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Hatemongering Bigots Are All Alike, Misandrist: The Dean Esmay Story

Sometimes it's hard to decide whether to go with "hatemongering bigot" or "bigot hatemonger."
Dean Esmay choosing his words: Sometimes it’s hard to decide whether to go with “hatemongering bigot” or “bigot hatemonger.”

It’s Twitter Thursday here on We Hunted the Mammoth! Which is my way of saying that I spent last night poking around in the Twitterings of some of the A Voice for Men crowd. And I’ve decided that, as much as I enjoy Judgy B’s passive-aggressive evasiveness and schoolyard taunts, I think I like Dean Esmay’s tweets better.

Why? Because he tweets as if at any moment his head might literally explode.

Let’s take a look, shall we, at this selection of tweets from Mr. Esmay I gathered up last night. I have taken the liberty of highlighting some, well, let’s just call them recurring motifs.

dean1fixed

dean2

 

deanfuckbigotdeangoddamneddeangofuckdeanhatebigotlaugh

I was sort of thinking that “Bigots Usually Laugh When Their Hate Is Shown” could be the title of the second volume in the Dean Esmay Story.

deanhatefulbigotrydeanhatemongdean4inarowdeanhatemonger2 deanhatemongerinbigotsdeanhatemongerliedeanlyingbigotdeanhatemongfabdeantroll

U mad bro?

Oh, one more. I just like that in one tweet, he talks about “gendercide” being committed against men. And then two tweets later he calls someone a bigot for saying that violence is gendered.

 

deanviolenvegenderednot

I would also like to point out that all of these tweets were tweeted in the last ten days. I can only wonder how many hatemongering bigots he says bye bye to in a year.

 

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Faint Praise
Faint Praise
6 years ago

This can’t be good for his health. I hope someone at their Men’s Health Workshop this weekend intervenes.

duckbunny
6 years ago

Has someone stolen his thesaurus?

MaudeLL
6 years ago

Once upon a time, in this comment section, I wrote that I thought Dean Esmay was not as much of an asshole as the others, that he could actually have a conversation with a feminist like one would with a human being they disagree with. I thought he even cared about men’s rights a little bit, as opposed to other AVfM staff (insert preposterous job title here).

Holy shit was I wrong. Or maybe he’s changed? Anyway. Sorry everyone. You were right. He’s a dishonest asshole. His bullshit accusations of child porn support are particularly disgusting.

piratejennie
6 years ago

It also looks like he’s flipping off his own head.

Or us.

Probably us.

cloudiah
6 years ago

If Dean Esmay isn’t flipping you off, or calling you a hate mongering bigot, you’re probably doing something wrong. Re-examine your life choices. Until they meet with his strongest disapproval, you’re doing it wrong.

Viscaria
Viscaria
6 years ago

Who knew there were so many ways to say “no u k bye!”

fluffypeony
6 years ago

This man needs a cup of herbal tea and a nice kitty (a purrmongerer) in his lap.

insanitybytes22
6 years ago

After a while it starts to sound like the clutch in a car starting to go, gears grinding. Bigot-hatemonger-ignorant-hate-monger-big-bigot-bigotry-bigoted.

I must say however, it’s a refreshing change from endless variations of the C-word.

Buttercup Q. Skullpants

I found the source code:

while(angry misogynist) do
{
System.out.println(“hatemonger”);
System.out.println(“bigot”);
System.out.println(“hating”);
System.out.println(“bigotmonger”);
System.out.println(“bye bye”);
}

Fnoicby
Fnoicby
6 years ago

The level of projection is absolutely astounding.

leftwingfox
6 years ago

Isn’t this the sort of language people mock tumblr for?

Fnoicby
Fnoicby
6 years ago

Buttercup, that made me lol!

piratejennie
6 years ago

Also it really frightens me that they “work false rape cases”.

I am not in any way saying that people who have had false accusations leveled at them do not need legal, financial & emotional support, however I don’t think AVfM is the most trustworthy resource for those services.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
6 years ago

Fluffypeony — hi! You new around here? I’m sure someone will be by shortly with a welcome package if so, in the meantime, what did kitties ever do to deserve being stuck with Esmay?

Tea’s a go though, if nothing else, at least he can’t talk and drink at the same time!

MaudeLL
6 years ago

@ Buttercup
I see an infinite while loop:

twitter = “outrage”
while twitter:
print “bigotmonger hateful hater”
print “I won’t tweet with you anymore”

MaudeLL
6 years ago

Stupid indents don’t show

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
6 years ago

Buttercup — nawh, just use PHP —

Foreach ($feminists as $feminist) {
Echo $feminist . “Is a hatemongering bigot, bye bye you hating bigotmonger”;
}

Though I guess you could combine your prints (is that JS? I loathe all C based languages, so I’m totally biased here)

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
6 years ago

T  e s t

katz
6 years ago

Also it really frightens me that they “work false rape cases”.

That shouldn’t frighten you. These are exactly the people you want to defend rapists.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
6 years ago

Maude, use  

Buttercup Q. Skullpants

Argenti – love the PHP snippet. Though that might be too modern and elegant for Esmay. He seems like more of a LISP or FORTRAN guy.

I had some css in there as well, but I was too lazy to look up the escape characters and WordPress ate it. It was along the lines of

head size=large style=”color:Apoplectic Sunrise; font-family:Courier Extra Ragey; align:way-right-of-center”

…Also, I now have the Everly Brothers singing “Bye bye bigoted hating hatemongering bigot monger of hate troll” in my head. It’s infuriating because it doesn’t scan.

Binjabreel
Binjabreel
6 years ago

Why do I feel like them “working false rape cases” basically involves a campaign of terror against rape victims?

breadandrosesblogger
6 years ago

Bigots and hatemongers. Bigots and hatemongers everywhere.

brooked
brooked
6 years ago

Twitter + AVfM nitwit + pre-conference jitters + need to lash out = much hilarity

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
6 years ago

Lol! I LOVE the CSS!

Should be more like this though:

.MRA {
Font-family: “courier extra ragey”;
Font-size: 8em;
Text-align: /* always */ right;
Position: absolute;
Right: 100%;
Bottom: 100%;
Display: block /* headed */;
}

.MRA .FTSU {color: black /* and blue */; background: /* blood */ red;}

8em because anything bigger always seems to completely break the page and turn it into an eye chart!

And yes, I know the display element is redundant, but I couldn’t resist.

Ken L.
6 years ago

I’m confused, I thought Esmay was a thinner, Greg Proops-like man with a bad tie.Who is this rotund mountain man like jerk?

zoon echon logon
zoon echon logon
6 years ago

He’s like a slightly less creative version of the NK News insult generator.

http://www.nk-news.net/extras/insult_generator.php

You politically illiterate philistine, we will mercilessly crush you with the weapon of singlehearted unity!

marinerachel
marinerachel
6 years ago

What I’m not understanding:

Elam criticises the appearance of his critics.

His whipping boy is fat with a receding hairline, wears silly ties and short pants.

I couldn’t give a hoot what these guys look like. Why does Paul apply different standards to himself and his people than those with whom he is not biffles though? Could it be because he’s a giant fucking hypocrite? Mebbe.

brooked
brooked
6 years ago

@Ken L

Wow, I don’t hear a lot of Greg Proops shout outs, what’s he up to lately?

In terms of physical appearance, Esmay’s most noticeable characteristics are his thin hair, pastiness, questionable facial hair and nervous energy. Nothing wrong with that, I have all those qualities myself except for the facial hair, though I’m a snappier dresser than Deano. You may be thinking of a different MRA though, because he doesn’t look much like Proops.

Kevin Kehres
6 years ago

What a bright ray of sunshine he is! /snark

Can’t imagine what kind of shitty world he lives in; but I’m certainly glad I don’t live there.

fromafar2013
6 years ago

I’m confused, I thought Esmay was a thinner, Greg Proops-like man with a bad tie.Who is this rotund mountain man like jerk?

I’m kinda with you on this… he looks nothing like his avatar in the interview he was in recently, the one with the notorious extra long tie. Is it just a shave and different glasses? Really? Am I just confused too?

I feel like I’d recognize Elam if I ever saw him in real life, but is Esmay some kind of freaking chameleon?

emilygoddess
emilygoddess
6 years ago

Why do I feel like them “working false rape cases” basically involves a campaign of terror against rape victims?

Because campaigns of terror is about all the “activism” MRAs can manage?

I feel like I’d recognize Elam if I ever saw him in real life

I saw a man last week who looked like him, and I nearly stopped in my tracks. But this was in Boston and he was volunteering in an animal shelter, so obviously it wasn’t Elam. I feel sorry for the poor lookalike.

Auntie Alias
Auntie Alias
6 years ago

I LOL’d at the CSS.

His avatar must be years old. Just look at the difference in hairlines.

They work on false rape cases, eh? Gee, I wonder what that entails. Doxxing and harassing rape victims? Publishing a leaked Title IX complaint with the names of the accused parties redacted and the names of the victims intact?? YES, THOSE FUCKERS ACTUALLY DID THAT. What a massive invasion of privacy to have intimate details of three assaults splashed across the internet. I emailed the organization who is handling the case; they hadn’t known and said they’d inform the survivors. I wish they sue AVFM’s sorry asses.

pallygirl
pallygirl
6 years ago

Publishing a leaked Title IX complaint with the names of the accused parties redacted and the names of the victims intact??

Isn’t that contempt of court? Even if this was a civil case, rather than criminal, I though it would still be under a judge and contempt rules would apply.

But I’m not a lawyer and have studied no law papers so /shrug

Auntie Alias
Auntie Alias
6 years ago

@pallygirl

I have no idea how it works. I read somewhere that when the DoE makes Title IX complaints public, they redact information like that so as not to violate the privacy of the complainants.

Integral
Integral
6 years ago

At first I was like “wtf is gendercide?”. Then I remembered how these assholes think and I’m guessing it means women won’t reproduce with them.

Tracy
Tracy
6 years ago

Was Desmay warming up for the press conference with these tweets? (That’s today, isn’t it?)

Tracy
Tracy
6 years ago

Also – I love his avatar pic. It’s misleading, bc it makes him look like this really nice, laid back dude who’d take you for rides on his motorcycle and be fun at a BBQ. Always reminds me of Bob Seger, for some reason, and then I get ‘Night Moves’ in my head. Then I hear him in a video and I’m like nooooooooo, no BBQ’s for you, go away go away.

taitaisanchez
6 years ago

@faint praise

Didn’t somegreybloke point out that the red pill seems to cause irrational anger and hatred?

Shaun DarthBatman Day
6 years ago

Integral, “gendercide” is the secret feminist plot to destroy all teh menz with our WMT powered weapons of mass male gender specific destruction. You have to be either a top tier feminist able to survive wholly on the tears of men, which is about 37 levels above Dworkin, or an MRA conspiracy theorist to know about it, though.

Shaun DarthBatman Day
6 years ago

strivingally
6 years ago

You guys point out the outrage.

That’s what I found actually scary when listening to the audio of Esmay’s phone convo with SworeByThePrecious – how quickly he escalated his aggression, seemingly disproportionate to any stimulus that might’ve provoked it. And this guy’s supposed to be the “nice” face of AVfM? That call sounded for all the world like an abuser blaming his victim for making him angry…

A lot of the AVfM positions on things like “false rape” allegations and protests against their organisation seem to be not so much well-reason arguments as Argumentum ad baculum – we must be right, because bad things will happen to people we disagree with if we’re wrong. As if their flying monkeys doxxing and intimidating people into retracting rape allegations proves they were false – when being traumatised once by the rapist and again by their community and the legal system is more than enough for most women, without the woman-hating flying monkeys adding an extra layer of crap to the turd sandwich.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
6 years ago

Your bigoted statements and belief are your bigotry.

Well, I guess it’s a good thing his title isn’t “Editor”.

Alex
6 years ago

And here I thought Alan Dershowitz overused the word “bigot”.

marinerachel
marinerachel
6 years ago

I think he’s combed his hair forward in his avatar or is wearing a piece. He probably knows Paul would make fun of him if his receding hairline were exposed.

emilygoddess
emilygoddess
6 years ago

Maybe his avatar is just an old photo? Lots of people use younger versions of themselves for their online presence.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
6 years ago

It just looks like an old photo to me. He looks a lot happier in that photo too, so my conclusion is that being involved in the manosphere is bad for men’s emotional wellbeing.

marinerachel
marinerachel
6 years ago

I know I do!

What a bummer though. The guy in the avatar looks like he eats chicken wings and gives high-fives. The real Deano just posts pissy tweets.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
6 years ago

Avatar Esmay looks like someone you’d find drinking beer and singing along to Sweet Home Alabama in the backyard at a houseparty. Current version Esmay is someone I’d be willing to leave the party to avoid. If his involvement in the MRM is what’s responsible for turning him from A to B then yikes.

kittehserf
6 years ago

Yeah, I’d say that photo’s a good decade old.

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