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Men’s Rights Redditor: It’s not sexism that holds back women in STEM. It’s just that women are inferior.

Over on the Men’s Rights subreddit, the lovely IHaveALargePenis explains that it’s not sexism holding back women in science and technology. No way! It’s just that women are inferior at science and technology. No sexism involved at all!

IHaveALargePenis 10 points 1 day ago (15|6)      The fact that women are so underrepresented in many STEM fields indicates that there must be some educational, societal, or institutional force pushing them away.  There is. It has a lot to do with women though. First with STEM, the hierarchy in the workforce always favors the smartest/most knowledgeable people. This means you can't flirt your way to the top or simply just "make it" eventually.  The work is somewhat quantifiable, so people can be tracked in how much work they do. You can't sit around and chat or take extra time off and fuck around. People will find out.  Many fields have horrible deadlines and any person not finishing their work on time can slow an entire project and become the weakest link. When you're holding up something that thousands of people are working on, relying on, etc and they're all waiting for you, not fun. Additionally you'll be pushed to do overtime, heavy overtime. When it comes to software development for example, in the last few months leading up to release, you'll be better off bringing extra clothes and a sleeping bag to work. This can apply to virtually all other fields in different ways for different reasons.  Women and men study differently. Women are great and memorizing but don't focus on understanding. This is why there's a relatively equal amount of girls/boys in STEM the first year, but then it significantly favors the boys as time passes. The problem is that women do great on tests, but don't bother to understand that knowledge, which is fairly important later on and everything you learn will be used in the future (as you move from first to 4th year). This is why girls have been doing better (or so it seems) ever since standardized tests.  There are no problems in STEM for women. There's nobody out there trying to hold them back. My university cracked down hard on this shit, even had security cameras installed to ensure there was no harassment or sexism going on. And you know what changed? Nothing.      The key is attacking gender issues from both sides, rather than the BS of encouraging women to enter and just ignoring all problems men have.  What exactly is there to attack? There's 50% more women in college than men. Women have infiltrated every major out there outside of STEM. Do you know how HUGE STEM is? Let me tell you how huge it is. Go look up any non STEM focused University out there (MIT or Standord) and check the faculty for STEM or other majors. You'll find out quickly that the entire STEM curriculum has fewer faculty than a single major like business.

Maybe IHaveALArgePenis should have taken an English class or two and learned what “irony” is.

Also, uh, how exactly are security cameras supposed to guard against sexism? This is a new one to me.

Thanks to Wrecksomething on the AgainstMensRights subreddit for pointing me to this mantastic quote.

 

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kittehserf
8 years ago

@Wordsp1nner:

“I also get the sense that people who babble about STEM as the last bastion of male dominance (a) don’t know much about science, (b) completely forget about biology, and (c) think computer programming is the height of logical STEM-iness.”

FTFY 😉

LBT – ditto to what cloudiah said feeling conflicted, but think of it this way, if it helps: everyone is entitled to food, shelter, healthcare, among other things, and a decent society helps those in need. You are in need. Even if it’s a case of that horrible old line about the deserving poor, well, you wouldn’t be on disability if you didn’t have to be, and you know – you’ve made it very clear – that the alternatives are only going to make things worse, possibly MUCH worse. So away, jerkbrain of guilt, go pester someone else, like an MRA or some other twit!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
8 years ago

I don’t think most MRAs have enough self-awareness to experience guilt.

cloudiah
8 years ago

I’m trying to upvote kittehserf. Where are the buttons! XD

kittehserf
8 years ago

Aww! ::shuffles feet::

That’s why I’d like to see Jerkbrain of Guilt work on ’em. It might combine with the jerkbrains they already have to cause an implosion, or something.

WalkingStickBug
WalkingStickBug
8 years ago

Come on, anyone with the username IHaveALargePenis must be a 14 yr old boy and unless they are Doogie Howser M.D. then I won’t be taking their rants about science very seriously.

Viscaria
Viscaria
8 years ago

What struck me as the silliest part of this whole thing is how he is supposedly describing aspects of STEM jobs that make them uniquely unsuitable for women, and yet ever pink collar job I’ve ever held has had those same expectations. Apparently Mr. So-Well-Endowed-He-Must-Announce-It believes that non-STEM positions do not involve the following:

1) Being judged on your merit
2) Actually working when you are at work
3) Working collaboratively
4) Being expected to meet deadlines
5) Being pressured to work overtime, sometimes extreme amounts of overtime
6) Understanding concepts. Like, any concepts at all.

IHALP apparently thinks other people (or, at very least, women) just go to work and flirt with people, and then at the end of the refularly-scheduled day they collect their promotion and head home. Nobody minds, because they are not working projects with anyone else and have no deadlines.

Alice
Alice
8 years ago

It’s been well documented that MRAs think little of working women. To them, women sit around in air conditioned offices wearing $2,000 high heels gossiping all day and sleeping their way to the top. Women do not do actual work even when they collect a pay check.

katz
8 years ago

Also, no computer programmer has ever fucked around and not done real work. That NEVER happens.

kittehserf
8 years ago

The irony is that there’s been at least one study – alas, I don’t recall any details, this was in the paper – that showed men are more likely to be the ones doing the proverbial gossiping around the water cooler and generally doing not-work stuff. Not only that, but women who’re getting on with their work are judged for not being social enough, too work-obsessed, and so on. It’s the good old double-bind again.

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

Katz — nope, no programmers ever have been given their own closed off section of office to contain the nerf, never happened. Not once did I ever have to duck while bringing them something. No programmer would ever even think about starting a nerf war while compiling. (Yeah, the programmers at my computer job were a fun bunch)

Idk if they goofed of more or less overall, but I’m utterly sure they were the only ones who might shoot you with nerf darts.

kittehserf
8 years ago

Gods, that reminds me of a couple of morons in an office I had to visit once – I think it was an ad agency or something – who were playing football in the corridoor. They didn’t feel the need to stop kicking the ball at head height when there was a total stranger walking through. Pair of fuckers.

marci
8 years ago

Viscaria: It’s sort of like they never actually worked at a job outside their own home. I know there are a lot of people who work from home, so maybe?

I have had a huge range of jobs (mostly due to my own lack of commitment) and I have never seen women behaving as they describe. Right now my job entails a lot of training and knowledge to basically sit at a desk and wait for something to happen. Some nights a lot of shit happens and I am busy all night. Other nights I get paid to read for my own pleasure. I do work on various projects and sometimes there are deadlines, but mostly it is a group thing. We all do projects to improve the functioning of our department. Oh and all of my co-workers are women, my bosses are all women, there are only 2 men in our whole department…and our work would be considered STEM. But like I said, I don’t think that these guys really ever worked outside their homes.

Deoridhe
8 years ago

Years ago I knew an incredible black hat hacker, worked for the government, top clearances, etc.. etc… She got interviewed for a programmer magazine and a picture of her was published. /. spent a ton of the comments either denigrating her as a programmer, or commenting on her looks. It was sickening. STEM remains really hostile toward women, and I don’t think the high populations of gamers and atheists and skeptics make that unexpected.

LBT: congrats on the deserved benefits. I don’t know if this’ll help, but I work with a lot of people on benefits and I tend to think of it as a combination of us showing the best parts of humanity by making sure everyone is taken care of (as we should), and giving people who need it the support and space to share how fantastic and wonderful they are with the people blessed to have them in their lives.

Deoridhe
8 years ago

black hat == white hat; opps its late.

Pear_tree
Pear_tree
8 years ago

Intriguingly I was thinking his description didn’t at all relate to what I had seen in science researchers. Then someone suggested that he is a programmer and it all made more sense.

amandajane5
8 years ago

Coincidence is a thing. I was just talking to my good friend and former art professor at the top level STEM university that I went to about why I dropped out of Computer Science. I couldn’t stand the pressure, I started programming when I was eight (LOGO FTW) I would write programs that were different from mine for my friends in AP CS, I just couldn’t handle it at the college level. I’d be on group projects and have to bring my own separate disk with me because the three dudes cut all of my work out of the final project and I wanted the professor to know that I’d actually worked on it, he just wasn’t seeing it.

Chie Satonaka
Chie Satonaka
8 years ago

Nobody’s talking about the Hugo meltdown?

This is the second time I’ve seen Hugo referenced this week. What happened?

Fibinachi
Fibinachi
8 years ago

Also, no computer programmer has ever fucked around and not done real work. That NEVER happens.

Hey, what do you want? My code’s compiling. I’m using the downtime to productively increase my hand to eye coordination by sniping by fellow programmers with this nerf gun.

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

Chie — the really, really, really abridged version, with some general manipulative assholery and suicide trigger warnings:

Our favorite asshole decided he was quitting the internet because mean feminists wouldn’t drop the whole attempted murder thing, and we were making him suicidal. He posted an even more detailed version of his murder-suicide attempt, and then like a day later was back in the news talking about a far more recent attempt (like, last week recent). Then he came back tweeting up a storm about what a terrible person he is and how no he isn’t suicidal he’s manic.

Just type his name into google and hit search settings to limit it to the last month if you want all the excessively manipulative details. If you really want to read the longer version of his murder-suicide attempt, it’s on his blog (you don’t want to read it, nothing resembling taking responsibility, just more details, probably enough to ID her). And, of course, his twitter mess is on his twitter.

——

In cheerier things, my mother is making breakfast before we get started on the tank swap. I am very pleased to have extra hands for this!

Kitteh — nerf darts are just foam tubes with suction cups at the end, harmless enough I’d shoot ’em at the tanks. Unlike soccer // footballs which goddamned do those hurt to get hit with! And I doubt they shot at EVERYONE entering, the director, for example, would not have approved, but I didn’t give a shit.

Ah fuck, I didn’t rinse the rest of the fertilizer for the plants, guess that’s first on my list >.<

Viscaria
Viscaria
8 years ago

@Alice:

It’s been well documented that MRAs think little of working women. To them, women sit around in air conditioned offices wearing $2,000 high heels gossiping all day and sleeping their way to the top.

I guess we’re not even very good at that. If it is that easy for women to make it to the top, you’d expect to see a high number of women at, you know, the top. And yet…

The programmers where I work, bless ’em, have regular pizza parties. They also work hard most of the time. I don’t think they’re exactly a breed apart from anybody else with a job.

And I don’t just mean office jobs, either. Does duder up there think that construction workers are not given deadlines, that they are not required to work with others to meet those deadlines, and that under-performers do not stick out like sore thumbs? I know from direct experience that teenage minimum wage retail employees will be strongly pressured to work extra hours in certain circumstances (there was a labour shortage during my high school years). Can people working on assembly lines fuck around all day and accomplish nothing?

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

1) it’s seroquel
2) it’s my sleeping pill
3) unless taking it before bed and being out cold in an hour is a problem, wtf is he avoiding?

——

Breakfast consumed. Fertilizer washed. Seroquel “hangover” mostly shaken off. Fish all curious already. Today’s gonna be fun!

Pear_tree
Pear_tree
8 years ago

Ugh, wanting to have sex with a porn star in front of your class is not a problem. Claiming that you having sex with a porn star in front of your class is necessary for their education is. Putting any form of pressure on your class to watch you have sex is wrong. I’d say that even suggesting it to the class is wrong. However the fantasy is not wrong. He is supposed to be an expert on these issues. He must understand the difference between wanting to do something and inflicting something on someone else. He is a dangerous and scary person. I hope I never meet him. Assuming he is bipolar and not just appropriating mental illness as an excuse, I hope for his sake he gets better. However even if he does I don’t think he will be a safe person.

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

Thank you for that. I’ve been trying to word that thought and just coming up with “I don’t care if he’s bipolar, he’s still an asshole”, but, well, I care to the degree that he’s human, and thus don’t really want him suffering. But if he pulls “but that was pre-medicated Hugo” *I’m* going to need an extra dose of ativan to deal with it.

sarahlizhousespouse
8 years ago

Seroquel is a hell of a med. Some of the patients at our care center would be out for sixteen hours or more after taking it.

Bad_dog
Bad_dog
8 years ago

Ok, I work in a stem field. A bit of background: I’m a geologist, I explore for minerals in northern Canada, which to these guys should be the manliest of manly job. Our shifts range from 2-5 weeks in the field and 1-2 weeks off or in the office. 12 hour works days but as the manager I am 24 on call. The drill calls at 3 am I have to answer and sometimes drive out to the drill to take a look at things. I have a few things to say about the hoops and hurdles I have to jump just to be a manager here. First off until like 10 years ago geology was probably more male-dominated than any other stem field. I have zero, none, nada bosses who are women. I am one of the highest “ranked” women in my office. I am under 30 years old. I have only once had a boss who was a woman and she had my position when I was a student. I have zero women I can use as a model for management styles. And let me tell you that if you think women are “allowed” to manage like men do, then let me fucking enlighten you. First off, male managers can delegate and tell people what to do if the situation requires. Female managers, not so much. If I tell anyone what to do there is whining and crying like little babies, from both the men and women I work with, or questioning every-fucking-thing. “Are you suuurrreee? Why can we do it like this?” Every goddamn time. I’ve learned to phrase everything by asking, to basically “trick” them all into thinking they made the decision to do what I wanted them to do in the first place. it’s tiring. I cross shift with a male manager. He never has to put up with this shit. They go and do their work, and maybe grumble to themselves but never is it daily outright confrontation. Also, apparently I have a “male” working style. I just put my nose to the grindstone and work when I need to. During those times I don’t care about your cat, your boyfriend or girlfriend, your car or whatever I’m trying to fucking work. Guys can do this and they are seen as diligent. When I do it? I’m a bitch or a crab. I allocate work and social time because typically there’s a lot to do. So these are just a few of the barriers to women getting ahead in a stem field. It a goddamn fight for anything above entry level. It’s like you’re allowed in the door but don’t try to climb the stairs. And I work for a pretty damn good company and I am not balancing a family either.

Monster
8 years ago

Another STEM lady here…biology & geography/environmental sciences, roughly. Whenever these rants pop up and the MRA types start complaining about tests and saying women arent’ really smart, it suggests a few of things…

1. Complaining that boys aren’t as good at tests (despite tests & memorising being used in education since forever, even in the absence of girls) because they don’t memorise as well and aren’t as detail oriented seems like an arguement against *boys* being suited for STEM fields, which require you to be detail oriented and able to remember things. The areas I am most interested in are, and have traditionally been, male dominated and require a whole crapload of memorisation and attention to detail. Maddening, tiny, mind numbing detail. Also, you do need to apply your knowledge to problems – you can’t just know stuff, but then not do work and say “Well i understand the concepts but I just have trouble working out problems”!

2. As well as the ‘tests are for girls’ crowd I have encountered the ‘coursework is for girls’ crowd (mostly offline, and before I ever heard the boys aren’t good at tests thing). The arguement here is that boys are disadvantaged by doing projects and coursework because they aren’t as good at planning and working on things over a period of time, and group projects advantage girls because girls are better at social stuff. This also sounds like an arguement against boys being suited to STEM because STEM jobs will most likely involve working on a project over a period of time and having to plan things out…and working with people

3. Finally, the way they talk about STEM does imply they don’t know what STEM fields and jobs are and think they all involve some brilliant loner, working alone on his briliiant ideas in some lab or dimly lit hacker den…oh, and all women work in HR, and HR doesn’t actually do anything because wages, sick pay, hiring etc just do themselves.

anyway, I think the boys vs girls in education is mostly an artifact of socialisiation. Different PEOPLE are suited to different working and learning styles. The way these guys talk about boys in education makes it sound like all boys are lazy, unfocused, and unemployable. What a great bunch to have on your side 😛

sarahlizhousespouse
8 years ago

““Are you suuurrreee? Why can we do it like this?” Every goddamn time.”

I suppose telling them to STHU and get to work isn’t an option. :

M Dubz
M Dubz
8 years ago

I am always amazed by people who insist that the education system is stacked against boys and that if boys no longer have expectations of behavior or focus placed on them, they will magically do brilliantly. No. Focus, behaving according to rules, successful group work, respect for the space, etc. are all necessary social skills for the real world. They also help remove distractions so that you can, yano, LEARN THINGS. By removing those expectations from boys, we are setting them up to fail.

bekabot
8 years ago

As a word nerd and as somebody who couldn’t have spent her life farther from the STEM realm (though my father was an engineer) I gotta say — this dude writes better than most of his peers. Though that’s not saying much.

My feeling is that even if this guy is right what he’s right about isn’t so terrible. It’s a handy thing to have a good memory and even the smartest men, I’ve noticed, often display a notable lack of understanding about the things they “know”. And if the guy’s mistaken, time will prove him wrong. This is something about which I feel optimistic because I’ve met so many intelligent women that the “women are dumb” claim doesn’t impress me.

But the “women can’t handle technology” claim bothers me for other reasons. It casts such a wide net. Humans are creatures who create “technology” almost without thinking about it and are so intensely bonded to the technology they create that, not only can they not survive without it, but without it, the idea of “humanity” itself isn’t conceivable. What isn’t “technology”? Speech is technology, words are technology, writing is certainly technology. Alphabets are technology and numbers are too. Weaving is technology, looms are technology, knitting needles are obviously technology, as are sewing needles, thread, clothes, and fires for cooking. Nothing could be more disastrous for a human creature than to be barred from the use or creation of technology, even if the human creature in question thinks math class is hard. Technology is something which predates math class by tens of thousands of years at least. Women inherit “technology” along with men and women, like men, can’t live without it. Telling a woman that she’s got no business messing around with technology is tantamount to kicking her out of the human race.

Monster
8 years ago

@ M Dubz

well, see, I just remembered that when Men get together, they Do Things. When females get together, they just talk about shoes and nail polish or something. Not like those Manly Men. Who get things done. Maybe the MRA education plan is to leave all the boys in a room together so they can come together and just Do Things, as is the natural way of the Man.
(I think this came from Reddit…I can’t remember which post though. I wish they would come together and actually make Reddit Island happen…)

We can leave all the structured learning environments for the females to ruin with their talking about fashion and TV and whatnot.

Dragon Lady
Dragon Lady
8 years ago

This is a late thank you to cloudiah, but thank you for the welcome package. The hard chair is quite nice. :3

Alice
Alice
8 years ago

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Women everywhere are expected to be PRETTY and NICE. It doesn’t matter how awesome you are at your job, how brilliant you are, how well you lead, or how much you inspire others, if you can’t do it all while being PRETTY and NICE, it is all for naught.

Dragon Lady
Dragon Lady
8 years ago

But if your too PRETTY and NICE, than your playing hard to get. Or at least that’s what I’ve been told by the gentlesirs of the manosphere.

rabbitwink
rabbitwink
8 years ago

Hey- Pharyngula just cross posted this Manboobz thread!

Barbara
Barbara
8 years ago

@Dragon Lady

But if your too PRETTY and NICE, than your playing hard to get. Or at least that’s what I’ve been told by the gentlesirs of the manosphere.

Ugly or pretty, mean or nice, the only thing these guys really want is for women to simply disappear.

And why do they sound so much like the jealous younger brothers of older sisters that can’t stop whining about how she’s liked more, gets to do more, is free to stay out, etc..

I wonder how many of them have older sisters who were favored by their parents.

LBT
LBT
8 years ago

Thanks for all the congrats and well-wishes, everyone. I’m putting them all on my USB key so when I’m having one of those, “you’re a burden on humanity; please GDIAF” feelings, I can have proof otherwise.

RE: Argenti

And if it helps, officially batshit means it isn’t all in your head.

This is true, though it’s still weird accepting that. Funny how that works!

I’ll still do your keyboard, even if you don’t have to worry about carting it cross country.

Oh, I’m still doing that fucking trip. I’ve been wanting to do it for AGES. SSI coming in is a surprise, but it shouldn’t muck up the trip. If anything, it makes it easier to plan, because I have less fear of, “Oop, crash space flaked. Looks like bridge night for us!”

RE: Cloudiah

Okay! Once I have all the writing done, I’ll start working on the sketches. And the writeathon has been FRANTIC. Way bigger than the previous ones. All the excitement and work finally got to me, so my body called an emergency forced shabbat for me today, but I’m really pleased with how it’s going. A lot fewer people are waiting for the last minute too, which I appreciate. (My eventual goal is to do a writeathon every month, cleared in two weeks.)

Dragon Lady
Dragon Lady
8 years ago

They probably sound like jealous younger brothers because they are manbabies. If all the women disappeared off the face of the earth they would probably still complain about the ebil feeeemales.

cloudiah
8 years ago

I came here because I saw Pharyngula linked to this too, but I see rabbitwink is already on it.

@LBT, Glad it’s going well; take your time!

Oh and … I have a couple of newish posts up, featuring recent funny stuff from Dvärghundspossen and Cthulhu’s Intern that I thought needed to be highlighted. The Ctulhu’s Intern one is even about SCIENCE. XD

LBT
LBT
8 years ago

RE: cloudiah

take your time!

Alas, today, I don’t get much of a choice in the matter. : Stupid brain, giving me warnings…

Shaenon
8 years ago

The Five Stages of Girls Getting All Up in Your Boy Stuff

Denial
“Girls can’t be scientists! Their brains are too small and pink! Plus they’d always be shorting out the equipment by getting tears and menstruations on it!”

“Comics are made for men. Females have differently-structured brains that make it too hard for them to process words and images at the same time. Yes, there are countries where lots of girls read comics, but they probably receive special training to catch up with the boys.” (Actual online argument I had with an actual prominent comic-book artist.)

“Girls playing video games? Impossible! They’d get scared and run away as soon as the ghosts started chasing Pac-Man.”

Anger
“What is this female doing in my IT department? I always imagined that when one of these creatures finally showed some appreciation for my field, she’d do it by begging me to set up her Facebook page in exchange for sex. Instead, this female is just sitting there waiting for her code to compile! She didn’t even ask me for help! And it’s just plain insulting that she chose not to be hot.”

“Comic-book conventions used to be safe havens where you could stop bathing for a weekend and swap hilarious Wonder Woman rape jokes. Now there are girls there ruining the whole vibe. I bet that girl doesn’t even know anything about Emma Frost, which is why she’s wearing an obsessively accurate handmade Emma Frost costume and carrying a stack of X-Men comics. Also, she’s hot, which makes me uncomfortable.”

“ARRRRRGH ANITA SARKEESIAN GRARRRGH ARRRR *hack* *koff* *choke*”

Bargaining
“Fine, we’ll just agree that any scientific field with a sizeable number of females isn’t real science. Psychology, obviously. And sociology, except for evo-psych essays about female inferiority, which are totes scientific. And anthropology. And biology. And chemistry. And oh my god they’re coming for the applied sciences! This was not part of the deal! We had an agreement! WE HAD AN AGREEMENT!”

“Any time I see a girl in a comic shop, I’ll assume she’s there for the manga. I will also complain loudly to everyone in the store about how dumb manga is, even though I’ve never read any. As long as everyone agrees that girls’ comics are different from men’s comics, and that difference is that they suck, I think I can maintain.”

“What do you mean, almost half of gamers are female? Then whatever games they play don’t count as games. Okay?”

Depression

“If we don’t stop females from doing science, they’ll destroy it. All human progress will cease, society will collapse, and we’ll go back to living in caves. What do you mean, humans never lived in caves? What did I say about anthropology not being real science?”

“Fake geek girls are ruining comics for real geeks, i.e. men. If our efforts to yell at them until they leave fail, our conventions will be overrun with sexy women dressed as our favorite characters. This will be terrible for some reason.”

“Every time a girl plays a video game, the Earth gets one degree hotter. This is one hundred percent true.”

Acceptance

…?

LBT
LBT
8 years ago

RE: Shaenon

(Actual online argument I had with an actual prominent comic-book artist.)

You gotta be shitting me. That’s the biggest horseload I’ve ever heard in my life. Christ.

scarlettpipstrelle
8 years ago

I distinctly remember from back in the early 70s, in the IT field (my mother was a programmer), that there were men arguing that women shouldn’t be let into the same room as the big mainframes because their nylon undies would make static electricity that would cause damage.

cloudiah
8 years ago

because their nylon undies would make static electricity that would cause damage

If this was the 70s, those dudes were wearing plenty of synthetic fibers too, amirite?

scarlettpipstrelle
8 years ago

You’re right, it was Polyester City!

Barbara
Barbara
8 years ago

My mother was also a programmer in the 70’s, and had a male boss for awhile that tried very hard to drive her out of her job with mental and emotional abuse.

It didn’t work.

Dragon Lady
Dragon Lady
8 years ago

Boo on him! And good for your Mom!

Marie
Marie
8 years ago

@Gendernuetrellanguage

There are greater differences between males and females than the genital being an iny or outy.

You’re right! There is a difference besides being “iny or outy”. In fact, iny or outy isn’t terribly accuracte.

I will now tell you this huge difference I found.

wait for it.

….

The difference between men and women is men identify as men and women identify as women! (and non-gender binary persons don’t identify as either [or identfy as both? I don’t really know, sorry 🙁 ])

@LBT

Glad to hear you won’t be having to sleep under bridges anymore 🙂

@Shaenon

“Comics are made for men. Females have differently-structured brains that make it too hard for them to process words and images at the same time. Yes, there are countries where lots of girls read comics, but they probably receive special training to catch up with the boys.” (Actual online argument I had with an actual prominent comic-book artist.)

Um…that’s….baffling.

@Scarlettpipstrelle

I distinctly remember from back in the early 70s, in the IT field (my mother was a programmer), that there were men arguing that women shouldn’t be let into the same room as the big mainframes because their nylon undies would make static electricity that would cause damage.

um…Okay so far today I’ve learned that sexist people can also be really, really weird. And wtf? Does he think all women wear nylon undies? (ignoring whether nylon would actually be bad for it because I know nothing about this…)

@barbara

My mother was also a programmer in the 70′s, and had a male boss for awhile that tried very hard to drive her out of her job with mental and emotional abuse.

It didn’t work.

That sucks 🙁 Yay for your mom though.

dustydeste
dustydeste
8 years ago

What Shaenon said about sciences that have a large number of women working in them being dismissed really hit home for me. I’ve got my Bachelor of Science… in Psychology. And every time I bring that up, someone inevitably asks “Don’t you mean you got a B.A.? Because psychology isn’t real science, don’tcha know!”

It’s like, I’m sorry, asshole, but why don’t you consider the requirements I met for my degree, which included studying chemistry and biology (though I opted out of physics, since only two of the three were required, and it didn’t seem as relevant to me), and the fact that my labwork was in fucking neurology? As in, we got to fire up the equipment that measures electrical charges running through brains? Take my courseload, fucker, and tell me it’s not science when you fail the second semester of neuropsych… if you even pass the first.

But nooooo, of course it’s not a real science. Because Freud and stuff! He was on cocaine! And also committed a lot of fraud! It’s not like we haven’t been moving on past that for well more than a century at this point…

Argenti Aertheri
8 years ago

“and non-gender binary persons don’t identify as either [or identfy as both? I don’t really know, sorry]”

Either, both, neither, and a whole host of other things, depends on the person (my brain manages to make neither and both make sense, idfk)