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Men’s Rights subreddit mod blames “Not Me” for Occidental College vigilantism

The diabolical Not Me strikes the Men's Rights subreddit yet again
The diabolical Not Me strikes the Men’s Rights subreddit yet again

Some updates on the Occidental College situation.

First, for those who didn’t see my post yesterday, a quick recap: Yesterday, Men’s Rights Redditors discovered that Occidental College has an online form that allows victims of and witnesses to sexual violence to report the incidents anonymously.

Although the information is being collected to track trends, and no one will be charged with anything as a result of such a report, a number of Men’s Rights subreddit regulars decided it would be a great idea to flood Occidental College with false reports to basically break the system, and they suggested this to much acclaim; others proudly reported that they’d sent in bogus reports.

So what has happened since then? The story has been picked up by a number of sites, including Gawker, Business Insider, RawStory, and LAist. In a followup post, Adam Weinsten of Gawker confirmed that Occidental College had indeed been hit with some 400 bogus rape reports in the past 36 hours — that is, after posts encouraging false reports appeared on 4chan and the Men’s Rights subreddit.

Meanwhile, on the Men’s Rights subreddit, after belatedly realizing that this whole thing makes them look kind of bad, the subreddit’s mods are trying their best to make the whole embarrassing thing go away — and not really doing a great job of it.

The first mod to say anything publicly was sillymod, whose initial reaction to the calls to flood Occidental with false reports of rape was to boldly announce that … the mods really weren’t going to be doing anything about it. In a post titled “With regards to Occidental College’s ‘rape report form,’” Sillymod wrote:

some people are claiming that it violates the Reddit TOS. It is not clear to me that it does, and I have not removed the article yet. But I will assume that Reddit admins will get involved at some point. So be it. At least then we can get a definitive ruling on whether it breaks the TOS.

What leadership! A true profile in courage.

Sillymod went on to note that the headline of the post he wasn’t going to remove was actually completely wrong in implying that people were going to get charged with crimes after being anonymously reported, and then made a few suggestions:

As always, when something gets you outraged – pause, take a few deep breaths, and then think of the most productive action to take. Don’t knee-jerk your response like feminists do. Do you want to be viewed the same as Big Red?

It might seem a tad ironic — or perhaps completely and mind-bogglingly hypocritical — to bring up, as an example of a person behaving badly, a women who was the victim of online MRA vigilantes when trying to cool off the online MRA vigilantes in your own subreddit, but never mind, because a couple of hours later Sillymod returned with a new response to the Occidental College thing.

First, he removed the thread from the subreddit. (Note: removing a thread on Reddit doesn’t make it go away; it just removes it from the subreddit’s index.)

Then, in a new thread entitled “‘Why did sillymod remove the Occidental College post?’ Let me tell you why,” he decided to blame the whole thing on trolls.

So I was reviewing the post and the multitude of reports on it. I noticed a sad trend.

I noticed a lot of very young accounts encouraging bad behaviour, I noticed that the post was made by a self-proclaimed “shitlord”. I noticed that there was a lot of misconception/misinformation about the form in general, whether willfully spread to take advantage of people choosing not to read these things for themselves or not.

In the end, I can’t help but feel that we were trolled, and that is why I removed it.

Sillymod, who apparently doesn’t research anything before posting, added:

Some people have alleged that 4Chan was involved, which would support the idea that we were trolled.

Yeah, the dude who posted the original thread said explicitly he’d found out about it on 4chan, and there are screenshots of the 4chan thread floating around that would take all of 5 minutes to find.

In any case, Sillymod’s “argument” — or, rather, his assertion — that the Men’s Rights subreddit was the victims of “trolls” with “very young accounts encouraging bad behaviour” was quickly shown to be utter nonsense:

johndoe42 40 points 17 hours ago* (123|83)  Bullshit. The biggest comments "encouraging" bad behavior were all long time contributring /r/mensrights members.  /u/blueoak9, whose account basically solely consists of comments in this subreddit, made the 100+ upvoted top comment "The quickest way to shut this one down is to anonymously report random women and let them sweat in the hot seat. This will be over before it begins."  /u/froggymorning, who had a 50+ upvoted comment noting that she filled out a false report is a longtime /r/mensrights member and has had comments with hundreds of upvotes.  /u/muffinizer1 also claimed to have "fun" filling one out. Also a long time MRA member (has had comments with 5-25 upvotes on this subreddit older than 20 days).  /u/whitethrone is also not a new MR member, who made the 20+ upvoted comment "Step one: Get a list of every 'Feminist' at Occidental College who supported this system. Step two: Anonymously report them for rape."  I know this looks pitchforky but you didn't have to lie about members of this subreddit's involvement in "encouraging bad behavior." I fucking hate revisionism and this subreddit needs reform badly. The "a few bad apples" defense is not going to work anymore.

In the discussion that followed, a Men’s Rights regular called oneiorosgrip tried to use another specious argument in order to suggest that the whole controversy had been ginned up by evil feminist trolls. All those screenshots showing terrible comments with lots of upvotes? Those comments were, she suggested, upvoted by feminists to make the subreddit look bad:

So what you’re telling me is that initially, just in time for SRS to post it as “evidence” that MRAs were flooding Occidental with false reports, a comment with less than 60 upvotes was the top comment in the sub… and despite the fact that the comments you cite represent less 0.00002% of the sub’s population, you claim that single moment in time proves MRAs flooded occidental with accusations.

Weird, because by the time I discovered the thread, a number of the comments I screenshotted had been up for 15 hours, and one of the worst had a lot more than 60 upvotes.

SirSkeptic 167 points 15 hours ago (209|45) That's awesome. I'd like to see one sent with the name of every member of the Dean of Students Office as the offender. Hey, it's anonymous and no evidence is required. Sometimes that's the only way fanatics learn.

15 hours is a pretty long “single moment in time.”

But hey, Sillymod and oneiorosgrip have their stories, and they’re sticking with them. Who are you going to believe, them — or your lying eyes?

Men’s Rights Activists: No matter what terrible things they do, it’s always someone else’s fault.

The MensRights mods have begun to try to clean up the mess — or at least remove the evidence of it. They’ve deleted most of the comments I linked to yesterday (Always Be Screenshotting). Has anyone involved in this faced any repercussions beyond having a comment or two deleted? I sent the mods a message to ask if they’d banned any of those who’d made those comments, and Nicemod replied:

I don’t see any reason why we should tell you anything at all.

I’m guessing that means “no.” But I wouldn’t really have to guess if they simply told me. Masters of Public Relations, these guys are not.

There’s more discussion of all this going on in the AgainstMensRights subreddit (which I feel I should mention again is not actually against men’s rights, but against the so-called Men’s Rights movement).

Here’s a discussion of another thread — which I hadn’t seen — in which Men’s Rights redditors talked about spamming Occidental College with false reports of rape. There are screenshots.

Here’s a thread with screenshots featuring our old friend ThePigman, an MRA blogger and long-time contributor to the Men’s Rights subreddit, proudly prooclaiming that he’d submitted a bogus rape report.

And here is a particularly damning screenshot of the entire Men’s Rights Occidental College thread some five hours after it went up. The second comment on the page, then three hours old and with several dozen upvotes, provides two links to lists of names of Occidental College staffers to serve as potential targets of false accusations. (It was later deleted, but SirSkeptic’s original comment was around for me to screenshot it 11 hours later.)

lists

This, sadly, is what Men’s Rights activism looks like.

Oh, and MRB2012 was still posting in the Men’s Rights subreddit as of 5 hours ago, so it looks as though he hasn’t been banned even though he provided his MRA comrades with a specific list of individuals to falsely accuse of rape. And I have no way to check if he has been banned since then because the mods won’t speak to the evil Man Boobz.

Way to go, mods. Great job!

One last thing: Gawker’s followup post included a great quote from Occidental College sociologist Lisa Wade that I think puts the whole espisode in context perfectly:

The men targeting Occidental’s anonymous report form are mad that women are being listened to, that men’s voices are no longer given so much power that they can effectively drown out the voices of women. They’re mad because they’re not the only ones that matter anymore. I get it. To them, it really does feel unfair. Something really is changing. They ARE being demoted — from a superior to an equal — and it feels wrong to them because they’re so used to being privileged …

[The backlash is] a good thing. It means we’re winning the fight. They’re gonna have to get used to it.

I think she’s absolutely right. It’s going to take a few years — well, probably more than a few — and we’re going to see a lot more outbursts like this, but these aren’t the battle cries of a rising “human rights” movement. They’re the tantrums of small subset of the male population that can’t accept that the world has changed.

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Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

Kitteh — it was that bad here a couple of days ago. As in four blankets over my lap, another over my shoulders, fleece top, alpaca hand warmers, and still fucking cold. My mac was 58°F when I opened it (meanwhile, my tanks are 20° warmer, lucky fishies!)

Day after I transferred all my delicate plants, and as many others as possible, into the terrarium. The African violet is still out, but it, and the others that didn’t fit, are smack up against the 55g tank. If my poor violet gets all “I’m cold!” I’m going to move it to actually on top of the 55g’s light (you know, over the “heat from lamp vents here” slots!)

On topic!

Nope, I can’t. My only comment is that my brother says there are lots of kitties on reddit. Apparently plenty of it is cute animals and not vile filth. Speaking of which *dashes off* KITTY!!

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

Sparky, okay now I feel like a fraud, -6 bloody hell. I’m gonna stop moaning now.
My handy weather app says it’s 5C here now, so hubby’s right it’s very mild.
I just really feel the cold, I’d move to Florida, but, well, it’s Florida.

wordsp1nner
10 years ago

(Left off the note)

* There is some evidence that people with female-stereotype bodies vasoconstrict better in cold, which means colder extremities but warmer cores–and it is the cold cores that kill you. What this means in real life is debatable.

The Mythbusters did mention that alcohol prevents this process, so drinking alcohol to warm up is a bad idea. (It was in response to a myth that St. Bernards used to carry around a flask of alcohol to warm their people up. The Mythbusters pointed out that who needs alcohol when you have a big furry dog?)

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: Sparky

And now I’m addicted to Social Justice Wario.

I am not ashamed.

RE: opheliamonarch

Enh, the thermal long-john pants I have aren’t itchy. They aren’t the warmest things ever, but they fit under my camo pants (I only own two pairs of pants) and with that and my magical layering abilities, I can withstand temperatures down to the teens in Farenheit without a coat, just my hoodie. I AM A GOD OF HEAT CONSERVATION.

Seriously, the best part of kicking my ED? I now have an honest-to-god cold tolerance. It’s woooonderful.

neuroticbeagle
10 years ago

The Mythbusters pointed out that who needs alcohol when you have a big furry dog?)

You don’t need alcohol with a small, less furry dog either. The Furrinati is WARM, especially when curled up next to you and under the covers.

Bina
10 years ago

Once again, I see that “Sillymod” is aptly named. A more incompetent non-moderator would be hard to find.

wordsp1nner
10 years ago

neuroticbeagle:

I have cats, so I know 🙂

(One of my parents’ cats was not happy when my mom started getting hot flashes, because she’d get kicked off the lap.)

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

Lovely talking to everyone, I’m gonna try and get some kip. Nighty, night Boobzers.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

No animals on me while sleeping, please. (I have a big startle reflex when touched unexpectedly, ESPECIALLY when sleeping.) I got awoken by a cat FALLING ON ME a week or two ago, and that was plenty excitement for me, thanks.

wordsp1nner
10 years ago

Jade’s been waking me up by eating my hair in the mornings (… I don’t know), which means I end up kicking them both out of my bedroom.

Currently, she’s flopped out on her back sleeping. Pan is sharing the blanket with me and keeping my legs warm.

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

How to stay warm, Alice style:

1. Wear short sleeves and sweatpants.
2. Snuggle into the softest comforter on the planet. Even better if it’s two sheeted.
3. Add as many covers on to as you want.
4. Have a cup of hot cocoa or tea to sip on. (Optional if lazy/too cold to make.)
5. ?
6. PROFIT

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

That mythbusters…see, I get that booze won’t actually save you from hypothermia, but isn’t the dog idea that the rescue team is, you know, there now? Which makes me question whether some booze would be a good idea exactly because of what it does with blood flow — warming the extremities would be good for preventing/stalling frostbite no?

(This is me playing scientist, that is, their science is good, but idk that their conclusion follows)

wordsp1nner
10 years ago

Hmmm… I’m not a physio person, but I’d bet that once the person warms up, their extremities will warm up, too. It’s probably too dangerous to do anything to lower your core temp until you are somewhere honestly warm. Frostbite maims, but hypothermia kills. And handwarmers are cheaper.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

Wasn’t the difference only a few degrees though? Enough that a few good blankets would be enough to counter it? Idk, maybe you’re right.

Pre-hand warmers though I think 🙂

wordsp1nner
10 years ago

You’re right about the handwarmers.

A few degrees of core body temperature is… well, thats actually quite significant. Hypothermia is defined as a core body temperature below 95 degrees. Normal core body temperatures can be around 97.7 degrees. (Incidentally, I think my core temp is relatively low, which has caused some problems in the past when medical people don’t think I’m as sick as I feel because my fever is only 99 degrees.) I don’t think that a couple of blankets will solve that, given that if the body is conserving heat by restricting bloodflow… there is no heat for the blanket to trap.

I’d still guess that if you get the person warm enough, you don’t have to worry about re-introducing heat to the hands and feet, but if you don’t, and you prevent their body from protecting itself…

cloudiah
10 years ago

I hate the username oneiorosgrip too. WTF.

patagonianhorsesnake
patagonianhorsesnake
10 years ago

i always thought the alcohol making you warmer thing was wrong, and actually potentially dangerous? am i misunderstanding?

seranvali
10 years ago

When I was sick my dad bought me an electric quilt so I didn’t have to worry about both chemo and cold. I was so touched. I’m always toasty warm even in the depths of winter (Canberra can get very cold in winter. -4 degrees C is not uncommon.

MaudeLL
MaudeLL
10 years ago

Lisa Wade? Ouch, not a fan. I have to say I find her views on female genital mutilation disgusting. I know it’s unrelated, but bleah.
http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2012/12/10/a-balanced-look-at-fgm/

seranvali
10 years ago

Auggziliary said:

“Why is her name oneiorosgrip? I keep saying it was “one nose grip” or “one i rose grip”. I don’t fucking know.”

A Sandman fan? I believe Oneiros was one of Dreams’ names. Or she could just mean asleep and dreaming.

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

Maybe the name “oneiorosgrip” is based on a misspelling of oneiros, Greek minor deities of dreams?


http://www.theoi.com/Daimon/Oneiroi.html

I keep wanting to read it as Oneida. Like the silverware.

seranvali
10 years ago

Actually I think the Ancient Greek god of sleep was called Oneiros.

Brooked
Brooked
10 years ago

Why is the men’s rights movement treated like a joke? (self.MensRights)
(23|24) submitted on 19 Mar 2013 by nutflushdraw
This one is pretty ridiculous, apparently posted just to give SRSers a place to circlejerk in the sub. Regularly posting MRAs are downvoted into hiding, while the top voted comment is a blatantly feminist viewpoint not actually related to the sub or the movement. Not even sure what kind of an effect they thought this effort would achieve.

TL/DR – oneiorosgrip’s blog is both goofy and headache-inducing.

Shaun DarthBatman Day
10 years ago

sparky, silverware isn’t the half of it.
Trigger Warning
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oneida_Community