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Dean Esmay's Secret Plan to Fight Sexism by Calling Everyone a Whore

Let’s say that you’re the “Managing Editor” of a website known far and wide for calling women “whores,” as well as an assortment of other 4- and 5-letter words generally considered crude sexist slurs. Let’s just say that you had a convention, and that during this convention your official spokeswoman went on a bit of a name calling rampage on Twitter, repeatedly attacking a woman who had tried to report on said convention as an “attention whore,” a “fame whore,” and a “little whore,” and offering similar “whore”-based assessments to other critics of the site.

And let’s just say that despite all this you also had a desire to convince the world that your site was not actually the misogynistic cesspit that it so obviously is. Would you:

1) Apologize for using the words “whore” and “bitch” and “c*nt” and other similar sexist epithets against women.

2) In your capacity as editor, quietly remove the word “whore” (and “bitch” and “c*nt”) from future postings on the site, and tell your PR maven to maybe come up with a less misogynistic insult of choice.

3) Start calling men whores so that no one can accuse you of hating women because, see we use “whore” to refer to men too!

The answer, of course, is 3 — at least if you’re Dean Esmay, “Managing Editor” of A Voice for Men. In a recent comment thread on AVFM, he declared:

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CONFIDENTIAL TO D— E—-: No one is buying your bullshit. Also, if you want to try to convince the world that you’re a Friend of Sex Workers, you should probably stop using the word “whore” as an insult for women or men.

 

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fromafar2013
10 years ago

But your worldview is that women should dominate men

More straw feminists. I’m getting tired of you claiming we think things that we don’t actually think. Really, now.

Ally S
10 years ago

All humans aren’t equally valuable. Nobody has any value except the value that they give themselves.

That’s pretty inconsistent with like…basically any egalitarian worldview.

brooked
brooked
10 years ago

No, actually I was feminist a few years ago.

When you were 15?

Flying Mouse
Flying Mouse
10 years ago

I’ll meet y’all in the solid gold bunker under Whole Foods.

Oh, goodie, that worked out. I can pick up the cold cuts on the way down.

maistrechat
10 years ago
Reply to  sebhai

@sebhai

I can understand being upset if you’re in a relationship that is supposed to be monogamous and someone has an outside sexual partner. I don’t understand staying in that relationship but not wanting to raise a child as the result of that encounter because they aren’t biologically related. In that case you’re just punishing a human being because of something somebody else did that they had no control over.

sebhai
sebhai
10 years ago

“When women start taking care of other people’s children and not suing hospitals for mixing up babies, then you’ll have something to talk about. But right now all you’re doing is championing ranking of DNA by women only and not by men, which is sexist beyond belief.”

We’re already taking care other people’ children,not an issue…
So you’re going to sue your ex wife for lying to you about her child’s real father.Go ahead I don’t think most feminist would be offended by it..

Oh wait a minute you don’t have an ex-wife

fromafar2013
10 years ago

My views on minimum wage: I don’t support it. I think it’s harmful and drives down wages. I also don’t think people have a right to a minimum wage and that people have the ability to negotiate their own contracts with their employers. If jobs wouldn’t pay anything without a minimum wage, why aren’t doctors, lawyers, engineers, and police officers paid only minimum wage?

Awesome, thank you for humoring me. The other guy was pro minimum income and I was just trying to square that with other libertarians I’d heard speaking about the issue.

bittersteel
bittersteel
10 years ago

“Time to switch to libertarian troll bingo, all. Get your card here: http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3456/3184751741_44b5a0782e.jpg

Some of those are true and some aren’t. One is the white thing with a bad haircut. I’m not white. Also, please stop shaming people for their appearance. Second, I don’t care what the Founding Fathers said. They weren’t libertarians. They were oligarchical slavers and thieves who suppressed the anarchist/anti-tax rebellions and crushed the Articles of Confederation for the creation of an intrusive federal government.

maistrechat
10 years ago

You can have your own religion in France. You can’t get public funding for it and there are some (severe, I admit) restrictions on how you express that religion in public.

To adopt U.S. parlance, laïcité governs conduct, not belief.

katz
10 years ago

That word doesn’t phase me anymore. I honestly believe that selfishness, as long as you’re not violating anybody’s negative rights, is at the very least least amoral and at most 100% the ideal form of morality.

And there we have it.

sebhai
sebhai
10 years ago

“Traditionalism tells me to be a provider and protector for women because they’re weak, which I don’t think is fair.”

Traditionalism from…

bittersteel
bittersteel
10 years ago

“So, you’re saying its completely impossible for a trans person or a gay person to be misled about fathering a child? You think this is a completely impossible thing to happen?”

I suppose it’s possible. And in that case, a woman would be the one doing it and feminism would support it just like in the traditional situation. So why does the fact that someone is trans-gendered or gay have any relevance to paternity fraud?

katz
10 years ago

Some of those are true and some aren’t. One is the white thing with a bad haircut. I’m not white. Also, please stop shaming people for their appearance. Second, I don’t care what the Founding Fathers said. They weren’t libertarians. They were oligarchical slavers and thieves who suppressed the anarchist/anti-tax rebellions and crushed the Articles of Confederation for the creation of an intrusive federal government.

Yes, but you’re a dumb fuck and we do not care what you think.

Ally S
10 years ago

You guys do realize that there is more than one libertarian in the world, right? I get that you guys have had a libertarian troll on here, but that doesn’t mean that every libertarian is that one person. Just an FYI.

You are showing yourself to be like just about every single libertarian I have ever encountered. Just an FYI!

brooked
brooked
10 years ago

@bittersweet

You use the term “Alpha God” and expect people to believe you have any understanding of human relationships? Interesting.

damselindetech
10 years ago

UPDATE FROM THE SUPER SECRET SOLID-GOLD FEMINIST BUNKER UNDER WHOLE FOODS:

We have wifi and bon bons down here, so leave your luxury condos and sprawling estates with only as much as your Gucci bags and Manolo Blahnik’s can carry.

bittersteel
bittersteel
10 years ago

“That’s pretty inconsistent with like…basically any egalitarian worldview.”

Value is literally something that we make up. literally. It means nothing outside of your mind. Nothing has any objective value.

WatermelonSugar
WatermelonSugar
10 years ago

I am literally sitting here with a bag of popcorn, refreshing on my phone.

This is awesome.

fromafar2013
10 years ago

And in that case, a woman would be the one doing it and feminism would support it just like in the traditional situation.

News flash, trans women exist. Trans women are women. And again, it isn’t something feminism supports.

bittersteel
bittersteel
10 years ago

“Yes, but you’re a dumb fuck and we do not care what you think.”

Yeah, I know. I’m sowwy. Next time I’ll duct tape my mouth and let you speak for me because that’s what non-feminist minorities are supposed to do.

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

I suppose it’s possible.

Well, at least you admit that something isn’t an always/never thing.

And in that case, a woman would be the one doing it and feminism would support it just like in the traditional situation.

You keep saying this. Where are you getting this? Do you think feminists have secret schools that teach women the ways of sperm-jacking and cuckolding?

katz
10 years ago

So why should we care about paternity fraud anyway if selfishness is a virtue? Aren’t those awful feminazis, or whoever is committing the alleged fraud, just being awesome selfish people who are totally owning at life by milking some other poor sap for all he’s worth?

katz
10 years ago

Value is literally something that we make up. literally. It means nothing outside of your mind. Nothing has any objective value.

In that case, I value you shutting the fuck up.

Yeah, I know. I’m sowwy. Next time I’ll duct tape my mouth and let you speak for me because that’s what non-feminist minorities are supposed to do.

That is the value that I have made up. u mad?

bittersteel
bittersteel
10 years ago

“News flash, trans women exist. Trans women are women. And again, it isn’t something feminism supports.”

Well obviously I’m talking about women who are capable of producing children. So that excludes infertile women and other women who don’t have a uterus.

Feminists hate trans women by the way. Here’s an article about how feminists bullied a trans woman who wanted to join their community until she committed suicide: http://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/29ob2i/til_a_swedish_transexual_was_kicked_out_of_a/

maistrechat
10 years ago
Reply to  bittersteel

Value is literally something that we make up. literally. It means nothing outside of your mind. Nothing has any objective value.

Assuming this is true,

(1) paternity fraud doesn’t matter
(2)it means humans are free to develop their own value systems.

So the point you’re making is … ?

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