman writing about gaming, and that misogynistic assholes will seize on anything, literally anything, as an excuse for harassment.

After she started getting harassed for her alleged “conflict of interest,” Frank wrote a blog post dealing with the issue  clearly and straightforwardly, and convinced the Guardian editors to append a version of her original disclosure statement to the piece:

Update: Jenn Frank has purchased and is a supporter of Zoë Quinn’s work, although this is the first article she has written on the developer. Frank has also briefly met Anita Sarkeesian.

As absurd as it is for a woman writer to have to publicly confess that she “has also briefly met Anita Sarkeesian,” as if this is some sort of crime, Frank thus answered her critics directly. And that should have been it. But of course the harassment — sorry, the perfectly legitimate criticism — continued, and on Wednesday night Frank announced that she’d had enough:

https://twitter.com/jennatar/status/507338379474649088

https://twitter.com/jennatar/status/507411937383022592

The only “conflict of interest” here was the “conflict of interest” that Frank wrote about originally in her Guardian piece. After describing her horror on discovering that someone had been trying to hack her email, she wrote:

My unabashed love for video games, my colleagues and my work have a conflict of interest with my own terror.

And, at least for now, the terror has won.

Meanwhile, game designer and media critic Mattie Brice was also extracting herself from an industry and a culture that has been grinding her down. I’ll let her tweets tell the story. (See her timeline for more.)

Elsewhere on Twitter, the bullies crowed over their victory:

https://twitter.com/AlrightAnon/status/507395891838590976

Another day, another couple of women ground down and spat out by the Great Internet Lady Harassment Machine, Gaming Division.

Oh, and in case you were wondering, the gamebros haven’t forgotten about Zoe Quinn either.

Here’s the screenshot; click for a larger and more readable version — if you’re not triggered by violent threats, that is.

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What the fuck is wrong with these people?

Seriously, if you know, tell me, because I am fresh out of explanations for this level of blind hatred.

NOTE: This thread is a NO SHITHEAD thread. If you say anything that in any way even slightly excuses or justifies the harassment of these women, you can fuck right off to any of the eight zillion places on the internet where you can badmouth these women to your heart’s content. I and the other mods will be banning and deleting as necessary.

 

 

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contrapangloss
10 years ago

LBT!

Hope the brain is starting to be kinder to the lot of you. I know it was probably trying to protect you and all that jazz, but it hasn’t sounded fun.

Still really happy to see you!

(fair warning, I might post excited comments for the next little bit, every time I see you all. I like knowing people I like are alive and capable of slamming fingers across a keyboard)

@Merus: That last link. Wow.

Nice going, 4chan. Great job. I’m shocked by your stealth and will refer you to the nearest organization of super spies. They need people with your gift for stealth, planning, and cunning.

By the way, Merus, did you ever get a welcome package? Or are you a long time commenter that I’ve just never met?

If no to both, here’s a Welcome Package! 🙂

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

RE: contrapangloss

Aw, thank you! I admit, I probably will still be sporadic, because my brain is still a pretty sick brain and there’s only so much horrible I can handle at a go, but I wanted to drop in so folks would know that I was not dead. I’ve been writing stories! Hurray, stories!

Seriously, I’ve been arting like crazy to try and keep my head clear. Upping my meds got me a couple day’s reprieve, but it’s still creeping up. Fleh. However, I’m still holding pretty steady, just not being as social.

Michael McG
Michael McG
10 years ago

Oh come on. The KKK focused their attacks mostly on black folks. Saying “of all races” makes it sound like they attacked everyone equally. Don’t be a dickbutt.

Saying “of all races” acknowledges the historical reality that the KKK *also* targeted people who fought for the civil rights of the KKK’s primary targets.

What’s with the uncharitable reading?

Alex
10 years ago

LBT!!! Hi! Happy writing and any hugs you want! 😀

cloudiah
10 years ago

@LBT, Hi! Will check out the writeathon. Hoping sick brain gets better soon!

I appreciate you being in total panic mode because Zoe “Fraud” Quinn was exposed for the duplicitous hypocrite that she is, but hopefully your quest to get laid by pretending to be a feminist doesn’t continue humiliating you 🙂

I love that a troll pops in to poop that comment in the very thread that exposes that ZQ is not a fraud, but was the target of an organized smear campaign after her ex sicced 4chan on her.

contrapangloss
10 years ago

Daw! The little troll is trying so hard! Look at the smiley at the end! Look at the adorable “ignore my source’s hypocrisy and look at the ‘hypocrisy hippo’ over there”ness of it! Look at the ever classic “you must care about getting laid as much as I do” vibe!

Adorable.

Anarchonist
Anarchonist
10 years ago

@TheCatFromOuterSpace:

Re: The toxic ragewank involved in video game culture: I think one of Sarkeesian’s videos touched on this issue. Video games are fairly unique compared to, say cinema and literature in that it allows the player to become part of the experience; Basically, a sexist video game makes the player take part in perpetuating harmful stereotypes about women’s agency in a way that few other forms of media can do.

The gist of it is that the terrible tendency of video game developers to include violence against women as a device to make their video game “grittier” may give players a chance to a) engage in “benevolent sexism” by saving a damsel in distress, b) watch as the woman becomes a victim whose role is purely to raise the emotional stakes involved (see also women in refrigerators), and/or c) engage in violence against women themselves, again victimizing the woman, but this time at the hands of a real, active agent who has internalized misogynistic messages and is playing them out in-game. In fact, certain games even award trophies for abusing the female NPCs. Let me restate that: Some games reward the player for playing an abusive, misogynistic monster. Games in themselves may not make you violent, but they may certainly desensitize you to gendered violence.

Possible options that rarely play out are d) the female NPC saves herself without the help of the playable male character and e) the main character is a woman rescuing a helpless male NPC. Since women apparently can’t save men because wounded masculine ego and evopsych babble.

Sarkeesian said it way better. Anyway, did you get your welcome package yet?

http://artistryforfeminismandkittens.wordpress.com/the-official-man-boobz-complimentary-welcome-package/

contrapangloss
10 years ago

… ooooh, and the gem of the piece?

He even pulls a “No true feminist!”

Isn’t it adorable how trolls think they’re better at spotting and mansplaining about who’s just ‘pretending’ to be a feminist than a blog with… you know… lots of feminists who hang around?

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

RE: Trollpants McGee

hopefully your quest to get laid by pretending to be a feminist doesn’t continue humiliating you

Ha, joke’s on you, asshole! I’m a gay man! Ain’t NO feminist woman going to be laying me! I’m a feminist for totally nonsexual reasons!

RE: Michael McG

What’s with the uncharitable reading?

I’m in a testy mood, and also come from the South, where I’ve heard plenty of people trying to claim the KKK weren’t racist because they attacked other people. Basically, focusing on their white victims to erase the black ones. So I found the “of all races” superfluous, except as a means to minimize the racist violence.

Alais
10 years ago

Lol. David is being humiliated because some random feminist is having sex with other men but not with him? @sdfdsfdsfsd, the fact that you think that David would care about that reveals far more about you than it does about him.

Alais
10 years ago

Also, in all seriousness, I don’t think that forwarding the unsolicited dick pics to some guy’s mom is the right thing to do. He certainly deserves some kind of comeuppance for sexually harassing you, but that comeuppance shouldn’t involve continuing the sexual harassment by sending his unsolicited dick pic to another woman, especially if that other woman is his mom. Really, it’s punishing his mom far more than it’s punishing him.

A Wolverine
A Wolverine
10 years ago

My opinion of her ex went from “slightly gross” when i first learned of this shit to “really gross” when I saw how much he wrote to “FUCK YOU GO TO JAIL” when it turned out he was actively supporting the harassment campaigns.

I now have serious doubts about how true that enormous screed he wrote is

emilygoddess - MOD
emilygoddess - MOD
10 years ago

I appreciate you being in total panic mode because Zoe “Fraud” Quinn was exposed for the duplicitous hypocrite that she is, but hopefully your quest to get laid by pretending to be a feminist doesn’t continue humiliating you 🙂

Can I have the link to whatever MRA Lame Insult Generator you got this from?

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

RE: Alais

Enh. I think the woman had to think on her feet and come up with a response that would get the dude to stop. Telling him his behavior was inappropriate didn’t work; blocking him would’ve just meant he’d go to harass someone else. All things considered, I’m not sure what would’ve been a better response that’d have the same effect in the same amount of time.

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

Also, sorry for the raging. I got some lunch in me to chill the fuck out but am still in a weird adrenaline frenzy, so trying to rein it in. (At least it beats the pseudo-depression I’ve been having the past two weeks.)

emilygoddess - MOD
emilygoddess - MOD
10 years ago

I’m in a testy mood, and also come from the South, where I’ve heard plenty of people trying to claim the KKK weren’t racist because they attacked other people. Basically, focusing on their white victims to erase the black ones. So I found the “of all races” superfluous, except as a means to minimize the racist violence.

I hear where you’re coming from, but I think Michael was specifically referring to the “eating their own” part of that, not trying to talk about the KKK as a whole.

Lol. David is being humiliated because some random feminist is having sex with other men but not with him? @sdfdsfdsfsd, the fact that you think that David would care about that reveals far more about you than it does about him.

But why else would a man be nice to women?

He certainly deserves some kind of comeuppance for sexually harassing you, but that comeuppance shouldn’t involve continuing the sexual harassment by sending his unsolicited dick pic to another woman, especially if that other woman is his mom. Really, it’s punishing his mom far more than it’s punishing him.

Well, you could send the rest of the conversation, and replace the actual image with “and here was a picture of his dick”.

cloudiah
10 years ago
Alais
10 years ago

LBT:

I see your point, and upon reviewing the conversation, I realized that she most likely censored the pic as she did for the tumblr screen cap before sending it to his mom and might’ve actually just axed the pic all together and just sent the screen caps of the rest of the conversation, which were more than incriminating enough.

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

RE: emilygoddess

Okay. My apologies for jumping to bite, ikanreed. I overreacted.

RE: Alais

Ha! I actually like that idea, that she censored the dick pic BEFORE sending it to his mom. Because how would dude ever know? Try and imagine THAT conversation.

(I am secretly twelve.)

Alais
10 years ago

Lol. I can imagine that conversation. He’d probably be confused that his mom had absolutely nothing to say about his allegedly enormous cock.

Also, random, possibly TMI segue…the two guys whom I’ve known who are actually really well-endowed (which I know from up-close experience) didn’t brag about how big they were. Hell, they even seemed a little embarrassed by it at first and actually took more time with foreplay because they wanted to make sure that they weren’t hurting me so sex with them was (or is, in one case) way more comfortable and enjoyable than it was with less well-endowed guys who just went for it. So, what I’m wondering is, are the guys crowing about their cocks actually as big as they think that they are?

Alais
10 years ago

Also, LBT, glad to see that you’re back and feeling better!

katz
10 years ago

LBTTTTTTT! Are you feeling better? Is your writeathon going well?

I did really well in Pitch Wars; I got picked as an alternate.

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

RE: Alais

Enh, “better.” I don’t know WHAT my brain is doing that’s so important, but I sure hope it’s worth it.

And regarding dick… ALL these guys act like their junk is the fucking bee’s knees. Like I couldn’t see a hojillion cockasaurus rexes just by turning on the porn. They seriously have no idea how completely ordinary their genitals are. If I wanted to bang an enormous dick, I’d just get a fucking dildo. They come WAY bigger than these doofuses, and stay hard the whole time!

That said, hubby is a really big guy, but has average endowment. He’s been teased about it before, but oh god I was so relieved when I found out. If his dick had been as huge as the rest of him, I don’t know what I would’ve done, but it probably would’ve hurt! I’m just not that flexible. (And I really wish dudes, trans and cis, would stop treating their dicks like the center of the universe. They’re just fucking genitals, dudes. CHILL.)

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

RE: katz

Oh, congrats on Pitch Wars! I’m feeling… enh? *waggles hand* I’m functioning a bit better, because I upped my meds, but I’m still in and out of pseudo-depression and apparently today I have a hair-trigger temper. My writeathon is going pretty well so far, though, and the art is helping keep my brain in better condition.

I think my brain is trying to hold off on whatever new horrorshow it’s bound to show me until the writeathon is over? Maybe? *spreads hands*

thebewilderness
thebewilderness
10 years ago

The purpose of the dick pics is boundary testing dominance displays. Similar to street harassment and rape jokes and workplace harassment.