As I’ve said before, sometimes I search for hours to find the instances of misogyny interesting enough to share with you, the readers of my blog. Other times, the misogyny wanders in my door, delivers a rambling tirade, and passes out on the couch.
Today, an example of the latter, left in the comments to an old post of mine about the bad science behind the concept of the “alpha wolf” by a fellow with the unassuming name of Joeblow.
Joeblow starts off by agreeing that “the alpha – beta shit does not matter.” But in his mind this is because women are such sluts they’ll have sex with pretty much anyone.
There are so many promiscuous and unselective women out there I cant see how any man would have difficult y getting laid unless he had major birth defects or was totally out of his mind and was unable to stop talking to himself for even a few hours. Even if a guy is hideous but able to hold a job he is probably sane enough to find a slut to fuck.
That’s a good thing, I guess, in Joeblow’s world because otherwise there really would be no reason for women to be allowed to live.
I think women have no value beyond their sexual and reproductive role and that if it was not for sex they would be killed at birth but getting laid is pretty easy, especially in a big city. If looks are all that matters, all a man has to do is go up to a lot of hot women and one will fuck him, no matter what he looks like.
Happily for the women of the world Joeblow is not terribly interested in spending much time with them.
Fortunately for myself and the female gender that no matter what a woman looks like I lose interest in her minutes after she opens her dirty mouth. Girlfriends are for suckers, wives are for fools and casual sex is not worth the effort or putting up with the rotten personalities that almost all women have.
But hey, if you’re going to go after women, fellas, Joeblow suggests that you go for the hottest ones you can find. Or at least the ones with the most valuable “stink holes.”
As far as a woman’s appearance goes, I never used to care much because I believed that women had some other value besides their stink hole but they don’t, a man might as well get the youngest hottest woman he can find if he is stupid enough to give into his sex drive because nearly all women are worthless.
No offense, ladies.
P.S. I do not mean to offend anyone. I am just trying enlighten people about how some men see women, once they remove their rose colored glasses, see beyond a woman’s sexuality and lies and see what she really is, a bitch, a slut and whore with no redeeming qualities.
Hey, no offense taken, nothing at all offensive about reducing women to the value of their “stink holes.”
And congratulations, Joeblow: your comments has been chosen Comment of the Day, even though that isn’t really a thing and despite the fact that you left the comment here nearly a month and a half ago.
I am talking about hate for the opposite gender in general not just one specific person, and that it is not normal or a healthy mindset.if a SPECIFIC person raped me i would hate them too. Im sorry that happend to you, and its good that you dont let it control you. And yea if i told that sicko what i just posted he would shit on it for sure, im not denying that, But if all men and all women hated each other they way he hates, things in the world would just fall even further apart. its not natural for the sexes to hate one another, so when it happens, it has to be for a reason, for exapmle like bad experiences. Thats not making excuses for the hate, but it helps getting rid of it by the root cause. Hate is not the same as oppression but it is one of the things that starts it. if he could i bet that sicko would put himself in a position where he would make all women SLAVES= oppression grown out of his own hate.
and casandra, again you bring baseless attacks. what exactly makes me a hater against my own gender again? because ive basically stated a fact that both men and women have been cruel to one another? explain?
Shadowcat. Nobody here hates all men. Nobody has mentioned hating all men. Someone has mentioned hating all women.
You are taking a conversation about a guy who hates all men and insisting that we talk about how women shouldn’t hate all men also. Even though that isn’t something that anyone was saying. Do you see how that’s a problem? You’re saying “No talking about this bad thing a man is doing unless you also talk about women doing the same bad thing!”
I commend katz for her patience.
I know that katz. and i wasnt trying to imply that man hating was part of the group here so sorry if i created misunderstanding. and as for “No talking about this bad thing a man is doing unless you also talk about women doing the same bad thing!” that is not what i meant at all. even though this community doesnt hate men, there are many misandryists out there as well. Again, back to my original comment, i was not only reacting with a shaking head to the sickfuckery of the guy, but i’m also somebody that looks at the big picture of how i see people in general treat each other in the world, and was commenting on how sad i found that, with the rantings of this sick man being a main example.
I’m calling troll. Misandryists? Come on now, you’re not even trying.
are you telling me you dont believe they exist? as i stated before i know they dont here. ever heard of SCUM manifesto? just as one example. and so i guess i am a troll then even though i am backing up my beliefs with arguements and experience instead of continuously attacking with out anything to contribute to the arguement like you. why don’t we agree then to just disagree :). its pretty sad that we do, seeing as though we where supposedly supposed to be on the same side against hate.
also, i have seen a facebook page and one or 2 other blogs based on man hating. i even tried to search for them awhile back again and could not find them. no reason for me to lie on this one but then again i cant back up my finding because i cant remember the name.
Shadowcat,
Hate is the same as oppression when a member of a privileged group hates a member of a marginalized group.
Yes, we’ve all heard of the SCUM manifesto. That doesn’t represent a large number of women at all.
I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you meant well. But we get a lot of trolls on her who like to claim that feminists and the MRM are somehow equivalent. They are not. Feminism/womanism are not hate groups and the vast majority of us don’t hate men. The MRM is based entirely on misogyny. They are upset that feminism has some success and we are closer to achieving equality. Just as white people don’t need a white rights group and cis straight people don’t need a cis straight rights group, men don’t need a men’s rights groups because men already have rights.
LOL! Misandryists are indeed everywhere, you can’t cross the street without meeting one. Facebook is a hive of misandryist activity.
(Go home, you’re drunk, etc.)
thank you wierwood :). and yes i am with all of that completely. and again, it was just one example that i know of..and yes it is very small.
and again lol cassandra. when you decide to come up with some FUNNY insults ill decide to start laughing at least :P.
(Puts dummy on ignore list)
Why exactly are you here, Shadowecat? This is a mockery site. We mock misogyny. It says it on the title bar. So why are you suddenly talking about misandry? You’re coming to a football website and talking about hockey.
That’s part of why you’re getting a cold reception. You’re a newbie who’s being off-topic.
Shame Ami isn’t here any more, I’d rather talk hockey. At least hockey is a thing that exists.
i joined the site because i too am against misogyny, but i am also someone that is against hate period, and despite that this is specifically a group that is dedicated to fighting one form of hate, i didn’t think it would negatively react to someone mentioning being against another form of hate as well. in my previous comments its not just about misandry, but was also reacting to the sick guy. I just then transitioned to how i have seen that gender hate can come from both sides and thats when people started telling me that i am illogical, or dont know what i am talking about. but am done here now my awesome other half wants to play an mmo with me ^^
Off topic in a good way: Here’s a whitehouse.gov petition concerning the missing Nigerian girls for USian Mammotheers to sign. https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/work-un-and-nigerian-government-bring-home-girls-kidnapped-boko-haram/fFcLj7s2#thank-you=p
RE: Shadowecat
You have come to a feminist website that’s against misogyny, and started talking about misandry. That’s like coming to a website devoted to fighting racism and start going on about racism against white people.
These two hates are not equal. You are comparing apples and oranges, and clutching your pearls for getting called out on it.
Enjoy your MMO, and please don’t comment again until you’ve learned more what we’re about.
It isn’t that there’s never been a woman who hated all men ever in the history of the universe, it’s that when one person is doing one bad thing and you immediately bring up that other people (specifically, the targets of the first person’s bad actions) also do bad things, you give the impression that you don’t really care about the bad things that the first person is doing and that you just want to change the subject.
For example, say you’re at school (I’m taking a wild guess that you’re in school) and you see Classmate A beating up Classmate B. If you say “Classmate A, stop beating up Classmate B,” that’s a normal reaction because you are addressing what is happening right then.
But if you say “Classmates A and B, you both need to stop beating each other up,” then it makes it sound like you don’t really care about Classmate B at all and like you are taking the side of Classmate A, because even though Classmate A is actually doing something bad right then and there, you are bringing up Classmate B and things that s/he may or may not have ever done, but certainly isn’t doing right now.
And it’s doubly sketchy if Classmate A has a long history of beating up Classmate B.
Savvy?
ACTIVATE ZOMBIE SOLANAS.
First, misandry is not a thing (can someone make SURE that’s on my headstone, thx); second, you don’t know if JoeBlow is sick or not. Mental illness is no excuse for being an asshole.
I am severely mentally ill. Thus far, I have prevented myself from posting screeds about how terribly women are. I guess this means I have to give back my man card.
Have you considered that the fact that you literally can’t find examples of women hating men might be a sign that it’s not really a big problem? Whereas this blog contains some 800 examples of men hating women, indicating that it really is a big problem?
The two types of ‘hate’ are hardly equal. One side has an actual movement, with organized websites, whose members heap thousands of messages of hate onto the internet (and in real life) everyday.. The other side is composed of a few individuals, no organizations, and when they are found, tend only to talk with each other. I’ve seen a few radical feminist fb groups (some TERF, some not), being labeled as ‘misandrists’ for not allowing men to post, but since that isn’t actually hateful (creating a safe space for wbw & mtf isn’t actually a hate crime, you know), they don’t count.
You’re arguing that an bucket of hatred is as harmful an ocean of it. Gonna disagree there.
Secondly, you seem to believe that both types of hate are based on the same reasons. Gonna disagree again. An oppressed person has the right to hate their oppressors. The fact that most don’t is a freaking miracle! Men are not oppressed by women. Thus their hatred is entirely different.
You should listen to them; your stance is very weak. For example, you assume there are just two sides, which is pretty damned naive.
Have fun, and don’t let the door hit you on the way out.
How about you give some other examples.
RE: moldybrehd
Can you not say “wbw”? That whole “women born women” is transphobic horseshit. I know plenty of trans women who were born women.