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You'll never guess what misogynistic gamebros did to these two women in gaming! (HINT: Drove them out.)

Sometimes the only way to win is not to play.
Sometimes the only way to win is not to play.

Congratulations, assholes! You did it! Your threats and harassment have driven game journalist/designer Jenn Frank and game designer/media critic Mattie Brice to leave the gaming world.

Frank, an award-winning writer and sometime game designer, came to the attention of the misogynist mob after writing a brief opinion piece for The Guardian decrying the widespread and vicious harassment of women in gaming. In addition to writing about the harassment she’s gotten — including someone trying to hack into her email account — she (as you might expect) also highlighted the misogynistic rage directed at feminist media critic Anita Sarkeesian and indie game designer Zoe Quinn.

The new rule seems to be that any woman who writes about online harassment will herself be harassed, and in this case it didn’t take long.

The gamebro army, completely ignorant about how journalism works, decided that she had a “conflict of interest” — because, and I’m totally serious here, she had previously exchanged some tweets with Quinn and donated some money to her on Patreon. One critic, who put together a much-passed-around graphic outlining the charges against her, angrily denounced Frank for “vigorously defending [Quinn] while pretending to be impartial.”

There are a couple of giant problems with these accusations. First off, Frank never pretended to be impartial. She was not reporting on anything for the Guardian. She was writing an OPINION PIECE about a topic that obviously affected her. Editors don’t assign OPINION PIECES to writers who are, or who pretend to be, impartial. They assign these pieces to people WITH OPINIONS. You’re not going to get much of an OPINION PIECE from someone with no opinions.

Second of all, according to Frank (and I believe her), she had asked The Guardian to attach a brief statement to the end of her piece noting her — admittedly tenuous — connections with Quinn and Sarkeesian. The Guardian editors chose not to run it because they thought these connections were too trivial to merit a mention. They forgot that she was a woman writing about gaming, and that misogynistic assholes will seize on anything, literally anything, as an excuse for harassment.

After she started getting harassed for her alleged “conflict of interest,” Frank wrote a blog post dealing with the issue  clearly and straightforwardly, and convinced the Guardian editors to append a version of her original disclosure statement to the piece:

Update: Jenn Frank has purchased and is a supporter of Zoë Quinn’s work, although this is the first article she has written on the developer. Frank has also briefly met Anita Sarkeesian.

As absurd as it is for a woman writer to have to publicly confess that she “has also briefly met Anita Sarkeesian,” as if this is some sort of crime, Frank thus answered her critics directly. And that should have been it. But of course the harassment — sorry, the perfectly legitimate criticism — continued, and on Wednesday night Frank announced that she’d had enough:

https://twitter.com/jennatar/status/507338379474649088

https://twitter.com/jennatar/status/507411937383022592

The only “conflict of interest” here was the “conflict of interest” that Frank wrote about originally in her Guardian piece. After describing her horror on discovering that someone had been trying to hack her email, she wrote:

My unabashed love for video games, my colleagues and my work have a conflict of interest with my own terror.

And, at least for now, the terror has won.

Meanwhile, game designer and media critic Mattie Brice was also extracting herself from an industry and a culture that has been grinding her down. I’ll let her tweets tell the story. (See her timeline for more.)

Elsewhere on Twitter, the bullies crowed over their victory:

https://twitter.com/AlrightAnon/status/507395891838590976

Another day, another couple of women ground down and spat out by the Great Internet Lady Harassment Machine, Gaming Division.

Oh, and in case you were wondering, the gamebros haven’t forgotten about Zoe Quinn either.

Here’s the screenshot; click for a larger and more readable version — if you’re not triggered by violent threats, that is.

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What the fuck is wrong with these people?

Seriously, if you know, tell me, because I am fresh out of explanations for this level of blind hatred.

NOTE: This thread is a NO SHITHEAD thread. If you say anything that in any way even slightly excuses or justifies the harassment of these women, you can fuck right off to any of the eight zillion places on the internet where you can badmouth these women to your heart’s content. I and the other mods will be banning and deleting as necessary.

 

 

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cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

It’s not necessary to make them feel afraid, just to make it clear that their behavior is unwelcome and that if they keep it up people will stop talking to them.

theladyzombie
10 years ago

Guess not.

It’s obvious that men are far too emotional to play video games and should therefore not be allowed to.

Just kidding.

Also, a massive fuck you to the shithead who wants to assault Zoe Quinn and injure her knees. Both my knees are bad and have been since I was thirteen. It sucks. Anyone who thinks permanently crippling someone is justifiable “punishment” for basically acting in a way they don’t like, needs to be shunned by society.

Alais
10 years ago

Cassandra, it’s also worth noting that the gaming community hasn’t actually tried repeatedly telling off and, if necessary, ostracizing gamers who act like these commenters yet. These particular gamers now believe that the only people in the gaming community who object to their behavior are feminists, whom they don’t even consider to be real members of the community. If the broader gaming community actually does confront members spouting misogyny, it could very well help clean up the place.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

That’s the thing, I hear the guys who say they support women saying “that’ll never work” when it seems like it’s barely been tried so far.

Hyatt
Hyatt
10 years ago

I wouldn’t say #gamergate is about (actively) pushing women out of gaming. But it is redirecting debate away from sexism in gaming and towards their pet issue, in this case “journalistic integrity”. And hey, maybe that is a valid issue. But they’re still ignoring the misogyny issue and trying to paint it as outsider SJWs coming in to stir up shit and stepping on real female gamers who aren’t victims of misogyny. Who probably do exist. But their existence doesn’t erase the existence of women in gaming who have experienced misogyny.

The hashtag #notyourshield is currently being used by pro-#gamergate women, but I think the sentiment could easily be applied to the #gamergate people. They’re not your shield to pretend that the gaming community has no problems with misogyny, to ignore the people who speak out.

A Wolverine
A Wolverine
10 years ago

#notyourshield is identical to mras trotting out a femra to prove they dont hate women.

Rick Guerin
Rick Guerin
10 years ago

There might have been a time when disco was cool that boys were 90% of gaming or anything else currently deemed “nerd culture”, but this is 2014 and I would wager that the sway has shifted to at least 55% female audience (for gaming and comic books and movies and tv series, you know, nerd culture in general. This is because they are actually more loyal to stuff they like than boys are, true story, the stuff you claim to love exists because the ladies take the time to watch it as it happens and reward it when “they” do it up right) and still random idiots feel they need to crush that and get back to disco. Well I for one will tell you all that DISCO F’N SUCKS and I never want us as a people to re-explore that shite. It was garbage then and it is garbage now, while you’re at it learn to manscape you beligerant troll bastidges. The lady pants of the universe are every bit as equipped as the boys are to enjoy pop culture, not only enjoy it but pioneer it with new blood and creativity. Maybe fandom needs more men and less boys to see the monster that it is, evolve into something greater. I am so sick of idiot fanboys that if I could legally get away with “pay my trip to and from your house I would stomp you into a mudhole and walk it dry” plan of action, I would make it a real thing, and how I earned my living (I would charge a premium for my time travelling) because fanboys by and large with their stupidity make me sick. All fanboys that want to say, “well that isn’t me, I think it’s cool that girls are into the stuff I’m into, then you all need to make the same stand. We all need to slap these idiots down and get in their face, not because the ladies need us to (because they don’t, they are mighty and they WILL ROAR, but because it needs to be done. Intolerance to haters needs to happen and it NEEDS a BIG BOOMING VOICE). The current state of affairs is unacceptable and it’s time those who really DO enjoy all the goodies we are getting these days made a stand, lets face it, those of us that really do care about all of this stuff are in our 30’s and not only are we real men with respect, wives, children, etc… but we are finally getting a chance to see content that we’ve been dreaming about across all mediums since we were 12-14 years old. Love the lady pants that share the same vision of the world as you do, do not rape threat or hate on them because they ACTUALLY LIKE the same things you do and HAVE THE TALENT to help bring that content to you, you F’N IDOTS. IDIOTS, I can’t say that enough, IDIOTS and COWARDS because I am certain that you would never say that kind of garbage to anyone face to face (most of you, like 99.7%), the 0.3% of you talking that garbage would still find themselves picking up their teeth with broken fingers), there would be consequences if you did that and there should be because you are an IDIOT deserving of missing teeth and broken fingers. The only thing getting in the way of truly great pop culture, sci-fi, fantasy and games is this boys club BS the rejected of the male species are raising a stink about. If a woman feels attacked, odds are she let it slide a lot longer than she should have before saying anything about it. That lady put up with a lot more than you would have (before saying anything) than in your imaginary life where you actually think yourself to be as badass as Samus or Master Chief (you’re not, you are less than a toad you worthless sack of meat suit). Fanboys need to grow up, stop being stupid and show some respect because YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.

vaiyt
10 years ago

Good for them. Why should they keep making games for ungrateful asshats? Fortunately, there are many women who can write games for other women and non-asshat men instead of having to deal with this crowd of baboons. Let them flail and scream against the inevitable while their niche gets pushed towards the long tail of the market.

brooked
brooked
10 years ago

@Hyatt

From what I can tell, there’s been resentment simmering over how most of the major gaming news sources have been in the pocket of the big companies.

This problem has been kicking around since at least the early 1990s once people started believing that reviews and coverage in gaming magazines effected sales. Since IGN and other sites have been around for reasonably long time as well, it’s pretty dodgy for any long time gamer to suddenly be whipped up into a frenzy about payola now.

. It also led to #gamergate blaming Social Justice Warriors for… I’m not sure what. Covering up the real issue? Invading the gaming space for their own agenda without knowing or caring about women in gaming?

That’s almost amusing because it’s Redditor MRA-types who’ve fallen madly in rage with this issue, non-gamers included. Almost amusing, but not actually amusing.

brooked
brooked
10 years ago

“OP”. FFS, 4chan certainly has a unique brand of toxic dopeyness.

“Can’t clean my room now Mom, I’m on a “special jamming OP”.

Hyatt
Hyatt
10 years ago

All the more reason to use the tag to talk about how people are using #gamergate and journalistic conspiracy to sidestep any serious discussion of bigotry. If I had Twitter…

kittehserf - MOD
10 years ago

I thought from Matthew’s comment that AlAnon is some gamerdudebro saying feminism is transphobic for not accepting gender roles as innate.

blahlistic (@blahlistic)

@ Brooked… I think hackers in general use the word “op”.
I imagine that usage is an…um….language artifact (if that’s what you call it) of hacker culture.
I also imagine that hackers who care about social justice are cringing at the goings-on.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Rick, dude, paragraph breaks are your friend.

weirwoodtreehugger
10 years ago

Off topic: This satire about Ferguson cops is hilarious but in that way that makes you want to cry http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/ad367f9f68/cops-ferguson

gelar
gelar
10 years ago

Zoe says she’s been logging IRC chats about gamergate.

https://twitter.com/TheQuinnspiracy/status/508174331243810817

gelar
gelar
10 years ago

Wow, that hyperlink did… all the things I forgot it would do! Sorry!

balarick
10 years ago

Reblogged this on balarick and commented:
The depth of these people’s hate-filled, delusional thinking is beyond my ability to calculate or stomach. I’m so glad for people like David Futrelle who wade through the deep end of these guys’ bullshit and catalogue it for others to see and mock.

Kim
Kim
10 years ago

Sorry, not buying that what Julie said is ableist. She didn’t say anyone was a psychopath, or diagnose anyone. Personality disorders that are, by definition, harmful to others are not the same as mental illnesses.

Kim
Kim
10 years ago

Also, expressing negative personality traits is not the same as actually having a disorder.

Zolnier
Zolnier
10 years ago

I wonder if it’s something particular about video games that attracts virulent sexists, or if their presence is just particularly visible in that medium.

blahlistic (@blahlistic)

@Zolnier…I honestly would like to know the answer to that myself…more to the point , i wonder how many guys IRL secretly think like this, and hide it?

Bogdan
Bogdan
10 years ago

Speaking of gamebros out to destroy Zoe Quinn, they have been posting a lot more shit on 4chan and chat rooms how to attack her and the SJW. If there’s any good in this it’s that ZQ herself is screen capping a lot of the stuff here and is hoping to use this as evidence in court.

And it seems her ex is an MRA.

https://storify.com/strictmachine/gameovergate

Lea
Lea
10 years ago

Zolnier ,
Well think about it. Where else are they going to be able to shoot sex workers and grope exotic dancers or see women treated to sexualized violence they can actively participate in with no consequences and surrounded by other men who think it’s fun? Of course the state of video games today attracts misogynists. To me, that seems like their favorite part of gaming. Why else would they lose it over Sarkeesian’s criticisms of tropes against women in gaming?

Maybe if games treated women like people, they would attract more players who consider women people.

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