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So over on A Voice for Men, young Jason Gregory seems faintly jealous that young women who put up dating profiles online tend to get flooded with messages — and the occasional dick pic — from horny guys.
F]ree cock is everywhere. Men give it away like it’s worthless. … I doubt that it is unusual at all for a woman to get 300 messages in her inbox from men who are desperate for female affection, approval, and sex. There is no doubt in my mind that men send “dick-pics” and clamor, bother, and sometimes harass women for their affections and attentions.
But Jason feels no sympathy for young women who put up profiles hoping to meet some nice young fellow who’s also into Sherlock and Neil Gaiman and Indian food and instead get messages from guys who introduce themselves by expressing a desire to ejaculate in their hair.
No, Jason is angry because he’s convinced all these offers of “free cock” only serve to make the women of the world into snooty-stuck stuck-up so-and-sos who think they’re all that and a folder full of dick pics.
All you men who give it away, all you do is reinforce the entitlement mentality of women who believe that their being present is plenty. You reinforce the idea that women don’t owe anything to the relationship—that they deserve a free-ride of cocks and that they don’t even have to break a sweat.
Jason, I should add, means this last bit literally. He’s resentful that when he allegedly engages in the act of coitus he has to do all the work while his alleged partners allegedly lie there like inflatable love-dolls.
Anyhoo,.Jason has a plan to take these stuck-up ladies down a peg or two: A cock strike.
Yep, he wants men to start saying “no” to women who are interested in them, just to see how they like it. But he doesn’t want them to just say no. He wants them to be giant dicks about it.
Try telling a girl no. Tell her, after she makes it clear that she wants your cock, that you’re not interested in giving it to her. Tell her that she isn’t interesting, that her soul is dog-shit and that she has nothing to offer other than boobs and booty, that she is a piece of shit and a total failure as a human being, that you don’t find her attractive and that she isn’t even good enough to be a cum-bucket. Tell her that she is never going to be any good at sucking cock and that she needs to stop pretending that she is doing any favors and learn to compensate for her inadequacies by becoming “kinky.” Tell her that her vapid life of shoes and pop-culture and materialism are soulless pursuits of dog-shit. Watch what happens. If you Jez-ladies wanna know what “hostile” means, see this rejected woman.
Emphasis mine.
A Voice for Men, you may recall, sees itself as leading the most important civil rights movement of the 21st century. I am sure Jason Gregory’s post here will be remembered alongside Martin Luther King’s Letter from a Birmingham Jail as a classic in civil rights literature.
EDIT: I added a couple more “allegedlys” to a sentence I thought needed them.
And/or they ignore all the “no” signals so they can later claim “she never said no”. *shudder*
Well, it is a cute image! 😀
Well as you can see I’m a walking statistics,marry too young, had kids too early, waited too long to leave, but I don’t let get me down. I have work my way back up and will continue to do so. And now I will get off my soap box, thanks for listening.
@kitteh – yup, with the added bonus that bonobos are peace-loving, matriarchal, and sexually liberated. They are the anti-MRA.
Like the alpha wolf, they exist in nature, and therefore mankind has absolutely no choice but to replicate their social structure in the sexual marketplace, because biology and logic. (At least we’re closer kin to them than wolves….)
Buttercup – I heard your last paragraph in the voice of zefrank1 (he who does the True Facts videos). 😀
Look, a kitty sweater!
@Heather N: Nobody have sex? Ha! Yeah, right. Once more women start to realize dick isn’t being handed out like candy anymore, they’ll start crawling for it.
As for what the writer said, he’s reflecting what women say to men when they reject them oh but yeah, dating is so hard for you. I know it must be difficult for all of you to read AND comprehend since your brain cells are focused on stressing over the next evils that the ‘patriarchy’ must be plotting, so I figured I’d help you out. You’re welcome!
@kittehserf – yeah I feel much the same way. On principle I don’t see a reason to object to people using real dolls or, if they existed, sexbots (non-sentient ones anyway) but the attitude regarding women that leads some MRA types into using a substitute is alarming. Then again, it’s the attitude, not the action that’s the source of the problem, unless that attitude bleeds out from how they treat the inanimate object to how they treat actual people.
I remember the last time the sexbot thing came up we were all fairly convinced MRAs wouldn’t be satisfied with “dominating” a sexbot because it wasn’t an actual human and most of their drive is about making women miserable. They wouldn’t get the right charge out of a robot.
(I mean “dominating” not as in the BDSM sense which is totally cool for consenting people who are into it but dominating as in abusive behavior.)
@justabrowngirl – Obviously you should not do anything you’re not comfortable doing, but if you are considering buying something for yourself, the Good Vibrations site has a whole page of shopping guides on various subjects (I would suggest the “Staff Favorites” one as a good neutral starting place). http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=Good-Vibes-Shopping-Guides
They also make vibrators and toys that are very small and easily concealed if you’re concerned about keeping a curious kid from finding it. Just look for the “Discreet” category. I’d stick with battery operated and ones with a low intensity rating if you’ve never used one before, so it’s not too overwhelming, which is how I started. (And again, if you’re not ready or it’s not your thing, that’s absolutely fine.)
And I hear you on getting flustered, except I tend to look even more grumpy, which leads to men labeling me a bitch. There is no winning for anyone. :
I advise anyone trying to pick and choose animal behaviors as guides for morality to go live naked in the forest. You know, like chimpanzees would.
“Nobody have sex? Ha! Yeah, right. Once more women start to realize dick isn’t being handed out like candy anymore, they’ll start crawling for it. ”
Any day now…
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Just you wait…
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Y’know, if these AVFM guys aren’t careful, people might get the impression that they hate women.
kristalgarcia: Sure. You just keep telling yourself that.
That’s particularly hilarious given the extensive discussion in this thread of male dolls, vibrators and dildos.
@drst
OMG, I want the one that hooks up to my iPod! My sexual horizons were just blown open!
Thanks for the link 😉
Hands up everyone who’d rather have a vibrator or dildo than a penis that’s attached to a man who’d write what’s in the OP.
“…so I figured I’d help you out. You’re welcome!”
@ kristalgarcia
Do I smell a sock?
>_>
drst, thanks for the advice…I appreciate it…I will give a whirl.
@cassandrakitty
*raises hand*
Also that nonMRA men are the majority of men, and they are not going to be part of the cock blockade.
No crawling by women will be necessary, contrary to your overheated imagination.
Also dick is not being handed out like candy, it is more being littered everywhere like spam.
cassandrakitty, hands way up!! (waves).
If it’s being handed out it’s less “would you like some candy?” and more “
“TAKE THIS FUCKING CANDY RIGHT NOW OR ELSE”
(Hit enter too soon)
” I know it must be difficult for all of you to read AND comprehend since your brain cells are focused on stressing over the next evils that the ‘patriarchy’ must be plotting,”
Actually, my brain cells are focused on fantasizing about how much fun my boyfriend and I are going to have once my new NaughtiBod Vibrator comes in the mail. Yeah, I bought one. The licorice color, since I already have a lavender vibrator. Need some variation in the collection, you understand?
cassandrakitty, trick or treat?
“Nobody have sex? Ha! Yeah, right. Once more women start to realize dick isn’t being handed out like candy anymore, they’ll start crawling for it.”
Well, thanks for the mansplanation, but we are totally aware of the idiotic logic the AVfMers are eating up. It’s horseshit. Women don’t want to sleep with you or any of the rest of your lot because you’re disgusting human beings. So, it really doesn’t matter whether you reject women or desperately message them a bazillion times while they repeatedly tell you to piss off. The end result is still going to be the same.
Be fair, cupisnique. If they go with the “your soul is dogshit” message right from the beginning they may get blocked immediately rather than later, which is a difference, though not really a positive one from their perspective.