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Dean Esmay's Secret Plan to Fight Sexism by Calling Everyone a Whore

Let’s say that you’re the “Managing Editor” of a website known far and wide for calling women “whores,” as well as an assortment of other 4- and 5-letter words generally considered crude sexist slurs. Let’s just say that you had a convention, and that during this convention your official spokeswoman went on a bit of a name calling rampage on Twitter, repeatedly attacking a woman who had tried to report on said convention as an “attention whore,” a “fame whore,” and a “little whore,” and offering similar “whore”-based assessments to other critics of the site.

And let’s just say that despite all this you also had a desire to convince the world that your site was not actually the misogynistic cesspit that it so obviously is. Would you:

1) Apologize for using the words “whore” and “bitch” and “c*nt” and other similar sexist epithets against women.

2) In your capacity as editor, quietly remove the word “whore” (and “bitch” and “c*nt”) from future postings on the site, and tell your PR maven to maybe come up with a less misogynistic insult of choice.

3) Start calling men whores so that no one can accuse you of hating women because, see we use “whore” to refer to men too!

The answer, of course, is 3 — at least if you’re Dean Esmay, “Managing Editor” of A Voice for Men. In a recent comment thread on AVFM, he declared:

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CONFIDENTIAL TO D— E—-: No one is buying your bullshit. Also, if you want to try to convince the world that you’re a Friend of Sex Workers, you should probably stop using the word “whore” as an insult for women or men.

 

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Fnoicby
Fnoicby
10 years ago

Well, looks like Bittersteel got exactly what he came here looking for in Sebhai.

Kate
Kate
10 years ago

seriously Sebha, STOP. You’re being insulting to everyone who reads, posts and lurks the comment section with crap like that.

katz
10 years ago

Reminded me of this.

Ha, I was thinking of that too.

sebhai
sebhai
10 years ago

“And if you enact a law that takes it from me because someone pulled my name out of a phonebook”

Again no woman would want to enact that kind of law…

WatermelonSugar
WatermelonSugar
10 years ago

Sebhai, please stop making sex-shaming comments like “no woman will ever come forward to you.”

Can someone email the mods? I am on my phone, so it’s hard for me to do.

fromafar2013
10 years ago

Ack.

No, no no.

@sebhai

Please read the FAQ and the Welcome Package, there’s so much wrong with your recent posts, I don’t even know where to start.

@2aimai

No ableism please. There’s more wrong with what you said that just the use of the word ‘crazy’.

Shadow
Shadow
10 years ago

@sebhai

a) Female is not a species
b) Unattractiveness is not objective nor universal, and does not create personality traits or moral/political beliefs
c) Obesity does not magically change one’s sexual preferences, nor are obese women some sort of garbage disposals/scavengers that take the men that non-obese women don’t want

Buttercup Q. Skullpants
Buttercup Q. Skullpants
10 years ago

Reminded me of this.

Hee! Toddlers and libertarians have about the same grasp of morality.

That also reminded me of this:

http://the-toast.net/2014/05/05/rand-rainbow-fish/

damselindetech
10 years ago

UPDATE FROM THE SUPER SECRET SOLID-GOLD FEMINIST BUNKER UNDER WHOLE FOODS:

We have wifi and bon bons down here, so leave your luxury condos and sprawling estates with only as much as your Gucci bags and Manolo Blahnik’s can carry.

Are we all set for flavored water and scented fucking candles? ‘Cause I can pick up some, no problem, since I have to get the lunch meat anyway.

That’s what the manginas are for. They’re harvesting the WMT and adding essence of bon bon for flavouring as we speak.

katz
10 years ago

I have contacted the Dark Lordlings about Sebhai.

Shadow
Shadow
10 years ago

WMT? Wooly Mammoth Testicles?!!!!!

The misandrists are coming!!!! The misandrists are coming!!! /runs down the street ringing bell

Leum
Leum
10 years ago

@sebhai: Please either recognize that you’ve offended virtually all the commenters here and acknowledge this, or leave.

damselindetech
10 years ago

I’m thinking NAMRAALT is either playing Mad Gabs or maybe is a bot. This is the evolution of AI. They become sentient, and then immediately fall into ennui and existential crises that cause them to lash out in vain attempts to understand existence.

Isabelle
Isabelle
10 years ago

“I just quoted the French law from the French government website that literally makes it a criminal offense to get a paternity test. Literally!”

Eh? If you don’t understand neither the law, nor French, you should stay away from both. What you just wrote is ludicrous and is not even remotely supported by the link you provided. I don’t have the time nor the desire to do your education, but here is a link that explains it to you in French.

http://expertadn.fr/le-test-de-paternite-legal-en-france/

Lea
Lea
10 years ago

Sebhai,
You aren’t helping us out by breaking the rules. You didn’t just insult bs, you insulted anyone reading or participating here who is fat or without a sexual partner.
Then you doubled down.
Not OK.

sebhai
sebhai
10 years ago

Don’t worry,feminist don’t believe in violence but a lot of misogynists do.
Feminist too don’t believe in government domination of the hard workers but North Korea do.
P/S they’re not feminists
Feminists don’t believe in jailing poor men because they don’t have jobs to pay the child support towards non biological child but if it is your biological child that’s a different story

Feminists don’t believe in violence by the family courts.
Feminists don’t believe in theft. feminists don’t believe that it’s ok to beat and kill men,men beat and killed each other more than women beat and killed men.
Feminists also don’t believe in abuse of children.
But you seem offended at the assumption you need to pay for a child that’s not yours so just leave the to the allegedly abusive feminist then?

Skye
Skye
10 years ago

Thanks, leftwing fox

katz
10 years ago

Sebhai, if you don’t respond when people try to talk to you, we’re going to have a problem here.

weirwoodtreehugger
weirwoodtreehugger
10 years ago

Is anyone else suspicious about having two commenters in a short span who completely ignore criticism?

piratejennie
10 years ago

@sebhai

Seriously cut it out. Mods have been notified.

maistrechat
10 years ago
Reply to  Isabelle

@Isabelle

What I especially liked about the link you posted is that it explicitly states that you can use a DNA test to establish paternity. Seeing as BS has ignored all the evidence to the contrary regarding Australia, I doubt it will accomplish much, but I like it just the same.

WatermelonSugar
WatermelonSugar
10 years ago

…is Sebhai trolling too? Because seriously, I count three sex/fat/etc shaming statements and zero accountability for it.

Lea
Lea
10 years ago

Sebhai,
He’s gone, but we’re all still here and waiting for you to recognize you’re behavior was unacceptable or leave.

Isabelle
Isabelle
10 years ago

“This guy is having a serious breakdown right here, right now. This is no laughing matter. This is a seriously disturbed person. I wouldn’t bother arguing with him. His vantage point is so skewed and crazy that he is probably not really functional in the real world.”
Agreed. And hanging out on MRM sites wont help any. 🙁

fromafar2013
10 years ago

Is anyone else suspicious about having two commenters in a short span who completely ignore criticism?

Yeah, I’m wary of the ‘talking to a brick wall’ types too.

Hello? Are you there? I understand that threads move quick and sometimes you just jump back to IRL for a bit and need to catch up, but really…

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