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Is A Voice for Men's conference kaput? Doubletree says "they are not booked with us." [UPDATE: Elam says they have another venue.]

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Woah! Just wanted to pass along this news from the Motor City Muckraker:

A controversial conference for a men’s rights group in Detroit appears to be in jeopardy after a fallout with downtown’s Hilton DoubleTree, which planned to host the event from June 26-28.

The inaugural conference at the DoubleTree has been canceled for unknown reasons, and organizers of the first International Conference on Men’s Issues haven’t said yet whether it will be moved to another hotel and conference center.

“At this time, they are not booked with us,” Larry Brown, manager of the DoubleTree, said this morning. He declined to elaborate on the cancelation.

There’s nothing on A Voice for Men about this latest development, though Esmay hinted during his Fox News appearance that they were possibly going to reconsider the Doubletree. But as of right now, AVFM is still selling tickets, as if the Doubletree convention is still a going concern.

Are they going to try to book the convention elsewhere? Or are they going to take the $29,000 they raised for “security” and, I dunno, send Esmay to a better stylist?

One other, ah, interesting detail in the Motor City Muckraker story:

When asked Tuesday whether the event would be moved, an organizer responded: “The DoubleTree GM (general manager) actually said that he has ‘feminist phobia’ and sort of laughed but in a nervous way. So its being discussed.”

It’s questionable whether this conversation ever occurred because the general manager is a woman.

Yeah. Seems like a lot of things about this convention have been pretty questionable from the start.

UPDATE: Well, one thing’s a bit clearer now, though. I called the Detroit Police and they confirmed that the Doubletree did indeed report to them that it had received threats. Who sent them, we still don’t know, but I think we can all agree that whether the threats came from some misguided feminist or “progressive” or from an MRA trying to stir shit and make feminists look bad, whoever made the threatening calls is a shithead who deserves to face the legal consequences for what they did.

UPDATE 2: According to the Detroit News, Elam says they’ve got another venue:

“We have scheduled another venue and will make an announcement on the site this evening,” group founder Paul Elam said in an email Wednesday.

So far no announcement on AVFM; I’ll post about it when there is one.

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Lids
10 years ago

Sites like this are a godsend to me, because it isn’t a normal public site like youtube or a news site so I have to very little shit-sifting to see what rational people are saying, with only the occasional screaming pissbaby jumping in.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Yep, and the screaming pissbabies will get treated as the chewtoys they are, too.

I love this site. 🙂

thewatchingdog
thewatchingdog
10 years ago

Purple Poodle is a state of mind.

pallygirl
pallygirl
10 years ago

LOL and apparently an icon too, as well as a state of mind.

zoon echon logon
zoon echon logon
10 years ago

Ann: Thanks. I’ve had kind of a bad day; that cheered me up. Depression fist bump.

Kim
Kim
10 years ago

It’s banned in Australia, for what it’s worth.

I didn’t know this. When did it happen? I mean, I knew if was less common in younger guys but I didn’t know it was law rather than fashion.

marinerachel
marinerachel
10 years ago

I just use the Gugel to look at the Finnish snowsuit. Holy moly, those things are hot.

marinerachel
marinerachel
10 years ago

Wrong thread. How friggin’ embarrassing. Rejection mindfuck brain, sorry.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Don’t worry, we all do that sooner or later! 😀

Ann Somerville
10 years ago

I misspoke slightly on the illegality of circumcision in Australia:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumcision_and_law#Australia

It’s *banned* for cosmetic reasons in public hospitals (not private), and *could* be considered assault under a strict interpretation of state law in Queensland.

So, I screwed up on that one, sorry. But at least in Australia, doctors are definitely on notice they better have a good reason, and be careful, if they don’t want to end up sued or prosecuted for assault.

strivingally
10 years ago

Interesting to look at some of what @marinerachel and @ceebarks have said, relating to the “Honey Badgers”. I can’t help thinking of the Firefly episode “Heart Of Gold”, where a brothel’s workers are sold out to the local assholes by one of their own. She’s clearly not happy with the idea of siding with a bunch of men who literally think all she’s good for is sex, but her decision seems to be predicated on the idea that it’s better to be looked down on and on the side of might, than on the wrong side of the might and reviled (and possibly killed).

I wonder if there’s an aspect of this in the feMRA mindset? That they do honestly think these men are the future, and they want to be sure they’ve got themselves on the side of the power?

Leisha Young
Leisha Young
10 years ago

I’m sorry but that’s just f****g hilarious! I am actually seriously starting to think that some of these guys have serious mental illness, maybe we should be taking pity LOL! Nope! I got over that, they are just a bunch of sociopaths/psychopaths trying to manipulate an otherwise ridiculous situation.

Leisha Young
Leisha Young
10 years ago

This is in response to marinerachel. What you need to do is align yourself with a group that will support you, then you attack with a united front. I recommend linking with ‘camethedawn’ on Google or alternatively you can link through the following https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJrL1hlyxzGQUHHi9JT7grQ

Or you can comment on one of her posts at the following:

She’s easy to find on this page and she is a great debater. She is my ‘warm place’ when things get rough on Youtube, she’s very strong and takes no crap from any MRA douche bag.

I’m also happy to engage at LJY08 on Youtube and Leisha Young on Google.

mildlymagnificent
mildlymagnificent
10 years ago

– discrimination in employment (quotas for women – well, in the well-paid pleasant lines of work, anyway)

So how come it’s mostly women wiping the chins, noses and bottoms of all those frail and/or dementing old folks in nursing homes?

Or is that a pleasant, well-paid line of work by the standard here. In which case, I’m not going to rely on any description of any job.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Not to mention that it’s physically demanding and the pay is lousy. It’s not just our aging population that’s the reason there are so many adverts for training as an aged-care worker. I imagine the burnout rate is very high. Makes me glad I’m not up to it, because I can just see Centrelink trying to shunt me into that job. No thanks, I do enough aged care at home.

titianblue
titianblue
10 years ago

@kmcorby

Hi, recent blog follower, first-time commenter here. I don’t really think all this gloating is becoming.

Welcome. I’m sure someone will be along with a welcome package shortly. I should warn you though, you’ll find that most of us don’t give a flying fig about what is “becoming” or expected of us, especially if those expectations are based on restrictive gender norms of what good little women are supposed to be – never angry, never overly emotional, never upset or critical or, god forbid, triumphant.

Let them have their stupid little conference. Forty paunchy guys sitting around have a massive bitchfest in a hotel conference room. Wow, radical. They say sunlight is the best disinfectant. The more MRAs expose themselves in public, the more the public will see how pathetic and foolish they are. Conference on, guys! It’s no skin off my nose.

And you might want to read that welcome package carefully because:

“paunchy!? No to the fat shaming!
“bitchfest”? And no to the gendered slur!

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Also, a hotel conference room into which they probably won’t exactly be welcoming CNN? Not all that public.

Shadow_Nirvana
10 years ago

@strivingally I think a lot of the redpill audience is young guys that are having trouble with women for whatever reason and they tend to use it as a way to overlook their issues. “Hey it’s not me specifically that’s having trouble, it’s because feminism poisoned society and now only %20 of men can have sex, while women are slutting it around!!” which is obviously and absolutely farcical. I would direct them to HookingUpSmart, she has quite a few “Spit out that red pill” posts that she back with data showing actually how similar men and women are in this aspect and really it is no different if a woman wants to have sex with multiple partners then when a man wants it. It doesn’t affect men in a bad manner, so why would you even treat women differently and ,most of the time, worse for the same actions? Also, there is this trope that “women could have sex with anytime if they wanted to”… Nobody wants to have sex with just anybody, not even the guys desperate enough to believe red pill ideologues. Just because you have to make adjustments, doesn’t mean that sex is something unattainable. The women whom you consider to be able to have sex anytime, do more work on their appearance in a day than a lot of these guys do in a week.

Or I would try to show them how much the world, media, computer games, movie is male-oriented and maybe they don’t understand women and feminism as much as they think they do(take this cracked article’s point #2 for example), but I don’t know if they’ll listen.

@Athywren Awesome comment, man, thanks. In real life, these rabid antifeminists are nowhere to be seen. The case is probably as you said.

@ceebarks Really? Matt Forney, THE Matt Forney said that? wow.

@freemage I have the feeling that a lot of people can be more logical about feminism if shown the right way, but it takes so much time, effort, emotional drain to be the one doing so.

And that’s why I will always appreciate sites like these and people like David.

tinyorc
10 years ago

Shadow Nirvana:

Also, there is this trope that “women could have sex with anytime if they wanted to”… Nobody wants to have sex with just anybody, not even the guys desperate enough to believe red pill ideologues.

Yeah, that one always makes me laugh. And also makes me look over my shoulder for the queue of desperate men apparently falling over themselves to have sex with me, an average looking woman. So far they have not materialized.

scott1139
scott1139
10 years ago

And also makes me look over my shoulder for the queue of desperate men apparently falling over themselves to have sex with me, an average looking woman. So far they have not materialized.

XD XD XD

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

You just don’t notice them because they’re not alphas, you see. It’s your female privilege showing.

ceebarks
ceebarks
10 years ago

@Shadow Nirvana: yes! Or, more or less. Perhaps I have interpreted him too charitably, though. http://mattforney.com/2014/04/14/the-manosphere-is-dead-and-you-have-killed-it/

“Over the weekend, I also met a French girl who was hitchhiking to California, bunked with a Chinese backpacker who was toting a full-on PC across America, and finished reading four books.

According to the manosphere, the French girl is a hypergamous slut, Annie Clark is a feminist bitch and the Chinese guy is a hopeless beta. Yet somehow, I can enjoy the richness of the human experience without feeling the need to pick nits. The world is screwed up, yet I leave my house every day looking forward to what happens next. There are people to meet, books to read, songs to record and asses to kick.”

He’s probably still a mean and ignorant little shit but getting out of the house is usually a step in the right direction.

bluecatbabe
bluecatbabe
10 years ago

Someone dear to me is a film editor. A few years ago he was part of a project where film footage was crowd-sourced from all around the world on YouTube and edited it into a coherent story – an utterly brilliant film called Life in a Day.

Most of the comments under his You Tube updates about the project are people abusing him for having the same (fairly common) name as some actor and asking how dare he use the name he’s had all his life…

fromafar2013
10 years ago

Just saw this article today, Women in Construction: Still Breaking Ground, from the National Women’s Law Center.

I recall Mikey bringing up workplace discrimination up thread and thought I’d post this as a piece of evidence. There’s a reason women are underrepresented in more dangerous, male dominated fields, and it isn’t feminism.

Sorry for the tl;dr, but these are some pretty important parts below. The stats are bad enough, but the stories are especially alarming.

Even if women are ultimately hired for construction jobs, they
are often subject to gender stereotypes that make it harder for
them to retain their jobs, such as employer assumptions about
actual or perceived caregiving responsibilities or women’s
physical capabilities in the field. Even worse, women face
extreme sexual harassment and denigration. A study by the
U.S. Department of Labor reported that 88 percent of women
construction workers experience sexual harassment at work,
compared to 25 percent of women in the general workforce.

Another study referred to construction as “the industry that time
forgot” due to the employment practices related to women.
Some of the practices cited include: negative stereotypes about
women’s ability to perform construction work; sexual tension
injected into work contexts; intentions to reserve well-paid
employment for men, “who deserve it”; and reluctance by
supervisors and other officials to discipline perpetrators of
discrimination. These discriminatory work environments
persist despite the fact that the Civil Rights Act of 1964 has
prohibited such practices for 50 years.

Jenny, a single mother of two, broke a three-generation reliance on public assistance when she began her electrical apprenticeship. She was met with harassment and
hazing, but hoped that once she passed the apprenticeship stage and became a journeywoman, it would stop and her coworkers and supervisors would respect
her. Instead, the hostility increased. Men exposed
themselves, sexually harassed her, and accused her of
sleeping with the boss when she was promoted to
forewoman. On her way to earning $85,000-plus per
year as a journey level electrician, Jenny considered
taking an entry-level job as a daycare worker with an
annual salary of $35,000 just to escape
the hostile work environment.

judgybitch
10 years ago

http://www.avoiceformen.com/allbulletins/avfm-international-conference-on-mens-issues-changing-venue/

Please be advised that the $32K we scammed from gullible supporters will be spent on Detroit’s fine sex workers and illegal substance users. Hookers and coke, all the way!

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