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A Voice for Men’s Robert O’Hara rebuts misogyny charge with revelation that his mother is a woman

Relationships with women: "Complicated and oftentimes dangerous."
Relationships with women: “Complicated and oftentimes dangerous.”

Men’s Rights Activists continue to make strategic use of the media attention they’ve gained as a result of the Elliot Rodger killings. Yesterday, Al Jazeera America ran an interview with A Voice for Men’s “US News Director” Robert O’Hara in which he touched upon numerous important Men’s Rights issues, like the fact that he doesn’t hate women because his mother is one, and how it was totally an amazing publicity coup for AVFM to be singled out as a misogynistic hate site by the Southern Poverty Law Center.

Let’s look at some highlights from his Q and A. (The block quotes are direct quotes from the man, the legend, himself.)

Men aren’t having a giant patriarchy party all the time:

The idea of male entitlement is almost entirely a fabrication of feminist ideology. The idea that men kind of run the show – this patriarchy theory – and that we’re having a big huge party at the expense of women is really a hateful idea.

I don’t have the statistics with me but I’m totally sure that rape almost never happens:

We hear all these silly lies: there’s a rapist behind every corner; all men are potential rapists. …

I don’t have the exact statistics with me right now, but you’ll see it’s usually around 2 percent of women in their lifetime will have some kind of problem with sexual assault. …

[T]his whole rape things has been used by feminists to garner political power, lots of it, and money. The whole thing has been used as a scam.

(O’Hara’s claim about the rareness of rape was such a whopper that Al Jazeera felt obligated to note that a recent large-scale study by the Centers for Disease Control found that one in five women in America had experienced rape or attempted rape. Not one in fifty.)

When feminists talk about rape it apparently causes homophobia or unhealthy gay sex or something:

There’s no doubt that male sexuality has been demonized in our culture. And that’s a real shame. I think that inhibits a lot of men’s sexuality to the extent where it’s not healthy – especially homosexuals, especially gay men.

The Southern Poverty Law Center is totally irrelevant and besides they did us a favor by calling us hateful:

The SPLC, they’re not a credible organization, not like they once were. And I think the whole this of them listing us, or targeting us as a hate group didn’t work out too well for them. It worked out much better for us [in terms of publicity] than it did for them.

All you need is love:

I love women. My mom is a woman. … What I do not like is that we live in a culture and in a legal environment where if you do choose to have a relationship with a woman, it makes things very complicated and oftentimes dangerous.

Great job, Bob! Another flawless victory for the Men’s Rights Movement!

All mocking aside, I have found video proof of this last claim. Marriage can be very dangerous for men. Heck, they don’t even have to be the one getting married.

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weirwoodtreehugger
10 years ago

You think misogyny doesn’t hurt people because it’s just an idea? Tell that to the 1 in 5 women who have been raped or sexually assaulted, the three women a day killed by a current or former partner in the US alone, and talk to the just about all of us who experience street harassment.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Yep, he’s definitely the only potential roommate in the world. Also, we totes believe that he really is your roommate. The master of credibility and rational arguments, you are.

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

And it’s so “totes” real that if you knew how “totes” real it was you’d be “totes” begging for pictures

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

@ WWTH

Also, look at what exposure to the MRM is doing to Trolli’s typing. “You;re”?

MREnglish – more contagious than the common cold.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Why would we want pictures of a screeching misogynist ragemonkey? I mean, unless he looks like (insert lust object of choice here)…

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

Marxism is an idea misogyny is a culture

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

Whoops hit the wrong button. Explain nym and totes moron.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

I found a picture of the Trolli/O’Hara household.

http://trolldollsguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/towheadedtroll.jpg

wewereemergencies
wewereemergencies
10 years ago

Is it just me or has Trolli devolved into incoherency much faster than normal?

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

There’s video, too!

But imagine all the fun sucked out of it, no beer, and a dude who keeps haranguing strangers about his shitty roomate.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Yeah, I think we may already have exhausted Trolli’s potential as a chew toy. However, all is not lost! Because look what I found linked in the sidebar on the Fintroll video.

“Scottish Pirate Metal”. Sometimes I really love my people.

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

What’s incoherent? Please explain.

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

All you all have done is devolved into name calling and posting memes and videos. A very adult way to discuss things

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Dance, troll monkey. You’re boring us.

wewereemergencies
wewereemergencies
10 years ago

“What’s incoherent?” well that is.

And I can’t argue with you because you don’t even have a coherent argument. For the same reason I can’t argue with someone who says “the sky is purple and also cheese”

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

All you all have done is devolved into name calling and posting memes and videos.

Says the dude who came to whine at us for talking about your supposed roommate, even though the thread stopped being active over a week ago. Yes, Trolli, you’re very adult.

Who wants to bet Trolli is that 4chan kid who was here just a while ago?

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

Why because I’m not the normal troll that calls you names? I just posted my honest feelings about my roommate and the stupidity of giving attention to this moron.

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

Sorry I don’t know internet protocol. Is over a week too long of a time in your world?

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

I am currently listening to a song titled “Death Throes of the Terrorsquid”. I’m fairly certain that this song has more to contribute to this or any other “debate” than Trolli does.

Trolli
Trolli
10 years ago

Me asking you to explain what’s incoherent about my posts is incoherent? I haven’t made an argument for us to argue about. I just stated facts and you all attacked me for it.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: Trolli

I just posted my honest feelings about my roommate and the stupidity of giving attention to this moron.

Okay, you gave your honest feelings about your stupid roommate. You have achieved your noble goal. Well done, noble questor. Now what?

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Maybe if we give him some grog he’ll be less of a whiny, boring pain in the ass?

contrapangloss
10 years ago

It’s no good for roommate relations to be posting online about how much of an idiot you think they are.

Really!

Kind of doubting roommate status, here…

… Although your abilities to logic are about the same. 🙂

katz
10 years ago

We haven’t devolved. We began by mocking you.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Well, at least his waffling led me in an indirect way to a song with the chorus “we are here to drink your beer” with a subplot about rum-stealing time travel, so it’s not a complete wash.