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Turns out VICE made a video about that Men’s Rights rally in Toronto. GO WATCH IT.

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I don’t know how I missed it, but a couple of weeks back Vice posted a short video about that EARTH-SHATTERINGLY HISTORIC Men’s Rights rally in Toronto that captured the attention of the world a tiny fraction of a percentage of people in the world (including the people at it and readers of this blog) a little over a month ago.

Alas, WordPress won’t let me embed the video here, but you all need to go look at it. Not only does it capture pretty well what a dinky event it was, but it also contains a bunch of mini-interviews with some A Voice for Men folks that are rather revealing.

The most revealing one of the bunch starts about 2:40 into the video, when AVFM’s Suzanne McCarley explains that

Men, as a class, have never ever oppressed women, as a class. Men have always protected and provided for women. And protected them from oppression from others.

From others? What kind of others? Like, space aliens?

Women have never objected to this, and in fact have always been grateful because it’s how they survived. It is only in the last few hundred years when women of privileged class who don’t even know what they’re being protected from feel disadvantaged because they’re not comfortable with the level of protection they have.

Wow. A few hundred years? Sometimes people accuse MRAs of wanting to take us back to the 1950s. McCarley apparently wants to take us back to the 1750s.

They don’t even understand what they’re being protected from.

Wolves? Sharks? Dishpan hands? Space aliens?

They have no concept how dangerous the world is for them but gosh they’re just not happy because, you know, the males in the family tell them what to do and make all the decisions for them and control all the money. That’s not oppression. That’s protection.

Wow. So I guess slaves and prisoners are the most protected classes of all.

It’s what kept our species alive and what built … [she gestures at the park and the buildings around it] this beautiful city.

Wait. I thought Jefferson Starship built this city. On rock ‘n’ roll.

Anyway, there’s also some footage of a speech about the evil oppression of white men given by an unknown speaker at the rally. He also complains that men working for the government are men who’ve had “their things cut off and are toeing the politically correct line.” (Hopefully after the bleeding has stopped.)

There’s an interview with Paul Elam, who for some reason looks like he’s wearing mascara (which I’m pretty sure he isn’t). He delivers this puzzling pronouncement:

Looking at men in government and saying they have all the power is like looking at women in grocery stores and saying they have all the food.

Not only is this way more revealing about gender inequality than Elam may  realize, but it’s also a tad ironic, because Elam not that long ago used (unreliable) data about how women “control” most consumer spending — that is, they do most of the shopping — in order to argue (twice!) that women were the ones primarily responsible for destroying the environment.

There are assorted other bits of misinformation and ignorance and just plain old bigotry from the MRAs.

There’s also some commentary from the counterprotesters that made me wince. No, MRAs aren’t all Marc Lepines waiting to happen. They’re shitty enough people as it is; you don’t have to compare them all to a misogynist mass murderer to make your point. And in fact, you undercut yourself with that kind of rhetoric. Focus on what they actually say and do. It’s bad enough.

And the “racist, sexist, anti-gay” chant? Drop that. MRAs are, for the most part, driven by misogyny — not by other bigotries.  Yes, some are racist, including one of the speakers featured on this very video, but that’s not the driving force for most of them. Some are homophobic, but that’s not the driving force for most of them. Some are transphobic — including Elam himself — but that’s not a central issue for most of them.

It’s worth pointing out these other bigotries, but to make these issues the centerpiece of your counterprotest is to miss the point — it would be a bit like attacking the Ku Klux Klan as “sexist and racist.” I’m sure plenty of KKKers are sexist as hell, but with the Klan racism really is the main thing; with MRAs, misogyny is.

And in this case it gave AVFM’s Karen Straughan the opportunity to appear (at least for a moment) like a reasonable person by pointing out that she in fact is not straight.

Anyway, watch the video. It’s amazing.

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Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Hmm…darker probably is better, for reasons of contrast. Pale is right out.

And the color blind pairs are red-green, blue-orange and purple-yellow (your eyes have three types of color sensing cells, on/off is how you get 6 => billions of colors out of that, any one type fails, you loose one of the above pairs, no clue why red-green is so much more common)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Bright white tends to give some people headaches, so yay on avoiding that.

cloudiah
11 years ago

If “Crypto-Fascist” means “doesn’t realize I’m a fascist, been opposing fascists all my life” I guess I’m a crypto-fascist. THANKS, BLACKBLOC for mansplaining that to me.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I’m off to bed. Try not to throw each other under any conveyances.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

*lose

Royal blue could work…

Cassandra — less than this theme uses — http://wordpress.org/themes/minimalizine — and ignore the weird thing with blog titles, I’m so not doing that. But I like parts of the layout, namely the way the date et al are handled. So pretty much the blue there, but that side bit will only have the links in blue (cuz links)

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

G’night!

And if anyone has anything they love/hate, now’s a good time!

LBT
LBT
11 years ago

I need to turn in too. My sleep schedule has wigged out over stress and moving and shit. Sleep well!

kittehserf
11 years ago

Avoid electric blue, that’s all I ask!

We could be Crypt-o-Fascists, the famous right wing goth band.

gillyrosebee
gillyrosebee
11 years ago

Personally I think the blue is a bit bright to look at much, but if it’s just the titles, it would probably be okay. If it were me, I’d darken it a bit, closer to the blue inside the boat. I’ve always found bright blues hard to look at for any length of time. Again, though, that’s just personal preference on my part.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Good night all! I need to finish packing for a little trip to Austin! (If things work out, I’ll meet hellkell!)

gillyrosebee
gillyrosebee
11 years ago

We could be Crypt-o-Fascists, the famous right wing goth band.

*dies*

Nighty night

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Wait, cloudiah is a fascist now? Must have skimmed past that comment. Also, LOL.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

How do you feel about the blue in the upper corners? I’m not sure if the bit inside the boat is a large enough area to sample the color from.

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

>>Maybe we’re Crypto-Fascist-Catholic Illuminati?

Random trivia:

The Bavarian Illuminati was anti-clerical and that was the whole reason why a small, brutally repressed secret society was later written up as some sort of boogeyman by a Jesuit ultramontain who accused the French Revolution (and later, the Russian Revolution) of having been fomented by them in an attempt to eliminate the Church and its political representative (the anointed French king).

A Catholic Illuminati member is therefore sort of nonsense, though I guess THAT’S WHAT THEY’D WANT YOU TO THINK.

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

>>>Wait, cloudiah is a fascist now?

I’m as confused as you are about that one.

gillyrosebee
gillyrosebee
11 years ago

I like it, actually. Sort of a teal, slightly green. Dark enough to be easily legible while still colorful.

kittehserf
11 years ago

The bit inside the boat?

Boat, what boat? Is that autocorrect Doing Things again?

cloudiah
11 years ago

Now really, good night. You’ll have to sort the mansplaining anarchist out on your own.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Kitteh — click my link above, and then click preview. There’s a boat.

Gillybeerose — then, unless someone has complaints, it’ll be either that color, sampled, or very close to it.

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

I’m just pointing out I did not say anyone here was a fascist.

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

Or thought it for that matter.

pecunium
11 years ago

babbeaty: For instance, my boyfriend will always make sure when we crosses the street he is on the side of oncoming traffic. Because his body is made of steel, I guess.

I got this from my grandfather (my grandmother had a different habit, she always made sure she was to the left of people, because she was [until she was 82] blind in her left eye). He was a young man in the late 19th century, when sidewalks were less common, and streets weren’t paved.

He walked to the traffic side so that he could block the spray of mud.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

If everyone thinks it’s going to be readable for the majority of people then I like that color.

kittehserf
11 years ago

Piss off, BlackBloc. Like cloudiah said, burned bridges, and tossing in trivia like nothing happened is the sort of nonsense trolls go in for.

Argenti, ta, will check!

kittehserf
11 years ago

Yup, like that colour. Teal rather than straight-out bright blue is good (my monitor is very blue-tinged so I’m trying to allow for that).

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