One last AVFM Conference update, with links to two more stories about that historic event.
The first, a gently skeptical Washington Post story by Monica Hesse titled, with a certain irony, “Men’s rights activists, gathering to discuss all the ways society has done them wrong.”
The whole thing is worth reading. My favorite bit:
One presenter, a military veteran speaking on the treatment of veterans returning from war, put up a PowerPoint slide alleging that 70 percent of men returning from war get divorced, and 90 percent do so within five years. When asked about the source of this statistic, he said, “That particular statistic is from my personal observations. I’m just speaking here as a dude.”
Ah, the prestigious Journal of Statistical Dudeness!
The second, well, it’s a bit more disturbing. DarkHorseSwore – a regular in the AgainstMensRights subreddit who raised money to go to Detroit to cover the convention only to be turned away at the door – managed to finally get an audience with some of the conference attendees and organizers – after the convention, as they celebrated at a bar and then in a hotel lobby. She got this access because none of them knew who she was. (Eventually Dean Esmay showed up and had her escorted off the premises.)
Now DarkHorseSwore has set up a website – DarkHorseSwore.com – and has started posting about the strange 5 ½ hours she spent amongst the AVFMers. She tells the tale of a strange encounter with one of the Honey Badgers and then an even stranger tale of an even stranger encounter with an old man and his camera. You’ll have to go read it. Be warned: It’s creepy as hell.
Oh, and she picked up some amazing conference swag as well. And by “amazing” I mean “possibly the worst conference swag I’ve ever seen, I mean, what the hell, and also why are they all beige?”
@Flying Mouse
“That kind of philosophy speaks to the inner adolescent: you’re special and misunderstood, everyone else is a useless waster, you deserve everything you have because of the clarity of your vision and the sweat of your brow. ”
I like your explanation. It works better than mine. I don’t know to what extent it can be generalize to how some of the most extreme ideas got steam when economical conditions impacted the demography of the guys in their 20-30s. It seems to be the case but I don’t have either the scholarship or time to document it better.
Paul Ryan wrote an essay all about it!
The Cause of Life Can’t be Severed from the Cause of Freedom
The highlight is in the fifth paragraph he compares the rights of his hypothetical car to the rights of a hypothetical widowed woman living next door. Luckily, he magnanimously decides she deserves a few.
I just read a great description here – “I feel that Atlas Shrugged was like Twilight for sociopaths.”
@Isabelle – I don’t have any educated answers either. But I have some beautiful unsubstantiated theories!!! 🙂
@flyng mouse This reminds me of when a catholic randroid, coincidentally Paul Ryan, ran afoul of the Jesuits.
http://www.esquire.com/_mobile/blogs/politics/Paul_Ryan_Meets_The_Jesuits
For all the noise about being a policy wonk, Ryan doesn’t live up to the hype. Joe Biden’s debate with Ryan made me feel sorry for Ryan for half a second before I remembered all the disingenuous bullshit his budget proposal was marketed with.
Regarding a WP widgets, they’re the thingies in the sidebar/footer/etc — look over to where the latest posts and whatnot are on this site, those things. The meta one includes the link to login to your site, and that really shouldn’t be totally publicly visible. On your WP dashboard (the bit were you write posts), you can go to appearance -> widgets and edit them. Unless you’re sure it needs to be there, the meta one should not be in use.
It speaks to the state of the conservative movement in the U.S. when he’s one of the best they’ve got.
@kittehserf – 😀
I also like this one by John Rogers (everyone else has probably seen it, but it’s obligatory in any Ayn Rand discussion):
“There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs.”
Ye Gads! Why do people keep giving Paul Ryan credit as the intellectual of the Republican party? I know they’re short on thinkers, but just, no. He just spouts the same old Reaganomics bootstrap crap. It’s nothing interesting. I guess he’s marginally better than Newt “let’s bring back child labor” Gingrich.
Funnily, Ryan has tried to distance himself from his Rand fandom. Is it because her “philosophies” are repugnant? No. Because of her atheism.
Argenti, thanks! I don’t think my log in shows, but I’d have to log out to check. 😛
Flying Mouse, I love that quote!
(Yes, I’m sitting here at 2am because my freaking e-reader froze and I needed to find out how to fix the blasted thing … )
Paul Ryan is the intellectual of the GOP just like GWW is the intellectual of the mra
and by that i mean they just pretend to be smart while saying shit that makes absolutely no sense and their followers eat it up.
Austrian school economics actively rejects empirical evidence.
Yikes, I wonder how Ryan thought he could mix free market capitalism with what is in essence Liberation theology. But then I cant explain right wing Christians either. I will fault the left to not have attacked the obvious contradictions in Christian Conservatism. The New Testament describes one of first socialist economic system. No wonder any Jesuit worth its salt can take him on and make a fool of him.
@Isabelle Don’t tell that liberation not to the Moral Majority types. They believe Jesus spoke English and loved capitalism and ‘merica. He certainly would have flipped any tables of any money changers.
Folks, I was sure, and I’m still sure, that the wooden necklace thing was a depiction of an explosion, meant to show the (perhaps violent) disassociation of men from women.
Oh, and I regret the necessity to say this, but I’ve been using “badger” in my online persona longer than female misogynists have been using “honey badger”. Not best pleased.
I’ve been looking forward to Time’s account of the conference. I’m glad the writer added the fact that Paul Elam trashed her online.
I thought the Time piece was pretty fair. It acknowledges that men and boys have some legit issues and that particular men have been had a rough go with the family court system. Of course, she also lays down some criticism on the anti-woman tone and the fact that some of the assertions of their speakers just aren’t supported by evidence. These are legitimate and fair-minded critiques (as it’s the over-the-top “evil empire,” “women suck,” “women-will-bring-down-civilization” rhetoric that really takes away from their message and alienates people who aren’t standing at the fringes with them). Her suggestion that its doubtful that the movement as it stands today can really lend support to suffering men is spot on. it’s a pretty balanced article, especially in light of that Elam trashed her. I would have been far more snarky but her tone is fairly professional and detached.
Of course, the pro-misters there are dumping on her, insinuating that she’s a hack and writing in bad faith. Seems to me that what AVfM and their crew define as “journalism” is pure unadulterated cheerleading. Nothing but a pure sycophant is ever going to get acceptance form them. They would feel completely at home within a totalitarian society – if they were allowed to be in charge of it. This isn’t surprising considering that so many of them are incapable of critical thought. Mindlessly accepting statistics without examining the methodology of how they are attained is not thinking critically. Interpretation of evidence is not “fact” that makes certain ideas magically unassailable.
I chortled when one of the mister commenters linked the Reynolds article and declared it good journalism. Obvious conflict of interest is never good journalism.
Just to be clear, I didn’t say I thought Elam & Co. couldn’t be dangerous. As a matter of fact, I think many people over there, including him, would do some pretty heinous things if they thought they could get away with it or that nobody would know. But saying that doesn’t require a laundry list of executive skills attributed to Elam in every post, all of which I fail to see that he has, anyway. Jared’s posts just seemed to be trying to whip up a frenzy. And sorry, I agree with those that think he’s a sock.
Just wanted to clarify. I’ll drop it. 🙂
@teality
I especially had trouble with his oohing and ahhing over the conference and it’s “scholars”. Yes, there was a Canadian senator, but a good portion of the speakers were actual AVfM staff and hanger-ons. Mike Buchanan was a speaker and that alone is pretty humiliating. Layer on the fact that AVfM pretends to lead a global men’s movement and couldn’t get three hundred attendees to show up to the second real life event they put on in god knows how many years. Some of the sad and broken men that attended may be sympathetic, but the conference was a complete joke.
Maybe he was just quirky rather than a sock, but he really needed to slow his roll.
See, the problem is that people put the quote marks in the wrong places. They’re to busy using them for emphasis on “real” butter, so they don’t have any left to put around Paul Ryan, “intellectual.”
The sad thing is… Ryan seems to be what passes for intellectual rigor in the US Republican Party.
“The network of groups controlling the money (Haven in Oakland County Michigan being one of them) are very deeply invested in the myth that domestic violence is primarily perpetrated by men (it isn’t) and the myth that sexual assault is primarily male-perpetrated (it isn’t). ”
OK I can logically understand how domestic violence n general may not be primarily perpetrated by men in the United States (other countries are completely different) but sexual assault?!
Where are the stats that show American women are raping people more than American men are?!?!?!
“I especially had trouble with his oohing and ahhing over the conference and it’s “scholars”. Yes, there was a Canadian senator, but a good portion of the speakers were actual AVfM staff and hanger-ons. Mike Buchanan was a speaker and that alone is pretty humiliating. Layer on the fact that AVfM pretends to lead a global men’s movement and couldn’t get three hundred attendees to show up to the second real life event they put on in god knows how many years. Some of the sad and broken men that attended may be sympathetic, but the conference was a complete joke.”
Matt Forney was in attendance, seen in the back row of Jessica Roy’s twitter photo posted up by this site here;
https://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2014/06/29/with-a-voice-for-mens-conference-over-paul-elam-has-found-a-new-woman-to-hate
The interesting part of that photo is, remember the conversation we had here about what the demographics of the MRM were? Where people thought a high proportion of them were teens and college aged guys? Look at that photo. Not a man under 40 in sight.
This could mean that the young internet MRAs have no intention of ever doing anything except scream at women on the internet, or it could just mean that AVFM has cornered the “bitter angry divorced guy who doesn’t understand why he can’t find a new wife half his age” corner of the MRA market.
@ cassandrakitty — perhaps the younger crowd are a little more social media savvy. Might not want photos of themselves at this event turning up, should they ever get an actual girlfriend.
Or maybe the younger ones couldn’t afford to go.