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Turns out VICE made a video about that Men’s Rights rally in Toronto. GO WATCH IT.

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I don’t know how I missed it, but a couple of weeks back Vice posted a short video about that EARTH-SHATTERINGLY HISTORIC Men’s Rights rally in Toronto that captured the attention of the world a tiny fraction of a percentage of people in the world (including the people at it and readers of this blog) a little over a month ago.

Alas, WordPress won’t let me embed the video here, but you all need to go look at it. Not only does it capture pretty well what a dinky event it was, but it also contains a bunch of mini-interviews with some A Voice for Men folks that are rather revealing.

The most revealing one of the bunch starts about 2:40 into the video, when AVFM’s Suzanne McCarley explains that

Men, as a class, have never ever oppressed women, as a class. Men have always protected and provided for women. And protected them from oppression from others.

From others? What kind of others? Like, space aliens?

Women have never objected to this, and in fact have always been grateful because it’s how they survived. It is only in the last few hundred years when women of privileged class who don’t even know what they’re being protected from feel disadvantaged because they’re not comfortable with the level of protection they have.

Wow. A few hundred years? Sometimes people accuse MRAs of wanting to take us back to the 1950s. McCarley apparently wants to take us back to the 1750s.

They don’t even understand what they’re being protected from.

Wolves? Sharks? Dishpan hands? Space aliens?

They have no concept how dangerous the world is for them but gosh they’re just not happy because, you know, the males in the family tell them what to do and make all the decisions for them and control all the money. That’s not oppression. That’s protection.

Wow. So I guess slaves and prisoners are the most protected classes of all.

It’s what kept our species alive and what built … [she gestures at the park and the buildings around it] this beautiful city.

Wait. I thought Jefferson Starship built this city. On rock ‘n’ roll.

Anyway, there’s also some footage of a speech about the evil oppression of white men given by an unknown speaker at the rally. He also complains that men working for the government are men who’ve had “their things cut off and are toeing the politically correct line.” (Hopefully after the bleeding has stopped.)

There’s an interview with Paul Elam, who for some reason looks like he’s wearing mascara (which I’m pretty sure he isn’t). He delivers this puzzling pronouncement:

Looking at men in government and saying they have all the power is like looking at women in grocery stores and saying they have all the food.

Not only is this way more revealing about gender inequality than Elam may  realize, but it’s also a tad ironic, because Elam not that long ago used (unreliable) data about how women “control” most consumer spending — that is, they do most of the shopping — in order to argue (twice!) that women were the ones primarily responsible for destroying the environment.

There are assorted other bits of misinformation and ignorance and just plain old bigotry from the MRAs.

There’s also some commentary from the counterprotesters that made me wince. No, MRAs aren’t all Marc Lepines waiting to happen. They’re shitty enough people as it is; you don’t have to compare them all to a misogynist mass murderer to make your point. And in fact, you undercut yourself with that kind of rhetoric. Focus on what they actually say and do. It’s bad enough.

And the “racist, sexist, anti-gay” chant? Drop that. MRAs are, for the most part, driven by misogyny — not by other bigotries.  Yes, some are racist, including one of the speakers featured on this very video, but that’s not the driving force for most of them. Some are homophobic, but that’s not the driving force for most of them. Some are transphobic — including Elam himself — but that’s not a central issue for most of them.

It’s worth pointing out these other bigotries, but to make these issues the centerpiece of your counterprotest is to miss the point — it would be a bit like attacking the Ku Klux Klan as “sexist and racist.” I’m sure plenty of KKKers are sexist as hell, but with the Klan racism really is the main thing; with MRAs, misogyny is.

And in this case it gave AVFM’s Karen Straughan the opportunity to appear (at least for a moment) like a reasonable person by pointing out that she in fact is not straight.

Anyway, watch the video. It’s amazing.

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Unimaginative
11 years ago

Speaking of friends who used to be rational and interesting, and then weren’t anymore, didn’t Black Block used to be rational and interesting? And now we can’t seem to have a conversation unless we all agree to use his new definitions of words that we all think mean something else. Which itself seems fairly, erm, MRA-ish.

kittehserf
11 years ago

So being a communist is identical with the hammer and sickle? Does one have to wear it at all times to be a Real Genuine Beware of Imitations Communist?

Since when was being a communist dependent on that symbol, or identical with it? People aren’t the symbol, in case you hadn’t noticed.

I’m seeing a flounce coming here.

Unimaginative
11 years ago

Sorry, BlackBloc. I swear I didn’t put that extra k in there. Damn you, auto correct!

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

Why don’t you fucking have the decency to at least argue for what you believe in? You think communism is bad. Communists and anarchists are bad and detract from your message and we should just bug off of your anti-misogyny movement so that the respectable folks don’t think you’re bad like us. Fair enough.

kittehserf
11 years ago

If you argue people should not fly the Confederate flag, you’re attacking Neo-Confederates or people who have the beliefs represented by that flag. With reason. Because it’s a symbol for Neo-Confederates and people who want to bring back Jim Crow and so forth.

When you’re attacking the hammer & sickle you’re attacking Communists, because it’s a symbol of communism. It’s not freaking rocket science.

HAHAHAHAHAHA

So the Confederate flag has history and context and it’s legit to see those implications when people fly it.

But the hammer and sickle has no history or context and it’s totes evil and Red-baiting to see any implications in it.

Riiiight.

thebewilderness
thebewilderness
11 years ago

I have no recollection of BlackBloc ever being interesting.
He is a poseur.

kittehserf
11 years ago

::fetches popcorn::

So, who is it that hates communists, pray tell? Your last swipe was sort of generalised flailing. Also, could you tell us where to get the mind-reading gadget you’re using? It would be quite handy for some of our more confused customers at work.

sparky
sparky
11 years ago

BlackBloc: WTF? Seriously, what the fuck?

Put words in other people’s house, much?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

didn’t Black Block used to be rational and interesting

When was this?

kittehserf
11 years ago

He’s also done a major flounce in the past that lasted, oooh, a month maybe? Two? Must be time to build up to another.

::noms popcorn::

Unimaginative
11 years ago

When you’re attacking the hammer & sickle you’re attacking Communists, because it’s a symbol of communism. It’s not freaking rocket science.

And the swastika is a symbol of the sun that has been used by cultures around the world for millennia. I’m still not going to trot it out at a solstice ceremony, because it’s been tarnished and invokes too much nasty emotion.

feministbees
11 years ago

Are people seriously griping about the “demand” for intersectionalism.

Are some of you folks unaware of the fact that intersectionality arose (in part) in reponse to racism within feminism during the late 20th century. And that many feminists demand it still today because racism, classism, ablism, cissexism, heterosexism, etc are still a problems among a number of feminist and anti-misogynists circles.

Like, I really can’t believe what I’m reading.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Will the popcorn keep for a bit? I feel like I should probably eat dinner first.

sparky
sparky
11 years ago

And WTF, autocorrect? Should read:”Put words in other people’s mouths much?

cloudiah
11 years ago

Wow, it’s really surprising to find out that even though I’m a socialist and have worked closely with anarchists and others on the left for the past two decades, I secretly think communism/anarchism is bad.

Luckily, BlackBloc was here to fucking mansplain that to me.

Hauptsatz
Hauptsatz
11 years ago

@cassandrasays

I did know in advance where the link went. I moused over it and in the bottom corner of my browser, a little box reading “http://manboobz.com/…” popped up. Does your browser not have a feature like that?

@gillyrosebee

It did show where the link led…

Anyway, I don’t see how what I said was more assholish than cassandrasays’s behavior in this thread.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

No! We should definitely put words in other people’s houses, because that would be hilarious. Imagine, you get home and find “Sunshine” spelled out on your living room carpet in blocks, and you don’t have any children.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Why don’t you fucking have the decency to at least argue for what you believe in? You think communism is bad. Communists and anarchists are bad and detract from your message and we should just bug off of your anti-misogyny movement so that the respectable folks don’t think you’re bad like us. Fair enough.

Do you even hear yourself right now? You are seriously having a tantrum over shit no one has actually said.

You can feel free to bug off, but not because you’re a Communist. It’s because you are channeling every damn troll we’ve ever had right now.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Also, Shadow, you make a really good point. Thanks for raising that.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Oh, dear, are my feelings supposed to be hurt? Because it’s not working.

kittehserf
11 years ago

I’ll put extra popcorn on, no probs.

Athywren
Athywren
11 years ago

Why don’t you fucking have the decency to at least argue for what you believe in? You think communism is bad. Communists and anarchists are bad and detract from your message and we should just bug off of your anti-misogyny movement so that the respectable folks don’t think you’re bad like us. Fair enough.

Who are you talking to here? There are at least three other communists in this discussion, and none of us seem to feel this way…
>>
<<
are we self-hating communists now?

thebewilderness
thebewilderness
11 years ago

One of my favorite quotes:
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it’s just the opposite.
John Kenneth Galbraith

Unimaginative
11 years ago

To be honest, I might be mixing BlackBloc up with somebody else. I can’t keep people straight even in real life. He has more of a “long timer” flavour than “intermittent troll”, but I’m willing to be corrected about that (which is good, because it’s starting to seem inevitable).

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Anyway, I don’t see how what I said was more assholish than cassandrasays’s behavior in this thread.

Re-read it.

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