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So over on A Voice for Men, young Jason Gregory seems faintly jealous that young women who put up dating profiles online tend to get flooded with messages — and the occasional dick pic — from horny guys.
F]ree cock is everywhere. Men give it away like it’s worthless. … I doubt that it is unusual at all for a woman to get 300 messages in her inbox from men who are desperate for female affection, approval, and sex. There is no doubt in my mind that men send “dick-pics” and clamor, bother, and sometimes harass women for their affections and attentions.
But Jason feels no sympathy for young women who put up profiles hoping to meet some nice young fellow who’s also into Sherlock and Neil Gaiman and Indian food and instead get messages from guys who introduce themselves by expressing a desire to ejaculate in their hair.
No, Jason is angry because he’s convinced all these offers of “free cock” only serve to make the women of the world into snooty-stuck stuck-up so-and-sos who think they’re all that and a folder full of dick pics.
All you men who give it away, all you do is reinforce the entitlement mentality of women who believe that their being present is plenty. You reinforce the idea that women don’t owe anything to the relationship—that they deserve a free-ride of cocks and that they don’t even have to break a sweat.
Jason, I should add, means this last bit literally. He’s resentful that when he allegedly engages in the act of coitus he has to do all the work while his alleged partners allegedly lie there like inflatable love-dolls.
Anyhoo,.Jason has a plan to take these stuck-up ladies down a peg or two: A cock strike.
Yep, he wants men to start saying “no” to women who are interested in them, just to see how they like it. But he doesn’t want them to just say no. He wants them to be giant dicks about it.
Try telling a girl no. Tell her, after she makes it clear that she wants your cock, that you’re not interested in giving it to her. Tell her that she isn’t interesting, that her soul is dog-shit and that she has nothing to offer other than boobs and booty, that she is a piece of shit and a total failure as a human being, that you don’t find her attractive and that she isn’t even good enough to be a cum-bucket. Tell her that she is never going to be any good at sucking cock and that she needs to stop pretending that she is doing any favors and learn to compensate for her inadequacies by becoming “kinky.” Tell her that her vapid life of shoes and pop-culture and materialism are soulless pursuits of dog-shit. Watch what happens. If you Jez-ladies wanna know what “hostile” means, see this rejected woman.
Emphasis mine.
A Voice for Men, you may recall, sees itself as leading the most important civil rights movement of the 21st century. I am sure Jason Gregory’s post here will be remembered alongside Martin Luther King’s Letter from a Birmingham Jail as a classic in civil rights literature.
EDIT: I added a couple more “allegedlys” to a sentence I thought needed them.
Yeah, I’m pretty sure that “no more dickpix for YOU, bitch!” isn’t actually a punishment, but a welcome reprieve.
Exactly its pure fantasy . He never said “do what I do .” (or have done) .
I imagine the first “girl’ that actually makes it clear she “wants his cock” his fantasy revenge rejection will evaporate, and he will probably ask her to marry him .
Still catching up: if little Jase’s real aim is the usual make-women-feel-worse-about-themselves, he’s misfiring there, too. I guess it might work if a woman has suffered enough internalised misogyny to care what some random fuckwit thinks just because he’s male. But if she hasn’t, it’s a case of “consider the source”. Little Mr Dipshit is just confirming that he’s a misogynist loser nobody would want, and setting himself up to be scorned and laughed at by even more women – just like he is here. Being insulted by creeptastic MRAs = I must be doing something right!
Oh, and Jason? If you’re reading this, google Pete Seeger. He died yesterday, and he did more for ACTUAL human rights just by opening up and singing than you ever will with all your angry keyboard-humping.
RE: Kittehs
Man, I WISH these guys would pull a reverse Lysistrata. Yes, please, PLEASE GO. Somehow, alllll those people who are aching for your cock (shitthatneverhappened.txt) will survive, I promise.
Unicorns for everyone!
I’m having really nasty thoughts about the sort of “I’ll take the cock but I don’t want you attached” message I’d be sending one of these idiots. The term “preserved in salt” plays a part (okay I’ve been reading Sherlock Holmes again, I admit it).
Can I have a unicorn like this?
I’ll take a rainbow pegasus unicorn that poops Oreos, please.
I need no more unicorns, since I apparently already am one. *snort*
Here’s the thing. If you want to continue commenting on blogs that are focused on social justice, you will find very little support for terms like that, and you will continue to be called out when you use them. That’s not just here on this blog. Being asked to think about the language and terms that you use isn’t petty. It’s something that all of us try to do for ourselves, as well. Our culture freely uses terms that slur people who are disabled (lame), mentally ill (nuts, crazy), etc., without even thinking about it. Here, we ask you to think about it. That’s really not an outrageous request.
It’s a bit late, but since we’re discussing accidentally ablist language:
The preferred phrasing would be “Does his partner have/experience schizophrenia?”
Heeeeey Chie! My roommates finally have me watching Persona 4! Not gonna lie, I was able to remember Chie’s name because of you. (And my next-up writeathon is going to be based on the concept of the shadow in part because of that.)
Also, holy projection, Batman! Seeing, assholes like MRAs called crazy (like me), that’s not an attack at all. But say, “hey, stop that,” is TOTALLY AN ATTACK AND BULLYING, Y’ALL.
Please, Jojo. If someone tells you to get off their foot, do you get this whiny about it too?
I hope that was a suitably powerful equine snort, accompanied by a pawing hoof.
Chie is my favorite character from the series! Was just thinking about going back and revisiting that game. I’ve been playing Fallout New Vegas and Skyrim lately. So bored with my games. I’m waiting for Dragon Age 3 later this year.
RE: Chie
I’m watching the anime, rather than playing the game, but I’m enjoying it. Kanji’s my favorite so far.
RE: Kittehs
Hell no, I ain’t into that!
Wait just a darn minute here! Isn’t that all the obnoxious negging stuff they tell PUA men to say to women when they do want to have the sexy times?
LBT – LOL I didn’t think you would be, given you don’t like unicorns. Maybe just a fine horse instead? (Hey, you’re talking to someone whose childhood games involved reenacting the Silver Brumby series.) 😛
Then he should stop fucking inflatable love-dolls.
@LBT, if you’re going to go around helping abused men, we’re going to have to cut up your feminist card.
(Seriously, though, it takes major guts to step in when that sort of thing is going down. You’re literally a hero.)
@Jojo
You know what? If you’re going to claim you’re being attacked because someone informed you that what you said was hurtful, I don’t think we’ll miss you.
So he thinks that following this plan is going to make women more likely to date him, or men in general? Cause it sounds like a plan to make any woman who’s even a little bit bisexual declare permanent allegiance to the other team to me.
This guy Jason is like a pin, but without either its head or its point. He couldn’t get a clue during the clue mating season in a field full of horny clues if he smeared his body with clue musk and did the clue mating dance. What an asshat… doesn’t he realize he still won’t be getting any, logic is not strong with this one.
What is even more flattering (and amusing) than being inboxed a hundred times from men who want the V, is witnessing the green eyed monster of a vfm fellow getting so worked up enough about the attention we get to want to have a call to action of men everywhere to stop giving us attention, all in the name of taking us down a peg. 😉
BTW, good job, LBT. Bye, JoJo. You’re not going to be welcome on any social justice focused blog until you learn to stop assuming that your feelings count more than everyone else’s.
Nice how he thinks the appropriate revenge for womankind not answering their flood of dating site harassment is not ignoring them in return, but completely tearing them down in the worst and sexist way possible. He really feels like a woman not answering his message is the equivalent of her degrading and humiliating him.
I’m thinking this needs at least one more “allegedly.” BRB