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Cat discovers snow; David takes a few days off

So, there’s a whole bunch of MRA stuff I should be writing about now, and some Roosh drama, but, you know, my heart just isn’t in it at the moment. So I’m going to take a few more days off to clear my head. In the meantime, I would suggest keeping up with the latest MRA and PUA shenanigans by checking out the AgainstMensRights and TheBluePill subreddits, respectively.

Also, I thought you all might appreciate this video of a cat discovering snow for the first time.

And Happy New Year! Or did I already wish you guys that?

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CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

What really bothers me about this is that if a woman is tense and nervous during sex then that makes it much more likely that it will hurt, so basically what she’s doing is training any inexperienced women or girls who read her blog into a state of mind where sex might actually hurt for them even if it otherwise wouldn’t have. That’s not an OK thing to do for people for political purposes.

Unimaginative
Unimaginative
10 years ago

Oh, god, I’m finding ALL the repulsive crap on the internet today.

neuroticbeagle
10 years ago

She’s probably one of those people who thinks you’re supposed to ejaculate on the outside of the vulva and just let it trickle in.

That’s an interesting take on the trickle down theory. Wonder if the Republican party believes that bullshit too?

dallasapple
dallasapple
10 years ago

She’s probably one of those people who thinks you’re supposed to ejaculate on the outside of the vulva and just let it trickle in.

I don’t think so . That sounds like an invasion of the body snatcher’s .Totally violation .

Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

Pecunium — well, I hope you can still run as much as you want, how’s that? Cuz back in HS I could leg press 250 (yes, twice my weight), I wouldn’t even try working up to that now, I need what cartilage I have left in my knees. I also have doubts about my actually climbing abilities at this point, not the climbing part, the hiking part, come visit and I’ll try taking you up to the castle? We can always ditch the red trail for the family trail, they intersect A LOT. (I am so talking my pharm student into going with me if ze can make it for the, um, oh just break the news here already would you?)

As for climbing, we’re going at some point? Like, maybe make that motorcycle ride you owe me have a point?

dallasapple
dallasapple
10 years ago

What really bothers me about this is that if a woman is tense and nervous during sex then that makes it much more likely that it will hurt, so basically what she’s doing is training any inexperienced women or girls who read her blog into a state of mind where sex might actually hurt for them even if it otherwise wouldn’t have. That’s not an OK thing to do for people for political purposes.

Agreed its not a healthy mind frame . To teach young women or young men . Like its inevitable.

kittehserf
10 years ago

She’s probably one of those people who thinks you’re supposed to ejaculate on the outside of the vulva and just let it trickle in.

EWWWWWWWWWWWW

Cat purr………

Awww! 😉

That’s an interesting take on the trickle down theory. Wonder if the Republican party believes that bullshit too?

::dies:: You are an evil, evil person, neuroticbeagle, making me laugh like that. How ya been, anyway? Haven’t seen you online for a few days.

dallasapple
dallasapple
10 years ago

If we look at the act in more detail (skip this parag if you can’t take it), PIV is a man mounting on a woman to thrust a large member of himself into her most intimate parts, often forcing her to be entirely naked, banging himself against her with the whole weight of his body and hips, shaking her like he would stuff a corpse, then using her insides as a receptacle for his penile dejection. How is this a normal civilised, respectful way to treat anyone? Sorry for the explicit picture, but this is what it is and it’s absolutely revolting and violating.

I have more to say after this. BUT …what if she mounts him ? Has she ever heard of cow girl? (or reverse cowgirl?) Has she ever heard of riding him like a bull?(and voluntarily naked?)

Sorry for the “explicit picture” but maybe this girl needs sexual liberation .

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Wait, everyone, we’re supposed to do this, some dumbass on Reddit said so.

OMG NEUROTIC BEAGLE, WE THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD! WE WERE ABOUT TO ASK REDDIT WHY THEY HADN’T LOOKED FOR YOU YET! HAVE YOU BEEN TRYING TO EVADE THE LAW?

Huh. Thinking like an MRA isn’t fun at all.

dallasapple
dallasapple
10 years ago

The only reason we may now not feel raped or have the impression we desired or initiated PIV, is because men broke down our barriers very skillfully and progressively from birth, breaking down our natural defences to pain and invasion, our confidence in our own perceptions and sensations of fear and disgust that tell us male sexual invasion is painful, harmful and traumatic.

I KNOW ! That’s why vibrators are hot sellers! (yes penis shaped ones too!) Because its SOOO traumatic we will find a simulator and putt a battery in it and do it to ourselves!(as painful as it is )

katz
10 years ago

That’s an interesting take on the trickle down theory.

*snrk*

I swear this is a real thing that a radfem said once. I’m just too terrified to Google it.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

In all seriousness, if she really feels that way about sex then having sex, if she has done so, must have been horrible for her. That part I don’t want to make fun of – it would be a very unpleasant experience, approached from that perspective, and if someone feels like being penetrated is an invasion then they have every right to not want it to ever happen.

To them. That part is important, and that’s where I get annoyed with her. OK, so, this is how she feels about sex. She has observed that other women don’t feel the same way. This means that they must have been…brainwashed? They’re suffering from false consciousness? Because obviously it’s impossible that they just don’t feel the same way she does about all this stuff.

Narcissism, it’s a hell of a drug.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Cassandra, you read my mind! 😀 😀

often forcing her to be entirely naked,

Someone’s got hangups, hasn’t she? Joking aside, it sounds like being naked frightens or disgusts her, or at least, being naked with another person. This is getting sad as well as stupid.

I’m wondering the same as Cassandra did – has she ever had consensual sex? Or any sex at all? It’s like she’s only ever seen horrible porn, or had really, really bad sex “education”.

Reminds me of a line from a film – can’t remember the name – where a woman’s whole sex education consisted of her mother saying “There’s a thing men do. You won’t like it.” (She did.)

kittehserf
10 years ago

Heh, I typed before refreshing.

dallasapple
dallasapple
10 years ago

To them. That part is important, and that’s where I get annoyed with her. OK, so, this is how she feels about sex. She has observed that other women don’t feel the same way. This means that they must have been…brainwashed? They’re suffering from false consciousness? Because obviously it’s impossible that they just don’t feel the same way she does about all this stuff.

Exactly she is extremely arrogant and rude . She in her definitive way insulted me and my women friends and my men.

Sorry …I’ll go ole fashioned . Take a long walk off a short bridge….or go straight up and make a u-turn!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Nope, sorry, I’m not endorsing any sort of “just go kill yourself” sentiments, I’d just like her to consider the possibility that she may be speaking only for herself, not for women as a whole.

pecunium
10 years ago

So women who like sex are wrong? They don’t think it’s fun, pleasureable, etc. All the consent they gave (or sought) was because they were tricked; tricked so well they actually thought they enjoyed it?

Bwyah?

pecunium
10 years ago

And, because I’ve not been around, this is the nearest thing to an Open Thread, and I thought I’d done it already (or as least said zie could; though perhaps this is sense of politesse, in that it’s my news to share):

We are doing the official thing and having a (complicated) wedding. I am the reason Argenti is worrying about what to wear (not that I think anyone can show me up, I intend to be the gaudiest thing at my wedding), and all like that.

So, come the middle of May, I expect to be standing in front of a lot of people, and doing something the MRM says is utter folly.

🙂

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Congratulations!

dallasapple
dallasapple
10 years ago

ope, sorry, I’m not endorsing any sort of “just go kill yourself” sentiments,

I never said “go kill your self .”

Unbelievable .

Sounds like the link ..saying “go fuck your self” is equivalent ” to condoning rape.

Roll eyes.

I will never quote you again that way you will not have to excuse your self from being “endorsed” from anything I say on the internet .

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

And my eyes just rolled all the way under the couch. Where are the adorable eyeball-locating babies when you need them?

Unimaginative
Unimaginative
10 years ago

Take a long walk off a short bridge….or go straight up and make a u-turn!

I’m having a hard time construing these two sayings as anything other than “kill yourself”.

Congrats, Pecunium! I hope you have a wonderfully, ostentatiously gaudy wedding.

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

Congratulations, pecunium!

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

Take a long walk off a short bridge….or go straight up and make a u-turn!

The first part is understandable, it’s the second I’m having trouble parsing.

Cassandra: I have an adorable orange cat eyeball locator.

Pecunium: mazel tov!

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

…and by “understandable,” I mean it’s a pretty clear indication that the speaker would like the intended recipient of that to die.

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