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Men’s Rights subreddit mod blames “Not Me” for Occidental College vigilantism

The diabolical Not Me strikes the Men's Rights subreddit yet again
The diabolical Not Me strikes the Men’s Rights subreddit yet again

Some updates on the Occidental College situation.

First, for those who didn’t see my post yesterday, a quick recap: Yesterday, Men’s Rights Redditors discovered that Occidental College has an online form that allows victims of and witnesses to sexual violence to report the incidents anonymously.

Although the information is being collected to track trends, and no one will be charged with anything as a result of such a report, a number of Men’s Rights subreddit regulars decided it would be a great idea to flood Occidental College with false reports to basically break the system, and they suggested this to much acclaim; others proudly reported that they’d sent in bogus reports.

So what has happened since then? The story has been picked up by a number of sites, including Gawker, Business Insider, RawStory, and LAist. In a followup post, Adam Weinsten of Gawker confirmed that Occidental College had indeed been hit with some 400 bogus rape reports in the past 36 hours — that is, after posts encouraging false reports appeared on 4chan and the Men’s Rights subreddit.

Meanwhile, on the Men’s Rights subreddit, after belatedly realizing that this whole thing makes them look kind of bad, the subreddit’s mods are trying their best to make the whole embarrassing thing go away — and not really doing a great job of it.

The first mod to say anything publicly was sillymod, whose initial reaction to the calls to flood Occidental with false reports of rape was to boldly announce that … the mods really weren’t going to be doing anything about it. In a post titled “With regards to Occidental College’s ‘rape report form,’” Sillymod wrote:

some people are claiming that it violates the Reddit TOS. It is not clear to me that it does, and I have not removed the article yet. But I will assume that Reddit admins will get involved at some point. So be it. At least then we can get a definitive ruling on whether it breaks the TOS.

What leadership! A true profile in courage.

Sillymod went on to note that the headline of the post he wasn’t going to remove was actually completely wrong in implying that people were going to get charged with crimes after being anonymously reported, and then made a few suggestions:

As always, when something gets you outraged – pause, take a few deep breaths, and then think of the most productive action to take. Don’t knee-jerk your response like feminists do. Do you want to be viewed the same as Big Red?

It might seem a tad ironic — or perhaps completely and mind-bogglingly hypocritical — to bring up, as an example of a person behaving badly, a women who was the victim of online MRA vigilantes when trying to cool off the online MRA vigilantes in your own subreddit, but never mind, because a couple of hours later Sillymod returned with a new response to the Occidental College thing.

First, he removed the thread from the subreddit. (Note: removing a thread on Reddit doesn’t make it go away; it just removes it from the subreddit’s index.)

Then, in a new thread entitled “‘Why did sillymod remove the Occidental College post?’ Let me tell you why,” he decided to blame the whole thing on trolls.

So I was reviewing the post and the multitude of reports on it. I noticed a sad trend.

I noticed a lot of very young accounts encouraging bad behaviour, I noticed that the post was made by a self-proclaimed “shitlord”. I noticed that there was a lot of misconception/misinformation about the form in general, whether willfully spread to take advantage of people choosing not to read these things for themselves or not.

In the end, I can’t help but feel that we were trolled, and that is why I removed it.

Sillymod, who apparently doesn’t research anything before posting, added:

Some people have alleged that 4Chan was involved, which would support the idea that we were trolled.

Yeah, the dude who posted the original thread said explicitly he’d found out about it on 4chan, and there are screenshots of the 4chan thread floating around that would take all of 5 minutes to find.

In any case, Sillymod’s “argument” — or, rather, his assertion — that the Men’s Rights subreddit was the victims of “trolls” with “very young accounts encouraging bad behaviour” was quickly shown to be utter nonsense:

johndoe42 40 points 17 hours ago* (123|83)  Bullshit. The biggest comments "encouraging" bad behavior were all long time contributring /r/mensrights members.  /u/blueoak9, whose account basically solely consists of comments in this subreddit, made the 100+ upvoted top comment "The quickest way to shut this one down is to anonymously report random women and let them sweat in the hot seat. This will be over before it begins."  /u/froggymorning, who had a 50+ upvoted comment noting that she filled out a false report is a longtime /r/mensrights member and has had comments with hundreds of upvotes.  /u/muffinizer1 also claimed to have "fun" filling one out. Also a long time MRA member (has had comments with 5-25 upvotes on this subreddit older than 20 days).  /u/whitethrone is also not a new MR member, who made the 20+ upvoted comment "Step one: Get a list of every 'Feminist' at Occidental College who supported this system. Step two: Anonymously report them for rape."  I know this looks pitchforky but you didn't have to lie about members of this subreddit's involvement in "encouraging bad behavior." I fucking hate revisionism and this subreddit needs reform badly. The "a few bad apples" defense is not going to work anymore.

In the discussion that followed, a Men’s Rights regular called oneiorosgrip tried to use another specious argument in order to suggest that the whole controversy had been ginned up by evil feminist trolls. All those screenshots showing terrible comments with lots of upvotes? Those comments were, she suggested, upvoted by feminists to make the subreddit look bad:

So what you’re telling me is that initially, just in time for SRS to post it as “evidence” that MRAs were flooding Occidental with false reports, a comment with less than 60 upvotes was the top comment in the sub… and despite the fact that the comments you cite represent less 0.00002% of the sub’s population, you claim that single moment in time proves MRAs flooded occidental with accusations.

Weird, because by the time I discovered the thread, a number of the comments I screenshotted had been up for 15 hours, and one of the worst had a lot more than 60 upvotes.

SirSkeptic 167 points 15 hours ago (209|45) That's awesome. I'd like to see one sent with the name of every member of the Dean of Students Office as the offender. Hey, it's anonymous and no evidence is required. Sometimes that's the only way fanatics learn.

15 hours is a pretty long “single moment in time.”

But hey, Sillymod and oneiorosgrip have their stories, and they’re sticking with them. Who are you going to believe, them — or your lying eyes?

Men’s Rights Activists: No matter what terrible things they do, it’s always someone else’s fault.

The MensRights mods have begun to try to clean up the mess — or at least remove the evidence of it. They’ve deleted most of the comments I linked to yesterday (Always Be Screenshotting). Has anyone involved in this faced any repercussions beyond having a comment or two deleted? I sent the mods a message to ask if they’d banned any of those who’d made those comments, and Nicemod replied:

I don’t see any reason why we should tell you anything at all.

I’m guessing that means “no.” But I wouldn’t really have to guess if they simply told me. Masters of Public Relations, these guys are not.

There’s more discussion of all this going on in the AgainstMensRights subreddit (which I feel I should mention again is not actually against men’s rights, but against the so-called Men’s Rights movement).

Here’s a discussion of another thread — which I hadn’t seen — in which Men’s Rights redditors talked about spamming Occidental College with false reports of rape. There are screenshots.

Here’s a thread with screenshots featuring our old friend ThePigman, an MRA blogger and long-time contributor to the Men’s Rights subreddit, proudly prooclaiming that he’d submitted a bogus rape report.

And here is a particularly damning screenshot of the entire Men’s Rights Occidental College thread some five hours after it went up. The second comment on the page, then three hours old and with several dozen upvotes, provides two links to lists of names of Occidental College staffers to serve as potential targets of false accusations. (It was later deleted, but SirSkeptic’s original comment was around for me to screenshot it 11 hours later.)

lists

This, sadly, is what Men’s Rights activism looks like.

Oh, and MRB2012 was still posting in the Men’s Rights subreddit as of 5 hours ago, so it looks as though he hasn’t been banned even though he provided his MRA comrades with a specific list of individuals to falsely accuse of rape. And I have no way to check if he has been banned since then because the mods won’t speak to the evil Man Boobz.

Way to go, mods. Great job!

One last thing: Gawker’s followup post included a great quote from Occidental College sociologist Lisa Wade that I think puts the whole espisode in context perfectly:

The men targeting Occidental’s anonymous report form are mad that women are being listened to, that men’s voices are no longer given so much power that they can effectively drown out the voices of women. They’re mad because they’re not the only ones that matter anymore. I get it. To them, it really does feel unfair. Something really is changing. They ARE being demoted — from a superior to an equal — and it feels wrong to them because they’re so used to being privileged …

[The backlash is] a good thing. It means we’re winning the fight. They’re gonna have to get used to it.

I think she’s absolutely right. It’s going to take a few years — well, probably more than a few — and we’re going to see a lot more outbursts like this, but these aren’t the battle cries of a rising “human rights” movement. They’re the tantrums of small subset of the male population that can’t accept that the world has changed.

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kittehserf
10 years ago

LOL I’m finally being brave about doing buttonholes. I’m doing them about as simply as you can – cast off say, four stitches, keep knitting the rest of the row, then when you get back there going the other way, you cast on five, and slip the fifth one over the first stitch-that’s-already-there on the other side of the hole.

And as my knitting guru said, if you stuff ’em up and they look messy, you can always just sew over them to make them look better! 😛

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: Brz

Ahah!

Yes, dear, you’re very smart. Go play nicely with the other trolls now.

RE: pineapplecookies

Yeah, not exactly pleased with it either. I’m sure the writer meant it to mock them by implying they’re a gender they hate, but that doesn’t actually change the REASON they’d be offended.

Viscaria
Viscaria
10 years ago

You’re making me think about picking my needles up again 🙂 I have a project that’s been sitting untouched for a long time.

kittehserf
10 years ago

I wasn’t enamoured of that line either; it’s a misogynistic term, and turning it against misogynists doesn’t change that. It’s just another example of how there isn’t an equivalent slur aimed at men in most of these cases.

But that aside – main message, yes, suck it up, misogynist losers, because you are outnumbered and more and more people do recognise what failures-at-being-worthwhile-humans you are. Especially you, MRAs, you rapists’ protectors.

Faint Praise
Faint Praise
10 years ago

reddit’s /u/oneiorosgrip is actually a woman.

Worth noting because you may run into her lots. She is the Chief of Policing Content on that subreddit. She has her own blog (which is in the /r/MensRights sidebar) that keeps an incredibly paranoid, incorrect list of all the times she thinks the subreddit was “brigaded.” Whenever she doesn’t like vote totals somewhere, she’ll update her blog and make a submission telling the sub they were trolled by a brigade.

Here is the blog, pointing to the Brigade Log article:

http://breakingtheglasses.blogspot.com/2013/01/for-record.html

I first ran into it when someone criticized typhonblue, and both typhonblue and oneiorosgrip came out to police the criticism:

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1joyej/vote_brigading_to_deny_attention_to_male_victims/

But just check out most of when oneiorosgrip submits:

http://np.reddit.com/user/oneiorosgrip/submitted/#page=1

Stuff like, “don’t criticize TheRedPill here, that’s what the feminists want! Don’t think drunk sex is ever rape, that’s a trap!” Totally ridic., and I’m sure she’ll keep doing it.

http://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1r65t8/time_for_another_dont_fall_for_that_shit_post/

http://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1od0iq/recent_fake_story_troll_posts_dont_fall_for_this/

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

Nope, it’s Velcro all the way for me, I didn’t want to look chic anyway.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Be a good time of year for knitting, up north, too, Viscaria! You can sit in front of the heater and feel virtuous ‘cos you’re working on your project. 🙂

I’m having to push a bit to knit at the moment; we’re having a nasty heat wave and it’s 40C today. Last night was sitting around in the undies, in front of a fan, and trying to keep the knitting off myself, ‘cos I didn’t need any more heat!

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

Yeah, no, it’s wrong to use “girl” as an insult, as if being a girl was an insult, but pointing that out really isn’t the “gotcha” Brz seems to think it is. It’s almost like focusing on an unrelated detail in order to draw attention away from the issue at hand.

Or not even directly addressing the issue at hand.

kittehserf
10 years ago

LOL Ophelia!

Hmm, I wonder if anyone does Goth with velcro … the look for those older Goths who value their comfort. 😛

kittehserf
10 years ago

Sparky – too right, because of course bzzzzzzz doesn’t want anyone focussing on rapists and their enablers. Can’t imagine why …

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

Brz tried to read Derailing for Dummies, but he got lost midway through.

Also, I introduce the Boobzers to… Social Justice Wario! Co-starring MRAio!

MordsithJ
10 years ago

I strongly suspect Lisa Wade’s use of “girl” and “princess” was trollbait; a sociologist with expertise in social inequity and sexuality isn’t likely to make a statement like that thoughtlessly, especially on a loaded gender issue like this. She knows what she’s doing.

Viscaria
Viscaria
10 years ago

I’m having to push a bit to knit at the moment; we’re having a nasty heat wave and it’s 40C today.

*fans self in sympathy*

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: MordsithJ

She knows what she’s doing.

Ehhhhhh I dunno that I buy that one. I know PLENTY of sciency people who make incredibly stupid remarks.

kittehserf
10 years ago

We really need to work out how to send weather via the intertubes, don’t we?

Robert Ramirez
10 years ago

Calling ‘little princesses’ was unfortunate, but I don’t think he was being malicious. A better term to equate the MRA troglodytes would be ‘little emperors”, a term used in China to describe spoiled male children who think that the world owes them candy and sweets.

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

Oh for interweb heating. We could share it out.

I’m huddled in bed with a hot water bottle, two fleeces and a duvet right now. (Anaemia makes you cold and it’s hardly warm here in the UK.)

Having said that, 40C is too hot even for me, sounds awful, poor you. How are the furries holding up?

And also, yeah ‘girl’ as an insult, no, just no. The rest was great though.

MordsithJ
10 years ago

I’ve heard sciencey types, and feminists, say stupid things as well. But in this particular context, it really looks to me like a deliberate attempt to get MRA’s in a frothing rage, not that that’s difficult or anything. We shall see.

kittehserf
10 years ago

I imagine the furries are collapsed in front of the fan! I’m still at work (be leaving in about twenty minutes). I am not looking forward to the tram ride – not many of the trams on this route have aircon. It’s like being in an oven on days like this. At least there’s a cool change due tomorrow morning!

That said, I don’t envy you those levels of cold, even if you didn’t have anaemia to make it worse! I’ve only once been in a place where I could not get warm – a Melbourne winter about ten years ago, when I was house-sitting a place with rising damp – and I was nearly in tears from the cold. I hate to imagine how bad it is in the north right now.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

Mwahahaha, I am safe and warm in long underwear and a sleeping bag in bed! I WIN!

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

Mr M (really have to think of a better name for him, MRM, not good) says it’s quite mild at the moment, for the time of year. I’m just always cold, I wore long socks and fingerless mittens to bed in the middle of the summer!

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

WITH PYJAMAS!!! Long socks, fingerless gloves AND pyjamas.
Sorry, just to be clear. 🙂

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

I would gladly trade some cold for some of that heat. It’s 21 degrees here (Pittsburgh, PA, USA), which I’m told by the “Fahrenheit-to-Celsius” converter is -6 Celsius. Plus there’s a nice layer of snow on top of a nice layer of ice. Brrr!

And now I’m addicted to Social Justice Wario.

opheliamonarch
10 years ago

LBT, how ya doin? I’ve been thinking thermals too, but last time I got some they were sooo itchy, and walking a Rottie whilst wriggling and pretending your not itchy in a very personal place is gonna make people back away quickly.

wordsp1nner
10 years ago

I’ve only have one situation where I could not warm up. It was sophomore year, I was living in an older house on the top floor. The heat was… not working well, and I hadn’t eaten much dinner. By the time I gave in and pulled on both Ugg boots (don’t laugh–those things are the warmest evah) and wool gloves my body had decided to mostly shut down circulation there to conserve heat* so even the gloves and wool-lined boots didn’t help.

My lesson: cereal is a fine dinner during summer, but get something more substantial in the winter.