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Rachel Swirsky climbs inside the mind of a violent misogynst

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A couple of days ago, Rachel Swirsky — an award-winning science fiction and fantasy writer who posts at Alas, A Blog and sometimes comments here on Man Boobz as well — sent along a link to a brilliant, brutal, and horrifying short story she’d recently published in Apex Magazine. Titled “Abomination Rises on Filthy Wings,” the story is essentially her attempt to get inside the mind of a violent misogynist.

As the editor’s note to her story explains:

Swirsky wrote this piece after talking to multiple editors who worked with horror stories, all of whom reported receiving many submissions about men murdering their wives or ex–wives. Despite the fictional veneer and supernatural justification [for the murder], many have the feel of personal revenge fantasies, and most characterize the women through disturbing, misogynist stereotypes. Swirsky wanted to see if it was possible to write a story that included all the markers of the trope but nevertheless subverted it.

In writing the story, Swirsky told me, “I drew heavily on Manboobz for mood and imagery, to try to get the sense of the narrator.”

So, enjoy. But first, I should warn you that the story is very violent, very disturbing, and could very well be triggering. So giant TRIGGER WARNING.

Here’s the LINK.

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baileyrenee
baileyrenee
11 years ago

It’s weird, I’ve seen some BRUTAL movies in my time, but something about reading a really descriptive, disturbing story messes with me a lot more. I’ll take A Serbian Film over reading American Psycho any day.

Don’t why my brain works that way, but it does.

MordsithJ
MordsithJ
11 years ago

Funny, I’m the exact opposite. I love reading creepy, disturbing stories (I’m even considering the Alien Sex book now, because my tastes really are that weird) but extreme violence in movies makes me wince. Go figure.

baileyrenee
baileyrenee
11 years ago

MordsithJ, I think with me, reading something crazy makes me think about it more. I have to create the images in my own head and that makes them stick, and usually turn out a lot more fucked up. Watching something, it’s already there, and if things get bad it’s easier to tell myself that it’s fake. Reading something is more… intimate, or sincere sounding, I can’t think of the right words really. It’s hard to explain but words just burn into my mind easier than video.

LBT
LBT
11 years ago

RE: MordsithJ

I’d HIGHLY recommend against it. Most of the stories were not just skeezy, but also not that good. If you want disturbing stories, I can give you much better recs!

MordsithJ
MordsithJ
11 years ago

Sure, hit me with ’em.

Redcap
Redcap
11 years ago

Oh hey, she wrote “The Lady Who Plucked Red Flowers Beneath the Queen’s Window”! I loved that story!

I think she missed the mark just a -tad- on this story though. The subversion’s there, but it only works if the reader is familiar with the concept of the Unreliable Narrator. So I guess it depends on the audience. (I agree, misogynists would totally miss the point.)

cloudiah
11 years ago

@Redcap, I think that’s a good point. I think if I had read this not filtered through Man Boobz, I would have had a very different reaction.

But I definitely think there is a talented writer there, even if I’m not sure this story worked completely. (Rachel, if you’re reading, I hope you don’t think we think you’re bad for writing this. I’d actually love to see you jump in here and talk about the process of writing this!)

ikonografer (@ikonografer)

it is perhaps one of the most overwrought stories i’ve ever read. it lacks cohesion, particularly as the unreliable narrator cycles from rationality (running from the house), to near insanity (stopping his flight to jerk off?) really? i won’t speculate as to the author’s intent, but clearly there’s a conflation between violent misogynist and sociopathic serial killer. not only does she not manage to “subvert” anything, but the only thing she manages to do is look like someone grossly underinformed about….well, anything that might pertain to telling a story.

i’m sure the dyed in the wool feminists here would be more than happy to disagree, but here’s a factoid for you: i spent both my undergraduate and graduate career, as well as a significant amount of my professional life, reviewing – and editing – horrible writing. i’m not being remotely partisan (too bad, so sad for you) it’s just a bad piece of writing. no matter what idiot gave her a nebula award, or where she’s published. sadly, her other writing might even be good, but with an introduction like this to her work, well, i won’t be buying anything she’s written.

cloudiah
11 years ago

the “dyed in the wool feminists” here have had a mixed reaction to this work, but keep feeling superior to everyone if it makes you happy @ikonografer.

Or, you know, fuck off.

Now really going to sleep.

katz
11 years ago

The subversion’s there, but it only works if the reader is familiar with the concept of the Unreliable Narrator. So I guess it depends on the audience. (I agree, misogynists would totally miss the point.)

There’s that whole problem for writers with what you can and can’t expect your readers to understand, and the biggest issue is unreliable narrators: What can you have your characters believe without people thinking that you believe it? At the end of the day, nothing. There’s never a guarantee. Well-established authors have some leeway if the rest of their canon indicates that it’s not what they really believe; new authors pretty much have to accept that the first things they write are establishing in the reader’s minds what they themselves think.

So it’s thorny. But assuming you want to address “What kind of person fantasizes about killing his wife?”, then I don’t think there’s really a better way to do it.

katz
11 years ago

For anyone who doesn’t have the stomach for the whole work, here are three of the italicized portions alone. TRIGGER WARNING: There’s still graphic descriptions of violence.

These are a great illustration of the conflicting mindsets you see in these hardcore misogynists. They’ll post these graphic, masturbatory descriptions of how women are going to be screwed when the revolution comes. Part of them wants it completely unashamedly, even proudly. Another part of them secretly wants it, but realizes it’s socially unacceptable and is aware of the need to distance themselves from it so that they don’t get in trouble with the deluded masses who aren’t ready for the truth. And another part of them realizes it’s wrong–still wants it, but maybe doesn’t want to want it, so there’s always that element of self-loathing.

A note from the author:

There’s truth in all fiction. Writers are never separate from what they write. Don’t believe anyone who tells you otherwise.

I’m not going to kill my ex, but I probably should have.

Don’t tell anyone I said that.

If she turns up dead, it could be a problem.

If I’d really killed her, I’d have bought a butcher’s knife and relied on the internet to instruct me on how to joint her, cut by cut. I wouldn’t cook her. Wouldn’t want her rump roast churning in my guts. Wouldn’t want her to be part of me forever, infiltrating my lungs and stomach and fingernails.

No, I’d cut her up to make it clear that she’d never been a person in the first place, never been anything but a grinning sack of meat.

Remember, this is a story.

It has nothing to do with me. It’s an extrusion. A waste project of the imagination.

Forget what I told you about writers who claim to be separate from what they write. It was bullshit. It sounded good enough for fiction. I’m telling the truth now. It’s all just stories.

thekidwiththereplaceablehead

i would be interested in reading a story refused by editors for being to obvious ‘kill the ex fantasy’.

Does anyone remember what thread that quicksand fetish guy was on?

baileyrenee
baileyrenee
11 years ago

And it wasn’t written to subvert the trope so much as to say, “Some men actually feel this way, I think.”

She doesn’t “think” that, she was TOLD that, did you read the editor’s note? It was inspired by stories that people would send in all the time.

This won’t make it through moderation here

I love when people say that.

That you guys think that men just routinely go around feeling like the narrator of this story just because they sometimes say “mean” things about women or advocate for men’s rights says a lot for what you guys think about men.

Uh… no. Why does some men = every man on the planet? Do you actually think we think this shit is normal?

This will be the last time I read this blog. Y’all are a bunch of hateful psychopaths.

Kbye.

@ikonografer

Yea, you’re not really breaking any hearts here. Looks like about half of the people who have commented aren’t fans of the story either.

katz
11 years ago

David: We’ve got a socking situation in the Roosh thread that you ought to look at.

hrovitnir
hrovitnir
11 years ago

I quite liked it, as much as you can use “like” for those kind of stories. The stilted, broken-up element reminded me of some of the old horror stories I read as a kid (minus the sexual violence).

It’s hard to say what I’d think just reading it devoid of context though. I think it’s fairly clear that as a story it is written as a commentary on the narrator, but it works best knowing the where the inspiration came from.

It is pretty disgusting, but that’s the idea.

Shadow
Shadow
11 years ago

I found it very well written. I’m a huge fan of writers/songwriters who can inhabit the minds of other people, so I enjoyed the story for the believability of the character. But, I really don’t get why it’s considered subversive. I mean, is this type of character often presented as a hero or something? This is not the case as far as media I’ve consumed but since that’s only a tiny iota of what is out there, this is me genuinely asking

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Well that was…different. By which I mean I’d rather be playing my video game and being attacked by heads with arms attached and some really painful claws. That’s obviously pure fantasy, this…well, we’ve seen enough MRA rageporn around here. I can totally see how she got this from the shit they say, but it’s still horrible and Poe’s Law kills it. They’re just so vile that you can’t tell this from the levels they’ll sink to.

xna232stang — we’re so sad to see you go! Oh wait, you’re brand new here…

I am absolutely your of my mind though, you got that part right.

Re: ikonografer — this ine’s been here before right? Ever have anything to say that isn’t TB;DR (too boring)?

Radical Parrot
11 years ago

@xna232stang: Nice ableism there, asshole.

You know, isn’t a psychopath someone who lacks the ability to feel empathy for others and regret for their actions? As in, they’re genuinely unable to feel them? Yet most of the entitled men who write their fucked-up revenge stories probaby aren’t like that. They are fully capable of empathy, but choose not to feel it towards women. A little dehumanization goes a long way in making normal people think and do terrible things. That’s a way scarier thought than there just being a couple of individuals with anti-social personalities in an otherwise peaceful unicorn rainbow candyland world. And way more realistic, I might add.

Oh, and as has been pointed out: some men =/= all men. Do you need everything spelled out for you?

Bottom line, take your dumb comment and stuff it. Nobody is going to miss you.

marci
11 years ago

There is far worse out there than this. I have read some things online that made me depressed for the human race for a couple hours at least. If most people find this kind of stuff shocking and horrible then I am very relieved to hear it. But it also means that they might need to take their blinders off. The internet has changed our lives for better or worse…sadly the bad side is that it also exposes the masses to some truly evil minds.

kittehserf
11 years ago

LBT – speaking of aliens and humans, I saw this cover and had to show it to you!

lowquacks
lowquacks
11 years ago

Not really seeing the Man Boobz influence either! It feels more like a rehash of a lot of weird-dude-fantasy stuff rather than a comment on. Perhaps I’m too just tired to get it.

While we’re on Bill Oddie, or just a little past him, could I just tell everyone that his Australian tour recently was as “An Oddie But a Goodie”? Somehow that really entertained me.

markb
markb
11 years ago

It’s splatterpunk. I don’t think it quite captures the sense of being put-upon and exploited that is generally exhibited by misogynists. They mostly see women as vampires, not harpies. Using men’s sexual desire to extract money and gain status (because in their world those are the only motivations for anything that human beings do).

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

This won’t make it through moderation here,

It always makes me laugh when I see messages like that. “I’m in enemy territory, where they’ll cut me right down! They’ll hate me for existing! They’ll–”

“Hey, dude, you want a donut?”

“…they hate me, and won’t let me say anything. RUN AWAY!!!”

This will be the last time I read this blog. Y’all are a bunch of hateful psychopaths.

Dave’s frequently quoted much worse stuff straight from the manosphere. That you think this is all made up and slanderous is just HILARIOUS.