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So over on A Voice for Men, young Jason Gregory seems faintly jealous that young women who put up dating profiles online tend to get flooded with messages — and the occasional dick pic — from horny guys.
F]ree cock is everywhere. Men give it away like it’s worthless. … I doubt that it is unusual at all for a woman to get 300 messages in her inbox from men who are desperate for female affection, approval, and sex. There is no doubt in my mind that men send “dick-pics” and clamor, bother, and sometimes harass women for their affections and attentions.
But Jason feels no sympathy for young women who put up profiles hoping to meet some nice young fellow who’s also into Sherlock and Neil Gaiman and Indian food and instead get messages from guys who introduce themselves by expressing a desire to ejaculate in their hair.
No, Jason is angry because he’s convinced all these offers of “free cock” only serve to make the women of the world into snooty-stuck stuck-up so-and-sos who think they’re all that and a folder full of dick pics.
All you men who give it away, all you do is reinforce the entitlement mentality of women who believe that their being present is plenty. You reinforce the idea that women don’t owe anything to the relationship—that they deserve a free-ride of cocks and that they don’t even have to break a sweat.
Jason, I should add, means this last bit literally. He’s resentful that when he allegedly engages in the act of coitus he has to do all the work while his alleged partners allegedly lie there like inflatable love-dolls.
Anyhoo,.Jason has a plan to take these stuck-up ladies down a peg or two: A cock strike.
Yep, he wants men to start saying “no” to women who are interested in them, just to see how they like it. But he doesn’t want them to just say no. He wants them to be giant dicks about it.
Try telling a girl no. Tell her, after she makes it clear that she wants your cock, that you’re not interested in giving it to her. Tell her that she isn’t interesting, that her soul is dog-shit and that she has nothing to offer other than boobs and booty, that she is a piece of shit and a total failure as a human being, that you don’t find her attractive and that she isn’t even good enough to be a cum-bucket. Tell her that she is never going to be any good at sucking cock and that she needs to stop pretending that she is doing any favors and learn to compensate for her inadequacies by becoming “kinky.” Tell her that her vapid life of shoes and pop-culture and materialism are soulless pursuits of dog-shit. Watch what happens. If you Jez-ladies wanna know what “hostile” means, see this rejected woman.
Emphasis mine.
A Voice for Men, you may recall, sees itself as leading the most important civil rights movement of the 21st century. I am sure Jason Gregory’s post here will be remembered alongside Martin Luther King’s Letter from a Birmingham Jail as a classic in civil rights literature.
EDIT: I added a couple more “allegedlys” to a sentence I thought needed them.
The sexbot in A.I. was male, but I highly doubt a woman came up with his “seduction technique”.
Mine is hot pink ..(tee hee)
Some of the guys who own Real Dolls seem to be fetishists, but the thing is, some don’t. From the most commonly seen documentaries for example I’d say DaveCat is an actual doll fetishist, but the guys who talk about how angry they are with real women and how the dolls are better because they can’t say no, and make it clear that they think the same should be true of actual women? That’s not a fetish, that’s just misogyny.
I read a short SF story years ago, Trojan Horse, that featured a male sexbot made for a woman. Can’t remember who wrote it, but the protagonist temporarily replaces the robot, with the aid of a lot of makeup or prosthetics or some such.
Cassandrakitty,
True, but those guys would still be misogynists without the dolls.
dallasapple, i’m too chicken to get one…probably because I been single for so long. I think I will build the courage to date this year.
Yep, in those cases the dolls are a symptom, not the cause.
In terms of why there are very few sci-fi stories featuring sexbots for women I’d guess that the answer is that most sci-fi authors have historically been men, most of whom don’t think women have any sexuality that isn’t just a response to a man’s sexuality.
Also! For anyone looking for a live-action version of a story like that, I liked this one. It gets silly in parts, but overall it’s really funny and charming.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zettai_Kareshi_%28TV_Series%29
That’s all too true, auggz. 🙁
Just out of curiosity, do they make humanoid alien-looking Real Dolls, because it seems like there would be a market for that.
Must Google…….
Curious Justabrown girl ,
Why would being single make you afraid to get a vibrator ? I never had one until I was married but still LOL!! That’s only because I was too shy to ever go in one of those places until I was in my mid 30s . My husband and I went together .
Anyway why would single make a difference ?
dallasapple, I had put… let said the woman aside and been focuse on the mother role (single mom of two, one happens to be special needs), and I very much an introvert, that I’m painfully akward interacting with others. I hope I explain my self clearly.
auggziliary,
I’ve seen that one before. I was thinking more of the high end kind. I found an elf and an alien with transparent skin by Google-ing. From that, I’m going to assume that means here is no limit to the customization possibilities.
justabrowngirl,
Have you considered ordering online? It’s discrete and easy.
I love the notion that women flock to dating sites for the free cock. Yes, that’s just what we’re thinking as we read through profiles…”How long will the BOGO sale last?”
leatapp, don’t know where to start? And more importantly getting over(hang up) and out of my own way…that is a pandora box I’m not ready to open. But thank you for your suggestion.
Buttercup, get them while they are hot, lmao.
All those posts on how angry women get when we are so very rarely turned down… why????? Why would a woman get angry about one guy turning her down when there’s a bar FULL of men to pick from, and you are the only guy willing to turn down sex!
I have been on the receiving end of actual anger when I told men that I wasn’t going home with them. Apparently I “led them on” by enjoying a friendly conversation or nearly falling in front of them*. I know for a fact I am not alone in this. Fuck this guy, seriously.
*I was drunk and grabbed a low-hanging rafter for balance, and the thought I was doing a sexy dance for him. When I explained about the almost falling, he just said, “no you didn’t”, so matter-of-fact. SO glad I had an excuse to get away from him.
I read BOGO as a typo for BOZO (hadn’t seen the acronym before).
A bozo on a pogo stick, maybe … though that’s more talent than any MRA is likely to have.
I can’t weigh in on the sex toy discussion, but I sympathize with you, justabrowngirl…it’s really hard to find the time and energy for “womanly pursuits” when you’re wearing the mommy hat 24/7. Maybe online erotica would help get you back in touch with that side of yourself (pun intended)? Hope things will get easier for you as your kids get older.
emilygoddess, I tend to smile timidly when I’m fluster or nervous, I find a lot of the mans that aproached me in public thinks that some how flirting…whebn in reality I’m uncomfortable and trying to politely decline their invitation.
Boho bonobos playing polo on pogos.
No woman could possibly resist that!
Those kind of guys interpret everything up to and including “I hate you, and find you physically repulsive. Never talk to me again” as “See, she totally wants me”.
Buttercup, thank you… (lol) just posting here is my first steps in finding myself again (I mean you are never to old) I’m 35 years old, my oldest child is 17yrs(soon with be going to college), my youngest 12 yrs has come a long way, inspite of his limitation. So I think I’m in a time of my life to dust my self off and try again.