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Video allegedly from mass killer in Santa Barbara: "If I can't have you, girls, I'll destroy you." [TRIGGER WARNING]

A mass shooting in Santa Barbara last night left seven dead, including the man suspected of being the killer. Local authorities say that this chilling video, titled Elliot Rodger’s retribution, “appears to be connected” to the shootings. It is a supremely disturbing real-life villain’s monologue in which a young man, evidently the killer, explains on the day before the massacre why he intends to kill: because women have rejected him.

As the person who sent this video to me this morning noted, it sounds almost like a parody of the misogynistic beliefs and rhetoric that I write about on this blog. His language and his melodramatic tone both echo the writings of many of those young men who consider themselves “incels.” His anger is the same anger we see from the rejected men who lash out with insults and threats on OkCupid when their often crude advances are turned down. He reminds me of every so-called “nice guy” who is inwardly seething with resentment born of sexual entitlement denied. He even, at one point, calls himself a “gentleman.” He also calls himself an “alpha.”

It is clear that his  resentment at women was stoked by what I call the “new misogyny” and by steeping himself in at least one online community that reaffirmed his exaggerated, unwarranted sense of victimhood. So far we have evidence that he was a commenter at PUAhate, a site ostensibly designed to critique PUAs but which has degenerated into a haven for misogynistic “incels” and angry trolls. I suspect we will find that he was also a reader of, or  a commenter at, some of the other sites I critique on this blog.

For those of you who cannot make it through the video — I found it very hard to watch — here is a transcript of what he said.

Hi, Elliot Rodger here.

Well… this is my last video. It all has to come to this.

Tomorrow is the day of retribution. The day in which I will have my revenge against humanity. Against all of you.

For the last 8 years of my life, ever since I’ve hit puberty, I’ve been forced to endure an existence of loneliness, rejection, and unfulfilled desires. All because girls have never been attracted to me.

Girls gave their affection, and sex, and love, to other men but never to me.

I’m 22 years old and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never even kissed a girl.

I’ve been through college for two and a half years, more than that actually, and I’m still a virgin.

It has been very torturous.

College is the time when everyone experiences those things such as sex, and fun, and pleasure. But in those years I’ve had to rot in loneliness.

It’s not fair. You girls have never been attracted to me.

I don’t know why you girls aren’t attracted to me, but I will punish you all for it.

It’s an injustice, a crime, because I don’t know what you don’t see in me. I’m the perfect guy, and yet you throw yourselves at all these obnoxious men, instead of me, the supreme gentlemen.

I will punish all of you for it. (laughs)

On the day of retribution I am going to enter the hottest sorority house of UCSB… and I will slaughter every single spoiled, stuck-up, blonde slut I see inside there.

All those girls that I’ve desired so much, they would’ve all rejected me and looked down upon me as an inferior man if I ever made a sexual advance towards them while they throw themselves at these obnoxious brutes.

I will take great pleasure in slaughtering all of you.

You will finally see that I am in truth the superior one. The true alpha male. (laughs)

Yes, after I’ve annihilated every single girl in the sorority house, I’ll take to the streets of Isla Vista, and slay every single person I see there.

All those popular kids who live such lives of hedonistic pleasure while I’ve had to rot in loneliness for all these years, they’ve all looked down upon me every time I try to go out and join them. They’ve all treated me like a mouse.

Well now, I will be a God compared to you. You will all be animals. You are animals, and I will slaughter you like animals. I will be a God, exacting my retribution, on all those who deserve it.

And you do deserve it, just for the crime of living a better life than me.

All you popular kids. You’ve never accepted me, and now you’ll all pay for it.

And girls, all I’ve ever wanted was to love you, and to be loved by you. I’ve wanted a girlfriend, I’ve wanted sex, I’ve wanted love, affection, adoration, but you think I’m unworthy of it.

That’s a crime that can never be forgiven.

If I can’t have you, girls, I will destroy you. (laughs)

You denied me a happy life, and in turn, I will deny all of you life. (laughs) It’s only fair.

I hate all of you, humanity is a disgusting, wretched, depraved species. If I had it in my power, I would stop at nothing, to reduce every single one of you to mountains of skulls and rivers of blood, and rightfully so.

You deserve to be annihilated. And I’ll give that to you.

You never showed me any mercy, and so I will show you none. (laughs)

You force me to suffer all my life, and now I’ll make you all suffer.

I’ve waited a long time for this.

I’ll give you exactly what you deserve.

I will have more on this as the story develops. My heart goes out to the loved ones of all the victims.

Misogyny kills.

EDITED TO ADD: Elliot Rodger seems to have been a commenter on PUAhate, the anti-PUA message board that is as misogynistic and generally awful as the PUAs it critiques. PUAhate has taken itself offline, so all evidence of this may end up scrubbed. I added a paragraph about this.

I will keep updating  as I track down more information on this story. Please post anything you find in the comments as well.

EDIT 2: This will be a NO TROLLS thread. Anything gratuitously argumentative or less than respectful of the victims will be removed.

 

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Ally S
10 years ago

@marinerachel

Same here. I don’t think I can bear to hear the voice of a murderous misogynist.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

wondering what triggered his insanity in full.

Please don’t. Especially since you already said what the problem is:

It’s selfishness, chauvinism, misogyny and gynophobia at it’s core.

Marie
Marie
10 years ago

@felisha

I just had to listen to his entire video, wondering what triggered his insanity in full.

How many times this thread do we have to say that ableism is not okay?

@blacksphinx

As a female college student in California, I’m now terrified to go to on campus and I don’t even go to Santa Barbra. This whole thing has been sickening.

::offers hugs::

and my ‘favorite’, if you bring up how many mass shooters have been white men you’ll instantly get countered with people capslocking about the number of crimes committed by black men.

UGh 🙁

cloudiah
10 years ago

That’s it. I’m joining the Nope party. Oddly enough, I also have salted caramel ice cream.

For the rest of the evening, I’m only going to think about kittens and ice cream. And maybe read katz’s novel. I think I can handle that.

marinerachel
marinerachel
10 years ago

I’m basically doing as Godzilla does here and Nope:

http://s3.amazonaws.com/theoatmeal-img/comics/running/running2_26agony.png

Jake
Jake
10 years ago

His “manifesto” has also been uploaded by Matthew Keys.

http://www.scribd.com/doc/225960813/Elliot-Rodger-Santa-Barbara-mass-shooting-suspect-My-Twisted-World-manifesto

It’s atrocious.

Ally S
10 years ago

SHIT I accidentally heard part of that killer’s speech when I opened a CNN link that had the video. His voice is so frightening.

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

On a comment thread on a forum that I used to post in frequently:

Wah wah wah, I’m a wimpy, sexist little boy in multiple ways, I can’t get a girlfriend because I can’t do jackshit but cry and complain like a little emo f*gboy. You know what I’m gonna do? I’m gonna shoot them because I’m too selfish to realize that girls have the right to be attracted to non-scrawny guys. Wah wah wah, now I’ll shoot myself because I’m a little g*yboy p*ssy. Anybody like my impression of this loser?

UGH.

I censored some of the slurs, but UGH.

Marie
Marie
10 years ago

@alice

wow that comment.

+1 point for getting that women are allowed to not date guys, -100 for slurs. What the heck?

And I don’t even know what g*yboy is, but I probably don’t want to 🙁

Erin Williams
Erin Williams
10 years ago

Check out what Roosh wrote about the shooting rampage.

[i]I’m trying to think of ways our enemies will come after us because of this, but if anything, we’re the solution to this sort of murder rampage. This is the society that progressives wanted, where women are fully able to choose the top 10% of alpha males while shaming masculinity, leaving beta males with modest resources in the dust. Of course they will simply push a ban on guns, but this wholly neglects the cause. Seven people died because this guy couldn’t get laid, at the same time the Federal government is pursuing kangaroo courts to kick men out of college for “rape” that doesn’t need to be proved in a court of law. How can they not see this connection?

Society gave beta males a bargain—they work hard with the expectation of a wife and family. That bargain no longer exists so we can’t be surprised when one loses his mind and starts shooting. At the very least, prostitution should be legalized as a release valve. If the killer had access to some high quality hookers for $150 a pop, it would have given him some meaning. [/i]

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marinerachel
marinerachel
10 years ago

I hate when people try to be helpful and fail.

starterlifesydney
starterlifesydney
10 years ago

His voice reminds me of Patrick Bateman in the American Psycho movie….

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Marie – You honestly don’t. Seriously, they’re just upholding the toxic masculinity that lead to the deaths of at least seven people and counting. 🙁

augochlorella
augochlorella
10 years ago

This guy is reminding me of the semi-stalker I picked up this last semester of college, and I’m starting to feel sick.

I don’t comment here as frequently as I used to, but I’m glad this site exists. You all help me keep my faith in people.

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Erin – WTF.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

Roosh is making the same nonsense case our old blog herpes GGG did.

marinerachel
marinerachel
10 years ago

This guy had access to expensive hookers.

Chie Satonaka
Chie Satonaka
10 years ago

Fuck you, Roosh, you rapist piece of shit.

scott1139
scott1139
10 years ago

He actually thought other people’s lives had no value outside what they could do for him…
I can think of no concept I despise more deeply. >:( 🙁

Ally S
10 years ago

Oh nice, a fucking rapist comments on how he can help stop violence against women. Hypocritical little shit.

mcbender
mcbender
10 years ago

I’ve been lurking here for ages but have never commented before; hello everyone. What a place to introduce myself… so I won’t.

This is horrifying. I wanted to say something about this entire thing but it turned into an entire essay so I posted it over at my blog… please drop by if you care to. http://pointstick.wordpress.com/2014/05/25/ideology-kills-re-the-santa-barbara-shooting/

scott1139
scott1139
10 years ago

Seven people died because this guy couldn’t get laid

No, Roosh, you contemptible shit-stain, ten people were murdered because this guy believed that denying him a perfect life was a crime worthy of death.

starterlifesydney
starterlifesydney
10 years ago

His father was English, his mother Malaysian Chinese, his racism was internalised

kittehserf
10 years ago

The only obnoxious brute was Rodgers.

My condolences to the families of the victims.

wewereemergencies
wewereemergencies
10 years ago

My heart goes out to the victims and their families. This should never happen and I’m so very sorry that it did.

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