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Men’s Rights Redditor: “Going to a strip club as a guy must be like going to a regular nightclub as a girl!”

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How stupid do you have to be to actually believe the following nonsense? Not just regular stupid. Men’s Rights stupid.

Wow, just wow. This blew my mind the other day when I went to the strip club (self.MensRights)  submitted 1 day ago* by horqth  So I went in there, with no intention of buying anything, I just went in there and got something to drink and sat down by myself.  After a few minutes, strippers comes up to me and starts to be nice to me, tells me I look good, that I dress well and, they are just basically trying to charm me and they treats me as a king. (This is just to get me to spend money on them of course, but if we ignore that, these girls are basically making me feel really good about myself)  Then it hit me: going to a strip club as a guy must be like going to a regular nightclub as a girl!  Because when a girl goes to a club all the guys will come up to her and treat her nice, and try to charm her.  Told my friends about this and they said their minds were blown as well, what do you think?  Edit: spelling

Heck, this is even stupid by normal Men’s Rights standards. It made me think of this line from Ruthless People.

Now, horqth could very well be a troll. His account is brand new, and, I mean, this is just amazingly dumb. But here’s the thing: his comments are being treated as if they are completely reasonable by the Men’s Rights subreddit. I noticed only a couple of mostly ignored comments out of more than 100 even raising the possiblity that he was a troll.

Not only has his post gotten dozens of upvotes, but in the comments there are numerous other Men’s Rights Redditors — not trolls — who’ve actually managed to outdo him in the sheer ridiculousness of their opinions. And they’re getting upvotes too.

Milessycamore seemed to suggest that horqth had understated the degree to which men were being victimized in both places, and more than 200 Redditors agreed:

milessycamore 162 points 1 day ago (212|50)  except the difference is that you, as a man... pay BOTH places...

Saxonjf thought it would be nice if more women would act like these strippers and make men feel “important special.”

saxonjf 8 points 1 day ago (10|2)  Great analogy. I've never been to a strip club (and have no intention), but it wouldn't hurt women to realize that making a man feel important special will help the relationship.  We've grown up in an era where denigrating men is fashionable, and women don't realize that building us up, rather than tearing us down, will make a huge difference in our relationships.

Itchybrain, putting his economist hat on, suggested that the root of the problem was the massive over-valuation of women:

itchybrain 27 points 1 day ago (36|9)  Very true. Most guys minds would explode if they got the attention the average looking girl gets. I think Marc Rudov said that for a guy to get the kind of attention the average girl gets he would have to be a millionaire. It just shows you how over valued women are sexually and how under valued men are.

So how did the ladies get so overvalued in the first place? Blame the government and all that darn welfare. Responding to one contrarian Men’s Righster who suggested — get this! — that women are appropriately valued — FloranHunter laid down this truth bomb, by which I mean a bunch of complete and utter crap:

FloranHunter 7 points 17 hours ago (8|1)  Not exactly.  The government MASSIVELY subsidizes women, especially single mothers. They still can't get everything they want or possibly need with it but women no longer need a man to survive. This causes a corresponding massive devaluation of unattractive but socially useful (aka has an ok or better job) men. In the past, women needed men or they starved or were vulnerable to violence. This is no longer the case.

If only we could return to the good old days, when women would starve unless they were super nice to unattractive dudes who pestered them in bars!

Lawtonfogle also has no problem with the idea of men being valued for their money; he just wants to get more bang(s) for the buck.

Lawtonfogle 10 points 1 day ago (12|2)  Government intervention in the means of social support programs that result in a woman having far more bargaining power in relationship dynamics. If it weren't for laws that provided support for children and forced fathers to pay for children (even when they aren't the biological father), it would be a very different issue. Men would still be valued for their money and women for their attractiveness, but money would hold more value and being a male willing to commit would also hold (more) value.      permalink     source     parent     save     give gold     hide child comments  [–]IOIOOIIOIO 5 points 23 hours ago (7|2)  Effective male contraception is going to be amazing.

I give up.

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kittehserf
10 years ago

LOL it’s definitely trolling. Questioning that ‘intelligent people’ still reproduce via sex? Didn’t know intelligenec equalled wealth, or the ability to get onto IVF programs.

Rational reasons to have sex? Hey dude, if you’re asexual and just don’t feel sexual attraction, that’s fine, nobody here is going to give you shit about it. You don’t need to pretend you’re a robot.

Or, on the off-chance you’re sincere, can you really not understand the concepts of love and desire for another person? The desire to breed plays precious little part in why most people (those who can reproduce at all) want sex.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Or, a simpler question: do you understand simple pleasure? I don’t mean the pleasure you presumably get from trolling.

Fibinachi
10 years ago

Hm.
repeating:

On the other hand, I know of no proof that all triangles must have three sides. To be sure, any sufficiently topologically trivial Riemannian manifold has the property that a closed, 2-dimensional figure with three internal angles must be comprised by the intersection of three arcs, and if we wish, we can specify that the arcs must be geodesics in order to properly generalize the notion of a polygon to non-Euclidean geometry. In particular, any flat space with finite dimension (R^N, SxSxSx…xS, or even R^NxSxSx…xS) will almost certainly have this property. However, I am not aware of any proof that there’s no manifold (or orbifold) wherein all geodesic polygons with three internal angles must be constructed by exactly three geodesics. In particular, spaces in which the homology contains torsion elements may not pass this test. For example, must all “triangles” in the real projective plane (RP^2) or any of its higher dimensional analogues be comprised of three distinct geodesics? It’s not obvious that this must be the case, even if it is true. You may also note that the “tri” in “triangle” signifies the presence of three internal angles, not the presence of three “sides,” as you asserted. It’s even in the name. It’s tri-ANGLE, not tri-SIDE.

I had to brush up on my math, given that I don’t normally deal in Riemannian manifolds or differential geometry (or for that matter, compact spaces or geodesics).

but… this is wrong.

I mean, I’m not an expert on algebraic topology, isomorphisms or metric tensor math, I do fun rhymes on the internet to pass the time between bouts of insomnia (And also, because you’re all generally lovely company), but this boils down to asking if torsion elements in a manifold can allow geodesics to intersect with themselves to form a single geodesic forming multiple angles (homology contains torsion elements)

Which is just… wrong. That isn’t right. That’s not math, that’s impossible. And in any given case, you wouldn’t get more than three, and certainly not four, so we’re back to the sides here.

I mean, they could, but they wouldn’t be triangles, it’d be breaking the constraints of the conversation.

Did you just try out-math me with the hope no one here knew what a manifold was?

It’s kind of like saying that “No one here has seen a sheep with wool of solid gold, but gold exists, so perhaps somewhere in the universe there might be a sheep with wool of solid gold”.

To which I can only answer “Yes, but… What?

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

There are less risky methods to derive pleasure. Of course, there are some economic and rational benefits to social bonding, but sexual activity is not a necessity for any social bonds.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
10 years ago

This equation:

P(Higher variance in males) = .5*P(Not X-linked) + P(X-linked)

is incorrect when dealing with a single trait. The trait is either sex-linked, or it is not sex-linked, so you wouldn’t include both in the same equation.

Back to what you said originally:

As a “Bayesian prior,” for any given trait, males will have a higher than 50% chance of having more variance than females.

You are now saying:

If a trait is not X-linked, there’s a 50/50 chance that variance is higher in men than women.

These two quotes from you do not mean the same thing.

But continue trying to double-down with your comments, it amuses me.

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

Unhygienic, risky, time-consuming, and disease-transmitting “breeding” vs. sterile and controlled procedures? The choice seems obvious to those not blinded by hormones

Nothing wrong with not wanting or desiring or enjoying sex. Nothing at all. But you sure do seem rather overly icked out about it. And I assure you, being a “breeder” myself, that there was absolutely nothing dirty, risky or time-consuming about the act that created my daughter. So you, pompous windbag, can kindly fuck off.

Yeah, disease can be transmitted sexually. Disease can also be transmitted by sneezing or touching doorknobs or eating contaminated food or drinking contaminated water. There are lots of ways disease can be transmitted. Should we then, also, wear gloves and masks wherever we go?

kittehserf
10 years ago

I think you’ll find an awful lot (like, billions) of people would be majorly unimpressed to be told they shouldn’t be making love.

Oops, there’s that word again. Okay, I’ll play: you talk about social bonds but ignore the matter of love. L.O.V.E. Social bonds (which are essential for a healthy society, btw; they’re not an optional extra) can mean a huge range of things. I’m talking about the physical expression of love and desire.

Do you understand love?

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
10 years ago

Also, troll, you’re confusing trait (e.g. eye colour) with phenotype (e.g. green eye colour). I come back to my previous comment that males cannot have a higher variance in eye colour, unless males have more eyes than females. To have a variance in a trait, there must be the ability to have more or less of something. Eyes do not fit that type of mathematical model. IQ, height, weight, etc, do.

Learn to science.

Myoo
Myoo
10 years ago

There are less risky methods to derive pleasure. Of course, there are some economic and rational benefits to social bonding, but sexual activity is not a necessity for any social bonds.

There is no necessity to post comments in blogs, so why are you here?

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

What is the generalized definition of a triangle? Certainly, triangles can be defined on the surfaces of spheres and hyperboloids, so how far are we allowed to take the concept before it doesn’t count as a triangle anymore? What’s wrong with self-intersecting geodesics? All geodesics on a cone which don’t pass through the apex self-intersect, and cones aren’t even that weird.

Fibinachi
10 years ago

Applause to Kiwi girl from here. Statistics! They’re not just for lies q:

Fibinachi
10 years ago

Yeah, they self intersect, but they don’t allow the existence of a triangle without defining separate parts of them as separate parts of the triangle, not the geodesic. There’s nothing wrong with self intersecting geodescics (And fyi, there’s nothing really wrong with self intersecting or intersecting with others, bow chica chica bow wowww)

And you can map a triangle on a sphere and a hyperboloid, but you still map a triangle by separating out three intersecting generalized lines (with geodesics, sure!), not by allowing them to count as one geodesic but still mark a triangle.

I quite like self intersecting geodesics actually. They’re fun examples of geometric math, which is a great field all by itself.

I… have to ask, what’s going on here?

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

Let me disprove your statement about variation with a simple example. Consider the eye colors of people who are Caucasian and people who are African. White people may have many different eye colors. With only a few exceptions, black people all have brown eyes. One group of people has a much, much larger variation in eye color than the other. This is trivially easy to see.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
10 years ago

Back to triangles: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangle

When the definition of a triangle is:

A triangle is one of the basic shapes in geometry: a polygon with three corners or vertices and three sides or edges which are line segments.

Then, by definition, a triangle has 3 sides. QED.

Fuck off with the higher dimensional maths because it is irrelevant. The triangle is defined in 2D space as it is a plane. Once we get into 3D space, the closest shape is a pyramid: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pyramid_%28geometry%29 It’s not called a “triangle” any more, although each side (i.e. plane) can be a triangle.

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

See how this is a semantics problem? Whether or not a “triangle” may have more or fewer that 3 sides depends on how it is defined. You wish to define it so that such a thing is impossible.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
10 years ago

Let me disprove your statement about variation with a simple example. Consider the eye colors of people who are Caucasian and people who are African. White people may have many different eye colors. With only a few exceptions, black people all have brown eyes. One group of people has a much, much larger variation in eye color than the other. This is trivially easy to see.

And you prove my point by coming back to phenotypes. Overall, the proportion of people with all possible eye colours must equal 100%.

I also don’t think you understand variability in phenotypes either. For variability to occur, all that needs to be shown is that an example exists. This means that your statement “With only a few exceptions” has no bearing. It doesn’t matter if the “exceptions” are few: if, including “few exceptions”, the variability is the same, then there is no fucking difference in variability. The level of variability in a population is not predicated on the commonness of the variability. But you would know that if you fucking understood science or statistics.

Dealing with the phenotypes, you don’t posit a sex difference here, yet your comments up to now have said that males have higher variability in *all* traits compared to females. Your racial example is irrelevant to your assertion.

Please continue with the doubling down as I’m sure the others here are as amused as I am.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
10 years ago

See how this is a semantics problem? Whether or not a “triangle” may have more or fewer that 3 sides depends on how it is defined. You wish to define it so that such a thing is impossible.

Shorter troll: waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah the definition of a word disagrees with me.

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

Algebraic topology provides one very general way to define a triangle. In simplicial homology, a triangle is “singular 2-simplex,” a continuous map from the standard 2-simplex into a given topological space. That defines a “triangle” in such a space. Sufficiently degenerate “triangles” need not even be two dimensional. Points and lines can be thought of as degenerate 2-simplices. This, amusingly, allows for 1-sided and 0-sided “triangles.”

This definition is probably too general to be useful for our purposes. You think a triangle needs three sides, by definition. I think, linguistically, it should involve three internal angles. The best hope to show that all triangles must have three sides, even in my definition, is to dispute what counts as an internal angle and what doesn’t. If a geodesic intersects with itself, does its angle of intersection count as an internal angle or an external angle? It’s hard to say what counts as internal and external in such a context.

I’m not even going to bother responding to the “proof by dictionary” other than to point it out.

scott1139
scott1139
10 years ago

What is your understanding of love, foursidedtriangles? I’m quite curious.

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

“The level of variability in a population is not predicated on the commonness of the variability.”

What? Yes it is. Variance is a continuous parameter. It isn’t binary. A population where 50% of people are plumbers and 50% are electricians has more variation in career choice than one where 75% are plumbers and 25% are electricians. A population where 100% are plumbers has a variance of zero w.r.t. career choice.

I don’t even think you believe what you’re saying at this point.

Kiwi girl
Kiwi girl
10 years ago

Sufficiently degenerate “triangles” need not even be two dimensional. Points and lines can be thought of as degenerate 2-simplices. This, amusingly, allows for 1-sided and 0-sided “triangles.”

So now we’re talking about shapes that are considered “triangles” instead of triangles. And “can be thought of” is not actually the same as “is understood”. Funny how, in the simplex family (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simplex) only the 2-simplex is actually given the name triangle, and has 3 faces.

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

What do triangles have to do with mate selection?

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

Love is a vaguely defined concept that can mean multiple things depending on context. It’s another word like “spiritual” or “family values” or “freedom.” It’s a buzzword. It’s a nice-sounding word that means whatever the listener wants it to mean.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
10 years ago

Pro tip – trolling is most effective when it’s not too obvious. The thing about there being no good reason to reproduce via sex was much too obvious.

foursidedtriangles
10 years ago

If you want to have an idiotic dictionary war:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_homology#Singular_simplices

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