Confused Cats Against Feminism has gone viral, as the Internet kids say.
In less than a week, my humble Tumblr blog has picked up more than 12,000 followers on Tumblr and has generated nearly 20,000 “notes.” It’s been featured in two dozen well-known publications so far, ranging from Jezebel to Cosmopolitan to Le Monde (yes, the Le Monde), and on who knows how many lesser-known sites. It was discussed on The Reid Report on MSNBC. And my assorted inboxes are swelling with literally hundreds of submissions.
So why — other than KITTIES — has the blog struck such a chord?
I wrote out some thoughts on the blog’s origin and its appeal for a Huffington Post writer; unfortunately she got them too late to use in her piece, so I thought I’d share a slightly reworked version of them here:
Obviously, the main inspiration for the blog was frustration with the Women Against Feminism page, and the media coverage of it that seemed to suggest that a couple dozen women holding up antifeminist signs meant that feminism was dead, or at least in crisis. This seemed to me a silly conclusion to draw, especially considering that most of the siigns weren’t so much a reaction to feminism itself as to a caricature of it.
But this is rather typical. I deal with antifeminists — most of them men — every day on We Hunted the Mammoth, and it’s kind of amazing how few of them know even the slightest bit about what feminism really is. They’re battling the feminist bogeywoman in their own heads.
In a way, they’re like anti-Semites whose supposed knowledge about Jewish people comes from reading “The Protocols of the Elders of Zion,” a phony document concocted not by any actual Elders of Zion (there are no such people) but by other anti-Semites.
Anyway, what really crystallized it for me was reading this post by Jenny Lawson on the Blogess, a hilarious little rant about the ridiculousness of the Women Against Feminism signs, in which she imagined putting up her own blog with people holding baffling signs like “I don’t need air because LOTS OF IT IS FARTS. I’M NOT BREATHING FARTS. YOU BREATHE FARTS.”
And then something clicked. There was probably a cat sitting on me at the time, so naturally I thought of doing a blog involving cats. To be honest, though, I’ll use any excuse to post pictures of cats.
So why are so many people connecting with this blog in such a big way? Obviously, people on the internet love cats, and posting pictures of them.
But more seriously, I think the blog has tapped into the frustration that feminists feel, not only because of the straw-feminist-bashing women of the Women Against Feminism blog, but from years of arguing with Men’s Rights Activists and other antifeminists who seem to be everywhere online (they’re not actually an enormous group, just a loud one), and who stubbornly refuse to learn even the most basic facts about feminism as it really exists in the world.
There’s no point in actually arguing with these guys (and gals), because they’re living in their own world, which overlaps only slightly with the real world. Mocking them with cat pics seems more appropriate than trying to convince them, say, that women in America really do deserve the right to vote even though they’re not required to fill out a meaningless form with Selective Service registering them for a military draft that is about as likely to return as Ham and Bananas Hollandaise or Tuna and Jell-o Pie.
Men’s Rights Activists — and all the other assholes of their ilk — want to be taken seriously. But they don’t deserve to be taken seriously. What they deserve is laughter.
As I told Rebecca Cohen of Mother Jones:
Men’s rights activists have a quote that’s supposedly from Gandhi that they like to recite constantly: ‘First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. As they see it, they’ve gotten to the point where people are fighting them. I’d like to knock them back to the point where people are laughing at them.
And with the help of hundreds of feminists and their kitties, not to mention you all here, I think that’s just what we’re doing.
So here are some links to the media coverage of Confused Cats Against Feminism so far. I’ve marked the longer articles with asterisks; those with two asterisks include quotes from me.
Newsweek**
Huffington Post* (UK)
Huffington Post *(US)
Cosmopolitan (US)
Cosmopolitan (UK)
Cosmopolitan (AUS)
Marie Claire (AUS)
Foreign language coverage:
Le Monde (France)
Corriere della Sera (Italy)
MeltyBuzz (Italy)
Terrafemina (France)
With the exception of the piece on The Hollywood Gossip, which is a bit confused about the Confused Cats, all this coverage has been glowingly positive. The only negative media mention I’ve found comes in a National Review piece about Women Against Feminism. Frankly, I’d be a bit alarmed if the National Review were to have anything but a negative reaction to the blog.
Next year, on my thirty-fifth birthday, Mr. FM is considering having me encased from head to toe in carbonite. That way I won’t offend anyone with my awful oldness. As an added bonus, I won’t be able to eat bonbons, go out looking for alpha assholes, or max out his credit card with purchases of mind-control makeup. It’s the ideal solution when you have an ancient wife in today’s corrupt world.
Congrats, David!
Thanks, everyone!
Cloudiah, I already have a cover for that book:
http://manboobz.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/mythhumanpower.png?w=604
It’s pretty funny how a blog about confused cats got more media coverage within a week than A Voice for Men got in its whole existance.
I guess they’ll start an MRA Tomcat-themed twitter soon.
Where’s our commemorative coin?
It’s a great ideia and I’m really enjoying!
Also, there is good Brazilian reaction too: http://lugardemulher.com.br/nao-sou-feminista-sou-felinista/ =D
We need someone to design a cat butt coin! Next contest.
Cute:
I know, I’m spamming, but someone just posted a great image of an early MRA on /r/Againstmensrights
Funny thread on that picture from /r/TheBluePill has even more pictures:
http://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/2c5s9k/trps_intellectual_forefather_photo_by_my_dad_in/
I think kittehserf did one in the original coin thread. She’s so prescient!
William Blake on National Review: “Listen to the fool’s reproach! it is a kingly title.”
Beautiful!
I put up the Miss Andry Issue on Feminist Borg if anyone wants to check it out! I really need a critique, ideas and tips on it.
Maybe we should come up with passages in the myth of human power?
That kittehserf coin does sound familiar. Maybe she can post it again for more LOLs.
@Kakanian
Well I think that’s your feminist brain auto-filtering all the coverage their conference got on the news. It was totally the most successful conference in the history of conferences,look at some of those pictures for evidence,that hall is almost half full in some pictures.
Paul Elam is on the verge of writing something completely rational and not hate filled in any way in response to the tiny amount of coverage confused cats has got.Any minute now, any day soon,ok as soon as he’s fleeced his fans for more money.
Some Red Pill clown said:
Well, it IS. The basic goal hasn’t changed a bit. And I’m more than 10 years past that, and still wearing them rather well (“rocking” is for guitars and babies; ye olde kneecaps haven’t sunk to ye ancient ankles yet), so…>razz<
Well gosh darn YOU, because it didn’t. We know a fake meme when we see one. Do you? Didn’t think so.
Now wipe that drool off your chin, loser.
Same turd, ‘nother idiotic quote:
We didn’t build the Berlin Wall, jackass…MEN did that. And it was a WOMAN who started the Arab Spring.
Well done, that’s a very impressive list! I would put our kitten on there, but she’s too young and crazy to have any opinions, even confused ones…
One of the strangest things anti-feminists believe about feminism… and it’s all over this Red Pill article… is that all feminists agree with one another. I mean, sure, when your whole narrative is about hordes of screeching monsters, and the views of the most extreme stand in for the views of them all, I can see why it’s necessary.
But, how on earth does someone pay even the most cursory attention for more than five minutes without noticing that, holy shit, these people disagree with each other a whole damn lot.
Ted the Fed, it’s because they don’t actually pay attention to objective reality. Anyone they disagree with is automatically Bad, and therefore on the same side.
Same etiology as the RWNJs who mock ‘liberals’ for supporting both GLBT rights and the imposition of sharia law – the NJs are against both, so the Enemy must support both.
Someone mention mah kittybutt coin?
WORD. I recently re-read it. It holds up, but it is a bummer since not a whole lot has changed.
I get sad watching Mary Tyler Moore reruns. 🙁 And in the 80s we had Sarah Connor and Ripley. And in the 70s and 80s we had Debbie Harry and Chrissie Hynde.
OMG! You f’in ROCK! Brava! And thank you!