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How to get upvotes on The Spearhead: Violent rape fantasy edition

So I found this lovely little shoutout in the comments to an inane post by W.F. Price on The Spearhead last week.

Let me just preface it with a big TRIGGER WARNING for its violent rape fantasy.

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geographybeefinalisthimself February 12, 2014 at 13:02      “Is there any amount of androsphere content that Manboobz Futrelle can read, that will make him switch sides? No.”      A conservative is normally a liberal who has been mugged by reality. Futrelle would have to get ass-raped by reality so many times that he loses bowel control and contracts HIV and multiple incurable STDs before he would realize that feminism has zero benefit for men. Even after getting that badly burned, every single man will think, if he can come to his senses now, he could have come to his senses decades earlier.     Like or Dislike: Thumb up 10 Thumb down 0

Ten upvotes. No downvotes.

I guess that’s technically a rape metaphor, but it’s the most graphic rape metaphor I’ve run across in a long time.

If you ever find yourself wondering why the so-called Men’s Rights movement has never done, as far as I can tell, a single fucking thing for male victims of rape — other than rant about it online in an attempt to one-up feminists — I think this comment suggests one highly plausible explanation: because many if not most MRAs don’t actually feel empathy for the vast majority of male rape victims, who are, after all, men in prison raped by other men. They see rape as an appropriate punishment for men they don’t like, and many actually relish the thought of certain men being raped.

Indeed, even the self-described “men’s human rights activists” at A Voice for Men think that rape jokes about men they don’t like are hilarious.

I mean, it goes without saying that MRAs generally have little or no empathy for women who are raped, and indulge in rape jokes about women all the fucking time, but you’d think they’d do a better job of at least pretending to care about raped men.

If you’re interested in an organization that actually does care about victims of rape and other forms of sexual abuse in prison — regardless of the gender of the victim  — you may want to check out Just Detention International.

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John-Henry Eric Beck
10 years ago

Yeah, those claims that feminism does nothing for men? I never did like the gender role stuff, so it didn’t take much ‘patriarchy hurts men too’ to get on board. But short of maybe TERFs, I don’t see much in the way of feminist viewpoints that I wouldn’t consider at least an improvement for myself, while that MRA stuff sounds like just more of the toxic versions of masculinity that I hated even as a kid.

Noadi
10 years ago

Leaving aside the rather disgusting imagery there’s something else very telling about this comment. He believes that “feminism has zero benefit for men” and implies therefore that a man shouldn’t support anything that doesn’t directly benefit himself. He seems to not be able to grasp that some people do things for reasons other than personal gain.

insanitybytes22
10 years ago

That really is sad and pretty disgusting.

kittehserf
10 years ago

When I first saw the term MRA I thought it meant Male Rape Apologist/Advocate. Officially it doesn’t, but everything they write makes it obvious that being able to rape with impunity is at the core of their “movement”. One hardly even has to scratch the surface to find it: it’s right there in their fantasies.

leatapp
leatapp
10 years ago

I still think it means Men’s Rape Advocates, Kittehserf.

kittehserf
10 years ago

So do I, leatapp – Men’s Rights Advocates is just what they pretend it means.

weirwoodtreehugger
10 years ago

So the hypothesis is that if a man or a bunch of men raped David, it would make him…hate women? That makes no sense and it really grossed me out just typing that.

Kittehserf, I thought MRA stood for male rape apologist at first too. It definitely fits.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

They’re actually worse at covering their hipocricy than creationists. That’s gotta be a first.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

Woowwwwww.

I know I’ve brought this up again and again, but for the newbies: I’m a gay male survivor of rape, which was perpetrated upon me by a straight man. HIV and AIDS are something that decimated the gay male population… and here the Spearhead is, using it to mock a guy they don’t like.

Oh yeah, they sure do care about male rape survivors, yup. I sure want to go be with those folks.

Also, in the US at least, I seem to recall that people grow liberal as they hit old age. I guess they got… remugged by reality? Or something? Whatever, it’s not like the metaphor made sense anyway.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

Wait, no. They’ve always been this bad.

contrapangloss
contrapangloss
10 years ago

Dave, I’m sorry on the behalf of at least the small subset of humanity that might think like I do that you have to put up with that.

That post is absolutely disgusting, and horrifying, and filled with so much nasty that I can’t even…

If a self declared MRA guy walked up to me and told me about his amazing plan for how he wanted to actually help the world, I’d totally help him. I’d do plumbing for his shelter, or paint the walls, or donate to hire councilors, or help him find the resources to actually get men full custody of kidlets if their ex’s are abusive towards said kidlets.

There’s no way in hell, though, that I’m supporting a bunch of dolts who just want to sit around and make comments like this and whinge about how the world isn’t fair and women are evil.

Somehow, I think that if their posts were mostly realistic plans for actually helping people (guys in particular) who are disadvantaged by society, you’d be on board as well. They aren’t doing that!

(If you’re MRA and you disagree, SHOW ME THE SITE, OR THE CHARITY, OR THE PLAN!!!)

They aren’t, and you aren’t playing, and so their reacting like the terrible people they are. David, thanks so much for what you do. Enraging the nasties only makes their nastiness more readily apparent, so they are less likely to trick the unsuspecting into thinking they’re reasonable.

Maybe crud like this might convince some of the younglings on the forums that this isn’t the community for them…

… faint hope, but I’m clinging to it!

Michael Søndberg Olsen

LBT, I always heard it the other way around.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

With regard to politics and age.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Hi, Michael, how’ve you been? Nice to see you back on site.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
10 years ago

Wow, it’s almost like these guys see rape as such an effective tool of social control that even those men who don’t actively commit rape can potentially benefit from the abstract threat of rape’s existence.

But if a Feminist said that, it would be misandry.

Michael Søndberg Olsen

Hey, kittehserf. I’ve been mostly arguing with people on facebook and enjoying the spoils of that particular idiocy.

kittehserf
10 years ago

LOL sounds like a meta-troll experience!

weirwoodtreehugger
10 years ago

The conventional wisdom is that people grow more conservative with age. However, in the 2012 US elections IIRC from exit polling data thirty somethings that voted for Democrats in their twenties continued to vote Democratic. Normally the thirties is when people start to become less liberal. Presumably because they move into higher tax brackets and don’t want to have to pay those taxes. Also, people with kids tend to like tough on crime rhetoric.

As a 33 year old, I can anecdotally confirm that people aren’t getting conservative with age. My friends and acquaintances are mostly late twenties to mid thirties and none of them have switched from liberal to conservative in the years I’ve known them. I sure haven’t. The racism, sexism and homophobia in the republican party as well as the climate change denialism continues to be a huge turn off.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

Stay classy, Spearhead.

I guess they found Price?

Skye
Skye
10 years ago

David, sorry you had to read that. Those people are awful. Thanks for doing what you do.

On MRAs, how about Misanthropes & Rape Advocates?

Michael Søndberg Olsen

I’m 34 and I can confirm that if you get more conservative as you age, then I’m Benjamin fuckin’ Button.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: Michael Sondberg Olsen

LBT, I always heard it the other way around. With regard to politics and age.

It might be different in your country (you’re in Denmark, right?) but here in the US, as I recall, people get more conservative as they age, until they hit old age, which is when they start getting more liberal because they need social services and healthcare more and get Medicare. If your country is less cutthroat in its elderly care, it very well may be different where you are.

Of course, I’m a poverty-stricken lunatic with a history of homelessness, so what do I know?

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

Wow. That’s just…no. No no no.

Instead, here’s the Furrinati amusing themselves by imitating their human underlings:


http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=q3aFBgP23sw

kittehserf
10 years ago

On MRAs, how about Misanthropes & Rape Advocates?

I don’t think misanthrope captures their venom. Yes, they despise men, but it’s nothing like their virulent hatred of women. Misogynist Rape Advocates would be closer.

Skye
Skye
10 years ago

“I don’t think misanthrope captures their venom. Yes, they despise men, but it’s nothing like their virulent hatred of women. Misogynist Rape Advocates would be closer.”

Good point

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